Laura Jensen of Jerome, Idaho, is proving to be one of the girls to watch at the Idaho A2 State Track championships. As a sophomore, Laura took first place in the South-Central Idaho Cross-Country Conference, in the Cross-State championship, and in the district cross-country championship.
Laura reached one of the goals she set for herself when she won the 3.1 mile state championship race. She crossed the finish line 55 seconds ahead of her nearest competitor.
Laura is an honor student. She attends early-morning seminary and is first counselor in her Laurel class in the Jerome Idaho Third Ward.
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Summary: Laura Jensen won multiple cross-country competitions as a sophomore and set a goal to win the state championship. She achieved it, winning the 3.1-mile race by 55 seconds. She also excels academically and serves in her ward.
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๐ค Youth
Education
Faith
Service
Young Women
Good Neighbor
Summary: The narrator was invited by 10-year-old neighbor Diane Novak to attend Primary at the Caribou Branch. After meeting with the missionaries, the narrator was baptized by Dianeโs father in the swimming pool at Loring Air Force Base. Now the narrator attends Mutual and brings a nonmember brother and a friend.
Soon Iโll be celebrating the first anniversary of my baptism, thanks to the efforts of my neighbor Diane Novak who is ten.
Diane invited me to Primary at the Caribou Branch of the Church in the Houlton-Maine District of the Canada-Halifax Mission. Later I met with the missionaries and was baptized by Dianeโs father in the swimming pool at Loring Air Force Base. Now I go to Mutual and take my nonmember brother and one of his friends with me.
Diane invited me to Primary at the Caribou Branch of the Church in the Houlton-Maine District of the Canada-Halifax Mission. Later I met with the missionaries and was baptized by Dianeโs father in the swimming pool at Loring Air Force Base. Now I go to Mutual and take my nonmember brother and one of his friends with me.
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๐ค Children
๐ค Missionaries
๐ค Parents
๐ค Church Members (General)
๐ค Other
Baptism
Children
Conversion
Family
Missionary Work
Gifts for the Savior
Summary: A family holds a December meeting and asks their 11-year-old son how he would feel if everyone received birthday gifts except him, leading the children to recognize a similar pattern at Christmas. They decide to give gifts to Jesus by offering obedience, repentance, service, and talents, writing these commitments on slips of paper placed in a box. On Christmas morning they share these gifts before opening presents. Over the years, this tradition helps them focus on the true meaning of Christmas and their gratitude for the Savior.
One December we gathered together for a family meeting. We began by asking our 11-year-old son how he would feel if on his birthday we gave presents to everyone but him. He didnโt like that idea at all. We went on to ask if there is a holiday when we give gifts to others but not to the person whose birthday we are celebrating. It didnโt take the children long to realize we were talking about Christmas. We decided to start making Christmas more meaningful by giving gifts to Jesus Christ, whose birthday we are celebrating.
Our children wondered what they could give the Savior. We talked about what He desires of us. We discussed His Atonement and His desire for us to give up our sins and be obedient. We talked about how He wants us to give of ourselves by serving and sharing our talents.
That year, we had each family member write on slips of paper the gifts they planned to give the Savior and place the slips in a box. On Christmas morning, before we opened the other gifts, we had family prayer and shared with each other the gifts we were giving the Savior for the coming year.
As the years have come and gone, the tradition of giving gifts to Jesus Christ has helped our family focus on the real meaning of Christmas and on our love and gratitude for Him.
Scott and Angelle Anderson,Bluffdale Second Ward, Bluffdale Utah Stake
Our children wondered what they could give the Savior. We talked about what He desires of us. We discussed His Atonement and His desire for us to give up our sins and be obedient. We talked about how He wants us to give of ourselves by serving and sharing our talents.
That year, we had each family member write on slips of paper the gifts they planned to give the Savior and place the slips in a box. On Christmas morning, before we opened the other gifts, we had family prayer and shared with each other the gifts we were giving the Savior for the coming year.
As the years have come and gone, the tradition of giving gifts to Jesus Christ has helped our family focus on the real meaning of Christmas and on our love and gratitude for Him.
Scott and Angelle Anderson,Bluffdale Second Ward, Bluffdale Utah Stake
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๐ค Parents
๐ค Children
๐ค Jesus Christ
Atonement of Jesus Christ
Children
Christmas
Family
Family Home Evening
Gratitude
Jesus Christ
Love
Obedience
Prayer
Repentance
Service
Teaching the Gospel
โJudge Not According to the Appearanceโ
Summary: The speaker, a Brigham City councilman and high councilor, received a speeding ticket and paid the fine. Two days later, a policeman was fired for not patrolling properly, but the timing made it appear the speaker had influenced the dismissal. He reflects that appearances wrongly implicated him, illustrating the danger of judging by appearances.
Years ago I learned a lesson about judging.
I was a city councilman in Brigham City and was also on the stake high council. Late one night I was returning home from a high council meeting, pondering on what had happened there.
There was a red light and a siren. I was given a ticket for going forty-five miles an hour in a thirty-mile-an-hour zone. I accepted the ticket without protest, for I had not been paying attention.
The city judge was always in his office very early, and I went to get the matter settled before going to teach seminary the next day.
The judge had recently made a request for some new furniture. It rested with me, as a councilman, to approve it and sign the voucher.
He looked at my ticket and smiled, saying, โThere have, on occasions, been exceptions made.โ
I told him that in view of my position he was obliged to treat me like any other citizen. Reluctantly he consented.
โThe going rate is a dollar a mile. That will be fifteen dollars.โ
I paid the fine.
Two nights later Councilman Bundy reported, in a meeting of the city council, that he had fired a policeman. When the mayor asked the cause, he was told, and I quote: โWell, he was always arresting the wrong people.โ
Later Councilman Bundy explained that there had been vandalism in the city. Late at night someone had gone down Forest Street in a recreation vehicle and snapped off all the young trees. There had been damage in the cemetery also.
Where were the police? He found they were hiding behind signboards waiting for some unwary motorist.
Councilman Bundy had tried over a period of weeks to get them to patrol the city at night. One young officer just did not seem to learn, and so he had been dismissed.
Here then, was a man who gave a traffic ticket to a city councilman. Two days later he was dismissed. And the cause, stated in a city council meeting, with several delegations as witness: โHe was always arresting the wrong people.โ
Do you think he could be convinced that I did not cause him to be fired?
Had I known of it, I may have delayed or prevented his dismissal, just for appearances.
Appearances, however, convicted me of unworthy use of influence.
I was a city councilman in Brigham City and was also on the stake high council. Late one night I was returning home from a high council meeting, pondering on what had happened there.
There was a red light and a siren. I was given a ticket for going forty-five miles an hour in a thirty-mile-an-hour zone. I accepted the ticket without protest, for I had not been paying attention.
The city judge was always in his office very early, and I went to get the matter settled before going to teach seminary the next day.
The judge had recently made a request for some new furniture. It rested with me, as a councilman, to approve it and sign the voucher.
He looked at my ticket and smiled, saying, โThere have, on occasions, been exceptions made.โ
I told him that in view of my position he was obliged to treat me like any other citizen. Reluctantly he consented.
โThe going rate is a dollar a mile. That will be fifteen dollars.โ
I paid the fine.
Two nights later Councilman Bundy reported, in a meeting of the city council, that he had fired a policeman. When the mayor asked the cause, he was told, and I quote: โWell, he was always arresting the wrong people.โ
Later Councilman Bundy explained that there had been vandalism in the city. Late at night someone had gone down Forest Street in a recreation vehicle and snapped off all the young trees. There had been damage in the cemetery also.
Where were the police? He found they were hiding behind signboards waiting for some unwary motorist.
Councilman Bundy had tried over a period of weeks to get them to patrol the city at night. One young officer just did not seem to learn, and so he had been dismissed.
Here then, was a man who gave a traffic ticket to a city councilman. Two days later he was dismissed. And the cause, stated in a city council meeting, with several delegations as witness: โHe was always arresting the wrong people.โ
Do you think he could be convinced that I did not cause him to be fired?
Had I known of it, I may have delayed or prevented his dismissal, just for appearances.
Appearances, however, convicted me of unworthy use of influence.
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๐ค Church Leaders (Local)
๐ค Other
Agency and Accountability
Honesty
Humility
Judging Others
Stewardship
The Black Eye
Summary: A missionary in France gets a black eye when a branch presidentโs child accidentally bumps his face during a Christmas dinner. While tracting later with a zone leader, they knock on the door of a woman who had previously yelled at the missionaries. Curious about the black eye, she invites them in, and a friendly conversation leads to a brief testimony about Christ visiting the Americas. She doesnโt accept a lesson but softens toward them and parts amicably.
There is no dinner like a Christmas dinner in France. The food comes in courses, at least seven of them. And we had feasted on each course, from hors dโoeuvres to entrรฉes to piรจces de rรฉsistance. And to top it all off, dessert. Not some ordinary cake, pie, or pudding. Not even flaky pastry from the local patisserie. Sister Gournillon had made a bรปche de Nรถel.
To say a bรปche de Nรถel is a Christmas cake is to say the Eiffel Tower is some building in Paris. A bรปche is the culinary crown of a French Christmas. It is composed of layers of butter frosting, cream custard, and light, white cake swirled together in the shape of a Yule log, from which it gets its name. Sister Gournillon had made hers herself and had even pushed a tiny plastic hatchet into the chocolate frosting.
โNobody is going to say the branch presidentโs wife didnโt feed the missionaries well on Christmas,โ she said. Nobody would.
It was thanks to the bรปche, I guess, that I fell asleep on the couch. We had told President Gournillon that we could only stay a short time for Christmas dinner, and he understood. But when I sat down after such a huge meal, I must have dozed for a minute.
It didnโt take me long to wake up. The kids, all seven of them, were playing soldiers. Stephan, age 6, was the commandant. He was chasing Natalie, age 5, around the couch when she tripped and fell. Her forehead popped against my cheekbone just below my eye, hard. She was so startled she didnโt even cry. I was amazed at how fast my ruptured blood vessel produced swelling.
We left for home a few minutes later. By then, my eye was swollen so much I felt like a prize fighter.
โOooh, Frรจre Romney, cette beurre noir va vous fair du mal,โ Sister Gournillon said. (โThis black eyeโs going to hurt.โ)
โIโll live,โ I said.
President Gournillon held Natalie up next to me so she could kiss it better. โJe suis triste (Iโm sorry),โ she said.
โCa va, รงa va (thatโs okay),โ I smiled. โNext time pick on someone your own size.โ
When we got out to our bikes, I gathered up some snow and held it to my cheek. It felt better.
How does a missionary with a black eye go tracting? I wondered. The same as any other missionary: one door at a time. Some people gave me funny looks, as if they wondered who would punch a foreigner and why. One man even asked me if I had hit the other guy first. But the embarrassment really deepened when the zone leaders arrived for their visit.
โYou know, Elder Romney, for a brand-new missionary youโve really come out swinging,โ Elder Zoelfelt said, grinning. โJust donโt think youโve got to fight your way to the top.โ
โIโd rather fight than switch,โ I joked back. By now my black eye was purple and yellowโand all over the side of my face.
Elder Zoelfelt and I were assigned to go tracting together that day. I was a little intimidated to be out alone with a zone leader, but I wanted to do my best.
โYou decide where weโll go,โ he told me following a word of prayer.
โLetโs head for the Z. U. P. de la Citรฉ (government housing area),โ I said. โItโs not far and we only did about half of it the last time we were there.โ
We pedaled the half mile, climbed off our bikes, locked them to a tree, and took out the flip-charts. As we approached the nearest building, I suddenly realized that I had no idea where Elder Norton (my regular companion) and I had left off. It had been about two weeks. There hadnโt been many people home, and we hadnโt made any teaching appointments. The only thing I remembered about the cold, gray complex was that in one building one lady hadnโt liked us at all. When we had told her we were Mormon missionaries, she hadnโt just said, โNon, merci.โ She had said, โNon! Non! Non!โ at the top of her voice and chased us down the stairs. Everyone in the building must have heard her yell at us.
I picked out an entrance to one of the nearest stairwells (they all looked alike).
โI feel good about starting here,โ I said.
โAlways follow your feelings,โ Elder Zoelfelt said.
We walked up the five flights to the top floor and started our way down. Nobody home. Nobody home. Come back later. Nobody home.
โItโs your turn, elder,โ the zone leader reminded me.
I rang the bell. We could hear someone inside.
โUn instant! (just a minute),โ a voice said.
That voice!
I looked around me. The potted plant. The light switch. The color of the door. How had I picked that door? It was the door of the lady who had chased us down the stairs! Maybe if I ran for it I could get out before she charged us. What would a zone leader think of a missionary who flees from battle?
She opened the door.
โBonjour,โ I said. โI think weโve met before.โ
โYes, we have,โ she said. โBut last time you were with someone else. And โฆ you didnโt have that black eye.โ
โWell โฆ ,โ I stammered, โWould you like to know how I got it?โ
โSure,โ she laughed. โCome on in.โ
Her name was Madame Barnet.
โI was quite rude to you the other day,โ she apologized. โBut you see, Iโm the local catechism teacher. The priest told us the Mormons were in the area and that we should not make it pleasant for you.โ
โAll we want is to tell people about Christ,โ Elder Zoelfelt said.
โBut we already know about him.โ
The silence was deadening, the kind of silence that happens when everyone knows the next word could set off sparks.
โWell โฆ ,โ I said. โLet me tell you about my black eye.โ I started with the bรปche de Nรถel. Then we talked about the branch presidentโs family. Then I told her how Natalie had tripped and bumped me on the cheekbone.
โI thought someone must have hit you,โ Madame Barnet said. โBut I didnโt dream it would have been a little girl.โ
We talked about Christmas in France and Christmas in Ohio. We talked about turkeys and roast chestnuts and caroling and sleigh rides. We talked about families and Christmas cards and being away from home. She told us about the children in the neighborhood and how she loved them. Since her divorce, teaching them about Jesus had been a great comfort to her.
โWould you like to tell them how Jesus came to America?โ Elder Zoelfelt asked.
โCome on,โ she said. โNo fairy tales here.โ
โSeriously,โ he said. โThatโs something we know about Christ that you may not know. Look at this picture.โ
He showed her the picture of Christ appearing to the Nephites and bore his testimony that it had actually happened. I could feel the Spirit.
โThat is something that I never heard before,โ she admitted. โEt vous en รชtes si convaincus (and you are so sure itโs true).โ
We talked a few minutes more, and then she sent us on our way. She wouldnโt let us make an appointment to teach her, but she at least smiled and shook our hands.
When we got outside, Elder Zoelfelt looked at me and smiled.
โElder Romney,โ he said, โthat was one of the most original door approaches Iโve ever seen. I wonder what youโd do with a broken leg.โ
I couldnโt help laughing.
โI wish she would have invited us back to teach her more,โ I said. โI bet sheโd really like to see โChrist in America.โโ
โMaybe someday she will,โ Elder Zoelfelt said. โMaybe she will. For right now, youโve helped her understand us a little better. She might even consider us friends. At least you didnโt give the Church a black eye.โ
I groaned. I had to. But at least I felt like Iโd helped someone know a little bit more about the Church. Maybe that bump on the cheek had been worth it after all.
To say a bรปche de Nรถel is a Christmas cake is to say the Eiffel Tower is some building in Paris. A bรปche is the culinary crown of a French Christmas. It is composed of layers of butter frosting, cream custard, and light, white cake swirled together in the shape of a Yule log, from which it gets its name. Sister Gournillon had made hers herself and had even pushed a tiny plastic hatchet into the chocolate frosting.
โNobody is going to say the branch presidentโs wife didnโt feed the missionaries well on Christmas,โ she said. Nobody would.
It was thanks to the bรปche, I guess, that I fell asleep on the couch. We had told President Gournillon that we could only stay a short time for Christmas dinner, and he understood. But when I sat down after such a huge meal, I must have dozed for a minute.
It didnโt take me long to wake up. The kids, all seven of them, were playing soldiers. Stephan, age 6, was the commandant. He was chasing Natalie, age 5, around the couch when she tripped and fell. Her forehead popped against my cheekbone just below my eye, hard. She was so startled she didnโt even cry. I was amazed at how fast my ruptured blood vessel produced swelling.
We left for home a few minutes later. By then, my eye was swollen so much I felt like a prize fighter.
โOooh, Frรจre Romney, cette beurre noir va vous fair du mal,โ Sister Gournillon said. (โThis black eyeโs going to hurt.โ)
โIโll live,โ I said.
President Gournillon held Natalie up next to me so she could kiss it better. โJe suis triste (Iโm sorry),โ she said.
โCa va, รงa va (thatโs okay),โ I smiled. โNext time pick on someone your own size.โ
When we got out to our bikes, I gathered up some snow and held it to my cheek. It felt better.
How does a missionary with a black eye go tracting? I wondered. The same as any other missionary: one door at a time. Some people gave me funny looks, as if they wondered who would punch a foreigner and why. One man even asked me if I had hit the other guy first. But the embarrassment really deepened when the zone leaders arrived for their visit.
โYou know, Elder Romney, for a brand-new missionary youโve really come out swinging,โ Elder Zoelfelt said, grinning. โJust donโt think youโve got to fight your way to the top.โ
โIโd rather fight than switch,โ I joked back. By now my black eye was purple and yellowโand all over the side of my face.
Elder Zoelfelt and I were assigned to go tracting together that day. I was a little intimidated to be out alone with a zone leader, but I wanted to do my best.
โYou decide where weโll go,โ he told me following a word of prayer.
โLetโs head for the Z. U. P. de la Citรฉ (government housing area),โ I said. โItโs not far and we only did about half of it the last time we were there.โ
We pedaled the half mile, climbed off our bikes, locked them to a tree, and took out the flip-charts. As we approached the nearest building, I suddenly realized that I had no idea where Elder Norton (my regular companion) and I had left off. It had been about two weeks. There hadnโt been many people home, and we hadnโt made any teaching appointments. The only thing I remembered about the cold, gray complex was that in one building one lady hadnโt liked us at all. When we had told her we were Mormon missionaries, she hadnโt just said, โNon, merci.โ She had said, โNon! Non! Non!โ at the top of her voice and chased us down the stairs. Everyone in the building must have heard her yell at us.
I picked out an entrance to one of the nearest stairwells (they all looked alike).
โI feel good about starting here,โ I said.
โAlways follow your feelings,โ Elder Zoelfelt said.
We walked up the five flights to the top floor and started our way down. Nobody home. Nobody home. Come back later. Nobody home.
โItโs your turn, elder,โ the zone leader reminded me.
I rang the bell. We could hear someone inside.
โUn instant! (just a minute),โ a voice said.
That voice!
I looked around me. The potted plant. The light switch. The color of the door. How had I picked that door? It was the door of the lady who had chased us down the stairs! Maybe if I ran for it I could get out before she charged us. What would a zone leader think of a missionary who flees from battle?
She opened the door.
โBonjour,โ I said. โI think weโve met before.โ
โYes, we have,โ she said. โBut last time you were with someone else. And โฆ you didnโt have that black eye.โ
โWell โฆ ,โ I stammered, โWould you like to know how I got it?โ
โSure,โ she laughed. โCome on in.โ
Her name was Madame Barnet.
โI was quite rude to you the other day,โ she apologized. โBut you see, Iโm the local catechism teacher. The priest told us the Mormons were in the area and that we should not make it pleasant for you.โ
โAll we want is to tell people about Christ,โ Elder Zoelfelt said.
โBut we already know about him.โ
The silence was deadening, the kind of silence that happens when everyone knows the next word could set off sparks.
โWell โฆ ,โ I said. โLet me tell you about my black eye.โ I started with the bรปche de Nรถel. Then we talked about the branch presidentโs family. Then I told her how Natalie had tripped and bumped me on the cheekbone.
โI thought someone must have hit you,โ Madame Barnet said. โBut I didnโt dream it would have been a little girl.โ
We talked about Christmas in France and Christmas in Ohio. We talked about turkeys and roast chestnuts and caroling and sleigh rides. We talked about families and Christmas cards and being away from home. She told us about the children in the neighborhood and how she loved them. Since her divorce, teaching them about Jesus had been a great comfort to her.
โWould you like to tell them how Jesus came to America?โ Elder Zoelfelt asked.
โCome on,โ she said. โNo fairy tales here.โ
โSeriously,โ he said. โThatโs something we know about Christ that you may not know. Look at this picture.โ
He showed her the picture of Christ appearing to the Nephites and bore his testimony that it had actually happened. I could feel the Spirit.
โThat is something that I never heard before,โ she admitted. โEt vous en รชtes si convaincus (and you are so sure itโs true).โ
We talked a few minutes more, and then she sent us on our way. She wouldnโt let us make an appointment to teach her, but she at least smiled and shook our hands.
When we got outside, Elder Zoelfelt looked at me and smiled.
โElder Romney,โ he said, โthat was one of the most original door approaches Iโve ever seen. I wonder what youโd do with a broken leg.โ
I couldnโt help laughing.
โI wish she would have invited us back to teach her more,โ I said. โI bet sheโd really like to see โChrist in America.โโ
โMaybe someday she will,โ Elder Zoelfelt said. โMaybe she will. For right now, youโve helped her understand us a little better. She might even consider us friends. At least you didnโt give the Church a black eye.โ
I groaned. I had to. But at least I felt like Iโd helped someone know a little bit more about the Church. Maybe that bump on the cheek had been worth it after all.
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๐ค Missionaries
๐ค Church Leaders (Local)
๐ค Children
๐ค Church Members (General)
๐ค Other
Book of Mormon
Children
Christmas
Judging Others
Kindness
Missionary Work
Racial and Cultural Prejudice
Teaching the Gospel
Testimony
The Ahuna Adventure
Summary: Leonard Peters balances high school football with years of dancing at the Polynesian Cultural Center. By greeting visitors and answering their questions about the PCC and the Church, he feels he is learning about his heritage and gaining a sense of what a mission will be like. He enjoys sharing his talents with others.
Then thereโs Leonard Peters. One day heโs doing the Sasa, a Samoan slap dance about killing mosquitoes and flies, and on another heโs coming over from his safety position and picking off a quarterbackโs pass.
Leonard is beginning his senior year at Kahuku High School in Hawaii. His team won the state championship last year and was rated by USA Today as one of the countryโs best teams. He is also in his eighth year dancing at the cultural center.
"Iโve learned a lot about my heritage by working here," says Leonard, who came to Hawaii from Western Samoa when he was seven. "This job has given me a feel for what a mission will be like. Iโve been able to greet people, and visitors come and talk to me, wanting to learn more about the PCC and the Church. Iโm glad I can share my talents."
Leonard is beginning his senior year at Kahuku High School in Hawaii. His team won the state championship last year and was rated by USA Today as one of the countryโs best teams. He is also in his eighth year dancing at the cultural center.
"Iโve learned a lot about my heritage by working here," says Leonard, who came to Hawaii from Western Samoa when he was seven. "This job has given me a feel for what a mission will be like. Iโve been able to greet people, and visitors come and talk to me, wanting to learn more about the PCC and the Church. Iโm glad I can share my talents."
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๐ค Youth
๐ค Other
Diversity and Unity in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
Employment
Missionary Work
Young Men
Service in the Service
Summary: Elizabeth โBuffyโ Tateoka Fairbanks wanted a medical career but realized medical school wasnโt right for her. After finding an accelerated nursing program, she sought tuition help, prayed and fasted with her Navy husband, and received a military scholarship. She completed nursing school, was commissioned in the Navy Nurse Corps, and relies on prayer and the Spirit to face challenges, including time apart from her husband. Her choice fulfilled her desire to serve others.
Elizabeth โBuffyโ Tateoka Fairbanks of Holladay, Utah, loves serving others, and she always wanted to work in the medical field. But by the time she graduated with a degree in biology, she realized medical school wasnโt for her.
Then she discovered a 15-month accelerated nursing program that seemed a perfect fit. Still, she would need help with tuition expenses. Buffy looked into scholarships and found that the military offers tuition assistance programs for those on active duty as well as for those who finish their military service.
โI decided to join the Navy because my husband, Tom, is already in the Navy. He received a scholarship to pay for his degree in mechanical engineering,โ she says. After discussing the idea with him, and making it a matter of fasting and prayer, Buffy applied for and received a scholarship โto help me get through nursing school and become a registered nurse.โ
Buffy was accepted into the Nurse Candidate Program. โI wasnโt required to do anything but go to school and pass my state licensing exam after graduation,โ she explains. โBut once I graduated, I was commissioned in the Navy Nurse Corps.โ
Nursing school, Buffy discovered, emphasizes critical thinking skills and ways to apply those skills as a nurse. โIt was exciting to come through the program knowing how to help save peopleโs lives,โ she says. โI enjoyed learning how to care for patients and getting to know them as individuals.โ
The thought of serving in the Navy appealed to Buffyโs sense of adventure as well as her desire to serve others. โIn addition to getting help to pay for my schooling, I also knew the Navy would provide opportunities for experiences that I otherwise wouldnโt have.โ
Serving in the military means time away from home and family. Fortunately, Buffy and her husband are stationed near each other and they can be together. Even during times of separation, the Internet helps them communicate with each other frequently.
They also know how important it is to rely on their testimonies of Jesus Christ to repel Satanโs temptations. She says, โWe are all faced with adversity throughout our lives, and sincere prayer and staying in tune with the Spirit are important to keeping us on the right path, and also help us when we have difficult decisions to make.โ
Buffy knows that faith and prayer are important in choosing educational and career pathsโand in life in general. She knows that for her, choosing to join the Navy and become a nurse helps fulfill her desire to serve others.
Then she discovered a 15-month accelerated nursing program that seemed a perfect fit. Still, she would need help with tuition expenses. Buffy looked into scholarships and found that the military offers tuition assistance programs for those on active duty as well as for those who finish their military service.
โI decided to join the Navy because my husband, Tom, is already in the Navy. He received a scholarship to pay for his degree in mechanical engineering,โ she says. After discussing the idea with him, and making it a matter of fasting and prayer, Buffy applied for and received a scholarship โto help me get through nursing school and become a registered nurse.โ
Buffy was accepted into the Nurse Candidate Program. โI wasnโt required to do anything but go to school and pass my state licensing exam after graduation,โ she explains. โBut once I graduated, I was commissioned in the Navy Nurse Corps.โ
Nursing school, Buffy discovered, emphasizes critical thinking skills and ways to apply those skills as a nurse. โIt was exciting to come through the program knowing how to help save peopleโs lives,โ she says. โI enjoyed learning how to care for patients and getting to know them as individuals.โ
The thought of serving in the Navy appealed to Buffyโs sense of adventure as well as her desire to serve others. โIn addition to getting help to pay for my schooling, I also knew the Navy would provide opportunities for experiences that I otherwise wouldnโt have.โ
Serving in the military means time away from home and family. Fortunately, Buffy and her husband are stationed near each other and they can be together. Even during times of separation, the Internet helps them communicate with each other frequently.
They also know how important it is to rely on their testimonies of Jesus Christ to repel Satanโs temptations. She says, โWe are all faced with adversity throughout our lives, and sincere prayer and staying in tune with the Spirit are important to keeping us on the right path, and also help us when we have difficult decisions to make.โ
Buffy knows that faith and prayer are important in choosing educational and career pathsโand in life in general. She knows that for her, choosing to join the Navy and become a nurse helps fulfill her desire to serve others.
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Children and Youth: A Focus for Everyday Life
Summary: Twin sisters Danika and Natasha from Ohio set personal goals tied to their Thai heritageโDanika to cook Thai soups and Natasha to learn Thai words dailyโwith help from their dad. They collaborated with leaders to host a ward activity where Danika cooked and Natasha taught Thai, and their friend Grace practiced public speaking by teaching chopstick use. They faced challenges with time and cooking alone but felt it was worth it. Both reported feeling closer to family and Jesus Christ through keeping their goals.
Youth just like you have already started seeing the blessings of striving to become more like Jesus Christ in their everyday lives. Danika and Natasha R., 15, from Ohio, USA, are twin sisters who decided to do just that. Their dad is from Thailand, and because they sometimes visit family there, Danika and Natasha decided they wanted to learn more about Thai food and language.
Danika made a goal to learn to cook some Thai soup recipes. She shopped for the ingredients and practiced new cooking techniques with her dad. Natasha wanted to learn to communicate with her family in Thailand, so she set a goal to learn one new Thai word each day. She used a website to aid her language study and practiced pronouncing words with her dad.
As Danika and Natasha worked on their goals, they wanted to share what they learned with the other young women in their ward. Their leaders helped them organize an activity to learn more about Thailand. At the activity, Danika cooked soup for everyone while Natasha taught them some Thai words.
The sisters also included their friend Grace in the activity. Grace had a personal goal to get better at public speaking, so she gave a presentation on how to use chopsticks so they could eat their soup!
By practicing their goals and working with their leaders and other young women, Danika and Natasha were able to plan a fun night to enjoy with their friends.
Danika and Natasha share that they have received many blessings from striving to learn more about their heritage and celebrating it with their family and other young women. Their experience didnโt come without challenges. Natasha explains, โI was in school while I was learning Thai, so it was sometimes hard to find time to do it.โ Danika adds, โAt the activity, I had a little bit of trouble making the soup on my own since my dad wasnโt there.โ But the sisters both agree that in the end, it was worth it.
Danika says, โI like that I got to spend time with my dad, and it helped me feel closer to my family.โ She also explains, โMaking and keeping my personal goals helped me come closer to Jesus Christ by giving me a clear path to helping myself and others. Instead of mindlessly milling around like some nights, I had a set standard to follow and keep to, and that gave me more time to think about Christ.โ
Natasha says making and keeping her goal โreally got me to think deeply about what I needed and wanted to do to become closer to Christ.โ She also notes that although she has shifted her focus to a new goal, she was inspired to keep learning Thai: โMy original goal was to learn Thai so I can speak to my family in Thailand, so I want to keep learning Thai so I can talk to them.โ
Danika and Natashaโs balanced approach to their personal development helped them learn more about their dadโs culture, have fun with friends, and come closer to their family and the Saviorโand thatโs what Children and Youth is all about.
Danika made a goal to learn to cook some Thai soup recipes. She shopped for the ingredients and practiced new cooking techniques with her dad. Natasha wanted to learn to communicate with her family in Thailand, so she set a goal to learn one new Thai word each day. She used a website to aid her language study and practiced pronouncing words with her dad.
As Danika and Natasha worked on their goals, they wanted to share what they learned with the other young women in their ward. Their leaders helped them organize an activity to learn more about Thailand. At the activity, Danika cooked soup for everyone while Natasha taught them some Thai words.
The sisters also included their friend Grace in the activity. Grace had a personal goal to get better at public speaking, so she gave a presentation on how to use chopsticks so they could eat their soup!
By practicing their goals and working with their leaders and other young women, Danika and Natasha were able to plan a fun night to enjoy with their friends.
Danika and Natasha share that they have received many blessings from striving to learn more about their heritage and celebrating it with their family and other young women. Their experience didnโt come without challenges. Natasha explains, โI was in school while I was learning Thai, so it was sometimes hard to find time to do it.โ Danika adds, โAt the activity, I had a little bit of trouble making the soup on my own since my dad wasnโt there.โ But the sisters both agree that in the end, it was worth it.
Danika says, โI like that I got to spend time with my dad, and it helped me feel closer to my family.โ She also explains, โMaking and keeping my personal goals helped me come closer to Jesus Christ by giving me a clear path to helping myself and others. Instead of mindlessly milling around like some nights, I had a set standard to follow and keep to, and that gave me more time to think about Christ.โ
Natasha says making and keeping her goal โreally got me to think deeply about what I needed and wanted to do to become closer to Christ.โ She also notes that although she has shifted her focus to a new goal, she was inspired to keep learning Thai: โMy original goal was to learn Thai so I can speak to my family in Thailand, so I want to keep learning Thai so I can talk to them.โ
Danika and Natashaโs balanced approach to their personal development helped them learn more about their dadโs culture, have fun with friends, and come closer to their family and the Saviorโand thatโs what Children and Youth is all about.
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Elf Patrol
Summary: After their mother leaves and the house is messy, four-year-old Benjamin wishes for an elf to help. He secretly cleans his room, and his older brothers join in as 'elves' to clean the entire house before their mom returns. They leave a note from the 'elf patrol' and enjoy continuing to serve secretly whenever the house gets messy.
One day my four-year-old brother, Benjamin, wished for an elf to come and rescue us. It all happened on a spring holiday from school when Mom came rushing back from her Relief Society presidency meeting and gasped, โBoys, this place looks terrible! What happened?โ
Nothing had happened. Weโd just been awake and playing for a couple of hours and hadnโt bothered to clean up after ourselves. When five boys live in a house for two hours, things get kind of messy. We werenโt always sloppy at home. Sometimes weโd clean things up if Mom or Dad asked us to. And we usually grumbled and groaned a bit because keeping things tidy and clean wasnโt our favorite thing to do.
โI didnโt think you were supposed to be back for a long time,โ Aaron said.
โI forgot some things,โ Mom answered. โI have to go right back. Canโt you boys do something about this house? It looks like a tornado blew through it.โ
โBut, Mom,โ Jared groaned, โitโs a holiday. Nobody wants to work on a holiday.โ
She didnโt say anything more. She just found what she was looking for and rushed out the door again.
I looked around. Things did look pretty messy: There were clothes and toys scattered about. Ammaron had emptied all the books from the two bottom shelves, and no one had cleared the breakfast dishes from the table or swept the kitchen floor. Our bedrooms were even worseโclothes everywhere, beds unmade, toys piled on the dressers.
โDo you know what I wish?โ Benjamin asked. โI wish we owned an elf.โ
โAn elf? What would we do with an elf?โ I asked.
Benjaminโs grin grew wider, and his dark brown eyes sparkled. โIโd make him work. Then Mom wouldnโt have to.โ
โIf you find one, Benjy,โ Aaron said with a grin, โAlma and I could sure use him in our room. Maybe we could even get him to rake the lawn and plant the garden.โ
Benjamin frowned at Aaronโs teasing and stamped his foot. โI am going to find an elf. I donโt want Mom to be sad any more.โ He stood up and left the room.
I forgot about the messy house and Benjaminโs elf until he bounced back into the family room a while later and announced loudly, โAn elf came!โ
The rest of us turned away from the TV and stared at Benjamin, who stood grinning and beaming.
โWhat are you talking about?โ Aaron asked.
Benjamin stuffed his hands into his pockets and rocked back and forth. โA secret elf came to Jared and my room. Itโs clean. Mom will sure be happy when she sees what my elf did.โ
Well, weโd never had an elf at our house. We didnโt really believe that Benjamin had found one now, but he had raised our curiosity enough that we left the TV and followed him down the hall.
The place was clean. At least there were no toys, blankets, or clothes scattered about. The bedspreads were a little lumpy, but the beds were made. The room looked a lot better than I had remembered it looking that morning.
โHow do you know an elf did it?โ Jared questioned Benjamin.
Benjamin shrugged his shoulders and smiled. โI just know. Donโt you wish an elf had visited your room, Alma?โ
I stepped to the closet and pulled open the door. Three stuffed animals and a bundle of wadded-up clothes tumbled out.
Aaron snickered, bent over, and threw back the bedspread to look under the bed. More toys, shoes, and clothes had been stuffed out of sight. โSome elf,โ he laughed. โYour lazy elf stuffs things away as well as you do, Benjy.โ
Benjaminโs smiled drooped into a sad frown as everyone turned and left the room, laughing and joking about his lazy elf. I stayed behind.
โIt really was an elf, Alma,โ he said with teary eyes. โThe room was clean until you opened the closet.โ
I put my arm around his shoulders. โDo you know what I think, Benjamin?โ He looked up at me. โI think your elf needs a little help.โ
โI donโt think thereโs another elf who can help him,โ Benjamin said sadly, ducking his head.
I stepped over to the closet and dropped to my knees. โOh, I donโt know about that. Sometimes Iโm an elf in my spare time.โ
โYou?โ he gasped.
I grinned, nodding.
โWill you help me, Alma? I donโt want Mom to be sad when she sees my room.โ
It didnโt take us long to whip that room into shape. And it was funny how good it made me feel to be doing something good in secret.
We were just straightening the sheets on the top bunk when Jared pushed open the door and stepped in. โHey, what are you guys doing?โ
Benjamin and I looked at each other. โItโs a secret,โ I said.
Jared opened the closet door. Everything was in order. He peeked under the bunk bed. Nothing was stuffed there. He pulled out the drawers. All the clothes were folded and straight. โWhat happened?โ he asked.
โItโs a secret,โ Benjamin said. โThere really is an elf.โ
โItโs just you two,โ he said, shaking his head.
โIf you donโt tell, you can join us.โ
โWhy would I want to join you? I hate cleaning up.โ
โBut if youโre an elf, itโs fun!โ Benjamin burst out.
Jared looked at me. I grinned and nodded my head. He thought a moment, then said, โAll right, Iโll try it.โ
โAaron and my roomโs next,โ I whispered.
With three elves working full speed, we had the room finished in no time.
โWhat are you guys up to?โ Aaron demanded, walking into our room. โAre you cleaning?โ He peered about. Nothing was out of place. He checked under the bed, in the closet, and through the drawers. โDid you guys really do all this?โ he demanded.
โBenjyโs elf came back,โ Jared said.
โAnd he brought two buddies,โ Benjamin added.
โThis place is crawling with elves,โ I told him. โThereโs a regular elf patrol running around.โ
โMom wonโt believe it!โ Benjamin crowed. โSheโll think sheโs in a different house. And she wonโt be sad any more.โ
โJoin us,โ Benjamin invited.
Aaron stepped into Benjamin and Jaredโs room and looked around. Then he came back to our room. โMom wonโt know what to think,โ he said smiling. Suddenly he frowned. โWhat about the kitchen? Ammaron just poured a box of cereal all over the floor.โ
โItโll take a whole bunch of elves for that,โ Benjamin said.
I turned to Aaron. โAre you in the mood to be an elf?โ
โItโs fun,โ Benjamin chimed in.
Aaron shrugged. โIโve been a lot of things but never an elf. Letโs do it!โ
I donโt ever remember a time when all five of us worked so hard and so fast. And it took all of us to clean up the kitchen. Jared cleared and cleaned the table, Aaron dried the dishes, helping Ammaron wash them along the way, I grabbed a broom, and Benjamin got the mop.
We were worn out when we heard the car pull into the driveway, but the place was clean.
โQuick,โ Aaron ordered. โEverybody get into the family room. Weโll be watching TV, pretending we donโt know anything about the house.โ
We pulled a few books from the shelf, scattered some magazines about the floor, and kicked our shoes around the room so that Mom would think we were still just lying in our old mess.
Mom trudged into the house with her arms full of Relief Society things. She staggered into the kitchen and set her things on the table.
โGoodness!โ we heard her exclaim. โWhat happened in here?โ
No one answered.
She wandered throughout the house, peering into each room. โWhat has happened to this house!โ
I stretched and yawned. โOh, donโt worry, Mom. This movie is about over. Weโll help you pick up the house in a few minutes.โ
โHave you seen this house?โ Mom asked, surprised as she walked into the family room.
โYeah, itโs a little junky,โ Aaron came back, โbut we can take care of that after the movie.โ
โI donโt believe this is the same house!โ Mom exclaimed again. Benjamin covered his face with one of the couch cushions so that Mom wouldnโt see him laughing. Jared and I were trying to hide our giggles too.
When she actually sputtered, โThis place is spotless!โ we all jumped up and rushed about the house, acting surprised.
โWhat happened?โ we called out. โThis place was such a dump!โ
Then Mom spotted a note that Aaron had taped to the hall wall. She opened the note and read, โA special surprise from the elf patrol.โ Mom looked up. โSo weโve had an elf invasion,โ she said happily.
โThey must have come in while we were watching TV,โ Jared cried. โImagine thatโbeing invaded by elves!โ
Now if the house ever gets really messy or if there is a stack of dirty dishes in the sink, Mom drops down in a chair and sighs, โOh, I wonder where the elf patrol is today.โ
And before too long, without Mom ever knowing, the house gets cleaned. We still havenโt told her who belongs to the elf patrol. That would spoil the magic. And when you are working as a secret elf, all the work you do is just plain fun.
Nothing had happened. Weโd just been awake and playing for a couple of hours and hadnโt bothered to clean up after ourselves. When five boys live in a house for two hours, things get kind of messy. We werenโt always sloppy at home. Sometimes weโd clean things up if Mom or Dad asked us to. And we usually grumbled and groaned a bit because keeping things tidy and clean wasnโt our favorite thing to do.
โI didnโt think you were supposed to be back for a long time,โ Aaron said.
โI forgot some things,โ Mom answered. โI have to go right back. Canโt you boys do something about this house? It looks like a tornado blew through it.โ
โBut, Mom,โ Jared groaned, โitโs a holiday. Nobody wants to work on a holiday.โ
She didnโt say anything more. She just found what she was looking for and rushed out the door again.
I looked around. Things did look pretty messy: There were clothes and toys scattered about. Ammaron had emptied all the books from the two bottom shelves, and no one had cleared the breakfast dishes from the table or swept the kitchen floor. Our bedrooms were even worseโclothes everywhere, beds unmade, toys piled on the dressers.
โDo you know what I wish?โ Benjamin asked. โI wish we owned an elf.โ
โAn elf? What would we do with an elf?โ I asked.
Benjaminโs grin grew wider, and his dark brown eyes sparkled. โIโd make him work. Then Mom wouldnโt have to.โ
โIf you find one, Benjy,โ Aaron said with a grin, โAlma and I could sure use him in our room. Maybe we could even get him to rake the lawn and plant the garden.โ
Benjamin frowned at Aaronโs teasing and stamped his foot. โI am going to find an elf. I donโt want Mom to be sad any more.โ He stood up and left the room.
I forgot about the messy house and Benjaminโs elf until he bounced back into the family room a while later and announced loudly, โAn elf came!โ
The rest of us turned away from the TV and stared at Benjamin, who stood grinning and beaming.
โWhat are you talking about?โ Aaron asked.
Benjamin stuffed his hands into his pockets and rocked back and forth. โA secret elf came to Jared and my room. Itโs clean. Mom will sure be happy when she sees what my elf did.โ
Well, weโd never had an elf at our house. We didnโt really believe that Benjamin had found one now, but he had raised our curiosity enough that we left the TV and followed him down the hall.
The place was clean. At least there were no toys, blankets, or clothes scattered about. The bedspreads were a little lumpy, but the beds were made. The room looked a lot better than I had remembered it looking that morning.
โHow do you know an elf did it?โ Jared questioned Benjamin.
Benjamin shrugged his shoulders and smiled. โI just know. Donโt you wish an elf had visited your room, Alma?โ
I stepped to the closet and pulled open the door. Three stuffed animals and a bundle of wadded-up clothes tumbled out.
Aaron snickered, bent over, and threw back the bedspread to look under the bed. More toys, shoes, and clothes had been stuffed out of sight. โSome elf,โ he laughed. โYour lazy elf stuffs things away as well as you do, Benjy.โ
Benjaminโs smiled drooped into a sad frown as everyone turned and left the room, laughing and joking about his lazy elf. I stayed behind.
โIt really was an elf, Alma,โ he said with teary eyes. โThe room was clean until you opened the closet.โ
I put my arm around his shoulders. โDo you know what I think, Benjamin?โ He looked up at me. โI think your elf needs a little help.โ
โI donโt think thereโs another elf who can help him,โ Benjamin said sadly, ducking his head.
I stepped over to the closet and dropped to my knees. โOh, I donโt know about that. Sometimes Iโm an elf in my spare time.โ
โYou?โ he gasped.
I grinned, nodding.
โWill you help me, Alma? I donโt want Mom to be sad when she sees my room.โ
It didnโt take us long to whip that room into shape. And it was funny how good it made me feel to be doing something good in secret.
We were just straightening the sheets on the top bunk when Jared pushed open the door and stepped in. โHey, what are you guys doing?โ
Benjamin and I looked at each other. โItโs a secret,โ I said.
Jared opened the closet door. Everything was in order. He peeked under the bunk bed. Nothing was stuffed there. He pulled out the drawers. All the clothes were folded and straight. โWhat happened?โ he asked.
โItโs a secret,โ Benjamin said. โThere really is an elf.โ
โItโs just you two,โ he said, shaking his head.
โIf you donโt tell, you can join us.โ
โWhy would I want to join you? I hate cleaning up.โ
โBut if youโre an elf, itโs fun!โ Benjamin burst out.
Jared looked at me. I grinned and nodded my head. He thought a moment, then said, โAll right, Iโll try it.โ
โAaron and my roomโs next,โ I whispered.
With three elves working full speed, we had the room finished in no time.
โWhat are you guys up to?โ Aaron demanded, walking into our room. โAre you cleaning?โ He peered about. Nothing was out of place. He checked under the bed, in the closet, and through the drawers. โDid you guys really do all this?โ he demanded.
โBenjyโs elf came back,โ Jared said.
โAnd he brought two buddies,โ Benjamin added.
โThis place is crawling with elves,โ I told him. โThereโs a regular elf patrol running around.โ
โMom wonโt believe it!โ Benjamin crowed. โSheโll think sheโs in a different house. And she wonโt be sad any more.โ
โJoin us,โ Benjamin invited.
Aaron stepped into Benjamin and Jaredโs room and looked around. Then he came back to our room. โMom wonโt know what to think,โ he said smiling. Suddenly he frowned. โWhat about the kitchen? Ammaron just poured a box of cereal all over the floor.โ
โItโll take a whole bunch of elves for that,โ Benjamin said.
I turned to Aaron. โAre you in the mood to be an elf?โ
โItโs fun,โ Benjamin chimed in.
Aaron shrugged. โIโve been a lot of things but never an elf. Letโs do it!โ
I donโt ever remember a time when all five of us worked so hard and so fast. And it took all of us to clean up the kitchen. Jared cleared and cleaned the table, Aaron dried the dishes, helping Ammaron wash them along the way, I grabbed a broom, and Benjamin got the mop.
We were worn out when we heard the car pull into the driveway, but the place was clean.
โQuick,โ Aaron ordered. โEverybody get into the family room. Weโll be watching TV, pretending we donโt know anything about the house.โ
We pulled a few books from the shelf, scattered some magazines about the floor, and kicked our shoes around the room so that Mom would think we were still just lying in our old mess.
Mom trudged into the house with her arms full of Relief Society things. She staggered into the kitchen and set her things on the table.
โGoodness!โ we heard her exclaim. โWhat happened in here?โ
No one answered.
She wandered throughout the house, peering into each room. โWhat has happened to this house!โ
I stretched and yawned. โOh, donโt worry, Mom. This movie is about over. Weโll help you pick up the house in a few minutes.โ
โHave you seen this house?โ Mom asked, surprised as she walked into the family room.
โYeah, itโs a little junky,โ Aaron came back, โbut we can take care of that after the movie.โ
โI donโt believe this is the same house!โ Mom exclaimed again. Benjamin covered his face with one of the couch cushions so that Mom wouldnโt see him laughing. Jared and I were trying to hide our giggles too.
When she actually sputtered, โThis place is spotless!โ we all jumped up and rushed about the house, acting surprised.
โWhat happened?โ we called out. โThis place was such a dump!โ
Then Mom spotted a note that Aaron had taped to the hall wall. She opened the note and read, โA special surprise from the elf patrol.โ Mom looked up. โSo weโve had an elf invasion,โ she said happily.
โThey must have come in while we were watching TV,โ Jared cried. โImagine thatโbeing invaded by elves!โ
Now if the house ever gets really messy or if there is a stack of dirty dishes in the sink, Mom drops down in a chair and sighs, โOh, I wonder where the elf patrol is today.โ
And before too long, without Mom ever knowing, the house gets cleaned. We still havenโt told her who belongs to the elf patrol. That would spoil the magic. And when you are working as a secret elf, all the work you do is just plain fun.
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Shelly Ellegood
Summary: After divorce and excommunication, Shelly spent about 15 years working toward returning to the Church. In Kentucky she waited in the car while her son attended, missed her daughterโs temple marriage, and was patiently supported by ward friends until, when the time was right, her son rebaptized her.
Life choices kept Shelly away from the Church for years. With the help of friends at church, Shelly eventually found the strength and faith to move forward and be a good example to her children.
But things happened, and when we got divorced, I was excommunicated. It took me about 15 years to get back into the Church. It took a while, but I didnโt want to rush it. I wanted to be going to church for all the right reasons.
I remember when we first moved to Kentucky, USA, Iโd take my son to church and stay in the car while he went inside. It was a hard time. My daughter was the first of my children to get married in the temple, and I couldnโt be there. That really hurt my feelings, but of course, it was my fault.
It just takes some people like me a long time to finally figure things out. Ward members and friends were patient with me. They let me know that they were there. One family in particular reached out to me and were really like my family because I didnโt have anybody out here. They helped me start going to church, but they never pressured me. The cool thing is that when it was time, my son rebaptized me.
But things happened, and when we got divorced, I was excommunicated. It took me about 15 years to get back into the Church. It took a while, but I didnโt want to rush it. I wanted to be going to church for all the right reasons.
I remember when we first moved to Kentucky, USA, Iโd take my son to church and stay in the car while he went inside. It was a hard time. My daughter was the first of my children to get married in the temple, and I couldnโt be there. That really hurt my feelings, but of course, it was my fault.
It just takes some people like me a long time to finally figure things out. Ward members and friends were patient with me. They let me know that they were there. One family in particular reached out to me and were really like my family because I didnโt have anybody out here. They helped me start going to church, but they never pressured me. The cool thing is that when it was time, my son rebaptized me.
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Growing Up Spiritually
Summary: Carlyโs family faced difficulty due to her fatherโs employment change and a move to another state. Through united faith and prayers, they felt Heavenly Fatherโs love and support and were brought back together, strengthening her faith.
Listen to the words of three young women as each had experiences that provided a chance to exercise her faith.
[A video segment was shown in which several young women spoke of events and challenges in their own lives and the effect of those things on their faith.]
The second young woman, Carly, experienced difficult family circumstances through a change in her fatherโs employment and a move to another state. She learned the value of family relationships and being together. Through united faith and prayers, she experienced the blessing of feeling our Heavenly Fatherโs love and support in bringing their family back together. Her faith was strengthened.
[A video segment was shown in which several young women spoke of events and challenges in their own lives and the effect of those things on their faith.]
The second young woman, Carly, experienced difficult family circumstances through a change in her fatherโs employment and a move to another state. She learned the value of family relationships and being together. Through united faith and prayers, she experienced the blessing of feeling our Heavenly Fatherโs love and support in bringing their family back together. Her faith was strengthened.
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Family
Love
Prayer
Testimony
Unity
Young Women
The Family That Kicks Together
Summary: Shane Aldous and his family joined a karate school, worked together, and found success in tournaments. Their example impressed instructor Master Kim, who accepted an invitation to church and was baptized. Later, one of his students, Gloria Lee, also joined the Church after first trying to warn him away, and Shane reflected that family unity and gospel living can help people notice the Church.
Shane Aldous steps to the front of his karate class.
โTaegeuk Seven Jang,โ he shouts and begins leading students through a complex series of movements called a kata. The movements are liquid, light on water, motion flowing into motion. Shane Aldous, stocky and strong, drops down into a low stance. His hands move into position, palms up, fingers together. His eyes wide, alert, he steps into another low stance. The transition is smooth and fast. Then with practiced precision, a hand moves in a graceful circle, stops, pulls in, and punches upward. A fast high kick follows.
A karate class might seem an unlikely place for missionary work, but for Shane Aldous, 15, and his family, members of the Manassas Virginia Ward, almost any place can present an opportunity.
โTwo years ago I was the biggest guy in my class,โ Shane explains. โAll of the tough guys wanted to fight me. But I didnโt like fighting. My mother saw an ad in the paper for karate classes and asked if I wanted to take lessons.โ
Chol H. Kim, the instructor of the class, teaches TaeKwon Do, a Korean style of karate, which emphasizes both physical and mental discipline. โIn TaeKwon Do character development is as important as physical development. Itโs a school rule,โ Shane says, โto show respect to your teachers and your parents.โ
Shaneโs parents and his brother Brad, 14, were so impressed with what Master Kim was teaching that they also signed up for his classes. โWe do things as a family whenever we can,โ Shane says.
Because they worked together and could help each other learn, the Aldous family progressed rapidly.
Brad and Shane began entering karate tournaments, and at the National Junior Olympics they took top honors in their divisions. Shane brought home a silver medal in sparring, and Brad won a gold in form and a gold in sparring.
From the time the Aldous family enrolled in his school, Master Kim had been watching them closely. There was something about them that made them stand out from other people. โI was impressed by the support they gave each other,โ he says. โAnd by the emphasis they put on family and personal growth.โ
Eventually the Aldous family invited Master Kim to church. He began taking the missionary lessons and was baptized.
Not long after he was baptized, one of his students, Gloria Lee, 19, was also baptized.
โI thought Master Kim was making a terrible mistake,โ she says. โIโd heard some bad things about the Mormons. I didnโt want him to fall into a false religion and ruin his whole life. I decided to do something about it, so I confronted him and some other members of the Church. But I had a lot of questions about my own religion, and everything they told me about Mormonism made sense. I couldnโt deny it. I started taking discussions from the missionaries, and instead of saving Master Kim from the terrible religion, I ended up being baptized myself. I am pretty lucky. My family belongs to another church, and they worry about me the way I worried about Master Kim. Itโs not easy, but Iโve never regretted joining. The Church is true. The Aldous family has always been a good example for me. Without them I would not have found the Church.โ
According to Shane, working together as a family and living and knowing gospel principles are important keys to being successful missionaries. โYou never know when people are watching you,โ he says. โOr when they are going to become interested and start asking questions.โ
โTaegeuk Seven Jang,โ he shouts and begins leading students through a complex series of movements called a kata. The movements are liquid, light on water, motion flowing into motion. Shane Aldous, stocky and strong, drops down into a low stance. His hands move into position, palms up, fingers together. His eyes wide, alert, he steps into another low stance. The transition is smooth and fast. Then with practiced precision, a hand moves in a graceful circle, stops, pulls in, and punches upward. A fast high kick follows.
A karate class might seem an unlikely place for missionary work, but for Shane Aldous, 15, and his family, members of the Manassas Virginia Ward, almost any place can present an opportunity.
โTwo years ago I was the biggest guy in my class,โ Shane explains. โAll of the tough guys wanted to fight me. But I didnโt like fighting. My mother saw an ad in the paper for karate classes and asked if I wanted to take lessons.โ
Chol H. Kim, the instructor of the class, teaches TaeKwon Do, a Korean style of karate, which emphasizes both physical and mental discipline. โIn TaeKwon Do character development is as important as physical development. Itโs a school rule,โ Shane says, โto show respect to your teachers and your parents.โ
Shaneโs parents and his brother Brad, 14, were so impressed with what Master Kim was teaching that they also signed up for his classes. โWe do things as a family whenever we can,โ Shane says.
Because they worked together and could help each other learn, the Aldous family progressed rapidly.
Brad and Shane began entering karate tournaments, and at the National Junior Olympics they took top honors in their divisions. Shane brought home a silver medal in sparring, and Brad won a gold in form and a gold in sparring.
From the time the Aldous family enrolled in his school, Master Kim had been watching them closely. There was something about them that made them stand out from other people. โI was impressed by the support they gave each other,โ he says. โAnd by the emphasis they put on family and personal growth.โ
Eventually the Aldous family invited Master Kim to church. He began taking the missionary lessons and was baptized.
Not long after he was baptized, one of his students, Gloria Lee, 19, was also baptized.
โI thought Master Kim was making a terrible mistake,โ she says. โIโd heard some bad things about the Mormons. I didnโt want him to fall into a false religion and ruin his whole life. I decided to do something about it, so I confronted him and some other members of the Church. But I had a lot of questions about my own religion, and everything they told me about Mormonism made sense. I couldnโt deny it. I started taking discussions from the missionaries, and instead of saving Master Kim from the terrible religion, I ended up being baptized myself. I am pretty lucky. My family belongs to another church, and they worry about me the way I worried about Master Kim. Itโs not easy, but Iโve never regretted joining. The Church is true. The Aldous family has always been a good example for me. Without them I would not have found the Church.โ
According to Shane, working together as a family and living and knowing gospel principles are important keys to being successful missionaries. โYou never know when people are watching you,โ he says. โOr when they are going to become interested and start asking questions.โ
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Children
Education
Family
Missionary Work
Obedience
Young Men
A Prayer for Mama
Summary: A childโs mother returns from back surgery in pain and begins to cry. The child offers to pray and asks Heavenly Father to help the pain pass. After the prayer, the mother stops crying, smiles, and embraces the child.
When my mama had an operation on her back, I prayed hard that the operation would go well. When she came home from the hospital, I saw her crying, and I asked her why she was crying. She said she was in pain. I asked her if she wanted me to say a prayer and she said yes. I quickly knelt down and asked Heavenly Father for her pain to pass so she could stop crying. When I ended the prayer my mother was no longer crying. She was smiling and she hugged me and kissed me.
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Children
Faith
Family
Health
Miracles
Prayer
All the Trimmings
Summary: Rachael fears returning to school after cutting her long hair for donation. When classmates notice, many comment that her choice shows real people do good deeds. Their reactions make her feel good about her decision.
Rachael Ward, another of the Young Women in the Redondo First Ward, was a little frightened to go back to school after Christmas vacation with her new short hair. โIt was awful waiting for that day. Everyone noticed my hair, even people I didnโt know before. A lot of people looked at me differently. They said it made them realize that people really do good deeds for each other. Itโs not just a story on television. That made me feel good.โ
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Courage
Kindness
Service
Young Women
He Truly Loves Us
Summary: Two missionaries were rejected by a large man who angrily told them not to return and slammed the door. As they walked away, the senior companion gently comforted the junior companion, an act the man observed through his window. Seeing their kindness softened his heart, and he called them back to share their message.
Two young missionaries knocked on a door, hoping to find someone to receive their message. The door opened, and a rather large man greeted them in a less-than-friendly voice: โI thought I told you not to knock on my door again. I warned you before that if you ever came back, it would not be a pleasant experience. Now leave me alone.โ He quickly closed the door.
As the elders walked away, the older, more experienced missionary put his arm on the younger missionaryโs shoulder to comfort and encourage him. Unknown to them, the man watched them through the window to be sure they understood his message. He fully expected to see them laugh and make light of his curt response to their attempted visit. However, as he witnessed the expression of kindness between the two missionaries, his heart was instantly softened. He reopened the door and asked the missionaries to come back and share their message with him.
As the elders walked away, the older, more experienced missionary put his arm on the younger missionaryโs shoulder to comfort and encourage him. Unknown to them, the man watched them through the window to be sure they understood his message. He fully expected to see them laugh and make light of his curt response to their attempted visit. However, as he witnessed the expression of kindness between the two missionaries, his heart was instantly softened. He reopened the door and asked the missionaries to come back and share their message with him.
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Friendship
Kindness
Missionary Work
Service
And We Talk of Christ
Summary: A grandmother taught her four-year-old grandson the Easter story using simple replicas of key figures and scenes. The child later retold the story accurately to his parents and, when asked, explained Easter by saying, โCuz Himโs alive.โ
Just days ago, I learned about a grandmother who rehearsed the Easter story with her four-year-old grandson by using simple replicas of the tomb, the stone that covered the sepulchre, Jesus, Mary, the disciples, and the angel. The little boy watched and listened intently as his grandma shared the burial, closing and opening of the tomb, and the garden scene of the Resurrection. He later carefully repeated the story in surprising detail to his parents as he moved the figures about himself. Following this sweet moment, he was asked if he knew why we have Easter. The boy looked up and with childlike reasoning answered, โCuz Himโs alive.โ
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Children
Easter
Jesus Christ
Parenting
Teaching the Gospel
Summary: Before attending FSY, a young man prayed to understand missions and whether he should serve. Soon he attended a lesson on being a missionary, learned a lot, and felt grateful to meet other youth facing similar experiences.
Before I went to FSY I prayed because I wanted to know what it is like to go on a mission and whether I should go on a mission myself. It didnโt take long before we had a lesson on being a missionary and I am glad to say that I really learned a lot. Iโm also grateful that I had the opportunity to meet other youth that go through what I do every day. Look for more on Joshua in the article โYouth in Greece.โ
Joshua K., 16, Athens, Greece
Joshua K., 16, Athens, Greece
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Young Men
Poster Article: Repentance and the Atonement*
Summary: President Boyd K. Packer shared a parable about a man who borrowed a large sum, bought something he wanted, and then could not pay the debt, facing loss of possessions and jail. A friend offered to pay the creditor if the man would accept him as the new creditor and agree to his terms. The friend paid the debt, satisfying the creditor, while the man kept his possessions and avoided jail under new, possible terms.
To help explain what the Savior has done for us, President Boyd K. Packer, Acting President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, told the story of a man who borrowed a great deal of money. He bought something he had always wanted. But when the bill came due, he could not afford to pay it. He knew that his creditor would take away his possessions as payment and throw him in jail.
Then the manโs friend came to rescue him. The friend asked, โIf I pay your debt, will you accept me as your creditor?โ The man gratefully agreed, and his friend told him, โYou will pay the debt to me and I will set the terms. It will not be easy, but it will be possible.โ
Because the friend was willing and able to pay, the creditor received the money that was fairly owed him. At the same time, the man was able to keep his possessions and not go to jail. (See Ensign, May 1977, 54โ55.)
Then the manโs friend came to rescue him. The friend asked, โIf I pay your debt, will you accept me as your creditor?โ The man gratefully agreed, and his friend told him, โYou will pay the debt to me and I will set the terms. It will not be easy, but it will be possible.โ
Because the friend was willing and able to pay, the creditor received the money that was fairly owed him. At the same time, the man was able to keep his possessions and not go to jail. (See Ensign, May 1977, 54โ55.)
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Atonement of Jesus Christ
Debt
Friendship
Grace
Jesus Christ
Mercy
Good by Association
Summary: Jerry, the health spa manager, often joined the narrator's workouts and pushed him to do more. Though the effort was hard, Jerryโs encouragement helped the narrator achieve his best lifts. His presence motivated consistent improvement.
Jerry was another guy who helped me shape up properly. He managed the health spa where my brothers and I used to do our weight lifting, and he often joined our workouts.
Jerry was no scrawny high school kid. He was a mountain of muscle. Any weight I could lift barely once, Jerry could easily lift ten times. I hated it and loved it when Jerry worked out with us. I hated it because he wouldnโt let us rest or loaf.
โOne more! Cโmon, you can do one more rep,โ heโd yell when I was ready to rack the weights. โDonโt give up now. You can do it.โ Then heโd stand over me as I grunted and strained to produce one more repetition. โAtta boy. I knew you could do it.โ
I hated the hard work, but I loved the encouragement and motivation he added to our workouts. Jerry squeezed out the best in me, and I always made my best lifts when he was around.
Jerry was no scrawny high school kid. He was a mountain of muscle. Any weight I could lift barely once, Jerry could easily lift ten times. I hated it and loved it when Jerry worked out with us. I hated it because he wouldnโt let us rest or loaf.
โOne more! Cโmon, you can do one more rep,โ heโd yell when I was ready to rack the weights. โDonโt give up now. You can do it.โ Then heโd stand over me as I grunted and strained to produce one more repetition. โAtta boy. I knew you could do it.โ
I hated the hard work, but I loved the encouragement and motivation he added to our workouts. Jerry squeezed out the best in me, and I always made my best lifts when he was around.
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Be One with Christ
Summary: At age 25, the speaker left bar exam studies to visit his dying grandfather, Crozier Kimball, in Utah. His grandfather counseled him not to feel entitled because of faithful ancestors and to center his life on the Savior and His Atonement, calling Christ the Keeper of the Gate. The experience deeply impressed the speaker with his grandfatherโs humility and devotion to Jesus Christ.
I have felt deeply about the Atonement of Jesus Christ since I was quite young, but the reality of the Saviorโs Atonement came home to me when I was 25. I had just graduated from Stanford Law School and was studying for the California bar exam. My mother called and said that my grandfather Crozier Kimball, who lived in Utah, was dying. She said if I wanted to see him, I had better come home. My grandfather was 86 and very ill. I had a wonderful visit. He was so pleased to see me and share his testimony with me.
When Crozier was just three years old, his father, David Patten Kimball, died at age 44. Crozier hoped that his father and his grandfather Heber C. Kimball would approve of his life and feel he had been true to his heritage.
My grandfatherโs primary counsel to me was to avoid any sense of entitlement or privilege because of these faithful ancestors. He told me my focus should be on the Savior and the Saviorโs Atonement. He said we are all children of a loving Heavenly Father. Regardless of who our earthly ancestors are, each of us will report to the Savior on how well we kept His commandments.
Grandpa referred to the Savior as the โKeeper of the Gate,โ a reference to 2 Nephi 9:41. He told me he hoped he had been sufficiently repentant to qualify for the Saviorโs mercy.
I was deeply touched. I knew he had been a righteous man. He was a patriarch and served several missions. He taught me that no one can return to God by good works alone without the benefit of the Saviorโs Atonement. I can remember to this day the great love and appreciation Grandpa had for the Savior and His Atonement.
When Crozier was just three years old, his father, David Patten Kimball, died at age 44. Crozier hoped that his father and his grandfather Heber C. Kimball would approve of his life and feel he had been true to his heritage.
My grandfatherโs primary counsel to me was to avoid any sense of entitlement or privilege because of these faithful ancestors. He told me my focus should be on the Savior and the Saviorโs Atonement. He said we are all children of a loving Heavenly Father. Regardless of who our earthly ancestors are, each of us will report to the Savior on how well we kept His commandments.
Grandpa referred to the Savior as the โKeeper of the Gate,โ a reference to 2 Nephi 9:41. He told me he hoped he had been sufficiently repentant to qualify for the Saviorโs mercy.
I was deeply touched. I knew he had been a righteous man. He was a patriarch and served several missions. He taught me that no one can return to God by good works alone without the benefit of the Saviorโs Atonement. I can remember to this day the great love and appreciation Grandpa had for the Savior and His Atonement.
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Atonement of Jesus Christ
Family
Family History
Humility
Jesus Christ
Mercy
Missionary Work
Repentance
Testimony