Alison touched her hair. Still wet, she thought, smiling. She gazed out the window of the car as it left the church parking lot. The Saturday afternoon looked brighter than usual. The trees seemed greener, the sky a deeper blue. Iâve done it! she told herself. Iâve been baptized.
She closed her eyes and relived the baptismal service in her mind. Dressed in white, she and her father sat on the front row of the chapel as the bishop spoke. âYou will come out of the water cleansed from all your sins,â he said. âThen you can be confirmed a member of the Church and receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. If you keep the commandments, the Holy Ghost will be your constant companion and help you choose the right.â
Later, Dad stood waiting in the baptismal font. He took her small hand in his large one and guided her down the steps. The water was warm and clear. She looked up and saw her family and friends watching reverently. Mom smiled. Alison grasped Dadâs wrist with her left hand while he held her right wrist and raised his right arm to the square. She listened carefully as he said the baptismal prayer. Then she held her nose and her breath as he placed his right hand in the middle of her back and immersed her gently but completely under the water.
Warmth and peace surrounded her a moment before she was brought up out of the water by her father. Streaming water dazzled her eyes like diamonds. Through the glistening drops, she saw blurry faces smiling at her, and she smiled back. She felt so good, so cleanâlike a new person. She looked up at Dad. He smiled and hugged her close. She wanted to feel like this always.
After Alison changed into dry clothes, the family met in a classroom with the bishop. He and Dad put their hands on her head, confirmed her a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and gave her the gift of the Holy Ghost. Now Alison felt not only new and clean but strong, too, as if she could always do what was right, no matter what.
âSo how do you feel?â Dad asked, breaking into Alisonâs daydream.
She opened her eyes and grinned. âI feel good. Iâve never felt this good in my whole life. Iâm never going to do anything wrong again. Iâm clean now, and I want to stay this way.â
âThatâs a wonderful goal,â Dad said, âbut Iâm afraid that we all make mistakes.â
I wonât, Alison thought, settling back into her seat. I donât ever want to lose this feeling.
A couple of weeks later, Alison sat on the couch, studying the baptismal certificate the bishop had given her.
Tyler climbed up beside her. âLet me see it!â he demanded, grabbing the paper.
Alison held him off with an elbow. âThis isnât a toy. This is important.â
Tyler laughed and grabbed the paper as Alison jerked it away. With an ugly ripping sound, the certificate tore in half.
Alison stared a long moment in disbelief. Then a furious anger gathered around her like a storm. How could he destroy this precious thing! Tylerâs eyes were wide with fear and dismay, and Alison had a strong feeling that she should walk away before she did something bad. But she didnât want to walk away. She wanted to get even. She let the anger rush in, filling her to overflowing, and she gave Tyler a push.
He tumbled off the couch. Before he could even catch his breath to let out his first angry howl, she jumped up and gathered him into her arms. The anger was gone, replaced by remorse and a sick guilt. âIâm sorry,â she said. âIâm so sorry.â Tears ran down her cheeks.
Mom and Dad came running in to see what was wrong. âI pushed Tyler on purpose,â Alison said. âIâve only been baptized a couple of weeks, and Iâve spoiled it already.â She ran to her room, where she fell on her knees by her bed and prayed and cried a long time.
Finally the door opened and Tyler came in. âDonât be sad, Alison,â he said. âIâm all right.â
Alison held him tightly. âIâm sorry,â she said again. âIâll try to do better. Iâll try to be a good sister. Will you forgive me?â
Tyler gave her a huge, wet kiss on the cheek and a big hug. âI forgive you this much.â
Mom and Dad came in and sat down on either side of her.
âAlison,â Mom said, âyour certificate can be replaced. That is important, of course, but that isnât what is upsetting you, is it?â
âNoâitâs that this time I messed up big time.â
Dad nodded. âWe all do. The important thing is that we repent.â
Alison brushed away a tear. âHow do I know for sure that Iâve repented?â
âHeavenly Father made it pretty simple,â Dad said. âFirst we need to recognize that weâve done wrong and feel sorry for it. I think youâve already done that. Then we need to ask forgiveness from the person weâve sinned against and from Heavenly Father.â
Alison sighed. âIâve been doing that.â
âThen we must try to make up for the wrong weâve done.â
âIâm going to do something nice for Tyler every day,â Alison said. âI donât want him to ever be afraid of his own sister. Is that all?â
âThereâs one more thing,â Dad said. âWe must try as hard as we can not to do the wrong thing again.â
Alison put her head on Dadâs shoulder. âI think the Holy Ghost tried to tell me not to push Tyler, but I wouldnât listen. If He ever talks to me again, Iâm going to listen.â
âHeâll talk to you,â Dad assured her.
âAnd Iâm going to write down some ways of controlling my temper better, and work on them every day.â
Dad hugged her. âGood for you. If you do all those things, the Lord will forgive you and the Holy Ghost will be your Companion. Heavenly Father has promised it.â
âBut Iâm not clean anymore, and I wanted to stay clean forever. Can I get baptized again?â
âWell, no, but you donât need to. The Savior knew that weâd make mistakes even after baptism, so He provided a way for us to be clean again. It always starts with sincere repentance, followed by something we do each Sunday in the chapel. Do you know what it is?â
Alison thought for a moment. âThe sacrament?â
Dad nodded. âRight. When weâre baptized, we make covenants, or mutual promises, with God. One promise is that weâll keep His commandments. Each Sunday when we take the sacrament, we renew those covenants. If weâve repented of our sins, we become clean again.â
âJust as clean as when we were baptized?â
âJust as clean.â
The next day, Alison eagerly waited for the sacrament. She had followed the steps of repentance faithfully. When the sacrament came, Alison quietly put a piece of bread in her mouth. When the water came, she drank it reverently. A sweet peace filled her heart. Dad was right. She felt good again. Clean again.
Smiling, Alison reached up and touched her hair. This time it wasnât even damp. But that didnât matterâshe was clean.
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Summary: Alison is baptized by her father and feels clean and joyful. A couple of weeks later, she angrily pushes her younger brother after he tears her baptismal certificate, then feels remorse and seeks forgiveness. With her parents' guidance, she repents and looks forward to the sacrament. Partaking of the sacrament, she feels clean and at peace again.
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Do You Know Why I as a Christian Believe in Christ?
Summary: After work, the speaker sat by a woman on a bus from New York to New Jersey who noticed he believed in Christ. He thoughtfully explained why Jesus had to die, sharing the plan of salvation, the law of justice, and the doctrine of Christ. They felt the confirming witness of the Holy Ghost, and he invited her to share contact information to continue with missionaries, which she accepted.
One evening after work, years ago, I boarded my usual bus home to New Jersey from New York City. The woman I happened to sit next to noticed what I was writing on my computer and asked, âYou believe in ⌠Christ?â I said, âYes, I do!â As we talked, I learned she had just moved to the area from her beautiful Asian country to work in New Yorkâs highly competitive information technology sector.
Naturally, I asked her, âDo you know why I as a Christian believe in Jesus Christ?â She too responded normally and invited me to tell her. But as I went to speak, I had one of those moments where many thoughts flood your mind. This was the first time I would explain the âwhyâ of Christianity to someone very unfamiliar with it and highly intelligent. I couldnât simply say, âI follow Jesus Christ because He willingly suffered and died for my sins.â She might wonder, âDid Jesus have to die? Couldnât God simply forgive and cleanse us of our sins if we asked Him to?â
How would you have responded in a few minutes? How would you explain this to a friend? Children and youth: would you please ask your parents or a leader later on, âWhy did Jesus have to die?â And, brothers and sisters, I have a confession to make: despite all I thought I knew about Church doctrine, history, policy, and so on, the answer to this central question to our faith did not come so easily. That day I decided to focus more on what matters most to eternal life.
Well, I informed my new friend that we have a spirit in addition to a body and that God is the Father of our spirits. I told her we lived with our Heavenly Father before our births into this mortal world. Because He loves her and all His children, He made a plan for us to receive a body in the image of His glorified body, be part of a family, and return to His loving presence to enjoy eternal life with our families like He does with His. But, I said, we would face two main obstacles in this necessarily fallen world: (1) physical deathâthe separation of our bodies from our spirits. Of course, she knew we would all die. And (2) spiritual deathâour separation from God because our sins, mistakes, and flaws as mortals distance us from His holy presence. She related to this too.
I informed her that this was an effect of the law of justice. This eternal law demands that an eternal penalty be paid for every one of our sins, or violations of Godâs laws or truth, or we could never return to live in His holy presence. It would be unjust, and God âcannot deny justice.â She understood this but easily grasped that God is also merciful, loving, and eager to bring to pass our eternal life. I informed my friend that we would also have a cunning, powerful adversaryâthe source of evil and liesâopposing us. Therefore, someone with infinite godly power to overcome all such opposition and obstacles would need to save us.
I then shared with her the good newsâthe âgood tidings of great joy ⌠to all peopleââthat âGod so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.â I testified to my friend, and I witness to you, that Jesus Christ is that Savior, that He had to suffer, die, and rise againâHis infinite Atonementâto redeem all humanity from physical death and to give eternal life with God and our families to all who would follow Him. The Book of Mormon declares, âThus God ⌠gained the victory over death; giving the Son power to make intercession for the children of men ⌠; being filled with [mercy and] compassion ⌠; having broken the bands of death, taken upon himself their iniquity and their transgressions, having redeemed them, and satisfied the demands of justice.â
The steps God revealed we must take to follow Jesus and receive eternal life are called the doctrine of Christ. They include âfaith in Jesus Christ and His Atonement, repentance, baptism [into The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints], receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost, and enduring to the end.â I shared these steps with my friend, but here are some ways in which prophets and apostles have recently taught how the doctrine of Christ can bless all Godâs children.
That evening in New Jersey, sharing why we need Jesus Christ and His doctrine gave me a new sister and her a new brother. We felt the peaceful, confirming witness of the Holy Ghost. Naturally, I invited her to share her contact information and continue the conversation with our missionaries. She was happy to do so.
Naturally, I asked her, âDo you know why I as a Christian believe in Jesus Christ?â She too responded normally and invited me to tell her. But as I went to speak, I had one of those moments where many thoughts flood your mind. This was the first time I would explain the âwhyâ of Christianity to someone very unfamiliar with it and highly intelligent. I couldnât simply say, âI follow Jesus Christ because He willingly suffered and died for my sins.â She might wonder, âDid Jesus have to die? Couldnât God simply forgive and cleanse us of our sins if we asked Him to?â
How would you have responded in a few minutes? How would you explain this to a friend? Children and youth: would you please ask your parents or a leader later on, âWhy did Jesus have to die?â And, brothers and sisters, I have a confession to make: despite all I thought I knew about Church doctrine, history, policy, and so on, the answer to this central question to our faith did not come so easily. That day I decided to focus more on what matters most to eternal life.
Well, I informed my new friend that we have a spirit in addition to a body and that God is the Father of our spirits. I told her we lived with our Heavenly Father before our births into this mortal world. Because He loves her and all His children, He made a plan for us to receive a body in the image of His glorified body, be part of a family, and return to His loving presence to enjoy eternal life with our families like He does with His. But, I said, we would face two main obstacles in this necessarily fallen world: (1) physical deathâthe separation of our bodies from our spirits. Of course, she knew we would all die. And (2) spiritual deathâour separation from God because our sins, mistakes, and flaws as mortals distance us from His holy presence. She related to this too.
I informed her that this was an effect of the law of justice. This eternal law demands that an eternal penalty be paid for every one of our sins, or violations of Godâs laws or truth, or we could never return to live in His holy presence. It would be unjust, and God âcannot deny justice.â She understood this but easily grasped that God is also merciful, loving, and eager to bring to pass our eternal life. I informed my friend that we would also have a cunning, powerful adversaryâthe source of evil and liesâopposing us. Therefore, someone with infinite godly power to overcome all such opposition and obstacles would need to save us.
I then shared with her the good newsâthe âgood tidings of great joy ⌠to all peopleââthat âGod so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.â I testified to my friend, and I witness to you, that Jesus Christ is that Savior, that He had to suffer, die, and rise againâHis infinite Atonementâto redeem all humanity from physical death and to give eternal life with God and our families to all who would follow Him. The Book of Mormon declares, âThus God ⌠gained the victory over death; giving the Son power to make intercession for the children of men ⌠; being filled with [mercy and] compassion ⌠; having broken the bands of death, taken upon himself their iniquity and their transgressions, having redeemed them, and satisfied the demands of justice.â
The steps God revealed we must take to follow Jesus and receive eternal life are called the doctrine of Christ. They include âfaith in Jesus Christ and His Atonement, repentance, baptism [into The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints], receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost, and enduring to the end.â I shared these steps with my friend, but here are some ways in which prophets and apostles have recently taught how the doctrine of Christ can bless all Godâs children.
That evening in New Jersey, sharing why we need Jesus Christ and His doctrine gave me a new sister and her a new brother. We felt the peaceful, confirming witness of the Holy Ghost. Naturally, I invited her to share her contact information and continue the conversation with our missionaries. She was happy to do so.
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âI Knew Sheâd Be Here Todayâ
Summary: A father and his home teaching partner struggled to help Sister Lambert return to church. The father brought his newly baptized son, Trent, to give a message during a visit. Later, Trent fasted specifically that Sister Lambert would come back to church, and she attended the next day. The father learned from his son's simple, faithful fasting.
While living in Puerto Rico several years ago, I had a home teaching partner who, like me, was a lifelong Church member and a returned missionary. Both of us were confident of our gospel knowledge. But we were taught an invaluable gospel lesson by an eight-year-old boy who did no more than exercise the simple faith we are all counseled to live by.
Bill and I had been assigned to home teach Sister Lambert. She was an older lady, one of the first members in Puerto Rico. But when her husband left her, she began to devote more time to her small business of selling plants and seeds. We saw her less and less often at church meetings and activities.
It also became more difficult to find her at home. However, Bill and I managed to visit her regularly. We showed up each month with specially prepared lessons and did our best to reactivate her, but nothing seemed to work. She said she had a strong testimony of the gospel, and yet she would not attend church.
One Sunday I called to see if Sister Lambert had arrived home early. When she answered the phone, I knew that Bill and I should visit her right away. But as luck would have it, Bill was away on a high council assignment.
My mind raced with ideas, but I dismissed them until the right one presented itself: I got Trent, my recently baptized son, to accompany me.
âThrow on a tie, Trent,â I directed. âYou and I are going home teaching.â
He was surprised, but proudly grabbed his tie, looped it around his neck, and away we went.
On the way to Sister Lambertâs home, I felt inspired to have Trent give the message. So as I drove, I discussed the topic with him. By the time we arrived, he was ready.
I can still remember Sister Lambertâs smile when she greeted young Trent. After we had chatted awhile, Trent gave a beautiful lesson. We left feeling good about our visit.
A few weeks passed, and on the evening before fast Sunday, I reminded Trent of the goal heâd recently set to fast on fast days. I recounted the blessings that fasting brings and explained that a fast should have a purpose. âIf it is a righteous desire,â I told him, âthe Lord will help you make it a reality.â
âI know, Dad,â he replied. âI already have a special purpose for my fast.â
When we entered the chapel the next afternoon, I could hardly believe my eyes. She hadnât come to church in a long time, but there she wasâSister Lambert.
It took us awhile, I thought, but Bill and I had finally gotten through to her. She had heard our messages and felt our concern after all.
Then, to let Trent, too, feel the thrill of the experience, I leaned over and whispered, âArenât you happy and amazed that Sister Lambert is here today? You helped, you know.â
His answer left me speechless. âIâm very happy, Dad,â he said, âbut Iâm not surprised. I fasted so that she would come back to church. I knew sheâd be here today.â
I was grateful for the chance to see her lifeâand mineâtouched by a childâs faith in fasting.
Bill and I had been assigned to home teach Sister Lambert. She was an older lady, one of the first members in Puerto Rico. But when her husband left her, she began to devote more time to her small business of selling plants and seeds. We saw her less and less often at church meetings and activities.
It also became more difficult to find her at home. However, Bill and I managed to visit her regularly. We showed up each month with specially prepared lessons and did our best to reactivate her, but nothing seemed to work. She said she had a strong testimony of the gospel, and yet she would not attend church.
One Sunday I called to see if Sister Lambert had arrived home early. When she answered the phone, I knew that Bill and I should visit her right away. But as luck would have it, Bill was away on a high council assignment.
My mind raced with ideas, but I dismissed them until the right one presented itself: I got Trent, my recently baptized son, to accompany me.
âThrow on a tie, Trent,â I directed. âYou and I are going home teaching.â
He was surprised, but proudly grabbed his tie, looped it around his neck, and away we went.
On the way to Sister Lambertâs home, I felt inspired to have Trent give the message. So as I drove, I discussed the topic with him. By the time we arrived, he was ready.
I can still remember Sister Lambertâs smile when she greeted young Trent. After we had chatted awhile, Trent gave a beautiful lesson. We left feeling good about our visit.
A few weeks passed, and on the evening before fast Sunday, I reminded Trent of the goal heâd recently set to fast on fast days. I recounted the blessings that fasting brings and explained that a fast should have a purpose. âIf it is a righteous desire,â I told him, âthe Lord will help you make it a reality.â
âI know, Dad,â he replied. âI already have a special purpose for my fast.â
When we entered the chapel the next afternoon, I could hardly believe my eyes. She hadnât come to church in a long time, but there she wasâSister Lambert.
It took us awhile, I thought, but Bill and I had finally gotten through to her. She had heard our messages and felt our concern after all.
Then, to let Trent, too, feel the thrill of the experience, I leaned over and whispered, âArenât you happy and amazed that Sister Lambert is here today? You helped, you know.â
His answer left me speechless. âIâm very happy, Dad,â he said, âbut Iâm not surprised. I fasted so that she would come back to church. I knew sheâd be here today.â
I was grateful for the chance to see her lifeâand mineâtouched by a childâs faith in fasting.
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Summary: Thirteen-year-old Mike Smith organized a substitute Santa program for five needy families as his Eagle Scout project. He provided over 200 gifts for 19 children and their parents. Outside of service, he excels in power tumbling at the state and national level.
Ho ho ho! Mike Smith, 13, of Roy, Utah, doesnât look like Santa Claus, yet he played the role quite well when he organized a substitute Santa program for five needy families in his area. As part of his Eagle Scout service project, he provided more than 200 gifts for 19 children and their parents.
When this energetic deacon isnât doing the service thing, you can probably find him in the gym doing power tumbling. Heâs one of the best power tumblers in the state and has competed on the national level.
When this energetic deacon isnât doing the service thing, you can probably find him in the gym doing power tumbling. Heâs one of the best power tumblers in the state and has competed on the national level.
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Serenity, Courage, and Wisdom
Summary: The speaker knows a man who does not believe in God and insists on controlling every aspect of his life. After an accident, he despaired because others now controlled his fate and later credited only himself for recovery, dismissing doctors and his wife's prayers. He could not accept the reality of his accident or his lack of control.
We often find it difficult to accept things that we cannot change. I know a man who does not believe in God. He continually stresses that he is only happy, at least as most people understand happiness, when he himself has control of every situation and has a firm grip on the reins of his life. Several years ago he had an accident. At that time, he almost despaired at the fact that others held the reins and had the power to decide what would happen to him. He kept asking himself the question, âHow could I have had so little control over my life that such an accident could happen to me?â When he started to feel better, he attributed his recovery to himself alone, not to the doctors, and definitely not to the prayers of his faithful wife. He simply could not accept the reality of his accident.
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The Great Plan of Happiness
Summary: As a deacon, the speaker went fishing with his father, who explained how to set the hook when a fish bites. When the pole moved, he yanked hard and launched the trout onto the bank with the hook firmly set. He observed that a fish out of water is miserable and that it died because it was deceived by bait, illustrating the dangers of tempting lures.
When I was a deacon like many of you young men, my father and I hiked to a mountain stream to fish for trout. As my dad attached the bait to the hook on the end of my fishing line, he told me that I would need to set the hook in the fishâs mouth when it tried to take the bait, or it would get away. I did not understand what it meant to set the hook, so he explained to me that the hook needed to be embedded in the fishâs mouth when it struck at the bait so it could not shake the hook loose and that the hook would be set if I quickly pulled back on the pole when the fish tried to take the bait. Now, I really wanted to catch a fish, so I stood on the bank of that mountain stream like a coiled spring, every muscle taut, waiting for the telltale movement at the end of my pole which would signal that the fish was trying to take the bait. After a few minutes I noticed movement at the end of my pole, and in that instant I jerked back on the pole with all of my strength, expecting a big fight with the fish. To my surprise, I watched as that poor troutâwith the hook now set very firmly in his mouthâwas launched from the water into the air over my head and landed on the ground flopping behind me.
I have two observations from that experience: First, a fish out of water is miserable. Although its gills, fins, and tail work very well in water, they are all but useless on land. Second, the unfortunate fish I caught that day perished because it was deceived into treating something very dangerousâeven fatalâas worthwhile or at least as sufficiently intriguing to warrant a closer look and perhaps a nibble.
I have two observations from that experience: First, a fish out of water is miserable. Although its gills, fins, and tail work very well in water, they are all but useless on land. Second, the unfortunate fish I caught that day perished because it was deceived into treating something very dangerousâeven fatalâas worthwhile or at least as sufficiently intriguing to warrant a closer look and perhaps a nibble.
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White Shirts and Dark Trousers Lead to Shoemaking!
Summary: The narrator struggled to remember missionary lessons and found reading difficult. Missionaries gave him a Book of Mormon and taught the plan of salvation, and he sought help from friends to memorize it. Through consistent scripture reading, his reading and expression improved, helping him become an average student.
I credit the Church for helping me become a better reader and student. When the elders read things to me, we would discuss them but by the next week, I could not remember what we had talked about. Reading was hard, but they gave me a copy of the Book of Mormon and taught me the plan of salvation. I sought for help from friends to memorize the plan of salvation, and the missionaries were excited about this. My reading and expression got better through the scripture reading, that was the beginning of my path to becoming an average student.
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He Tied My Shoe
Summary: At a multi-day Church event, a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles sat next to the author and confided he was feeling unwell. After twice being encouraged to rest, the Apostle looked him in the eye and asked, "Joe, are you happy?" The unexpected, sincere concern from a sick Apostle deeply touched the author and filled him with peace and happiness.
A while ago, I had the opportunity to attend an event with a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. This particular event extended over a couple days and was attended by the Young Men and Primary General Presidencies. When the closing session was about to begin, a seat was being reserved for the Apostle towards the front of the room.
I was sitting back one row and saving a seat on the aisle for the other counselor in the Young Men General Presidency. To my surprise, the Apostle appeared and asked if he could sit next to me.
After a few moments, he grabbed my right wrist and said, âJoe, I am not sure that I am going to make it through this meeting. I am not feeling well.â I encouraged him to go back to his office, assuring him that we could cover the meeting and inform him of any happenings. However, he remained.
About a minute later, he grabbed my wrist again and said something like, âJoe, I do not know what is happening. I felt fine yesterday.â Again, I encouraged him to go back to his office and lie down. I knew that he had an upcoming international assignment and would need the rest.
Then, he grabbed my wrist again, looked me right in the eye, and asked, âJoe, are you happy?â I will never forget the rush of emotions. I felt love, compassion, appreciation, and peace all at once. It was just a question, but at that moment, I thought, âAre you kidding me? Here he is, an Apostle of the Lord, struggling with one of those bugs we all get, and he is worried about my happiness!â
I responded with openness and honesty right from my heart: âYes, I am happy!â
To which he replied, âGood!â That brought another flood of emotions.
These few words were a small act of kindness that helped me feel both peace and happiness. I know that as we serve and are served, we can both experience and share happiness. Heavenly Fatherâs plan is called the plan of happiness (see Alma 42:8).
I was sitting back one row and saving a seat on the aisle for the other counselor in the Young Men General Presidency. To my surprise, the Apostle appeared and asked if he could sit next to me.
After a few moments, he grabbed my right wrist and said, âJoe, I am not sure that I am going to make it through this meeting. I am not feeling well.â I encouraged him to go back to his office, assuring him that we could cover the meeting and inform him of any happenings. However, he remained.
About a minute later, he grabbed my wrist again and said something like, âJoe, I do not know what is happening. I felt fine yesterday.â Again, I encouraged him to go back to his office and lie down. I knew that he had an upcoming international assignment and would need the rest.
Then, he grabbed my wrist again, looked me right in the eye, and asked, âJoe, are you happy?â I will never forget the rush of emotions. I felt love, compassion, appreciation, and peace all at once. It was just a question, but at that moment, I thought, âAre you kidding me? Here he is, an Apostle of the Lord, struggling with one of those bugs we all get, and he is worried about my happiness!â
I responded with openness and honesty right from my heart: âYes, I am happy!â
To which he replied, âGood!â That brought another flood of emotions.
These few words were a small act of kindness that helped me feel both peace and happiness. I know that as we serve and are served, we can both experience and share happiness. Heavenly Fatherâs plan is called the plan of happiness (see Alma 42:8).
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âWe Thank Thee, O God, for a Prophetâ
Summary: A young man, unable to find a church teaching modern prophets, embraced Judaism. At the 1964 New York Worldâs Fair he visited the Mormon Pavilion, learned of ancient and modern prophets, and felt the Spirit. He was baptized, served a mission in South America, and later helped bring his family and others into the Church.
I think today of a young man I know who, as a Christian, trying one church after another, could find none that taught of a prophet. Only among the Jewish people did he find reverent mention of the prophets, and so he accepted and embraced the Jewish religion.
In the summer of 1964, he went to New York City and visited the Worldâs Fair. He entered the Mormon Pavilion and saw pictures of the prophets of the Old Testament. His heart warmed within him as he heard the missionaries speak with appreciation of these great men of ages past through whom Jehovah revealed his will. Then, as he progressed through the pavilion, he heard of modern prophetsâof Joseph Smith who was called a prophet, a seer, and a revelator. Something stirred within him. His spirit responded to the testimony of the missionaries. He was baptized. He served a mission in South America where he had many converts. He returned home and has since become the means of bringing his family and others into the Church. It is heartwarming to hear him testify that Joseph Smith was indeed a prophet of God and that all who have succeeded him have been legal successors in this high and sacred calling.
In the summer of 1964, he went to New York City and visited the Worldâs Fair. He entered the Mormon Pavilion and saw pictures of the prophets of the Old Testament. His heart warmed within him as he heard the missionaries speak with appreciation of these great men of ages past through whom Jehovah revealed his will. Then, as he progressed through the pavilion, he heard of modern prophetsâof Joseph Smith who was called a prophet, a seer, and a revelator. Something stirred within him. His spirit responded to the testimony of the missionaries. He was baptized. He served a mission in South America where he had many converts. He returned home and has since become the means of bringing his family and others into the Church. It is heartwarming to hear him testify that Joseph Smith was indeed a prophet of God and that all who have succeeded him have been legal successors in this high and sacred calling.
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Baptism
Conversion
Family
Holy Ghost
Joseph Smith
Missionary Work
Testimony
The Restoration
The Healing Ointment of Forgiveness
Summary: The speaker got a wooden sliver in a finger while mending a fence and thought it had been removed, but it remained and caused pain for years. Eventually, they repeatedly applied ointment and a bandage. One day the sliver emerged on its own, and the finger quickly healed with no lasting evidence of injury.
Many years ago, while I was mending a fence, a small sliver of wood entered into my finger. I made a meager attempt to remove the sliver and thought I had done so, but apparently I had not. As time went on, skin grew over the sliver, creating a lump on my finger. It was annoying and sometimes painful.
Years later I decided to finally take action. All I did was simply apply ointment to the lump and cover it with a bandage. I repeated this process frequently. You cannot imagine my surprise when one day, as I removed the bandage, the sliver had emerged from my finger.
The ointment had softened the skin and created an escape for the very thing that had caused pain for so many years. Once the sliver was removed, the finger quickly healed, and to this day, there remains no evidence of any injury.
Years later I decided to finally take action. All I did was simply apply ointment to the lump and cover it with a bandage. I repeated this process frequently. You cannot imagine my surprise when one day, as I removed the bandage, the sliver had emerged from my finger.
The ointment had softened the skin and created an escape for the very thing that had caused pain for so many years. Once the sliver was removed, the finger quickly healed, and to this day, there remains no evidence of any injury.
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Health
Patience
A Life for Good: The Influence of a Righteous Mother
Summary: Leonie initially had little interest in her husbandâs church, but later softened and took lessons from sister missionaries in Rockhampton. In 1968 she chose to be baptized on her husbandâs birthday as a gift, despite a weak testimony. She later called it one of her best decisions and remained a diligent member for over 40 years.
When Leonieâs husband joined The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in 1965, she had little interest in the faith. Years later, her view of her husbandâs church began to soften, and Leonie accepted lessons from faithful sister missionaries in Rockhampton, Queensland.
In 1968, although she still didnât have much of a testimony, she decided to be baptised on her husbandâs birthday, as a gift to him. It was probably not a great reason to take up a new religion, but Leonie said that joining the Church was one of the best decisions she ever made.
When she passed away in 2012, Leonie had been a diligent member of the Church for over 40 years. Her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren share precious memories of Leonie as they continue to be blessed by her legacy of faith.
In 1968, although she still didnât have much of a testimony, she decided to be baptised on her husbandâs birthday, as a gift to him. It was probably not a great reason to take up a new religion, but Leonie said that joining the Church was one of the best decisions she ever made.
When she passed away in 2012, Leonie had been a diligent member of the Church for over 40 years. Her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren share precious memories of Leonie as they continue to be blessed by her legacy of faith.
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Baptism
Conversion
Death
Endure to the End
Faith
Family
Missionary Work
Testimony
They Didnât Give Up
Summary: The speaker describes how humble missionaries persistently visited him despite his pride and initial disdain. Over time he felt a unique authority and love through them, supported by a mission president who did not pull the missionaries from him. He accepted the gospel, which completely changed his life and deepened his love for his family.
Iâve had many blessings in my lifeâspiritual blessings. I had good parents, a good education, material blessings like a good home. I always had enough to eat, always a bed to sleep in, and many, many other blessings. I had the opportunity of working in business capacities, and in this capacity, of seeing the world, seeing many people. I have had many opportunities, but the greatest blessing that has come to me came through humble missionaries of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
I want to express gratitude for all that I have to these young men that came to our homeânot only that they came, but that they had love enough not to give up. I was a very hard case. I had thought that through my education, and through my background, and my history, and my family that I would be superior. I felt pity for the missionaries. I said, âWell, this fine young man, with such a poor message!â They didnât give up. They came again and again and again. And I felt an authority radiating through them that was stronger and more than all the knowledge that I had in my previous lifeâthe authority of the true love of Christ. I want to give thanks to this generation of missionaries who did not give up and to the mission president who had concern enough not to withdraw the missionaries from me. It was Elder Theodore M. Burton. I will never forget that.
I will tell you that Iâm deeply convinced that this is in my life the most important blessing I have ever received. It changed my life totally. I began to realize that a man can know nothing important in this world unless he has knowledge of the gospel of Jesus Christ restored by his prophet, Joseph Smith, and follow-through by a living prophet, Spencer W. Kimball. Without this message I would not have a family like I have now. I would not have the love for my lovely wife that I have now, and I would not be able to be so proud of my children.
I want to express gratitude for all that I have to these young men that came to our homeânot only that they came, but that they had love enough not to give up. I was a very hard case. I had thought that through my education, and through my background, and my history, and my family that I would be superior. I felt pity for the missionaries. I said, âWell, this fine young man, with such a poor message!â They didnât give up. They came again and again and again. And I felt an authority radiating through them that was stronger and more than all the knowledge that I had in my previous lifeâthe authority of the true love of Christ. I want to give thanks to this generation of missionaries who did not give up and to the mission president who had concern enough not to withdraw the missionaries from me. It was Elder Theodore M. Burton. I will never forget that.
I will tell you that Iâm deeply convinced that this is in my life the most important blessing I have ever received. It changed my life totally. I began to realize that a man can know nothing important in this world unless he has knowledge of the gospel of Jesus Christ restored by his prophet, Joseph Smith, and follow-through by a living prophet, Spencer W. Kimball. Without this message I would not have a family like I have now. I would not have the love for my lovely wife that I have now, and I would not be able to be so proud of my children.
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Conversion
Family
Gratitude
Humility
Joseph Smith
Judging Others
Love
Marriage
Missionary Work
Testimony
The Restoration
The Plot Thickens
Summary: Though she played a character who made poor choices, Natalie Green caught the missionary spirit while filming a conversion-themed segment. When a theater friend asked about the Church, she drew on what she learned from the script. They both became Church members and continued performing together.
Youâll see the most striking difference between character and actor when you look at Natalie Green. She plays Karen Parker, who makes progressively worse choices through the entire series. In real life, Natalie is a lively senior at Box Elder High School, where sheâs an avid participant in the drama program. Away from school, she loves outdoor activities, including fishing, camping and rodeo. Sheâs a far cry from the questioning, sulking Karen.
Yet even with such a negative character, Natalie learned and grew from her part. She remembered catching the missionary spirit from the segment where the cast works to convert a nonmember friend. When one of Natalieâs theater acquaintances began asking questions about the Church, Natalie drew from the knowledge and spirit the script had given her. Soon Natalie and her friend were sharing membership in the Church as well as a place on the local stage.
Yet even with such a negative character, Natalie learned and grew from her part. She remembered catching the missionary spirit from the segment where the cast works to convert a nonmember friend. When one of Natalieâs theater acquaintances began asking questions about the Church, Natalie drew from the knowledge and spirit the script had given her. Soon Natalie and her friend were sharing membership in the Church as well as a place on the local stage.
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Conversion
Friendship
Missionary Work
Movies and Television
Young Women
Happiness Times Two
Summary: Lou recalls falling into the water four times before he learned to swim. Each time, his father jumped inâshoes and allâto rescue him, proving his love through action. Lou connects this love with the reassurance of their temple sealing.
And in all they do, there is loveâlove both expressed and self-evident. âI love my family a lot,â Lou says, âand I know they love me too. Theyâve shown me many times that they do. My daddy proved it four times in particular. Those were the four times when I fell into the water before I knew how to swim. Daddy came in after me every timeâshoes and all.
âBeing sealed in the temple makes me feel like I have an insurance policy on our love. If anything happens to one of us, Iâll still have my family.â
âBeing sealed in the temple makes me feel like I have an insurance policy on our love. If anything happens to one of us, Iâll still have my family.â
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Children
Family
Love
Sealing
Temples
Safe Harbour
Summary: With six children, Alby and Lisa Ryer hadnât attended the temple together in 12 years. After the youth organized temple day care, they now go together and return home with happy children sharing their own temple experiences. The program transformed an exhausting routine into a joyful family experience.
The Ryer family of the East Coast Bays Ward also appreciates the temple day care. With six children, Alby and Lisa Ryer have not been able to attend the temple together in 12 years. Thanks to the hard work of the youth in their stake, things have changed.
âWe used to try to take the children to the temple with us and take turns attending the sessions, but everybody would be tired and grumpy afterward. Now, we go to the temple together, and while we travel home, the kids are all nice and happy and telling us about their temple experiences,â says Sister Ryer.
âWe used to try to take the children to the temple with us and take turns attending the sessions, but everybody would be tired and grumpy afterward. Now, we go to the temple together, and while we travel home, the kids are all nice and happy and telling us about their temple experiences,â says Sister Ryer.
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Children
Family
Happiness
Parenting
Service
Temples
âFeed My Sheepâ
Summary: After learning that showing love for Jesus means helping others, Olivia decides to make a get-well card for Sister Jacobs. Her family delivers a pie and the card during family home evening. Sister Jacobs shares that she is scared about a hospital operation, and Olivia's card and smile help her feel better. Olivia feels happy for helping to 'feed His sheep.'
âJesus told Peter to feed His sheep. Thatâs how Peter could show Jesus he loved Him.â
âMom, did Jesus have a herd of sheep?â
âNo, sweetie. Jesus is sometimes called the Good Shepherd, and we are like His sheep. Jesus was teaching Peter that if we want to show Jesus we love Him, we should help others.â
âIs that why we are going to deliver the pie to Sister Jacobs after family home evening?â
âYes, it is. But it would be nice for you to think of something you can do to show Sister Jacobs you love her.â
Olivia thought about what she could do. She remembered that Mom and Grandma really like the pictures she draws.
âI know! I can make a card for Sister Jacobs and draw a picture on it!â
Olivia drew a beautiful rainbow. On the inside of the card she wrote, âGet well soon! Love, Olivia.â
When Olivia and her family got to Sister Jacobsâs house, Mom asked Sister Jacobs how she was feeling. Sister Jacobs started to cry.
âI just found out I have to go to the hospital to have an operation tomorrow. Iâm a little scared.â
Mom handed Sister Jacobs the pie. Then Olivia gave her the card she had made.
âThank you, Olivia. This beautiful card and your sweet smile make me feel better.â
Olivia felt like somebody was hugging her heart. She was happy that she could help Jesus feed His sheep.
âMom, did Jesus have a herd of sheep?â
âNo, sweetie. Jesus is sometimes called the Good Shepherd, and we are like His sheep. Jesus was teaching Peter that if we want to show Jesus we love Him, we should help others.â
âIs that why we are going to deliver the pie to Sister Jacobs after family home evening?â
âYes, it is. But it would be nice for you to think of something you can do to show Sister Jacobs you love her.â
Olivia thought about what she could do. She remembered that Mom and Grandma really like the pictures she draws.
âI know! I can make a card for Sister Jacobs and draw a picture on it!â
Olivia drew a beautiful rainbow. On the inside of the card she wrote, âGet well soon! Love, Olivia.â
When Olivia and her family got to Sister Jacobsâs house, Mom asked Sister Jacobs how she was feeling. Sister Jacobs started to cry.
âI just found out I have to go to the hospital to have an operation tomorrow. Iâm a little scared.â
Mom handed Sister Jacobs the pie. Then Olivia gave her the card she had made.
âThank you, Olivia. This beautiful card and your sweet smile make me feel better.â
Olivia felt like somebody was hugging her heart. She was happy that she could help Jesus feed His sheep.
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Charity
Children
Family
Family Home Evening
Health
Jesus Christ
Love
Ministering
Service
Teaching the Gospel
The Changes We Doâand DonâtâWant to Face
Summary: The speaker describes how a doctorâs warning led him to start running and taught him the importance of keeping a long-term goal in mind. He compares marathon training to gospel progress, explaining that short-term adjustments, repentance, and persistence help us reach long-term goals.
He then shares how he and his family made a major career and country change so he could better fulfill his responsibilities, and how forced changes like his brotherâs death can still build faith. The conclusion is that change is part of Heavenly Fatherâs plan to help us become like Jesus Christ and find greater happiness.
About 15 years ago my doctor told me that I had to make a lifestyle change: âStart being more active, or you wonât live very long,â he told me. I took his warning seriously. I decided to start running.
To make this lifestyle change successful, I needed to keep the long view in mind because if I only had the short view, I wasnât going to get very far.
My long view is a recurring goal to run one marathon each year. This goal helps me get up and run every day because I know that on one certain day next year, Iâm going to have to run 26.2 miles (42.2 kilometers). I stay disciplined to train and meet my short-term goals each week because I know theyâre getting me ready for race day.
Sometimes there are things that try and stop me, like the weather. Maybe itâs too hot or too cold outside, or maybe itâs raining. So I have to run inside on the treadmill, even though I significantly prefer to run on the street. Injuries also try and stop me. Maybe I didnât stretch properly before my run, so I tweak my hamstring. Or maybe itâs not necessarily my fault that I got injured. But no matter how it happens, I canât give up because I know Iâm going to be running a marathon next year. So I make alterations to my training. I recover and get back out running.
Running has taught me a lot about the gospel. We all have a long-term gospel goal to endure to the end and achieve exaltation. But we set short-term goals like taking the sacrament at church each week that help us get there. We get spiritually injured when we make mistakes. But we donât give up. We repent, and we get back out there. The only way we can achieve our long-term goal is by making little changes all along the way to help us stay on track.
For over a decade, I worked as the senior vice president for Walmart in Brazil. My family was financially stable, I enjoyed my job, and life was good. But the job was demanding. It required me to travel a lot, which was interfering with our family and with my Church service. After 11 or 12 years, it was becoming too much.
My wife and I counseled together and proposed that I leave this job. We talked it through with our children, and together we said, âItâs time for us to make a change.â
When I quit, I plummeted from senior vice president to unemployed. It took nearly a year to find and accept another job. When I finally took a position with a small real estate company in the United States, I felt good about it. This job would let me dedicate more time to the things that really mattered.
But other people told me I was crazy. Why leave a stable job for a real estate company no one has even heard of? And move halfway across the world to the United States?
They were right that this was a huge change we were choosing to make. But they were wrong that it was a poor choice.
It took a lot of faith for us to switch jobs and move to a new country, but the Lord took care of us. And I had more time to fulfill my responsibilities as a husband, father, and ward member.
I believe change is mandatory for achieving our potential. We will never become what Heavenly Father wants us to become if weâre stationary in our lives. And we become like Him as we make deliberate changes in faith.
Another big change that happened in my family was when my youngest brother died in a car accident. We didnât choose or want that for him or for us, and itâs still painful, even after 10 years. Forced change is never easy.
But the changes we donât choose can also become opportunities to build our faith in Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. Itâs easy to stay faithful when things are going our way. But can we keep the faith and keep going when the changes donât fall in our favor?
Divorce, infertility, unemployment, illness, and other painful experiences like these are not experiences we hope and plan for. They can make us feel like life is happening outside of our control. But thatâs not entirely trueâamid your unsolicited circumstances, there are still things you can control. You can set small goals, even just the goal to get through one more day. You can do it! You can bear all things with patience! (see Alma 38:4).
Joseph of Egypt is a perfect example of this. His life was full of forced changeâhe lost his freedom twice! (Once when his brothers sold him into slavery, and again when Potiphar put him in jail.) But Joseph didnât break down because his circumstances were undesirable or unplanned for. He adapted and grew through his experiences. And in the end, he saved his family and an entire nation. The Lord was molding him and preparing him the entire way (see Genesis 37â46).
Itâs hard to be patient when forced change upsets your plan, but remember that the long-term goal is to achieve exaltation. Heavenly Father knows what we need to get there: âYe are not able to abide the presence of God now, neither the ministering of angels; wherefore, continue in patience until ye are perfectedâ (Doctrine and Covenants 67:13).
Heavenly Father loves you and wants you to succeed. He wants you to be happy. And Heâs laid out a plan for you to achieve both of those things.
When I see mortality for what itâs meant to beâtrainingâthe changes in my life become more purposeful. Change helps me achieve my long-term goal, which is to become like my Savior Jesus Christ. I know Heavenly Father shares the same long-term goal for me and for all His children. Just like my doctor knew I needed to change something for the sake of my health, God clearly sees the changes we need to make to become like Him. He supports us and supplies resources like the scriptures, a local congregation, and a living prophet to help us in our quest to change for the better.
On the hardest daysâthose days when itâs hard to get out of bed and put on your running shoes, when you know you need to repent, or when you are struggling with some other unexpected changeâwe remind ourselves of Godâs infinite love and of His desire for us to be even happier than we are right now.
That reminder gives us the strength to make the changes the Spirit prompts us to make. And it helps us trust that the unexpected changes weâre forced to make are part of His plan for our greatest happiness.
To make this lifestyle change successful, I needed to keep the long view in mind because if I only had the short view, I wasnât going to get very far.
My long view is a recurring goal to run one marathon each year. This goal helps me get up and run every day because I know that on one certain day next year, Iâm going to have to run 26.2 miles (42.2 kilometers). I stay disciplined to train and meet my short-term goals each week because I know theyâre getting me ready for race day.
Sometimes there are things that try and stop me, like the weather. Maybe itâs too hot or too cold outside, or maybe itâs raining. So I have to run inside on the treadmill, even though I significantly prefer to run on the street. Injuries also try and stop me. Maybe I didnât stretch properly before my run, so I tweak my hamstring. Or maybe itâs not necessarily my fault that I got injured. But no matter how it happens, I canât give up because I know Iâm going to be running a marathon next year. So I make alterations to my training. I recover and get back out running.
Running has taught me a lot about the gospel. We all have a long-term gospel goal to endure to the end and achieve exaltation. But we set short-term goals like taking the sacrament at church each week that help us get there. We get spiritually injured when we make mistakes. But we donât give up. We repent, and we get back out there. The only way we can achieve our long-term goal is by making little changes all along the way to help us stay on track.
For over a decade, I worked as the senior vice president for Walmart in Brazil. My family was financially stable, I enjoyed my job, and life was good. But the job was demanding. It required me to travel a lot, which was interfering with our family and with my Church service. After 11 or 12 years, it was becoming too much.
My wife and I counseled together and proposed that I leave this job. We talked it through with our children, and together we said, âItâs time for us to make a change.â
When I quit, I plummeted from senior vice president to unemployed. It took nearly a year to find and accept another job. When I finally took a position with a small real estate company in the United States, I felt good about it. This job would let me dedicate more time to the things that really mattered.
But other people told me I was crazy. Why leave a stable job for a real estate company no one has even heard of? And move halfway across the world to the United States?
They were right that this was a huge change we were choosing to make. But they were wrong that it was a poor choice.
It took a lot of faith for us to switch jobs and move to a new country, but the Lord took care of us. And I had more time to fulfill my responsibilities as a husband, father, and ward member.
I believe change is mandatory for achieving our potential. We will never become what Heavenly Father wants us to become if weâre stationary in our lives. And we become like Him as we make deliberate changes in faith.
Another big change that happened in my family was when my youngest brother died in a car accident. We didnât choose or want that for him or for us, and itâs still painful, even after 10 years. Forced change is never easy.
But the changes we donât choose can also become opportunities to build our faith in Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. Itâs easy to stay faithful when things are going our way. But can we keep the faith and keep going when the changes donât fall in our favor?
Divorce, infertility, unemployment, illness, and other painful experiences like these are not experiences we hope and plan for. They can make us feel like life is happening outside of our control. But thatâs not entirely trueâamid your unsolicited circumstances, there are still things you can control. You can set small goals, even just the goal to get through one more day. You can do it! You can bear all things with patience! (see Alma 38:4).
Joseph of Egypt is a perfect example of this. His life was full of forced changeâhe lost his freedom twice! (Once when his brothers sold him into slavery, and again when Potiphar put him in jail.) But Joseph didnât break down because his circumstances were undesirable or unplanned for. He adapted and grew through his experiences. And in the end, he saved his family and an entire nation. The Lord was molding him and preparing him the entire way (see Genesis 37â46).
Itâs hard to be patient when forced change upsets your plan, but remember that the long-term goal is to achieve exaltation. Heavenly Father knows what we need to get there: âYe are not able to abide the presence of God now, neither the ministering of angels; wherefore, continue in patience until ye are perfectedâ (Doctrine and Covenants 67:13).
Heavenly Father loves you and wants you to succeed. He wants you to be happy. And Heâs laid out a plan for you to achieve both of those things.
When I see mortality for what itâs meant to beâtrainingâthe changes in my life become more purposeful. Change helps me achieve my long-term goal, which is to become like my Savior Jesus Christ. I know Heavenly Father shares the same long-term goal for me and for all His children. Just like my doctor knew I needed to change something for the sake of my health, God clearly sees the changes we need to make to become like Him. He supports us and supplies resources like the scriptures, a local congregation, and a living prophet to help us in our quest to change for the better.
On the hardest daysâthose days when itâs hard to get out of bed and put on your running shoes, when you know you need to repent, or when you are struggling with some other unexpected changeâwe remind ourselves of Godâs infinite love and of His desire for us to be even happier than we are right now.
That reminder gives us the strength to make the changes the Spirit prompts us to make. And it helps us trust that the unexpected changes weâre forced to make are part of His plan for our greatest happiness.
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Adversity
Health
Patience
Self-Reliance
I Love to See the Temple
Summary: Some original brick on the tabernacle needed replacement to match additions during the temple restoration. A nonmember with a pioneer home of the same brick donated it, and youth from surrounding stakes dismantled the house and cleaned the bricks over two years. Their service brought joy as they contributed to the templeâs restoration.
Restoration of the Vernal Temple went carefully, brick by brick. However, some of the native brick was damaged and needed to be replaced. Whatâs more, additions to the building itself needed to match. A long-time Vernal resident had a pioneer home built of the same brick as the tabernacle. Though not a member of the Church himself, he graciously agreed to donate it to the temple. So two years before the temple was completed, youth groups from all the wards in the four stakes surrounding Vernal spent service time dismantling the house and cleaning the brick. Each small effort toward the restoration gave joy and satisfaction to those who helped.
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Happiness
Kindness
Service
Temples
Unity
A Question of Honor
Summary: Trevor stands up Michelle for a girls' choice dance, then wrestles with guilt as his bishop father gently counsels him about promises and the impact on Michelle and her family. Late that night, Trevor musters the courage to visit the Stewarts' home, apologizes sincerely, and asks for a chance to make it right with a future date. He returns home feeling relieved, and his father expresses pride in his courage.
Trevor Sims turned the volume up on the radio as he turned down Cherry Drive and accelerated for home. Now that Brad was gone and he was alone, he needed a distraction to ward off his nagging conscience. Earlier, while Brad had been with him, everything had been so funny. They had laughed and made light of their evening, but how as Trevor drove home there were mirthless regrets. The humor had long since dissipated; only the bitter realization remained.
He pulled into the driveway and parked the family car. He saw a lamp burning in the living room. He squirmed uneasily in his seat and suddenly felt a queasy reluctance to go inside. Did his parents know, he wondered. Several excuses flashed through his mind, excuses which had seemed so valid earlier and now seemed empty and trite.
Whistling quietly in an attempt to allay his own anxiety and appear casual, he strode across the lawn, leaped up the steps, and pushed open the front door. His father sat in his easy chair reading his scriptures, something he did early every morningâor when he was troubled. Trevor glanced at his watch and then at his father, who peered over the top of his reading glasses.
âYouâre up late,â Trevor remarked with a forced smile. âChecking up on me?â
His father closed his scriptures and pulled the glasses from his nose and smiled. âHow did it go?â he inquired cheerfully. âDid you have a good time?â
Trevor avoided his fatherâs eyes, sank onto the sofa, and grabbed a magazine. âOh, it was all right,â he remarked, thumbing through the magazine. He could feel his fatherâs gaze upon him, and he sensed a warm guilt redden his cheeks. That was what happened when a boyâs father was the bishop, he thought. Bishops seemed to have that uncanny ability to look right inside you and know what secret thoughts you harbored there. Of course, Trevorâs father had been like that even before he was made bishop, but Trevor felt it more nowadays, especially tonight.
âHow did you like Michelle?â
Trevor shrugged indifferently, trying to avoid an untruth. The thought of telling a lie to his father had always been repugnant to him, and yet right now he didnât feel capable of telling the truth. The truth shamed him. He groped for a noncommittal answer, one that would not plunge him into a lie but which would circumvent the truth just enough. âOh, Michelleâs all rightâfor a sophomore. Sheâs not the greatest girl in the world, but sheâsâwell, I donât know how to describe her. Iâm not planning to go out with her again if thatâs what you mean.â
âShe called tonight,â his father said simply. It was a mere statement, and yet the words hit Trevor like a powerful hammer. His stomach knotted, and he felt the blood creep up his neck and flood his cheeks.
âWhatâd she want?â Trevor asked, attempting to sound disinterested.
His father set his scriptures to one side and sat up, his forearms on his knees and his head and shoulders leaning forward. âShe called about an hour after you left. She was wondering where you were.â The room was silent. Trevor suddenly wished that the evening had been different. âI told her that there was no need to worry, that I was sure you would be there soon. I said you might have had car trouble or that Brad might have been late.â He chuckled. âI think she was worried you might stand her up. I told her not to worry though. I told her you werenât that kind of a boy.â
âI guess we did have a little trouble,â Trevor explained, fidgeting and thumbing rapidly through the magazine and then closing it without having read a single word. âWell, I better get to bed. That welfare project at the stake farm is tomorrow morning, isnât it?â
âSix oâclock.â
Trevor stood and started down the hall to his bedroom.
âTrevor,â his father called after him. Trevor stopped without turning around. âDid Michelle have a good time?â
âHow should I know? I didnât ask her.â There was a sharp edge in his voice, one he rarely used with his father, and he had not meant to use it then. It just slipped out.
âI was just wondering,â his father replied, no rebuke in his voice. âThese girlsâ choice dances are always hard on a girl. They take them so seriously. It would be a shame if they worked and waited for weeks and then didnât have a good time. I always worry about the girls.â
âWell, I didnât ask her,â Trevor mumbled. âI guess Iâm going to bed.â
Inside his bedroom, Trevor sat on the edge of his bed without getting undressed. He grabbed his pillow and flung it angrily across the room. If his father had accused him, he wouldnât feel so bad now, but he had merely asked, not out of suspicion but out of concern. Trevor slammed his fist hard into the mattress. If he had not just listened to Bradâs proddings, Trevor thought. If he had just said no rather than having toyed with the idea as he had done and finally succumbed to Bradâs coaxing.
For almost 15 minutes he sat on the edge of his bed, his conscience refusing him any peace. Finally he stood, opened his door, and returned to the living room, where his father still sat reading.
âYou might as well know it. I didnât pick her up,â Trevor blurted out, as though he were challenging his father to chastize him, ground him, anything to appease his conscience. His father looked up but didnât answer. âI didnât want to go,â Trevor argued. âBrad didnât want to go either, so we stood them up. They shouldnât have asked us. I hate these girlsâ choice dances. Youâre always stuck with someone youâd never pick in a thousand years.â
âLike the girls are most of the time?â his father asked with a wan smile.
âThatâs different. Itâs the boyâs job to ask. If the girl doesnât want to go she doesnât have to.â
His father took a deep breath and stared down at his opened scriptures. âAll she has to do is stand the guy up. Is that what you mean?â he asked softly.
Trevor licked his lips. âNo, she can, well, she can tell him when he calls.â
His father set his scriptures aside. âCouldnât you have done the same thing with Michelle?â he asked in the same quiet tone.
âShe had no business asking me,â he retorted, searching for some justification. âNobody told her I wanted to go. She hardly knows me. And sheâs as homely as a mud fenceâglasses, braces, and sheâs only a sophomore.â
âDoes any of that give you the right to hurt another person, to break a promise?â
âI didnât promise.â
âDidnât you accept the date?â
âBut I didnât promise. I didnât promise I would go.â
His father took a deep breath. âTrevor, a person does not have to preface everything with âI promiseâ to make a promise. When a person says he will be at a certain place at a certain time, he has made a promise. If he fails to appear, unless there is a very good reason, he has broken his promise. Maybe not in a court of law, but heâs broken a promise in the Lordâs courtâin the long run thatâs the only one that counts.â
Trevor looked at his father and then at the floor. He pushed his hands into his pockets and shifted his weight from one foot to the other. He knew his father was right. His own argument was just a front, a hasty attempt to clothe a wrong in respectability. âOkay, I should have gone,â Trevor admitted begrudgingly. âIâm sorry.â
âI told Michelle I was sure you would come. I told her that you werenât the kind of young man to let a person down, that you were true to your word.â
âLook, dad, I said I was sorry.â
His father nodded his head. âI know youâre sorry, Trevor, but I donât deserve the apology. I wasnât stood up. I guess Iâm a little disappointed, but Iâll get over that because I know you. I know that you probably didnât do this maliciously. I accept that. I doubt youâll ever do anything like this again. But, Trevor, someone has been wronged. Someone has been hurt.â
âOh, itâs no big deal. It was just a dumb dance. There will be another one sometime. She can ask someone thenâsomeone that wants to go.â
His father shook his head ruefully. âItâs more than a dumb dance, Trevor. Itâs your word and Michelleâs feelings, her entire evening and probably more than that.â
âCome on, youâre making a big deal out of it. If I got stood up, I wouldnât lose sleep over it.â
âYouâre not a girl. Itâs different with a boy.â He paused. âWhen did Michelle ask you?â
âTwo or three weeks ago.â
âDo you ask girls out that much in advance?â
Trevor shook his head. âNo, because itâs no big deal, as you said. But with a girl like Michelle it is a big deal. Sheâs planned this. Maybe itâs her first date. She probably made a dress just for tonight. Sheâs probably planned this thing for weeks, even before she asked you. She probably fixed her hair special. She has probably talked this over with her friends. Sheâs proud and honored that you accepted, and all her friends will know that. They will also know you didnât show up.
âWith a boy itâs different. He takes a shower, combs his hair wet, puts on the same suit, walks out the door, and doesnât really think about the evening until itâs started. If heâs ever stood up, he might let off a little steam, his friends might kid him in the locker room, and then he forgets the whole thing, unless itâs to joke about it later.â
Trevorâs father bowed his head and was silent for a moment, and then he continued, his voice soft: âThis wasnât just a dumb dance for Michelle. I know. You have two older sisters. Iâve watched them get ready. Iâve watched them wait and fret, and Iâve seen them when they were brokenhearted.â He looked up at Trevor and asked, âHow would you feel if someone did to your sister Susan what you have done to Michelle?â
âShe doesnât even date.â
âShe will.â He paused. âHow would you feel?â he persisted. âWould it be no big deal? It would be a big deal to me.â
Trevor knew he was wrong. He had known it all during the movie he and Brad had decided to see. âAll right,â he conceded, âIâll apologize Monday. Will that make you happy?â
His father leaned back in his chair. âTrevor, you didnât stand me up. Michelle is the one you need to consider, her and Brother and Sister Stewart. Theyâve all been anxious. Are you going to make them wait and wonder until Monday?â
âYou donât expect me to go there tonight?â
âYou told her you would be there.â
âBut, dad, itâs almost midnight. Theyâll all be in bed.â
âI doubt it. With her hair fixed, her new dress ready, her parents and family expectant, excited to greet this young man their daughter and sister has asked out. No, she wonât be in bed. She wonât be ready to go to a dance, but sleep wonât come easy tonight, not for any of them. Do you think itâs fair for you to go to bed and sleep and leave them hanging, not knowing why?â
âBut, Dad, not tonight,â Trevor pleaded.
His father took a deep breath and began to speak: âI knew a boy once who stood up a girl. He was a senior, like you. She was a junior. It was a hayride for a girlsâ glee club. She asked him to go, and he acceptedâreluctantly.
âFirst of all he felt quite superior to the girl. He was an athlete and rather popular. She was shy and a little homely. Her complexion wasnât good. She wore braces and glasses. For two weeks he thought of how he might get out of his commitment. Well, the night of the hayride he had a bit of a cold. Nothing serious. He had gone to school, but he rationalized that he was too sick to go on a hayride.
âHalf an hour before the date he called her and cancelled. He tried to sound sick, but she wasnât fooled, even though she did accept his excuse graciously. He went to bed to at least give his excuse a semblance of truth. But he didnât sleep. He had lied, and he knew it; he knew that there were some girls who could have asked him and he would have made the date regardless.
âAt 11 oâclock that evening he got out of bed and went over and apologized to her. I know for a fact that it was the most difficult thing he had ever done up to that point. I also know for a fact that he never regretted doing it.â
The room was silent. Trevor stared at the floor and stuffed his hands into his pockets. He wished he could relive the evening. He was trapped. He could go to his room and climb into bed, but sleep would elude him. His father was right, and yet he hesitated, his cowardice standing obstinately in his way. âSo you think I should go tonight, is that it?â
âTrevor, Iâve always had a lot of faith in you. I still do. I canât make decisions for you. You have to decide. But whatever you do, make sure that youâre the one who decides. Donât go because you think I want you to, because when you look back on this moment, youâll want to look back on something that you decided and did.â
The minutes ticked away. Trevor stood before his father, not debating his course of action. That was settled, even though he had not yet verbalized his resolve. The pause was an attempt to build his courage. It had taken no courage to leave Michelle waiting. It would require a great deal of courage to face her now.
âCan I take the car?â he asked in a whisper. His father nodded. Slowly he turned and walked to the front door, his stomach churning, his mouth dry and his hands slightly shaking.
On the way over to the Stewartsâ home Trevor hoped that the house would be dark, everyone in bed, giving him an excuse to postpone the confrontation. He groped for an apology, something that would lessen the ignominy of his tardiness, but his nervousness prevented him from organizing anything coherent.
Finally he was there. One light burned in an upstairs window. He knew if he lingered in the car for just a moment he would lose courage and never go through with it. He stepped from the car, and before he fully realized it he was at the door ringing the bell. His heart was pounding, and his breathing was deep and almost painful. All the while he hoped that no one would come, that the upstairs light would flick off and leave him in the black stillness.
Soon he heard footsteps; then the porch light flipped on and the front door opened a few inches. Mr. Stewart stood there, still dressed, no sign that he had been in bed that evening. There was no smile or greeting, just a curt âYes?â which came out more as a challenge than a question.
âIs Michelle up?â Trevor ventured, his voice cracking slightly. Mr. Stewart stared at him for a moment without answering and then nodded his head. âCan I speak with her?â
Mr. Stewart looked at his watch and glanced back into the house. âItâs a little late,â he answered shortly.
âI know, but I think I need to talk to herâif I could.â
Mr. Stewart took a deep breath and said gruffly, âIâll go check.â He was about to leave Trevor standing on the porch, but he reconsidered and invited him in by opening the door a little wider and motioning with his head.
For almost five minutes Trevor waited, and then Mrs. Stewart stepped in and said, âSheâll be here in just a second.â
âOh, Mrs. Stewart,â Trevor called out, âcould you and your husband come in too.â
The three of them were soon standing there. The two parents entered somberly and Michelle followed timidly, avoiding his eyes, but even in the shadows of the dimly lighted room Trevor could see she had been crying. She wore her dress, and although her hair was a little messed up, it was apparent that it had been fixed earlier.
âI want you to know,â Trevor began shakily, licking his lips and shuffling his feet, âthat I have no excuse for tonight. Iâm sorry. Iâm not here to tell you why I didnât come, because that doesnât make any difference now.â He paused and sucked in a breath of air. âIâm here to tell you that ⌠well, that Iâm sorry. I know that doesnât fix things up, but about all I can do tonight is tell you that I realize how wrong and cruel I was. I guess I didnât think about that earlier, or I wouldnât have done it.â
âItâs all right,â Michelle mumbled, looking at the floor.
There was a long awkward silence, and then Trevor continued: âThere is something I would like to do though. I know you think Iâm a realâwell, I donât know whatâand I wouldnât blame you if you wanted to avoid me and never see me again, but I would like to show you that tonight isnât a good example of what Iâm like. I think Iâm better than that, and Iâd like to prove it to you. I would like to take you someplace, someplace nice, and show you that Iâm a lot better than what you probably think I am. I know I donât have any right to ask you to go, but Iâd like you to give me another chance. I wonât blame you if you donât want to. Iâll understand if you say no.â
Trevor couldnât remember the rest. He didnât know how he finally ended up in the car, but he was there and he felt good. He was even looking forward to the next weekend, and he was determined that it would be a memorable one.
When he arrived home, the light in the living room was still on, and as he came in the door he found his father still reading. At least the scriptures were still on his lap, but Trevor guessed that his father had not read much. The misty blur in his fatherâs eyes was evidence of that. His father looked up as he came in.
âWell,â Trevor announced humbly, âI did it.â His father smiled. âI knew you would. Iâm proud of you. It took a lot of courage, but youâll be a better person for having gone.â
They were both pensively silent for several minutes, each content to be alone with his own thoughts. Finally his father sighed. âYou know that boy I told you about earlier?â he asked. Trevor nodded. âWell, he forgot about that girlâfor a little while anyway.â He smiled. âAfter his mission and two years of college, he saw her again. She had changed.â He chuckled, leaned back, and stared up at the ceiling. âShe had shed her braces and glasses, and her complexion had improved. She wasnât the same girl. In fact, he didnât even recognize her at first. He wanted to ask her out, but he didnât dare. He was afraid she would remember. She was in demand then. Finally he built up his courage and asked her out, hoping all along that she wouldnât remember that night five years earlier. She did though, but she accepted anyway. She told him laterâafter they were engaged to be marriedâthat it was because he had gone to her home that evening and apologized that she accepted his date later. She said she knew how much courage it must have taken and she always respected him for that.â
Trevor smiled and glanced slyly at his father. âI think I know that boy.â
âWhich boy?â his father asked with mock surprise.
âThe boy youâre talking about.â
His father smiled, pushed himself to his feet, stepped up to his son, and put his arm over his shoulders. âYes,â he said with a smile, âI think you do know him. I believe he married your mother.â
He pulled into the driveway and parked the family car. He saw a lamp burning in the living room. He squirmed uneasily in his seat and suddenly felt a queasy reluctance to go inside. Did his parents know, he wondered. Several excuses flashed through his mind, excuses which had seemed so valid earlier and now seemed empty and trite.
Whistling quietly in an attempt to allay his own anxiety and appear casual, he strode across the lawn, leaped up the steps, and pushed open the front door. His father sat in his easy chair reading his scriptures, something he did early every morningâor when he was troubled. Trevor glanced at his watch and then at his father, who peered over the top of his reading glasses.
âYouâre up late,â Trevor remarked with a forced smile. âChecking up on me?â
His father closed his scriptures and pulled the glasses from his nose and smiled. âHow did it go?â he inquired cheerfully. âDid you have a good time?â
Trevor avoided his fatherâs eyes, sank onto the sofa, and grabbed a magazine. âOh, it was all right,â he remarked, thumbing through the magazine. He could feel his fatherâs gaze upon him, and he sensed a warm guilt redden his cheeks. That was what happened when a boyâs father was the bishop, he thought. Bishops seemed to have that uncanny ability to look right inside you and know what secret thoughts you harbored there. Of course, Trevorâs father had been like that even before he was made bishop, but Trevor felt it more nowadays, especially tonight.
âHow did you like Michelle?â
Trevor shrugged indifferently, trying to avoid an untruth. The thought of telling a lie to his father had always been repugnant to him, and yet right now he didnât feel capable of telling the truth. The truth shamed him. He groped for a noncommittal answer, one that would not plunge him into a lie but which would circumvent the truth just enough. âOh, Michelleâs all rightâfor a sophomore. Sheâs not the greatest girl in the world, but sheâsâwell, I donât know how to describe her. Iâm not planning to go out with her again if thatâs what you mean.â
âShe called tonight,â his father said simply. It was a mere statement, and yet the words hit Trevor like a powerful hammer. His stomach knotted, and he felt the blood creep up his neck and flood his cheeks.
âWhatâd she want?â Trevor asked, attempting to sound disinterested.
His father set his scriptures to one side and sat up, his forearms on his knees and his head and shoulders leaning forward. âShe called about an hour after you left. She was wondering where you were.â The room was silent. Trevor suddenly wished that the evening had been different. âI told her that there was no need to worry, that I was sure you would be there soon. I said you might have had car trouble or that Brad might have been late.â He chuckled. âI think she was worried you might stand her up. I told her not to worry though. I told her you werenât that kind of a boy.â
âI guess we did have a little trouble,â Trevor explained, fidgeting and thumbing rapidly through the magazine and then closing it without having read a single word. âWell, I better get to bed. That welfare project at the stake farm is tomorrow morning, isnât it?â
âSix oâclock.â
Trevor stood and started down the hall to his bedroom.
âTrevor,â his father called after him. Trevor stopped without turning around. âDid Michelle have a good time?â
âHow should I know? I didnât ask her.â There was a sharp edge in his voice, one he rarely used with his father, and he had not meant to use it then. It just slipped out.
âI was just wondering,â his father replied, no rebuke in his voice. âThese girlsâ choice dances are always hard on a girl. They take them so seriously. It would be a shame if they worked and waited for weeks and then didnât have a good time. I always worry about the girls.â
âWell, I didnât ask her,â Trevor mumbled. âI guess Iâm going to bed.â
Inside his bedroom, Trevor sat on the edge of his bed without getting undressed. He grabbed his pillow and flung it angrily across the room. If his father had accused him, he wouldnât feel so bad now, but he had merely asked, not out of suspicion but out of concern. Trevor slammed his fist hard into the mattress. If he had not just listened to Bradâs proddings, Trevor thought. If he had just said no rather than having toyed with the idea as he had done and finally succumbed to Bradâs coaxing.
For almost 15 minutes he sat on the edge of his bed, his conscience refusing him any peace. Finally he stood, opened his door, and returned to the living room, where his father still sat reading.
âYou might as well know it. I didnât pick her up,â Trevor blurted out, as though he were challenging his father to chastize him, ground him, anything to appease his conscience. His father looked up but didnât answer. âI didnât want to go,â Trevor argued. âBrad didnât want to go either, so we stood them up. They shouldnât have asked us. I hate these girlsâ choice dances. Youâre always stuck with someone youâd never pick in a thousand years.â
âLike the girls are most of the time?â his father asked with a wan smile.
âThatâs different. Itâs the boyâs job to ask. If the girl doesnât want to go she doesnât have to.â
His father took a deep breath and stared down at his opened scriptures. âAll she has to do is stand the guy up. Is that what you mean?â he asked softly.
Trevor licked his lips. âNo, she can, well, she can tell him when he calls.â
His father set his scriptures aside. âCouldnât you have done the same thing with Michelle?â he asked in the same quiet tone.
âShe had no business asking me,â he retorted, searching for some justification. âNobody told her I wanted to go. She hardly knows me. And sheâs as homely as a mud fenceâglasses, braces, and sheâs only a sophomore.â
âDoes any of that give you the right to hurt another person, to break a promise?â
âI didnât promise.â
âDidnât you accept the date?â
âBut I didnât promise. I didnât promise I would go.â
His father took a deep breath. âTrevor, a person does not have to preface everything with âI promiseâ to make a promise. When a person says he will be at a certain place at a certain time, he has made a promise. If he fails to appear, unless there is a very good reason, he has broken his promise. Maybe not in a court of law, but heâs broken a promise in the Lordâs courtâin the long run thatâs the only one that counts.â
Trevor looked at his father and then at the floor. He pushed his hands into his pockets and shifted his weight from one foot to the other. He knew his father was right. His own argument was just a front, a hasty attempt to clothe a wrong in respectability. âOkay, I should have gone,â Trevor admitted begrudgingly. âIâm sorry.â
âI told Michelle I was sure you would come. I told her that you werenât the kind of young man to let a person down, that you were true to your word.â
âLook, dad, I said I was sorry.â
His father nodded his head. âI know youâre sorry, Trevor, but I donât deserve the apology. I wasnât stood up. I guess Iâm a little disappointed, but Iâll get over that because I know you. I know that you probably didnât do this maliciously. I accept that. I doubt youâll ever do anything like this again. But, Trevor, someone has been wronged. Someone has been hurt.â
âOh, itâs no big deal. It was just a dumb dance. There will be another one sometime. She can ask someone thenâsomeone that wants to go.â
His father shook his head ruefully. âItâs more than a dumb dance, Trevor. Itâs your word and Michelleâs feelings, her entire evening and probably more than that.â
âCome on, youâre making a big deal out of it. If I got stood up, I wouldnât lose sleep over it.â
âYouâre not a girl. Itâs different with a boy.â He paused. âWhen did Michelle ask you?â
âTwo or three weeks ago.â
âDo you ask girls out that much in advance?â
Trevor shook his head. âNo, because itâs no big deal, as you said. But with a girl like Michelle it is a big deal. Sheâs planned this. Maybe itâs her first date. She probably made a dress just for tonight. Sheâs probably planned this thing for weeks, even before she asked you. She probably fixed her hair special. She has probably talked this over with her friends. Sheâs proud and honored that you accepted, and all her friends will know that. They will also know you didnât show up.
âWith a boy itâs different. He takes a shower, combs his hair wet, puts on the same suit, walks out the door, and doesnât really think about the evening until itâs started. If heâs ever stood up, he might let off a little steam, his friends might kid him in the locker room, and then he forgets the whole thing, unless itâs to joke about it later.â
Trevorâs father bowed his head and was silent for a moment, and then he continued, his voice soft: âThis wasnât just a dumb dance for Michelle. I know. You have two older sisters. Iâve watched them get ready. Iâve watched them wait and fret, and Iâve seen them when they were brokenhearted.â He looked up at Trevor and asked, âHow would you feel if someone did to your sister Susan what you have done to Michelle?â
âShe doesnât even date.â
âShe will.â He paused. âHow would you feel?â he persisted. âWould it be no big deal? It would be a big deal to me.â
Trevor knew he was wrong. He had known it all during the movie he and Brad had decided to see. âAll right,â he conceded, âIâll apologize Monday. Will that make you happy?â
His father leaned back in his chair. âTrevor, you didnât stand me up. Michelle is the one you need to consider, her and Brother and Sister Stewart. Theyâve all been anxious. Are you going to make them wait and wonder until Monday?â
âYou donât expect me to go there tonight?â
âYou told her you would be there.â
âBut, dad, itâs almost midnight. Theyâll all be in bed.â
âI doubt it. With her hair fixed, her new dress ready, her parents and family expectant, excited to greet this young man their daughter and sister has asked out. No, she wonât be in bed. She wonât be ready to go to a dance, but sleep wonât come easy tonight, not for any of them. Do you think itâs fair for you to go to bed and sleep and leave them hanging, not knowing why?â
âBut, Dad, not tonight,â Trevor pleaded.
His father took a deep breath and began to speak: âI knew a boy once who stood up a girl. He was a senior, like you. She was a junior. It was a hayride for a girlsâ glee club. She asked him to go, and he acceptedâreluctantly.
âFirst of all he felt quite superior to the girl. He was an athlete and rather popular. She was shy and a little homely. Her complexion wasnât good. She wore braces and glasses. For two weeks he thought of how he might get out of his commitment. Well, the night of the hayride he had a bit of a cold. Nothing serious. He had gone to school, but he rationalized that he was too sick to go on a hayride.
âHalf an hour before the date he called her and cancelled. He tried to sound sick, but she wasnât fooled, even though she did accept his excuse graciously. He went to bed to at least give his excuse a semblance of truth. But he didnât sleep. He had lied, and he knew it; he knew that there were some girls who could have asked him and he would have made the date regardless.
âAt 11 oâclock that evening he got out of bed and went over and apologized to her. I know for a fact that it was the most difficult thing he had ever done up to that point. I also know for a fact that he never regretted doing it.â
The room was silent. Trevor stared at the floor and stuffed his hands into his pockets. He wished he could relive the evening. He was trapped. He could go to his room and climb into bed, but sleep would elude him. His father was right, and yet he hesitated, his cowardice standing obstinately in his way. âSo you think I should go tonight, is that it?â
âTrevor, Iâve always had a lot of faith in you. I still do. I canât make decisions for you. You have to decide. But whatever you do, make sure that youâre the one who decides. Donât go because you think I want you to, because when you look back on this moment, youâll want to look back on something that you decided and did.â
The minutes ticked away. Trevor stood before his father, not debating his course of action. That was settled, even though he had not yet verbalized his resolve. The pause was an attempt to build his courage. It had taken no courage to leave Michelle waiting. It would require a great deal of courage to face her now.
âCan I take the car?â he asked in a whisper. His father nodded. Slowly he turned and walked to the front door, his stomach churning, his mouth dry and his hands slightly shaking.
On the way over to the Stewartsâ home Trevor hoped that the house would be dark, everyone in bed, giving him an excuse to postpone the confrontation. He groped for an apology, something that would lessen the ignominy of his tardiness, but his nervousness prevented him from organizing anything coherent.
Finally he was there. One light burned in an upstairs window. He knew if he lingered in the car for just a moment he would lose courage and never go through with it. He stepped from the car, and before he fully realized it he was at the door ringing the bell. His heart was pounding, and his breathing was deep and almost painful. All the while he hoped that no one would come, that the upstairs light would flick off and leave him in the black stillness.
Soon he heard footsteps; then the porch light flipped on and the front door opened a few inches. Mr. Stewart stood there, still dressed, no sign that he had been in bed that evening. There was no smile or greeting, just a curt âYes?â which came out more as a challenge than a question.
âIs Michelle up?â Trevor ventured, his voice cracking slightly. Mr. Stewart stared at him for a moment without answering and then nodded his head. âCan I speak with her?â
Mr. Stewart looked at his watch and glanced back into the house. âItâs a little late,â he answered shortly.
âI know, but I think I need to talk to herâif I could.â
Mr. Stewart took a deep breath and said gruffly, âIâll go check.â He was about to leave Trevor standing on the porch, but he reconsidered and invited him in by opening the door a little wider and motioning with his head.
For almost five minutes Trevor waited, and then Mrs. Stewart stepped in and said, âSheâll be here in just a second.â
âOh, Mrs. Stewart,â Trevor called out, âcould you and your husband come in too.â
The three of them were soon standing there. The two parents entered somberly and Michelle followed timidly, avoiding his eyes, but even in the shadows of the dimly lighted room Trevor could see she had been crying. She wore her dress, and although her hair was a little messed up, it was apparent that it had been fixed earlier.
âI want you to know,â Trevor began shakily, licking his lips and shuffling his feet, âthat I have no excuse for tonight. Iâm sorry. Iâm not here to tell you why I didnât come, because that doesnât make any difference now.â He paused and sucked in a breath of air. âIâm here to tell you that ⌠well, that Iâm sorry. I know that doesnât fix things up, but about all I can do tonight is tell you that I realize how wrong and cruel I was. I guess I didnât think about that earlier, or I wouldnât have done it.â
âItâs all right,â Michelle mumbled, looking at the floor.
There was a long awkward silence, and then Trevor continued: âThere is something I would like to do though. I know you think Iâm a realâwell, I donât know whatâand I wouldnât blame you if you wanted to avoid me and never see me again, but I would like to show you that tonight isnât a good example of what Iâm like. I think Iâm better than that, and Iâd like to prove it to you. I would like to take you someplace, someplace nice, and show you that Iâm a lot better than what you probably think I am. I know I donât have any right to ask you to go, but Iâd like you to give me another chance. I wonât blame you if you donât want to. Iâll understand if you say no.â
Trevor couldnât remember the rest. He didnât know how he finally ended up in the car, but he was there and he felt good. He was even looking forward to the next weekend, and he was determined that it would be a memorable one.
When he arrived home, the light in the living room was still on, and as he came in the door he found his father still reading. At least the scriptures were still on his lap, but Trevor guessed that his father had not read much. The misty blur in his fatherâs eyes was evidence of that. His father looked up as he came in.
âWell,â Trevor announced humbly, âI did it.â His father smiled. âI knew you would. Iâm proud of you. It took a lot of courage, but youâll be a better person for having gone.â
They were both pensively silent for several minutes, each content to be alone with his own thoughts. Finally his father sighed. âYou know that boy I told you about earlier?â he asked. Trevor nodded. âWell, he forgot about that girlâfor a little while anyway.â He smiled. âAfter his mission and two years of college, he saw her again. She had changed.â He chuckled, leaned back, and stared up at the ceiling. âShe had shed her braces and glasses, and her complexion had improved. She wasnât the same girl. In fact, he didnât even recognize her at first. He wanted to ask her out, but he didnât dare. He was afraid she would remember. She was in demand then. Finally he built up his courage and asked her out, hoping all along that she wouldnât remember that night five years earlier. She did though, but she accepted anyway. She told him laterâafter they were engaged to be marriedâthat it was because he had gone to her home that evening and apologized that she accepted his date later. She said she knew how much courage it must have taken and she always respected him for that.â
Trevor smiled and glanced slyly at his father. âI think I know that boy.â
âWhich boy?â his father asked with mock surprise.
âThe boy youâre talking about.â
His father smiled, pushed himself to his feet, stepped up to his son, and put his arm over his shoulders. âYes,â he said with a smile, âI think you do know him. I believe he married your mother.â
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Cleave unto the Covenants
Summary: The story begins with the speaker cleaning out her deceased parentsâ home and discovering family histories and patriarchal blessings, which reminded her of the covenants her ancestors made and kept. She then uses her grandmotherâs blessing and life as an example of the joy, comfort, and protection that come from cleaving unto covenants. The conclusion testifies that keeping covenants brings peace, strength, and joy, and encourages others to do the same.
Since both of my parents have passed away, it became necessary this year to clean out their home to prepare it for sale. During these past few months, as my siblings and I cleaned and sorted through my parentsâ home, we found family histories and many important papers and documents. It has been fascinating to read through personal histories and patriarchal blessings of my parents and grandparents. I have been reminded of the covenants they made and kept.
My grandmother Ellen Hanks Rymer was a young mother in 1912 when she received her patriarchal blessing. When I read her blessing, these lines jumped off the page and stayed in my mind: âThou wast chosen from before the foundation of the earth, and a chosen spirit to come forth in this day. ⌠Thy testimony shall be magnified and thou shalt be able to testify. ⌠The destroyer has sought to destroy thee, but if thou wilt cleave unto thy God, he [the destroyer] shall not have power to harm thee. Thou through thy faithfulness shalt have great power and the destroyer shall flee from before thee because of thy righteousness. ⌠When the hour of fear and trials come upon thee if thou wilt retire to thy secret closet in prayer thy heart shall be comforted and the obstacles removed.â
My grandmother was promised that if she would keep her covenants and stay close to God, Satan could have no power over her. She would find comfort and help in her trials. These promises were fulfilled in her life.
Today I want to talk about (1) the importance of cleaving unto covenants and (2) the joy and protection that come from keeping our covenants.
Some of the examples I will use come from Daughters in My Kingdom: The History and Work of Relief Society. The book is filled with examples of women who have found great joy in keeping covenants.
The Bible Dictionary tells us that a covenant is a contract made between God and man. âGod in his good pleasure fixes the terms, which man accepts. ⌠The gospel is so arranged that principles and ordinances are received by covenant placing the recipient under strong obligation and responsibility to honor the commitment.â In the phrase âcleave unto covenants,â the word cleave means âto adhere firmly and closelyâ to something.
In the scriptures we learn of men and women who have made covenants with God. God has given instructions on what to do to honor those covenants, and then as those covenants have been kept, the promised blessings have followed.
For example, through the ordinance of baptism, we make a covenant with our Heavenly Father. We prepare ourselves for baptism by having faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, repenting of our sins, and being willing to take upon us the name of Christ. We make a commitment to keep the commandments of God and remember the Savior always. We covenant to âbear one anotherâs burdens, that they may be light.â We indicate that we are willing to mourn with those who mourn and comfort those who need comfort.
In holy temples other sacred ordinances are received and other covenants are made. In the early days of the Restoration, the Prophet Joseph Smith was anxious for the Saints to have the promised blessings of the temple. The Lord said, âLet this house be built unto my name, that I may reveal mine ordinances therein unto my people.â
âOne of the Lordâs purposes in organizing the Relief Society was to prepare His daughters for the greater blessings of the priesthood found in the ordinances and covenants of the temple. The ⌠sisters in Nauvoo anticipated the completion of the temple with great excitement, for they knew, as the Prophet Joseph Smith promised Mercy Fielding Thompson, that the endowment would bring them âout of darkness into marvelous light.ââ
âMore than 5,000 Saints thronged the Nauvoo Temple after its dedication so they could receive the endowment and the sealing ordinance before embarking on their journeyâ to the Salt Lake Valley. President Brigham Young and many Church leaders and temple workers spent their time, day and night, serving in the temple so this important work could be performed for the Saints.
Our covenants sustain us whether in good times or in difficult times. President Boyd K. Packer reminds us that âwe are a covenant people. We covenant to give of our resources in time and money and talentâall we are and all we possessâto the interest of the kingdom of God upon the earth. In simple terms, we covenant to do good. We are a covenant people, and the temple is the center of our covenants. It is the source of the covenant.â
The scriptures remind us, âAnd this shall be our covenantâthat we will walk in all the ordinances of the Lord.â
Great are the blessings we receive as we cleave unto our covenants.
In the Book of Mormon we read King Benjaminâs sermon. He taught the people about Jesus Christ, that He would come to the earth and suffer all manner of afflictions. He taught the people that Christ would atone for the sins of all mankind and that His name was the only name by which man could obtain salvation.
After listening to these beautiful teachings, the people were humbled and desired with their whole hearts to be free of sin and to be purified. They repented and professed their faith in Jesus Christ. They made covenants with God that they would keep His commandments.
âThe Spirit of the Lord came upon them, and they were filled with joy, having received a remission of their sins, and having peace of conscience, because of the exceeding faith which they had in Jesus Christ.â
Another example of the joy which comes through faithfulness in keeping the commandments of God and sharing His gospel with others is demonstrated by Ammon. Ammon and his brethren were instrumental in helping thousands of people come unto Christ. These are some of the words Ammon used to describe his feelings as so many people were baptized and made covenants with God:
âHow great reason have we to rejoice.â
âMy joy is full, yea, my heart is brim with joy, and I will rejoice in my God.â
âI cannot say the smallest part which I feel.â
âThere never were men that had so great reason to rejoice as we.â
Making and keeping sacred covenants enables us to have the Holy Spirit with us. This is the Spirit that âshall fill your soul with joy.â
World War II caused much suffering for many people throughout the world. The Saints in Germany endured many trials. A faithful Relief Society president in Stuttgart, Germany, was Sister Maria Speidel. In speaking of their trials, she said: âOur trust in the Lord and our testimony of his Church have been our pillar of strength. ⌠With joy we sing the songs of Zion and put our trust in the Lord. He maketh all things well.â
Again, as members kept their covenants, they felt joy even in the face of tremendous challenges.
Sarah Rich was a righteous woman living in Nauvoo who was called to serve in the temple prior to the Saints being expelled from the city. These are her words about the blessings of temple covenants: âMany were the blessings we had received in the house of the Lord, which has caused us joy and comfort in the midst of all our sorrows and enabled us to have faith in God, knowing He would guide us and sustain us in the unknown journey that lay before us.â
Earlier the Saints had finished the Kirtland Temple, and many participated in the dedication. After the dedication the temple was received by the Lord. The Lord told them to âgreatly rejoice in consequence of the blessings which shall be poured out ⌠upon the heads of [His] people.â
As more and more holy temples have been built across the earth, I have seen the blessings that come into the lives of the members. In 2008 I witnessed the joy on the faces of a couple from Ukraine as they told me about going to Freiberg, Germany, to receive their temple ordinances. The trip to the temple was a 27-hour bus ride each way for these dedicated members, and they were not able to go often. They were thrilled that the Kyiv Ukraine Temple would soon be completed and they would be able to attend much more often. That temple is now open, and thousands enjoy the blessings there.
In reading from my grandmotherâs personal history, I learned of her great joy in her covenants. She loved going to the temple and performing the ordinances for thousands of those who had died. It was her lifeâs mission. She served as a temple worker for over 20 years in the Manti Utah Temple. She wrote that she had experienced many miraculous healings in order for her to raise her children and to serve others by doing their work in the temple. As her grandchildren, if we knew anything about Grandma Rymer, it was that she was a righteous woman who kept her covenants and wanted us to do the same. When people sift through our possessions after we have died, will they find evidence that we have kept our covenants?
Our beloved prophet, President Thomas S. Monson, told us in our last general conference: âAs you and I go to the holy houses of God, as we remember the covenants we make within, we will be more able to bear every trial and to overcome each temptation. In this sacred sanctuary we will find peace; we will be renewed and fortified.â
Once again: âLift up thy heart and rejoice, and cleave unto the covenants which thou hast made.â Keeping covenants is true joy and happiness. This is comfort and peace. This is protection from the evils of the world. Keeping our covenants will help us in times of trial.
I testify that as we have faith in Christ and cleave unto our covenants, we will receive the joy spoken of in the holy scriptures and promised by our latter-day prophets.
Dear sisters, I love you and hope you will experience this great joy in your own lives. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
My grandmother Ellen Hanks Rymer was a young mother in 1912 when she received her patriarchal blessing. When I read her blessing, these lines jumped off the page and stayed in my mind: âThou wast chosen from before the foundation of the earth, and a chosen spirit to come forth in this day. ⌠Thy testimony shall be magnified and thou shalt be able to testify. ⌠The destroyer has sought to destroy thee, but if thou wilt cleave unto thy God, he [the destroyer] shall not have power to harm thee. Thou through thy faithfulness shalt have great power and the destroyer shall flee from before thee because of thy righteousness. ⌠When the hour of fear and trials come upon thee if thou wilt retire to thy secret closet in prayer thy heart shall be comforted and the obstacles removed.â
My grandmother was promised that if she would keep her covenants and stay close to God, Satan could have no power over her. She would find comfort and help in her trials. These promises were fulfilled in her life.
Today I want to talk about (1) the importance of cleaving unto covenants and (2) the joy and protection that come from keeping our covenants.
Some of the examples I will use come from Daughters in My Kingdom: The History and Work of Relief Society. The book is filled with examples of women who have found great joy in keeping covenants.
The Bible Dictionary tells us that a covenant is a contract made between God and man. âGod in his good pleasure fixes the terms, which man accepts. ⌠The gospel is so arranged that principles and ordinances are received by covenant placing the recipient under strong obligation and responsibility to honor the commitment.â In the phrase âcleave unto covenants,â the word cleave means âto adhere firmly and closelyâ to something.
In the scriptures we learn of men and women who have made covenants with God. God has given instructions on what to do to honor those covenants, and then as those covenants have been kept, the promised blessings have followed.
For example, through the ordinance of baptism, we make a covenant with our Heavenly Father. We prepare ourselves for baptism by having faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, repenting of our sins, and being willing to take upon us the name of Christ. We make a commitment to keep the commandments of God and remember the Savior always. We covenant to âbear one anotherâs burdens, that they may be light.â We indicate that we are willing to mourn with those who mourn and comfort those who need comfort.
In holy temples other sacred ordinances are received and other covenants are made. In the early days of the Restoration, the Prophet Joseph Smith was anxious for the Saints to have the promised blessings of the temple. The Lord said, âLet this house be built unto my name, that I may reveal mine ordinances therein unto my people.â
âOne of the Lordâs purposes in organizing the Relief Society was to prepare His daughters for the greater blessings of the priesthood found in the ordinances and covenants of the temple. The ⌠sisters in Nauvoo anticipated the completion of the temple with great excitement, for they knew, as the Prophet Joseph Smith promised Mercy Fielding Thompson, that the endowment would bring them âout of darkness into marvelous light.ââ
âMore than 5,000 Saints thronged the Nauvoo Temple after its dedication so they could receive the endowment and the sealing ordinance before embarking on their journeyâ to the Salt Lake Valley. President Brigham Young and many Church leaders and temple workers spent their time, day and night, serving in the temple so this important work could be performed for the Saints.
Our covenants sustain us whether in good times or in difficult times. President Boyd K. Packer reminds us that âwe are a covenant people. We covenant to give of our resources in time and money and talentâall we are and all we possessâto the interest of the kingdom of God upon the earth. In simple terms, we covenant to do good. We are a covenant people, and the temple is the center of our covenants. It is the source of the covenant.â
The scriptures remind us, âAnd this shall be our covenantâthat we will walk in all the ordinances of the Lord.â
Great are the blessings we receive as we cleave unto our covenants.
In the Book of Mormon we read King Benjaminâs sermon. He taught the people about Jesus Christ, that He would come to the earth and suffer all manner of afflictions. He taught the people that Christ would atone for the sins of all mankind and that His name was the only name by which man could obtain salvation.
After listening to these beautiful teachings, the people were humbled and desired with their whole hearts to be free of sin and to be purified. They repented and professed their faith in Jesus Christ. They made covenants with God that they would keep His commandments.
âThe Spirit of the Lord came upon them, and they were filled with joy, having received a remission of their sins, and having peace of conscience, because of the exceeding faith which they had in Jesus Christ.â
Another example of the joy which comes through faithfulness in keeping the commandments of God and sharing His gospel with others is demonstrated by Ammon. Ammon and his brethren were instrumental in helping thousands of people come unto Christ. These are some of the words Ammon used to describe his feelings as so many people were baptized and made covenants with God:
âHow great reason have we to rejoice.â
âMy joy is full, yea, my heart is brim with joy, and I will rejoice in my God.â
âI cannot say the smallest part which I feel.â
âThere never were men that had so great reason to rejoice as we.â
Making and keeping sacred covenants enables us to have the Holy Spirit with us. This is the Spirit that âshall fill your soul with joy.â
World War II caused much suffering for many people throughout the world. The Saints in Germany endured many trials. A faithful Relief Society president in Stuttgart, Germany, was Sister Maria Speidel. In speaking of their trials, she said: âOur trust in the Lord and our testimony of his Church have been our pillar of strength. ⌠With joy we sing the songs of Zion and put our trust in the Lord. He maketh all things well.â
Again, as members kept their covenants, they felt joy even in the face of tremendous challenges.
Sarah Rich was a righteous woman living in Nauvoo who was called to serve in the temple prior to the Saints being expelled from the city. These are her words about the blessings of temple covenants: âMany were the blessings we had received in the house of the Lord, which has caused us joy and comfort in the midst of all our sorrows and enabled us to have faith in God, knowing He would guide us and sustain us in the unknown journey that lay before us.â
Earlier the Saints had finished the Kirtland Temple, and many participated in the dedication. After the dedication the temple was received by the Lord. The Lord told them to âgreatly rejoice in consequence of the blessings which shall be poured out ⌠upon the heads of [His] people.â
As more and more holy temples have been built across the earth, I have seen the blessings that come into the lives of the members. In 2008 I witnessed the joy on the faces of a couple from Ukraine as they told me about going to Freiberg, Germany, to receive their temple ordinances. The trip to the temple was a 27-hour bus ride each way for these dedicated members, and they were not able to go often. They were thrilled that the Kyiv Ukraine Temple would soon be completed and they would be able to attend much more often. That temple is now open, and thousands enjoy the blessings there.
In reading from my grandmotherâs personal history, I learned of her great joy in her covenants. She loved going to the temple and performing the ordinances for thousands of those who had died. It was her lifeâs mission. She served as a temple worker for over 20 years in the Manti Utah Temple. She wrote that she had experienced many miraculous healings in order for her to raise her children and to serve others by doing their work in the temple. As her grandchildren, if we knew anything about Grandma Rymer, it was that she was a righteous woman who kept her covenants and wanted us to do the same. When people sift through our possessions after we have died, will they find evidence that we have kept our covenants?
Our beloved prophet, President Thomas S. Monson, told us in our last general conference: âAs you and I go to the holy houses of God, as we remember the covenants we make within, we will be more able to bear every trial and to overcome each temptation. In this sacred sanctuary we will find peace; we will be renewed and fortified.â
Once again: âLift up thy heart and rejoice, and cleave unto the covenants which thou hast made.â Keeping covenants is true joy and happiness. This is comfort and peace. This is protection from the evils of the world. Keeping our covenants will help us in times of trial.
I testify that as we have faith in Christ and cleave unto our covenants, we will receive the joy spoken of in the holy scriptures and promised by our latter-day prophets.
Dear sisters, I love you and hope you will experience this great joy in your own lives. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
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