This story took place in the USA.
The bell rang just as Mr. Nickels wrote their weekly math homework on the board. There were so many problems to solve! This would take forever.
βTurn in your homework on Friday,β Mr. Nickels said. βNo excuses.β
Everyone groaned. Derek shoved his math book into his already-full backpack.
Derekβs new school was so different from his old one. Now that he was in sixth grade, he went to a school that was much bigger, with lots more students. The classes were harder, and he had more homework too.
But what worried Derek most of all was the other kids. Some of them seemed so mean! He didnβt want anyone to get mad at him.
Derek slung his backpack over his shoulder and walked into the hall. Kids were everywhere. He kept his eyes down and tried to weave between them without bumping into anyone. Sometimes it seemed like just looking at someone might make them mad.
βHow was school today?β Dad asked that night. βAny better?β
βNot really,β Derek said.
Dad set down his book. βYou know how you told me that sometimes you worry that someone at school might get mad at you for no reason?β
Derek nodded as he stared at his homework.
βWell, I have an idea,β Dad said. βTry smiling at them.β
What? That wasnβt what Derek expected. βI donβt know,β he said. βThat sounds kind of weird.β
βNothing too weird about smiling,β said Mom.
Dad nodded. βIt wouldnβt hurt to try. Keep your head up and try smiling at whoever you see. Itβs pretty hard to get mad about a smile.β
Derek thought about Dadβs idea. He prayed about it before bed, and he felt peaceful. OK. Heβd try it out.
The next morning, Derek hopped off the bus. A crowd of kids squeezed through the front doors of the school. Derek walked inside with his head down, like normal.
But then Derek remembered Dadβs idea. Just smile, he thought.
With a deep breath, Derek raised his head. An older boy was walking toward him. He was at least one grade above Derek. Maybe two. He wore a sports jersey and walked with big, fast steps.
Derek almost looked away. This was exactly the kind of kid he thought might push him out of the way without warning. But he had promised to try.
So he smiled.
The other boyβs face brightened a little bit. After he passed, Derek stopped walking for a moment. He didnβt feel so nervous now!
Derek smiled at more people on his way to class. Almost all of them smiled back! Dad was right. No one got angry from a smile.
As he walked into the classroom, Derek thought that middle school might not be so scary after all. There was still lots to learn, and he still had some worries. But smiling helped. Maybe his smile could help someone else feel better too.
An Unexpected Solution
Derek feels anxious at his new, larger school and worries that other students might be mean. After his dad suggests he try smiling at people, Derek prays and decides to give it a try. The next day he smiles at an older boy and others, and most smile back. Derek feels less nervous and realizes his smile can help others too.
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Song for a Prophet
Ten-year-old Olivia, a recent immigrant from England to Nauvoo, struggles with missing familiar Christmas traditions. She joins her blind grandmother Lettice, parents, and neighbors in a late-night caroling visit to the Prophet Joseph Smith's home. The Prophet and his household listen, and he thanks and blesses them. Olivia feels warmth and belonging, realizing she is where she should be.
Ten-year-old Olivia* rolled over on her side and tried to go back to sleep, even though she knew it would be impossible. After all, it was ChristmasβChristmas 1843. βWell, just barely,β Olivia thought as she counted the 12 chimes that echoed softly from her motherβs clock.
Last Christmas, she had lived far away in Leek, England. Then Grandpa had listened to the missionaries from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. βThese men speak the truth,β he had said. Three months later, Olivia and her entire family were baptized, along with Grandpa Richard and Grandma Lettice Rushton.
The decision to leave England to join the Saints in America had been a very hard one. Would Grandpa be able to sell his silk business? What kind of work would Papa find? Would baby James get sick and die, like Mamaβs other baby? And what about Grandma Lettice? Because she was blind, it would be especially difficult for her to leave her home for an unfamiliar land. After a lot of prayer and asking the Lord, Papa knew they needed to follow the counsel of the Prophet Joseph Smith and join the Saints in Zion.
And now it was Christmasβand Christmas in Nauvoo was very different from Christmas back home. For one thing, Grandpa Rushton had died, and Olivia missed him terribly. For another thing, people here in Nauvoo didnβt burn yule logs, sing carols, and exchange presents, as people in England did. In fact, many people in Nauvoo didnβt celebrate the day at all. Mama said that it was because of the religious customs many of them had before they joined the Church. But that didnβt seem like a very good reason to Olivia. βIf only we could celebrate Christmas as we did in England!β she thought with a sigh.
Just then, she heard muffled voices by the front door. Olivia slid out of bed and tiptoed across the cold floor. βMama?β
Her mother and father were bundled up in warm coats and hats!
βWhere are you going, Mama?β
βWhat are you doing up, Olivia?β Mama whispered. βYou should be in bed.β
βI couldnβt sleepβand then I heard you.β
βWell, go back to bed,β Mama said. βGrandma Lettice asked us to go singing with her.β
βSingingβnow? May I come too?β
βItβs cold outside,β Papa said.
βI donβt mind,β Olivia replied. βPlease?β
Mama and Papa exchanged glances. βWell, all right,β Papa said. βBut youβll have to dress quickly. We donβt want to be late.β
Olivia changed into her warmest clothes, then followed her parents into the chilly darkness. The cold stung her face, and her breath turned into puffy clouds. βWhere are we going?β she asked. βAre we going to sing a song I know?β
βYouβll see,β Mama said.
Just as she was wondering how much farther she would have to walk, Olivia saw her aunts and uncles, Grandma Lettice, and several neighbors gathered together outside the Mansion House at the corner of Main Street and Water Street.
The Prophetβs house! Olivia caught her breath. βAre we going to sing to the Prophet?β she wondered.
βAll right, everyone,β Grandma Lettice whispered. βJust as we rehearsed it.β
For a split second, Olivia wondered if it had been a mistake to comeβshe hadnβt rehearsed anything. But after hearing only two notes, Olivia realized that she did know the song. It was one of the songs in Sister Emma Smithβs hymnal. She took a deep breath and sang with the rest of the carolers:
βMortals, awake! with angels join,
And chant the solemn lay;
Love, joy, and gratitude combine
To hail thβ auspicious day.β
(A Collection of Sacred Hymns for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints [1835], number 77)
Soon lights flickered to life, and windows of the Mansion House opened. The Prophet Joseph Smith, his family, and the boarders who were living at the Smith home all looked out.
βWhoβs singing?β someone asked.
βHow lovely,β whispered another.
βAre there angels outside?β
Although Olivia wasnβt an angel, she certainly felt like one as a wave of warmth spread from the top of her head to the tips of her toes. βHow happy the Prophet looks,β she thought.
When they finished singing, the Prophet thanked them for their beautiful serenade and blessed them in the name of the Lord.
βMerry Christmas,β Olivia called as she and the other singers left. All at once she didnβt want to be back in England anymore. She knew she belonged here with her family, the restored Church, and the Lordβs prophet. In fact, she couldnβt think of a better place to have Christmas.
Last Christmas, she had lived far away in Leek, England. Then Grandpa had listened to the missionaries from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. βThese men speak the truth,β he had said. Three months later, Olivia and her entire family were baptized, along with Grandpa Richard and Grandma Lettice Rushton.
The decision to leave England to join the Saints in America had been a very hard one. Would Grandpa be able to sell his silk business? What kind of work would Papa find? Would baby James get sick and die, like Mamaβs other baby? And what about Grandma Lettice? Because she was blind, it would be especially difficult for her to leave her home for an unfamiliar land. After a lot of prayer and asking the Lord, Papa knew they needed to follow the counsel of the Prophet Joseph Smith and join the Saints in Zion.
And now it was Christmasβand Christmas in Nauvoo was very different from Christmas back home. For one thing, Grandpa Rushton had died, and Olivia missed him terribly. For another thing, people here in Nauvoo didnβt burn yule logs, sing carols, and exchange presents, as people in England did. In fact, many people in Nauvoo didnβt celebrate the day at all. Mama said that it was because of the religious customs many of them had before they joined the Church. But that didnβt seem like a very good reason to Olivia. βIf only we could celebrate Christmas as we did in England!β she thought with a sigh.
Just then, she heard muffled voices by the front door. Olivia slid out of bed and tiptoed across the cold floor. βMama?β
Her mother and father were bundled up in warm coats and hats!
βWhere are you going, Mama?β
βWhat are you doing up, Olivia?β Mama whispered. βYou should be in bed.β
βI couldnβt sleepβand then I heard you.β
βWell, go back to bed,β Mama said. βGrandma Lettice asked us to go singing with her.β
βSingingβnow? May I come too?β
βItβs cold outside,β Papa said.
βI donβt mind,β Olivia replied. βPlease?β
Mama and Papa exchanged glances. βWell, all right,β Papa said. βBut youβll have to dress quickly. We donβt want to be late.β
Olivia changed into her warmest clothes, then followed her parents into the chilly darkness. The cold stung her face, and her breath turned into puffy clouds. βWhere are we going?β she asked. βAre we going to sing a song I know?β
βYouβll see,β Mama said.
Just as she was wondering how much farther she would have to walk, Olivia saw her aunts and uncles, Grandma Lettice, and several neighbors gathered together outside the Mansion House at the corner of Main Street and Water Street.
The Prophetβs house! Olivia caught her breath. βAre we going to sing to the Prophet?β she wondered.
βAll right, everyone,β Grandma Lettice whispered. βJust as we rehearsed it.β
For a split second, Olivia wondered if it had been a mistake to comeβshe hadnβt rehearsed anything. But after hearing only two notes, Olivia realized that she did know the song. It was one of the songs in Sister Emma Smithβs hymnal. She took a deep breath and sang with the rest of the carolers:
βMortals, awake! with angels join,
And chant the solemn lay;
Love, joy, and gratitude combine
To hail thβ auspicious day.β
(A Collection of Sacred Hymns for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints [1835], number 77)
Soon lights flickered to life, and windows of the Mansion House opened. The Prophet Joseph Smith, his family, and the boarders who were living at the Smith home all looked out.
βWhoβs singing?β someone asked.
βHow lovely,β whispered another.
βAre there angels outside?β
Although Olivia wasnβt an angel, she certainly felt like one as a wave of warmth spread from the top of her head to the tips of her toes. βHow happy the Prophet looks,β she thought.
When they finished singing, the Prophet thanked them for their beautiful serenade and blessed them in the name of the Lord.
βMerry Christmas,β Olivia called as she and the other singers left. All at once she didnβt want to be back in England anymore. She knew she belonged here with her family, the restored Church, and the Lordβs prophet. In fact, she couldnβt think of a better place to have Christmas.
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Brother to Brother(Part Two)
Buddy has a terrible baseball tryout and feels he can't cope with his brother Reed being away on a mission. Reed counsels him to practice patiently, pray for comfort, and forget himself by helping others. Buddy follows the advice, prays for help and for the people Reed is teaching, feels encouraged by news of a baptism, and heads to baseball practice with renewed resolve.
Dear Reed,
Today was the second worst day of my entire life! (The worst day was the day that you left home.) We had baseball tryouts, and I was terrible! I couldnβt do anything right. I need you here to help me. Dad says that heβll practice with me, but you know how busy he is all the time. How can I ever learn to play baseball good enough to get on the team and then play for the high school and get a scholarship for college like you did? Sometimes I feel like a dumb little kid who canβt do anything right.
Do you know now what my secret is? My secret is that I donβt think that I can stand to have you be away for two years. I want you to come home right now! I need you, Reed. Please come home now!
Love,Buddy
P.S. If I ever decide to play baseball again, can I borrow your glove and bats?
Dear Buddy,
Last time you and I played baseball, you were as good as I was when I was your ageβmaybe even better! Your problem is that you want to be great right now. But you have a lot of work and practice and growing to do. Lots of the guys who were better baseball players than I was at seven and eight years old never made the college teams because they didnβt work as hard as I did all those years. So donβt give up if you really want to do it.
As far as the other problem goes, you know that I canβt leave my mission. But Iβll tell you a secret. Sometimes I get homesick, and it really hurts inside when I want to see all of you and canβt. I miss playing baseball with you, Buddy, and going for ice cream and to the movies and talking in the dark after weβve gone to bed. What I do when I get homesick is pray for strength and comfort. And then I try to forget about myself by helping other people. That seems to work every time.
You can help Elder Watts and me too. Please pray for the Brooks family and Will Landers. And pray that Elder Watts and I can help them.
Love,Reed
P.S. Iβm afraid that my glove and bats are too big and awkward for you, but you can try them if you want. And you can have all my baseballs if you promise to wear them out with your practicing.
Dear Reed,
Something awesome just happened! When I got your letter, I tried to do what you said. I prayed for help so that I wouldnβt miss you so much. Then I prayed for the people youβre teaching. Then I thought that maybe Iβd write a letter to them. But before I wrote, I got a letter from Bobby Brooks, and he said that you baptized him!
I want you to stay on your mission and find more people who want to learn about the Church. I want you to tell me all about your mission because I want to grow up to be a missionary just like you.
Please tell Bobby that Iβll write a letter to him soon.
I have to go now so that Iβll be on time for baseball practice.
Love,Buddy
(To be continued)
Today was the second worst day of my entire life! (The worst day was the day that you left home.) We had baseball tryouts, and I was terrible! I couldnβt do anything right. I need you here to help me. Dad says that heβll practice with me, but you know how busy he is all the time. How can I ever learn to play baseball good enough to get on the team and then play for the high school and get a scholarship for college like you did? Sometimes I feel like a dumb little kid who canβt do anything right.
Do you know now what my secret is? My secret is that I donβt think that I can stand to have you be away for two years. I want you to come home right now! I need you, Reed. Please come home now!
Love,Buddy
P.S. If I ever decide to play baseball again, can I borrow your glove and bats?
Dear Buddy,
Last time you and I played baseball, you were as good as I was when I was your ageβmaybe even better! Your problem is that you want to be great right now. But you have a lot of work and practice and growing to do. Lots of the guys who were better baseball players than I was at seven and eight years old never made the college teams because they didnβt work as hard as I did all those years. So donβt give up if you really want to do it.
As far as the other problem goes, you know that I canβt leave my mission. But Iβll tell you a secret. Sometimes I get homesick, and it really hurts inside when I want to see all of you and canβt. I miss playing baseball with you, Buddy, and going for ice cream and to the movies and talking in the dark after weβve gone to bed. What I do when I get homesick is pray for strength and comfort. And then I try to forget about myself by helping other people. That seems to work every time.
You can help Elder Watts and me too. Please pray for the Brooks family and Will Landers. And pray that Elder Watts and I can help them.
Love,Reed
P.S. Iβm afraid that my glove and bats are too big and awkward for you, but you can try them if you want. And you can have all my baseballs if you promise to wear them out with your practicing.
Dear Reed,
Something awesome just happened! When I got your letter, I tried to do what you said. I prayed for help so that I wouldnβt miss you so much. Then I prayed for the people youβre teaching. Then I thought that maybe Iβd write a letter to them. But before I wrote, I got a letter from Bobby Brooks, and he said that you baptized him!
I want you to stay on your mission and find more people who want to learn about the Church. I want you to tell me all about your mission because I want to grow up to be a missionary just like you.
Please tell Bobby that Iβll write a letter to him soon.
I have to go now so that Iβll be on time for baseball practice.
Love,Buddy
(To be continued)
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The Kingdom Up on High
Eight-year-old McKenzie was recently baptized and confirmed. She describes entering the water and feeling pure, comfortable, excited, and happy.
McKenzie, age eight, has recently been baptized and confirmed. She said, βThe best part of being baptized was when I went into the water. I felt pure, comfortable, excited, and happy.β
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When Life Was Hard, I Found Comfort at Seminary and Institute
As a teenager without a strong spiritual foundation at home, he faced influences contrary to gospel teachings. Attending seminary and connecting with youth leaders helped him endure, remain committed, and grow spiritually through the love of teachers and members.
The next few years were hard for a variety of reasons. I was exposed to many paths that were contrary to the teachings of the gospel. Even though my parents were supportive of our church attendance, they were not members of the Church and didnβt have the same standards. So I didnβt have a foundation at home for spiritual growth.
During that time, attending seminary and connecting with my youth leaders really helped me push through the hard times and stay committed to the gospel. I grew spiritually, thanks to the efforts of teachers and other members of the Church who loved me and cared about my growth.
During that time, attending seminary and connecting with my youth leaders really helped me push through the hard times and stay committed to the gospel. I grew spiritually, thanks to the efforts of teachers and other members of the Church who loved me and cared about my growth.
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Object Lessons That Motivate
The author recalls a bishopβs counselor passing a new candy around deacons and then offering the now-sticky piece to eat; none accepted. He urged the boys to remember this when dating, teaching chastity and respect. The author never forgot the lesson.
I shared my own favorite object lesson. Nearly 40 years earlier a bishopβs counselor passed a clean, new piece of candy around a group of deacons. Then he offered the handled and somewhat sticky piece of candy to anyone who wanted to eat it. No one did. This wise teacher challenged us to remember the lesson when we were old enough to begin dating. We needed to keep ourselves morally clean and to respect our dates. It was a lesson on chastity I never forgot.
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The Returned Serviceman β¦ a Stepchild?
Vietnam veteran Warren Mallen felt inferior and suspicious after military service compared to returned missionaries. He recognized his conditioning, decided to trust people's sincerity, and began to change and reconnect.
βA soldier is often in a poor environment. It is unfortunate, but the worst of mankind seems to reveal itself during war. And maybe this is the reason returned servicemen donβt feel equal to returned missionaries. Missionaries are in a situation to see the most beautiful and uplifting parts of mankind; military people see the opposite. This naturally created a state of inequity in my mind; I didnβt feel as good as if I had been serving on a mission. And, of course, I wasnβt treated the same as a returned missionary. But the most important difference to me was that difference inside of me.
βFor the first while it was natural for me to be hostile and suspect that people were not sincere because this is what I had been conditioned to expect. But finally I had to get hold of myself and say, βLook, these people are trying to help you, and they want to be your friends.β It took me a while to realize this, but when I did, the change started happening to me, and I began to come around,β said Warren Mallen, a Vietnam veteran.
βFor the first while it was natural for me to be hostile and suspect that people were not sincere because this is what I had been conditioned to expect. But finally I had to get hold of myself and say, βLook, these people are trying to help you, and they want to be your friends.β It took me a while to realize this, but when I did, the change started happening to me, and I began to come around,β said Warren Mallen, a Vietnam veteran.
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Your Celestial Journey
While walking to the temple one morning, the speaker saw a group of young women who had just performed baptisms for the dead. With wet hair and radiant smiles, they were filled with joy. One girl turned back toward the temple and said it was the happiest day of her life.
One morning as I walked to the temple, I saw a group of young women who, early that morning, had participated in baptisms for those who had passed beyond. Their hair was wet. Their smiles were radiant. Their hearts were filled with joy. One girl turned back to face the temple and expressed her feelings. βThis has been the happiest day of my life,β she said.
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A longtime subscriber and youth leader, Daniel shared meaningful messages from the New Era. After being called as bishop, he found the June 1977 leadership articles especially helpful, comparing their value to the General Handbook in helping him fulfill his stewardship.
How blessed the leaders of the youth of the Church are to have the counsel and guidance contained in the New Era. For years my wife and I have subscribed to the youth magazine and have been touched with the contents of the issues. As an adult leader of the youth in our ward I have shared the messages that I felt were significant. However, I must admit that the June 1977 issue holds special meaning and counsel for me. I was very recently called as the bishop of the San Antonio First Ward, San Antonio Texas East Stake. I feel that the articles on leadership contained in this monthβs issue are as important as the General Handbook of Instructions for helping me discharge my stewardship. Thank you so very much for the outstanding issue that we leaders have to use as a guide.
Bishop Daniel DreherSan Antonio, Texas
Bishop Daniel DreherSan Antonio, Texas
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A Church member was struggling and knew they needed to confess to their bishop but lacked the courage. After reading an article in the New Era that addressed their problem, they realized they were not alone. That same day, they met with their bishop and began the repentance process.
I really enjoy reading the New Era. Recently I have been having problems. I knew I would have to tell my bishop in order to truly repent. I just couldnβt muster up the strength to confess my sins to him. Then I got the October 1989 issue. It talked about the problem I had in the Question and Answer section. After reading it I realized that I was not alone. That very day I went to my bishop and talked to him. It was hard, but your article gave me the strength. Thanks to the authors and the kids who told of their experiences. I know that you were truly inspired.
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Deciding about Decisions
As a teenager, the speaker and friends escalated a cliff-diving contest at East Canyon Reservoir. Feeling pressured to match a friend's increasingly higher dives, he ultimately leaped from 80 feet, barely missing rocks and avoiding serious injury. He later realized the decision was driven by others' taunts, not his own judgment. The experience taught him about the danger of letting others make his decisions.
When I was a young man I lived in a small community close to the mountains. I was a lifeguard and did lots of swimming. We used to go tubing down rivers and all those crazy things that advisers worry about but guys get excited about. We went swimming at a place called East Canyon, a beautiful man-made reservoir. The dam is in a narrow neck of the canyon between sheer rock walls.
None of us had boats, so we couldnβt water ski, but we would do what we called cliff diving. Weβd climb up those rocks and dive into the reservoir. Weβd always wear tennis shoes because the rocks were so sharp. We used to have a wonderful time. I guess I didnβt realize how really dangerous it was.
After weβd been there several times and pretty well knew the rocks, cliffs, and the water depth, two or three of us hard-core East Canyon divers got into the inevitable teenage contest of raw courage. One guy climbed up to where we always dove from and yelled down, βHey! Iβll bet I dare dive higher than anybody here!β
βAh, go on!β
So he climbed up to the top of the dam. The dam was about 50 feet off the water. Diving into the air he arched into the water, and like a bunch of sheep we crawled up the rocks, out onto the dam, and all of us dove off. I donβt know if youβve ever jumped 50 feetβitβs a long way. I could only think that, after all, the water was 70 feet deep and couldnβt hurt all that much.
Well, that didnβt satisfy my friend, and so he said, βAll right, Iβll do one better!β He climbed 60 feet up the side of the cliff. And not wanting to be outdone, I climbed up by him. After all, everyone was looking at me. I had a great suntan, and I was sure everyone expected me to do what he was doing. He swallowed hard, buried his fear, and from trembling knees arched his back, and floating through 60 feet of air into the water.
I was grateful nobody was watching me as I prepared for my dive. When heβd cleared and seemed to be all right, I took courage, and I made my dive. By now the other members of our diving contest had backed down, figuring it was a little high. But not my friend. He climbed on up to about 70 feet and once more prepared to dive. From below I could barely see him. Seventy feet is a very long way up on the rocks. I said to myself, βI hope he doesnβt do it because if he does it, then obviously Iβve got to do it, and I really donβt want to.β About then I saw a pink body float through the air and splash into the water not far from me. He came up laughing, rubbing his shoulders and his eyes, and said, βWell, Merrill, are you going to do it?β
βOf course, Iβm going to do it!β Everybody on the shore said, βYeah, of course heβs going to do it!β
And so I swam back to the shore and climbed up the rocks. I knew I only had the courage for one more jump. I knew if I jumped at 70 feet, he was going to go higher, so I thought, βWell, I might as well go up to the very top where there is no way he can go higher.β
I scrambled up 80 feet to the very top of the cliff. As I turned around and looked down, I saw that the cliffs were back away from the water at that height. I had two challenges: to fall 80 feet and to get enough clearance to avoid hitting the rocks at the bottom. Everybody was egging me on in a negative way. βYouβre chicken, youβre chicken!β
I stood there all alone, everybody waiting down below. The water was so far away it looked like crinkled tinfoil in the sun. I was just terrified. I was committed, but I had not even based my decision on what I wanted to do or what I felt was right. I had based it on about a half dozen guys whose names I donβt even remember who were yelling, βHey, chicken, are you going to do it?β
I realized that in order to make the jump I would have to run a distance to get enough momentum to carry me over the rocks below. So I backed up and ran as hard as I could toward the edge. I found the mark I had carefully laid at the edge of the rock and sprang out into space. I donβt know how long it takes to fall 80 feet, but for me it took about a week. On the way down I remembered distinctly how my parents and teachers had taught me to be careful when making decisions because I could kill myself with a wrong one. I said to myself, βYou have done it; you have killed yourself, because when you hit the water youβll be going so fast that it might as well be concrete.β And when I hit the water, I was sure it was concrete. I donβt know how far down you go when you jump from 80 feet, but Iβll tell you, I was a grateful lad when my head finally popped above water. I took a quick inventory to make sure that the throbbing pain in my right thigh didnβt designate the loss of anything important.
Well, why did I jump? Did I prove myself to the guys? You think they cared? You think theyβre sitting at home tonight saying, βRemember old Merrill, brave old Merrill, jumping off the. β¦β They donβt even remember! They donβt care! But for me that moment was as important as my life. I made what could have easily been a fatal decision. Through the grace of a very patient Heavenly Father I wasnβt killed. I didnβt land on the rocks; I missed by only a few feet. I didnβt drown, and I didnβt have a concussion or a number of other things that could easily have happened because of such a stupid decision.
I was subjected to pressure that was hard to withstand, the pressure of friends expecting things of me that I didnβt want to do because I knew better. But I yielded to the pressure. I was living in the world, and at that moment I was of the world because I was not in control of myself. I was not making decisions about my own life. The world made the decisions for me. I was of the world, and had barely avoided being in the world about six feet deep.
None of us had boats, so we couldnβt water ski, but we would do what we called cliff diving. Weβd climb up those rocks and dive into the reservoir. Weβd always wear tennis shoes because the rocks were so sharp. We used to have a wonderful time. I guess I didnβt realize how really dangerous it was.
After weβd been there several times and pretty well knew the rocks, cliffs, and the water depth, two or three of us hard-core East Canyon divers got into the inevitable teenage contest of raw courage. One guy climbed up to where we always dove from and yelled down, βHey! Iβll bet I dare dive higher than anybody here!β
βAh, go on!β
So he climbed up to the top of the dam. The dam was about 50 feet off the water. Diving into the air he arched into the water, and like a bunch of sheep we crawled up the rocks, out onto the dam, and all of us dove off. I donβt know if youβve ever jumped 50 feetβitβs a long way. I could only think that, after all, the water was 70 feet deep and couldnβt hurt all that much.
Well, that didnβt satisfy my friend, and so he said, βAll right, Iβll do one better!β He climbed 60 feet up the side of the cliff. And not wanting to be outdone, I climbed up by him. After all, everyone was looking at me. I had a great suntan, and I was sure everyone expected me to do what he was doing. He swallowed hard, buried his fear, and from trembling knees arched his back, and floating through 60 feet of air into the water.
I was grateful nobody was watching me as I prepared for my dive. When heβd cleared and seemed to be all right, I took courage, and I made my dive. By now the other members of our diving contest had backed down, figuring it was a little high. But not my friend. He climbed on up to about 70 feet and once more prepared to dive. From below I could barely see him. Seventy feet is a very long way up on the rocks. I said to myself, βI hope he doesnβt do it because if he does it, then obviously Iβve got to do it, and I really donβt want to.β About then I saw a pink body float through the air and splash into the water not far from me. He came up laughing, rubbing his shoulders and his eyes, and said, βWell, Merrill, are you going to do it?β
βOf course, Iβm going to do it!β Everybody on the shore said, βYeah, of course heβs going to do it!β
And so I swam back to the shore and climbed up the rocks. I knew I only had the courage for one more jump. I knew if I jumped at 70 feet, he was going to go higher, so I thought, βWell, I might as well go up to the very top where there is no way he can go higher.β
I scrambled up 80 feet to the very top of the cliff. As I turned around and looked down, I saw that the cliffs were back away from the water at that height. I had two challenges: to fall 80 feet and to get enough clearance to avoid hitting the rocks at the bottom. Everybody was egging me on in a negative way. βYouβre chicken, youβre chicken!β
I stood there all alone, everybody waiting down below. The water was so far away it looked like crinkled tinfoil in the sun. I was just terrified. I was committed, but I had not even based my decision on what I wanted to do or what I felt was right. I had based it on about a half dozen guys whose names I donβt even remember who were yelling, βHey, chicken, are you going to do it?β
I realized that in order to make the jump I would have to run a distance to get enough momentum to carry me over the rocks below. So I backed up and ran as hard as I could toward the edge. I found the mark I had carefully laid at the edge of the rock and sprang out into space. I donβt know how long it takes to fall 80 feet, but for me it took about a week. On the way down I remembered distinctly how my parents and teachers had taught me to be careful when making decisions because I could kill myself with a wrong one. I said to myself, βYou have done it; you have killed yourself, because when you hit the water youβll be going so fast that it might as well be concrete.β And when I hit the water, I was sure it was concrete. I donβt know how far down you go when you jump from 80 feet, but Iβll tell you, I was a grateful lad when my head finally popped above water. I took a quick inventory to make sure that the throbbing pain in my right thigh didnβt designate the loss of anything important.
Well, why did I jump? Did I prove myself to the guys? You think they cared? You think theyβre sitting at home tonight saying, βRemember old Merrill, brave old Merrill, jumping off the. β¦β They donβt even remember! They donβt care! But for me that moment was as important as my life. I made what could have easily been a fatal decision. Through the grace of a very patient Heavenly Father I wasnβt killed. I didnβt land on the rocks; I missed by only a few feet. I didnβt drown, and I didnβt have a concussion or a number of other things that could easily have happened because of such a stupid decision.
I was subjected to pressure that was hard to withstand, the pressure of friends expecting things of me that I didnβt want to do because I knew better. But I yielded to the pressure. I was living in the world, and at that moment I was of the world because I was not in control of myself. I was not making decisions about my own life. The world made the decisions for me. I was of the world, and had barely avoided being in the world about six feet deep.
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Prepare for the Days of Tribulation
Shortly after World War II, the speaker was sent by the First Presidency to Europe to reestablish missions and distribute relief. He witnessed people boarding trains daily carrying belongings to barter in the countryside for food. Each evening, they returned with produce and even small animals, willing to trade nearly anything for sustenance.
Shortly after World War II, I was called by the First Presidency to go to Europe to reestablish our missions and set up a program for the distribution of food and clothing to the Saints. Vivid in my memory are the people who got on trains each morning with all kinds of bric-a-brac in their arms to go out to the countryside to trade their possessions for food. At evening time, the train station was filled with people with arms full of vegetables and fruits, and a menagerie of squealing pigs and chickens. You never heard such a commotion. These people were, of course, willing to barter practically anything for that commodity which sustains lifeβfood.
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11 Really Short Stories about Sharing the Gospel
A youth set a goal to post scriptures and quotes from Come, Follow Me on social media. Several people commented that they felt the Spirit through the posts. She learned that sharing the gospel can bless others in unseen ways.
For a goal, I went through Come, Follow Me and found scriptures and quotes to share on social media. I received several comments from people saying they felt the Spirit through my posts. Sharing the gospel can help others in ways we canβt imagine in the moment.
Raquel, Brazil
Raquel, Brazil
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Teaching the Gospel
Gospel Teaching That Motivates
A family of five lived among many Latter-day Saints and learned about the gospel but did not join. After moving, a missionary invited them to church, and they were soon baptized. The father said no one had previously invited them to join or attend.
The importance of this step is illustrated by a family of five who became converts to the Church. They had lived in a neighborhood where there were many Latter-day Saints, and they had learned much about the gospel. Then they had moved to a mission area, and a Mormon missionary invited them to church. In a short time they were baptized. Someone asked, βWhy didnβt you join sooner?β The father answered, βNo one ever before invited us to join or even to go to church.β
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Feedback
April discovered three old New Era magazines at home and excitedly told her mother. She read the story 'Harley-Davidson' and loved it, then read about the film based on Jack Weylandβs 'The Award.' Borrowing the videotape from her branch, she watched it several times in a week and was especially touched by a scene with a corsage and card.
As I was rummaging through some old magazines I found three New Eras that I didnβt even know we had. I was pretty excited, and I practically bounced down the stairs to tell my mom what I had found. Today as I was reading the August 1985 issue I saw the story βHarley-Davidson,β and I read it. I think that was one of the best stories I have ever read in the New Era! It was simply wonderful! I also read the article about the movie made from Jack Weylandβs story βThe Award.β Our branch has the videotape of that movie, and I borrowed it and within a week I had watched it four or five times. I could watch it forever and never get bored! It was done very well. My favorite part was when Mary Beth got the corsage and card. It really touched me and made me think. Thanks for everything!
April BreidenbaughNorth Vernon, Indiana
April BreidenbaughNorth Vernon, Indiana
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FYI:For Your Info
Laurel president Amy Bice, selected as a Girlsβ Nation delegate in Washington, D.C., met and spoke with President Bill Clinton. Named outstanding senator, she reflected on the unexpected opportunity for someone from a small Idaho town. She described the experience as great.
Because of her selection as a delegate to Girlsβ Nation in Washington, D.C., Laurel president Amy Bice of the Rexburg Tenth Ward, Rexburg Idaho East Stake, was able to meet and chat with President Bill Clinton. Amy, who was named outstanding senator, said, βI never thought a girl from a small Idaho town could do something like this. Itβs really been great.β
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Young Women
Two missionaries are tracting in Portugal. One Elder gives an impressive door approach using German from his high school studies. His companion points out that they are in Portugal, highlighting the mix-up.
βThat was an impressive door approach, Elder. Iβm glad all of your high school German is coming back to you, but weβre in Portugal!β
Ryan Stoker
Ryan Stoker
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The Lord Blesses His Children through Patriarchal Blessings
A patriarch received a call from a concerned mother asking if her physically challenged daughter could receive a patriarchal blessing. After the bishop provided a recommend, the appointment was set and the girl received her blessing. The blessing addressed her lineage and unique needs, affirming that her cheerful acceptance would bless the lives of those who cared for her. Lives and attitudes were changed as a result.
A patriarch received a call one afternoon from a concerned mother of a young daughter who was physically challenged from birth. This dear mother asked if her daughter could possibly receive a patriarchal blessing. The patriarch informed her that if her daughter could obtain a recommend from the bishop, he was sure that the Lord had a blessing for her. A short time later the patriarch was informed that the bishop had given this sweet young girl a recommend to receive a patriarchal blessing.
An appointment was made. The blessing was given and gratefully received. Her lineage was given. She received a blessing suited to her needs and unique situation. Lives, focus, and attitudes were changed. She was told that through her cheerful acceptance of the efforts and sacrifices of those who loved and cared for her, she would be blessing their lives, and to accept their offerings graciously and willingly.
An appointment was made. The blessing was given and gratefully received. Her lineage was given. She received a blessing suited to her needs and unique situation. Lives, focus, and attitudes were changed. She was told that through her cheerful acceptance of the efforts and sacrifices of those who loved and cared for her, she would be blessing their lives, and to accept their offerings graciously and willingly.
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Patriarchal Blessings
A Gift of Testimony and Love
The author recalls meeting Ed Bravenec, who had lost parts of his fingers but desired to play the organ as an expression of faith. After his baptism, Ed faced further health challenges, including toe amputations and his wife's stage 4 cancer, yet he continued serving as ward organist. In 2019 he lost a leg, but soon returned, removed his prosthetic at the organ, and played reverently. The experience strengthened the authorβs gratitude and reverence during the sacrament.
βWhile of these emblems we partake,β1 we began to sing. I wished we were singing a little faster, but I focused on the ordinance.
A calm came over me, settling my soul. The tone and meter of the organ were exactly appropriate to prepare us for the sacrament.
I looked with gratitude at our organist as he reverently swayed with the music. I thought back to our first meeting eight years earlier. Just a few months before we met, wildfires had destroyed Ed Bravenecβs home, along with most of his familyβs possessions. As the missionaries and I shared a gospel discussion in his new mobile home, Brother Bravenec told us he played the organ.
βI play to express my testimony and love of God,β he said. Then we talked about whether he might play for our ward should he join the Church.
I looked at the ends of his fingers. A couple of them had been amputated. I was inspired by his faith, but I wondered about his capacity to play.
βI know that the Church would be grateful for you to share your gifts,β I said.
Brother Bravenec was satisfied with my response, and we went on to enjoy a good lesson and the beginning of a firm friendship. He was soon baptized and, as he had desired, became our ward organist.
Over the years since his baptism, I have watched as his health challenges led to the amputation of one of his toes. Not long after that, Sister Bravenec, who returned to Church activity when her husband became a member, was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Then Brother Bravenec lost another toe.
We missed him for a few weeks as he cared for his wife and struggled through his ordeal. But soon he returned to church, sharing his testimony through the beautiful strains of the organ.
In 2019, Brother Bravenec learned that he would lose one of his legs. I was sad for him, thinking that his years at the organ had come to an end. But a few weeks after the surgery, Brother Bravenec hobbled into church on his new prosthetic leg.
Using canes to keep his balance, he slowly made his way to the organ. There, he sat on the organ bench, removed his prosthetic limb, and began playing the prelude music. A few minutes later, he played the opening hymn. Now it was time for the sacrament.
βIn Jesusβ name and for his sake,β we sangβtone and meter perfect.
A calm came over me, settling my soul. The tone and meter of the organ were exactly appropriate to prepare us for the sacrament.
I looked with gratitude at our organist as he reverently swayed with the music. I thought back to our first meeting eight years earlier. Just a few months before we met, wildfires had destroyed Ed Bravenecβs home, along with most of his familyβs possessions. As the missionaries and I shared a gospel discussion in his new mobile home, Brother Bravenec told us he played the organ.
βI play to express my testimony and love of God,β he said. Then we talked about whether he might play for our ward should he join the Church.
I looked at the ends of his fingers. A couple of them had been amputated. I was inspired by his faith, but I wondered about his capacity to play.
βI know that the Church would be grateful for you to share your gifts,β I said.
Brother Bravenec was satisfied with my response, and we went on to enjoy a good lesson and the beginning of a firm friendship. He was soon baptized and, as he had desired, became our ward organist.
Over the years since his baptism, I have watched as his health challenges led to the amputation of one of his toes. Not long after that, Sister Bravenec, who returned to Church activity when her husband became a member, was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Then Brother Bravenec lost another toe.
We missed him for a few weeks as he cared for his wife and struggled through his ordeal. But soon he returned to church, sharing his testimony through the beautiful strains of the organ.
In 2019, Brother Bravenec learned that he would lose one of his legs. I was sad for him, thinking that his years at the organ had come to an end. But a few weeks after the surgery, Brother Bravenec hobbled into church on his new prosthetic leg.
Using canes to keep his balance, he slowly made his way to the organ. There, he sat on the organ bench, removed his prosthetic limb, and began playing the prelude music. A few minutes later, he played the opening hymn. Now it was time for the sacrament.
βIn Jesusβ name and for his sake,β we sangβtone and meter perfect.
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Making Friends across the Pacific
BYU nursing students planned a friendship exchange between Primary children in Utah and Tonga. They gathered drawings and photos in Utah, then delivered them during sharing time in Tonga, where the children happily received them. The Tongan children created drawings and messages in return, with translations provided by their Primary president, and had their photos taken. The exchange fostered excitement and connection between the children in both places.
When some nursing students from Brigham Young University were getting ready to go to Tonga, they thought it would be fun for children from Utah and Tonga to become friends.
So the students asked Primary children in the Oak Hills Ninth Ward in Provo, Utah, to draw pictures for children in Tonga. They also took photographs of the children.
When they got to Tonga, the nursing students helped with sharing time in the Neiafu Third Ward. They gave each child a drawing and photograph from a child in Utah. The children were excited to learn about their new friends in Utah.
The children drew pictures for the children in Utah. Some of them wrote messages about themselves and about life in Tonga. Some messages were written in English and others in Tongan. Their Primary president wrote an English translation of the Tongan messages. The nursing students took photographs of the children.
One boy wrote, βI play rugby, and Tonga is so very hot.β A girl wrote, βI love your picture. You look so beautiful. I love to sing, like you.β Another child wrote about Primary and expressed love: βMy lesson today is about prophets. I love you so much!β
So the students asked Primary children in the Oak Hills Ninth Ward in Provo, Utah, to draw pictures for children in Tonga. They also took photographs of the children.
When they got to Tonga, the nursing students helped with sharing time in the Neiafu Third Ward. They gave each child a drawing and photograph from a child in Utah. The children were excited to learn about their new friends in Utah.
The children drew pictures for the children in Utah. Some of them wrote messages about themselves and about life in Tonga. Some messages were written in English and others in Tongan. Their Primary president wrote an English translation of the Tongan messages. The nursing students took photographs of the children.
One boy wrote, βI play rugby, and Tonga is so very hot.β A girl wrote, βI love your picture. You look so beautiful. I love to sing, like you.β Another child wrote about Primary and expressed love: βMy lesson today is about prophets. I love you so much!β
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Children
Diversity and Unity in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
Friendship
Kindness
Love
Service