John Taylor:
The Quorum of the Twelve Apostles recently excommunicated one of its members for violating the law of chastity. Despite his education, experience, judgment, long Church service, and high priesthood office, he was not spared the consequences. The account underscores that God's law is applied impartially.
At this point it may not be improper to again solemnly warn the officers and members of the Church against all conduct that tends to immorality and unchastity. We are being continually, though most falsely, accused of teaching and practicing sexual vice under the garb of religion. No charge could be more utterly false; for no system of philosophy, no code of ethics, no articles of religion since the world was first peopled, ever taught more strictly and emphatically than does the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints the paramount necessity of personal purity in the relations of the sexes. Of this the Saints are well aware. Let us see to it, then, that our actions correspond with our faith; for we may be sure that no prominence of opposition, no ties of family, no influence of wealth can save us from the penalty if we break the law of God in this regard. But a few weeks ago it became the sad duty of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles to sever from the communion of the Saints one of its members who had violated the law of chastity. He was a man of education, of experience, of judgement, of long standing in the Church, but neither these nor his exalted position to the Priesthood could save him from the penalty of the law he had so flagrantly broken. And as with him, so with all others. The law must be administered by the officers of the Church with justice and impartiality, with malice towards none, but with due regard to the commands of God and the honor of His holy name. Hear it, O house of Israel! ye who are seeking to attain to the Celestial Kingdom of our Fatherβnone but the pure in heart can see God; none but those who have sanctified all their affections and passions by entire and complete subservience to His laws can dwell in His eternal presence! Let us also remember that the condition of a community, as a whole, depends upon the conditions of the individuals composing it; as are its component parts, so is it in its SIC entirety. If the individual members of a people are wise, just, intelligent, honest, honorable and pure, that community will be distinguished among other communities by those peculiar virtues. To apply the lesson to ourselves, each one for himself, if we wish to see the Church of Christ prepared as a bride for the Savior, we must, individually, live our religion and exemplify in our own lives those virtues which we know must adorn the bride before she can enter the presence of her Lord. This matter of personal purity, faith, diligence and good works is one that we cannot delegate to our neighbor, or make the responsibility of other men and women; but each must do his own duty, each bear his own responsibilities, each set his own house in order (D&C 93:43), each magnify his calling (D&C 84:33), each live near unto God, if he expects God to draw nigh unto him. (James 4:8).
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Chastity
Priesthood
Sin
Virtue
Too Holy?
Twelve-year-old Ian in the Philippines was baptized at age 10 after praying and feeling the Holy Ghost. He stopped drinking tea and attending Sunday cheer practice, attends church even without his family, and his bishop praises his discipleship. Ian shares the gospel with a teacher and faces both respect and ridicule from peers. He encourages others to keep the faith, study, pray, and commit to living the gospel.
βYouβre too holy.β
Twelve-year-old Ian Caloobanan was astounded at his friendβs words. He didnβt consider himself holy.
His friend continued, βEver since you joined the Mormons, youβve become a killjoy. You donβt drink with us anymore. You donβt have fun with us on Sunday. Youβre too holy.β
The words hurt, and yet β¦ what else could he do? He had been baptized and now held the Aaronic Priesthood. He had changed, and as far as Ian was concerned, he had changed for the better. But holy? Well, maybe not yet.
Ian, who lives in the Las PiΓ±as Philippines Stake, was baptized when he was 10. When the elders gave him the lessons, they asked him to pray to know that the Church was true. He did. βI felt happy and very light,β he says. He realized later that it was the Holy Ghost bearing testimony of the truth to him.
Before he joined the Church, Ian used to drink tea with his friends. He also went to cheering practice on Sundays, preparing to lead cheers at his schoolβs sporting events. But he stopped doing those things. Instead, he started going to church, even though he is the only one in his family who does. His father supports Ian in his Church attendance, and his stepmother, who is not a member, takes him to church and then picks him up afterward.
When asked why he comes to church when it would be easier to stay home, he says simply, βI come because I want to keep my faith strong.β
βIan is a good example of what it means to be a disciple of Jesus Christ,β his bishop says. βHe faithfully comes to church, and he doesnβt get upset. He has many friends here. He was excited to receive the priesthood and asked his father to buy him a white shirt so he could wear it when he passes the sacrament.β
Ianβs joy at finding the gospel is hard to contain. He has given one of his teachers a copy of the Book of Mormon and invited him to meet with the missionaries. Some of his schoolmates respect him for his new standards and have asked him questions about the gospel. Others ridicule him.
Ian just keeps on keeping the commandments the best he can.
Having experienced a measure of joy as well as persecution in joining the Church, Ian has wise counsel for all of us: βKeep the faith. Study the scriptures. Pray. Trust in Jesus Christ. Commit yourself to living the gospel. Change for the better.β
And isnβt that what Church membership is supposed to do? Help us change for the better. Help us, eventually, become what Jesus wants us to beβholy.
Twelve-year-old Ian Caloobanan was astounded at his friendβs words. He didnβt consider himself holy.
His friend continued, βEver since you joined the Mormons, youβve become a killjoy. You donβt drink with us anymore. You donβt have fun with us on Sunday. Youβre too holy.β
The words hurt, and yet β¦ what else could he do? He had been baptized and now held the Aaronic Priesthood. He had changed, and as far as Ian was concerned, he had changed for the better. But holy? Well, maybe not yet.
Ian, who lives in the Las PiΓ±as Philippines Stake, was baptized when he was 10. When the elders gave him the lessons, they asked him to pray to know that the Church was true. He did. βI felt happy and very light,β he says. He realized later that it was the Holy Ghost bearing testimony of the truth to him.
Before he joined the Church, Ian used to drink tea with his friends. He also went to cheering practice on Sundays, preparing to lead cheers at his schoolβs sporting events. But he stopped doing those things. Instead, he started going to church, even though he is the only one in his family who does. His father supports Ian in his Church attendance, and his stepmother, who is not a member, takes him to church and then picks him up afterward.
When asked why he comes to church when it would be easier to stay home, he says simply, βI come because I want to keep my faith strong.β
βIan is a good example of what it means to be a disciple of Jesus Christ,β his bishop says. βHe faithfully comes to church, and he doesnβt get upset. He has many friends here. He was excited to receive the priesthood and asked his father to buy him a white shirt so he could wear it when he passes the sacrament.β
Ianβs joy at finding the gospel is hard to contain. He has given one of his teachers a copy of the Book of Mormon and invited him to meet with the missionaries. Some of his schoolmates respect him for his new standards and have asked him questions about the gospel. Others ridicule him.
Ian just keeps on keeping the commandments the best he can.
Having experienced a measure of joy as well as persecution in joining the Church, Ian has wise counsel for all of us: βKeep the faith. Study the scriptures. Pray. Trust in Jesus Christ. Commit yourself to living the gospel. Change for the better.β
And isnβt that what Church membership is supposed to do? Help us change for the better. Help us, eventually, become what Jesus wants us to beβholy.
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Young Men
βAccording to His Desiresβ
An elderly man at a visitorsβ center recounts being expelled from a Sunday School class in his youth and never returning to church. He notes that none of his more than one hundred descendants are members. The narrator questions blaming only the Sunday School officer and highlights the manβs own long-held bitterness and responsibility.
On several occasions I have heard versions of a story, presumably based on fact, that goes something like this: A guide or host at one of the Churchβs visitorsβ centers was one day approached by a man well advanced in age. He acknowledged that he was a member of the Church but said that he had not been associated with the Church since his years as a youth. He told of one day being expelled from a Sunday School classβapparently for misconduct. He said he had never been inside a church building since that day, and he further explained that his children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren numbered more than one hundred, and not one of them was a member of the Church.
When I have heard this story retold, it has generally been to illustrate the dreadful price that was paid because of the rash act of an irate Sunday School officer. But we do not hear the Sunday School officerβs side of the story. Nor do we take into account the responsibility of the young man for his own conduct and his years of unrelenting, unrepentant bitterness and animosity that have poisoned his own life as well as the lives of so many of his offspring.
The story is filled with tragedy. Who is responsible for the tragedy, and how could it have been avoided?
When I have heard this story retold, it has generally been to illustrate the dreadful price that was paid because of the rash act of an irate Sunday School officer. But we do not hear the Sunday School officerβs side of the story. Nor do we take into account the responsibility of the young man for his own conduct and his years of unrelenting, unrepentant bitterness and animosity that have poisoned his own life as well as the lives of so many of his offspring.
The story is filled with tragedy. Who is responsible for the tragedy, and how could it have been avoided?
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Agency and Accountability
Apostasy
Family
Judging Others
Repentance
Seminary Makes You a Morning Person
Brian Collierβs favorite seminary lesson involved bearing testimony of the Prophet Joseph Smith. During that year, his testimony became stronger, and he felt peace from knowing the gospel is true. He doesnβt remember all he said, but he knows he received confirmation.
Brian goes on, βMy favorite lesson was when we got a chance to bear our testimonies of the Prophet Joseph Smith. The whole year, my testimony has become stronger. I just felt a peace that I had knowledge of the truthfulness of the gospel. I donβt remember everything that I said, but I do know that I know.β
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Faith
Joseph Smith
Peace
Testimony
The Joy of Service
A widow wrote describing a ward Thanksgiving dinner organized by the bishopric for widows and older members. The older youth provided transportation, escorted and served guests, presented a program, and sent them home with food. The evening left the guests in tears of gratitude and strengthened the widowβs confidence in the rising generation.
Following Thanksgiving time some years ago, I received a letter from a widow whom I had known in the stake where I served in the presidency. She had just returned from a dinner sponsored by her bishopric. Her words reflect the peace she felt and the gratitude which filled her heart:
βDear President Monson,
βI am living in Bountiful now. I miss the people of our old stake, but let me tell you of a wonderful experience I have had. In early November all the widows and older people received an invitation to come to a lovely dinner. We were told not to worry about transportation since this would be provided by the older youth in the ward.
βAt the appointed hour, a very nice young man rang the bell and took me and another sister to the stake center. He stopped the car, and two other young men walked with us to the chapel where the young ladies took us to where we removed our wrapsβthen into the cultural hall, where we sat and visited for a few minutes. Then they took us to the tables, where we were seated on each side by either a young woman or a young man. Then we were served a lovely Thanksgiving dinner and afterward provided a choice program.
βAfter the program we were given our dessertβeither apple or pumpkin pie. Then we left, and on the way out we were given a plastic bag with sliced turkey and two rolls. Then the young men took us home. It was such a nice, lovely evening. Most of us shed a tear or two for the love and respect we were shown.
βPresident Monson, when you see young people treat others like these young people did, I feel the Church is in good hands.β
βDear President Monson,
βI am living in Bountiful now. I miss the people of our old stake, but let me tell you of a wonderful experience I have had. In early November all the widows and older people received an invitation to come to a lovely dinner. We were told not to worry about transportation since this would be provided by the older youth in the ward.
βAt the appointed hour, a very nice young man rang the bell and took me and another sister to the stake center. He stopped the car, and two other young men walked with us to the chapel where the young ladies took us to where we removed our wrapsβthen into the cultural hall, where we sat and visited for a few minutes. Then they took us to the tables, where we were seated on each side by either a young woman or a young man. Then we were served a lovely Thanksgiving dinner and afterward provided a choice program.
βAfter the program we were given our dessertβeither apple or pumpkin pie. Then we left, and on the way out we were given a plastic bag with sliced turkey and two rolls. Then the young men took us home. It was such a nice, lovely evening. Most of us shed a tear or two for the love and respect we were shown.
βPresident Monson, when you see young people treat others like these young people did, I feel the Church is in good hands.β
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π€ Youth
π€ Church Members (General)
Bishop
Charity
Gratitude
Kindness
Love
Ministering
Peace
Service
Young Men
Young Women
Miracles and Maoris
Because of his fluency in Maori, President Joseph F. Smith asked Elder Cowley to extend his mission two years to translate the Doctrine and Covenants and Pearl of Great Price into Maori. He accepted and completed the work, later serving as mission president and presiding leader over the Pacific. He retained his fluency throughout his life.
Though he was scheduled to complete his three-year mission in 1917, Elder Cowley had become so fluent in the Maori language that President Joseph F. Smith (1838β1918) asked him to remain in New Zealand an additional two years to translate the Doctrine and Covenants and Pearl of Great Price into Maori. Elder Cowley willingly complied. He later served as president of the New Zealand Mission and presiding General Authority over the entire Pacific area, never losing his fluency in Maori.
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π€ Prophets/Apostles (Scriptural)
Diversity and Unity in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
Missionary Work
Priesthood
Scriptures
Service
Studying the Book of Mormon and Its Doctrine Can Strengthen My Faith in Jesus Christ
As a newly baptized young single adult, the speaker and his friend Stephen scheduled daily Book of Mormon study at Stephenβs home. They spent about four hours a day studying, supported by prayer and fasting. Through this effort, the speaker discovered lessons about human strengths and weaknesses and the rewards of righteousness. As they studied Lehiβs teachings, he also reflected on how he might act in similar circumstances.
I joined the Church as a young single adult with my friend Stephen, and shortly after our baptism we decided to learn more about the scriptures. We scheduled time daily at his home to read the Book of Mormon. The Church was new in our area, but we were lucky to have copies of seminary and institute books that provided some insight and explanation. We were spending an average of four hours a day studying the Book of Mormon. This study was accompanied by much prayer and fasting.
Through this scripture study, I discovered that every weakness and strength of man has been portrayed, and rewards and punishment have been recorded. I found from the scripture study exercise, the rewards of righteousness and the penalties for sin.
As we studied deeper into the Book of Mormon, we encountered powerful teachings of Lehi and his vision, his testimony and faith, his family, and their courage to depart from a land where they had some degree of material comfort to a strange land, they knew nothing about. I wondered if I would have behaved like Laman and Lamuel.
Through this scripture study, I discovered that every weakness and strength of man has been portrayed, and rewards and punishment have been recorded. I found from the scripture study exercise, the rewards of righteousness and the penalties for sin.
As we studied deeper into the Book of Mormon, we encountered powerful teachings of Lehi and his vision, his testimony and faith, his family, and their courage to depart from a land where they had some degree of material comfort to a strange land, they knew nothing about. I wondered if I would have behaved like Laman and Lamuel.
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π€ Friends
π€ Church Members (General)
Agency and Accountability
Baptism
Book of Mormon
Conversion
Courage
Faith
Fasting and Fast Offerings
Friendship
Prayer
Scriptures
Testimony
Communicating by the Power of the Spirit
Sister Rhonda Patten Grow, worried about learning Spanish in Uruguay, gradually learned to bear testimony with help from members and often spoke beyond her natural ability through the Spirit. In one meeting, a deaf sister initially used a signer, but as Sister Grow spoke, the deaf sister indicated she no longer needed interpretation. The deaf sister could understand Sister Growβs message without signing.
Sister Rhonda Patten Grow experienced the gift of tongues in a way familiar to many missionaries. When her husband was called from the United States to be a mission president in Uruguay, she was afraid she couldnβt learn to speak Spanish. But gradually, with the help of members, she finally learned to bear her testimony in Spanish. She was amazed, however, at how much more she could say when under the influence of the Spirit. βIn fact, the Spirit helped me so much when I spoke in meetings that the members usually assumed my Spanish was much better than it actually was.β
At one meeting, Sister Grow noticed a young woman signing for a sister who was deaf. When Sister Grow stood to speak, βit seemed as if the Spirit gave me utterance beyond my own abilities. I was filled with feelings of love for the people, and I especially noticed the smiling face of the young deaf woman looking up at me.β
Sister Grow learned later that when she began to speak, the deaf woman communicated that she no longer needed signing interpretation. She could understand Sister Growβs message without it.
At one meeting, Sister Grow noticed a young woman signing for a sister who was deaf. When Sister Grow stood to speak, βit seemed as if the Spirit gave me utterance beyond my own abilities. I was filled with feelings of love for the people, and I especially noticed the smiling face of the young deaf woman looking up at me.β
Sister Grow learned later that when she began to speak, the deaf woman communicated that she no longer needed signing interpretation. She could understand Sister Growβs message without it.
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π€ Other
Disabilities
Holy Ghost
Miracles
Missionary Work
Spiritual Gifts
Testimony
Travail
A physician witnesses the birth of a baby without eyes and wonders how the parents will respond. Later, he notes that the parents lovingly accept and care for their child. Through this trial, they become more empathetic and Christlike.
βLook, the baby is blind. It doesnβt have any eyes!β Incredulously the nurses crowded around to see the newborn infant just beginning to become pink after his journey into this world. Yes, it was true. The baby was blind. There were no eyes where eyes belonged. The mother, a beautiful nurse, and the father, a medical student, would have to be told. How would they react?
No, our Father doesnβt promise us immunity from trouble, and so it was with the mother and the blind baby. That child was accepted with love, cared for with kindness. The parents are more empathetic, more concerned, more Christlike because of their response to a heartrending problem.
No, our Father doesnβt promise us immunity from trouble, and so it was with the mother and the blind baby. That child was accepted with love, cared for with kindness. The parents are more empathetic, more concerned, more Christlike because of their response to a heartrending problem.
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Charity
Disabilities
Family
Kindness
Love
Parenting
Doctrine and Covenants Times at a Glance, Chart 3:
Because of World War II, missionaries were evacuated from various parts of the world. The evacuations began in Europe, the Pacific, and other areas during 1939β40.
1939β40
Because of World War II, missionaries began to be evacuated from Europe, the Pacific, and other areas.
Because of World War II, missionaries began to be evacuated from Europe, the Pacific, and other areas.
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Adversity
Missionary Work
War
Jesus ChristβGifts and Expectations
A young woman who sacrificed her own plans to raise her younger orphan brother becomes ill and nears death. She calls her bishop and asks how God will recognize her as His. He lifts her wrist and replies, 'Show him your hands,' pointing to the marks of her devoted service.
She was a young girl. She had sacrificed her worldly plans to spend long, tedious hours in work in order to provide for and raise her younger orphan brother; but now she lay on her bed, dying of a sickness. She called for her bishop, and as she talked to him in her last moments, he held her rough, hard, work-calloused hand in his. Then she asked the question, βHow will God know that I am his?β Gently he raised her wrist and answered, βShow him your hands.β
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π€ Children
Adversity
Bishop
Consecration
Death
Family
Sacrifice
Service
Donβt Drop the Ball
Thomas B. Marsh, the first President of the Quorum of the Twelve, supported his wife in a dispute over a little cream and escalated the matter to the highest councils of the Church. His refusal to let it go led to the loss of his position and a lasting reputation for that mistake.
Thomas B. Marsh, the first President of the Quorum of the Twelve, sided with his wife in an argument over a little cream. He would not let the matter drop and carried it to the highest councils of the Church. He lost his place and never fully regained it. He dropped the ball at a crucial time and has been remembered ever since for what he did (in George A. Smith, Journal of Discourses, 3:283β84).
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Agency and Accountability
Apostasy
Apostle
Priesthood
Joseph Smith, the Prophet
Pressed for a new trial in Carthage, Joseph initially fled but returned after Emmaβs plea and accusations of cowardice. He surrendered, was rearrested on treason charges, and jailed with Hyrum, John Taylor, and Willard Richards. A mob attacked the jail, killing Joseph and Hyrum and wounding John Taylor while Willard Richards was unharmed.
Governor Ford wanted Joseph to be tried again at Carthage, Illinois, Joseph felt that if he went there, he would probably be killed, so on June 23, 1844, he rowed across the Mississippi River to avoid arrest. In a letter, Emma pleaded with him to return and surrender. Joseph also learned that some of the Saints were calling him a coward for leaving. βIf my life is of no value to my friends,β he said, βit is of none to myself.β He returned to Nauvoo, and on Monday, June 24, he and the others charged in the case went to Carthage to surrender.
When they got to Carthage, they were released on bail until a circuit court judge could hear the case. Joseph and Hyrum went to talk to Governor Ford. While there, they were rearrested on charges of treason.
Joseph and Hyrum were again jailed; John Taylor and Willard Richards went with them.
On June 27, 1844, shortly after 5:00 P.M., a mob rushed up the jail stairs to the room where the prisoners were being held. The culprits tried to break through the door, but were unable to. Shooting through the door, they hit Hyrum, who fell, saying, βI am a dead man.β
Joseph went to the window where he was shot twice from inside the building and twice more from outside. He fell out of the window to the ground and died. John Taylor was shot four times and lay under a bed, severely wounded. Willard Richards was not injured during the shooting.
When they got to Carthage, they were released on bail until a circuit court judge could hear the case. Joseph and Hyrum went to talk to Governor Ford. While there, they were rearrested on charges of treason.
Joseph and Hyrum were again jailed; John Taylor and Willard Richards went with them.
On June 27, 1844, shortly after 5:00 P.M., a mob rushed up the jail stairs to the room where the prisoners were being held. The culprits tried to break through the door, but were unable to. Shooting through the door, they hit Hyrum, who fell, saying, βI am a dead man.β
Joseph went to the window where he was shot twice from inside the building and twice more from outside. He fell out of the window to the ground and died. John Taylor was shot four times and lay under a bed, severely wounded. Willard Richards was not injured during the shooting.
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Adversity
Courage
Death
Joseph Smith
Sacrifice
Friends of All Ages
One year, Tyler's family did the 12 Days of Christmas for Wanda. They secretly left gifts on her porch each night, ringing the doorbell and running away.
12 Days of Christmas
One year we did the 12 Days of Christmas for Wanda. Every night for 12 days, we dropped off a gift on Wandaβs porch. It was fun to sneak up, ring the doorbell, and then run away before she could catch us!
One year we did the 12 Days of Christmas for Wanda. Every night for 12 days, we dropped off a gift on Wandaβs porch. It was fun to sneak up, ring the doorbell, and then run away before she could catch us!
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π€ Other
Christmas
Friendship
Kindness
Service
A Spiritual Adventure
Encouraged by his father to seek missionary experiences, Elder Johnson helped teach a family who joined the Church. That experience motivated him to serve full-time and help bring others to Christ.
Recently, the New Era visited with elders and sisters at the Missionary Training Center in Provo, Utah. Hereβs what a few of them had to say about their own decisions and reasons to serve.
Elder Johnson: βMy dad would always encourage me to do what I could to have missionary experiences. Recently I was able to help teach a family which came into the Church. And I wanted to have that happen again and be part of the Lordβs work and help bring people to Christ.β
Elder Johnson: βMy dad would always encourage me to do what I could to have missionary experiences. Recently I was able to help teach a family which came into the Church. And I wanted to have that happen again and be part of the Lordβs work and help bring people to Christ.β
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π€ Parents
π€ Young Adults
Conversion
Family
Missionary Work
Teaching the Gospel
Report:Boston ConferenceβA Magna Cum Laude in Spirituality
A young adult describes how college classes that treat scripture as myth can shake a sheltered studentβs faith. He learned that the Lord blesses schoolwork when asked and, through the conference, recommitted to align his life with the Lord.
βThe pressures of college classes,β said Rick Isakson of Cumorah Region, βwhere they talk about the myths, folklore, and fantasies of the Bible, can be shattering to a sheltered youth who isnβt firmly grounded in the gospel. Iβve learned that the Lord blesses us in our school work if we ask him, and Iβve become committed again through this conference to line my life up with him.β
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π€ Church Members (General)
Bible
Education
Faith
Prayer
Testimony
I Will Not Partake of Things that Are Harmful to Me*
The narrator went to a movie with a friend who bought an iced tea for her. When she learned what it was, she declined to drink it, even when encouraged to take just one sip. They watched the movie without further trouble, and she felt glad she kept the Word of Wisdom.
I went to the movies with my friend, and she bought me a cold drink. When I asked her what the drink was, she told me that it was iced tea. I told her that I didnβt drink tea. She tried to convince me to take one drink, but I told her, βNo, thank you.β Finally the movie started, and we enjoyed it without any more trouble. Iβm glad I didnβt take the tea because I know that Heavenly Father gave us the Word of Wisdom.
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Commandments
Health
Obedience
Temptation
Word of Wisdom
Faith to Go, Faith to Stay
In 1999, after building a home in Norton, the author and his wife planned to move from Harare. A mission president and a visiting General Authority counseled them to stay, but the author resisted due to costs and plans. After Naume urged him to follow Church leadersβ counsel, they remained in Harare and were richly blessed. He expresses gratitude for her faith to stay.
In 1999, I was serving as the Harare Zimbabwe District president. By that time, I had a good job. Naume and I bought land in Norton, which was about a 40-minute drive from Harare, and we built a nice three-bedroom home on that land. We were excited to begin our new life in Norton. Our plan was to eventually build a bigger home on the property.
When the mission president learned about our plan to move from Harare, he counseled us not to leave. I reasoned that it was too expensive for us to stay in Harare. We continued to pursue our plans to move. A visiting General Authority also counseled us to stay in Harare. He suggested that we rent our house in Norton while continuing to live in Harare. I again said that it was too expensive to live in Harare. If we remained there, we would not be able to build the larger house we had planned.
On the way home from our conversation with the General Authority, Naume asked me why I was being so stubborn. I responded that our leaders did not seem to understand our situation. She said that she would support me only if I was willing to follow our Church leadersβ counsel. We remained in Harare, and we were richly blessed because of that decision.
Iβm grateful that Naume had faith to stay.
When the mission president learned about our plan to move from Harare, he counseled us not to leave. I reasoned that it was too expensive for us to stay in Harare. We continued to pursue our plans to move. A visiting General Authority also counseled us to stay in Harare. He suggested that we rent our house in Norton while continuing to live in Harare. I again said that it was too expensive to live in Harare. If we remained there, we would not be able to build the larger house we had planned.
On the way home from our conversation with the General Authority, Naume asked me why I was being so stubborn. I responded that our leaders did not seem to understand our situation. She said that she would support me only if I was willing to follow our Church leadersβ counsel. We remained in Harare, and we were richly blessed because of that decision.
Iβm grateful that Naume had faith to stay.
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π€ General Authorities (Modern)
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π€ Church Members (General)
Faith
Family
Gratitude
Marriage
Obedience
Priesthood
A child was dared by friends to shout a bad word. After initially refusing, the child gave in, felt remorse, and prayed that night to repent. They resolved to say no to wrong choices even under peer pressure.
One day at school my friends dared me to shout a bad word in an empty classroom. When I said no, they teased me and made fun of me. Then I said yes, and I said the word softly and quickly. Then I was very sorry for what I had done. That night I prayed with all of my heart and repented of saying the bad word. I know I can always turn to Heavenly Father to know what is right, and if something is wrong, I will say no, even if my friends tell me to do it. I am grateful for repentance!
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π€ Children
π€ Friends
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Answers to Your Top Dating Questions
Katie explains a method for keeping conversations going on dates by commenting, asking questions, and branching from whatever is nearby. She notes these techniques helped her get through many awkward moments.
βThe important thing is to comment and ask questions, therefore causing a conversation to occur. Open up to him/her about your thoughts/feelings on a subject and then ask theirs. In return, ask thoughtful questions about their responses. If you canβt think of a topic, look at the first thing you see and branch off of it (i.e.: a flower, βMy familyβs garden has some awesome beets in it this year. Do you have a garden?β). These tricks were what got me through many awkward moments.β
Katie, from Facebook
Katie, from Facebook
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