At the beginning of 2014, Gabin found an article online reporting that Elder David A. Bednar, of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, had a few months earlier been in Libreville. It was just after the Gabonese government had officially recognized the Church and had permitted the beginning of missionary activities. Elder Bednar had dedicated the country of Gabon for the preaching of the gospel and he had organized the Libreville Branch. Gabin was stunned. For more than eight years he had likely been the only endowed member of the Church living in Gabon and suddenly there was a branch organized in his home city.
Using an email address found in the article, Gabin wrote to the Africa Southeast Area office, asking questions about the Church situation in Libreville. Elie Monga, president of the Brazzaville mission in the Republic of Congo, was informed and a few days later, while at work, Gabin received a visit from Elder Michael Moody, the first senior missionary to serve in Gabon.
After their initial greeting, Gabin said to Elder Moody, βI have a few questions. First, where can I pay my tithing?β For more than eight years, Gabin had carefully kept his tithing money in a small box.
βSecond,β he asked, βWhere can I buy new temple garments? Eight years ago, I brought a few to Libreville, and every night since I have been carefully hand washing them.β Elder Moody went to the car, opened his suitcase, and gave Gabin a brand-new pair of garments that he had been prompted to pack in his travel case that morning.
Gabin from Gabon
After learning that Elder David A. Bednar had dedicated Gabon and organized a branch, Gabin contacted Church leaders. Soon, senior missionary Elder Michael Moody visited him at work. Gabin paid long-saved tithing and received a new set of garments that Elder Moody had been prompted to bring.
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The Soil and Roots of Testimony
While preparing for this address, the backyard lawn began to recover, but the front lawn sprinkler abruptly failed. He cautions against growing weary in well-doing and notes that testimonies, like lawns, can wither.
As I prepared for this moment, the backyard lawn was beginning to look green again, but the sprinkler on the front lawn shut down without warning. One must not become weary with well-doing (see D&C 64:33). Our testimonies, like our lawns, can wither.
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How Could We Go to the Temple?
Back in Belarus, the family saved money and traveled with their children to Germany in August 2000, staying with relatives. On September 2, they journeyed to the Frankfurt Temple, received their endowment, and were sealed, despite their baby crying during the sealing. The experience was deeply joyful and unforgettable.
Our second daughter, Yelyena, was born in Minsk on January 6, 1999. Igor had a steady job now, but we still didnβt have enough money to go to the temple. Gradually we saved, however, and at the end of August 2000, we took the children to Germany. Igor has relatives in Kaiserslautern, and we stayed with them.
Early on the morning of September 2, we began our journey to the temple in Frankfurt. Although the trip was very tiring and included two transfers, we were full of enthusiasm and joy. We are grateful to all the temple workers, the temple president, and also the sisters who watched our daughters while we went through the endowment session. That was an unforgettable day! It is difficult to put into words the feelings we experienced there, but they were very good.
After the endowment session, we went into the sealing room, where Yelyena was already crying (it was her nap time). I hardly heard any of the sealing ceremony because of the crying, but we were very happy anyway. That was the most wonderful trip of our lives because we were in the house of the Lord.
Early on the morning of September 2, we began our journey to the temple in Frankfurt. Although the trip was very tiring and included two transfers, we were full of enthusiasm and joy. We are grateful to all the temple workers, the temple president, and also the sisters who watched our daughters while we went through the endowment session. That was an unforgettable day! It is difficult to put into words the feelings we experienced there, but they were very good.
After the endowment session, we went into the sealing room, where Yelyena was already crying (it was her nap time). I hardly heard any of the sealing ceremony because of the crying, but we were very happy anyway. That was the most wonderful trip of our lives because we were in the house of the Lord.
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Iris JoAnn Alvarado of Ponce, Puerto Rico
Before JoAnnieβs birth, a stake patriarch felt prompted to bless her mother. Doctors later said the newborn would die or suffer brain damage due to lack of oxygen and nourishment. Her family prayed, and JoAnnie not only survived but developed normally and excelled in school.
The doctors said she wouldnβt live, but Iris JoAnn Alvarado is thriving. Her faith, and the faith of her family, has preserved her life many times. When her mother was about to give birth to JoAnnie, the stake patriarch came to their home. He felt impressed to give Sister Alvarado a blessing. She didnβt understand then why she needed a blessing, but she did after JoAnnie was born. Her little girl weighed only a little more than four pounds, and the doctors discovered that throughout the pregnancy she had not gotten much oxygen and that the last three months she had probably not received enough nourishment. The Alvarados were told that she would die and that if she didnβt, she would have severe brain damage from the lack of oxygen.
But JoAnnieβs family prayed for her, and their prayers were answered, because she lived. At four months she was standing; at eight months she could walk. When she started talking, it was in short sentences and the words were very clearβthere was obviously nothing wrong with her brain. Today, at nine years of age, she continues to excel, getting straight As in all her school classes.
But JoAnnieβs family prayed for her, and their prayers were answered, because she lived. At four months she was standing; at eight months she could walk. When she started talking, it was in short sentences and the words were very clearβthere was obviously nothing wrong with her brain. Today, at nine years of age, she continues to excel, getting straight As in all her school classes.
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Near to Eternity
Anthony initially lacked a strong testimony and went along with others. After a Sunday School lesson prompted him to seek a testimony, he attended the temple again and felt a powerful confirming gratitude while being baptized for the dead. The Spirit brought everything together like a completed puzzle.
GEELONGβAnthony George, 17, lives in this seaside town southwest of Melbourne. βI actually got my testimony from attending the temple,β he says. βBefore I started going to the temple, I didnβt really have much of a testimony. I just went along with everyone.β Then, a few weeks before his third trip to the temple, Anthonyβs Sunday School teacher told the class that everyone needs a testimony. βSo I started thinking about that.β
At the Sydney Temple a few weeks later, Anthony was in the font. βI had already been baptized a few times, and they said the baptismal prayer and I was baptized again. I just had this really good feeling like the person was grateful for what I had done for him. I just felt that this was the right thing, and that going to church was the right thing.β Everything just came together βlike a jigsaw puzzle the Spirit put together for me.β
At the Sydney Temple a few weeks later, Anthony was in the font. βI had already been baptized a few times, and they said the baptismal prayer and I was baptized again. I just had this really good feeling like the person was grateful for what I had done for him. I just felt that this was the right thing, and that going to church was the right thing.β Everything just came together βlike a jigsaw puzzle the Spirit put together for me.β
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Twin Falls Temple Open
After being announced in 2004 and breaking ground in 2006, the Twin Falls Idaho Temple held an open house attended by more than 150,000 visitors. On August 24, 2008, President Thomas S. Monson dedicated the temple, marking it as the 128th operating temple and the fourth in Idaho. The dedication prayer expressed gratitude for faithful members whose tithes made the temple possible.
The Twin Falls Idaho Temple is open and operating after its dedication on August 24, 2008, by President Thomas S. Monson. This marks the 128th operating temple in the world and the fourth in the state of Idaho.
βWe are grateful for this long-awaited day of dedication, when this, Thy holy house, has been completed,β said President Monson in the dedicatory prayer. βBless, we pray Thee, those faithful members here and throughout the world who have contributed their tithes which have made possible this magnificent edifice for Thy nameβs honor and glory and for the blessing of all who enter herein.β
The new temple district includes 14 stakes serving approximately 42,000 members in the south-central Idaho area. Temple visitors can see the beautiful Idaho scenery of waterfalls and the syringa flower (Idaho state flower) represented within the 31,500-square-foot (2,900-square-meter) templeβs walls, stained glass, and landscaping.
More than 150,000 visitors toured the temple during an open house held the month before the dedication. The temple was first announced in October 2004, and ground was broken in April 2006.
βWe are grateful for this long-awaited day of dedication, when this, Thy holy house, has been completed,β said President Monson in the dedicatory prayer. βBless, we pray Thee, those faithful members here and throughout the world who have contributed their tithes which have made possible this magnificent edifice for Thy nameβs honor and glory and for the blessing of all who enter herein.β
The new temple district includes 14 stakes serving approximately 42,000 members in the south-central Idaho area. Temple visitors can see the beautiful Idaho scenery of waterfalls and the syringa flower (Idaho state flower) represented within the 31,500-square-foot (2,900-square-meter) templeβs walls, stained glass, and landscaping.
More than 150,000 visitors toured the temple during an open house held the month before the dedication. The temple was first announced in October 2004, and ground was broken in April 2006.
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Tortillas and Amigas
Feeling bored and alone, Adriana visits her neighbor Margarita, who seems sad. They share tortillas and beans, and Adriana offers a prayer asking God to help Margarita. Margarita brightens during their meal and conversation, expressing that she needed a friend that day. Adriana leaves feeling full of friendship.
Adriana was bored. She wanted to play with her twin sister, Diana. But Diana had gone to buy food at the mercado with MamΓ‘. Adriana sighed. The house felt very empty. She wished sheβd gone with them.
Adriana decided to visit her neighbor Margarita. Margaritaβs kids were all grown up, and she was like an abuela to Adriana. They always had lots of fun together.
Adriana went outside. The hot sun shone down on her as she walked to Margaritaβs house. She poked her head inside the door. βMargarita, are you home?β
βSΓ, I am in the cocina,β Margarita called. Adriana walked in. Margarita was sitting at the kitchen table with her head down.
βBuenas tardes, Adriana,β said Margarita. She looked up and gave a small smile. But she seemed sad.
βIs something wrong?β asked Adriana.
Margarita sighed. βNothing you need to worry about.β
How can I help her feel better? Adriana thought. Margarita always seemed happy when they cooked together. βMay I help you make tortillas?β
βI just finished making some,β said Margarita. She lifted a cloth napkin to show a stack of tortillas.
βThen may I help you eat tortillas?β Adriana asked with a grin.
Margarita laughed. βOf course. Let me just heat up some frijoles to go with them.β
Adriana stood by Margarita at the stove and stirred black refried beans in a pot. When the beans were done, she carried them to the mesa. Margarita brought the tortillas and the queso to the table too.
Adriana took a warm tortilla and spread beans over it. Then she sprinkled the cheese on top. It looked delicioso! Adriana couldnβt wait to take a bite. But there was something she wanted to do first.
βMay I please say an oraciΓ³n?β Adriana asked Margarita.
βSure.β
Adriana closed her eyes and folded her arms. βPadre Celestial, we thank Thee for this food. Please bless it to make us healthy and strong. And please help Margarita with whatever she needs. Iβm glad sheβs my friend. In the name of Jesucristo, amen.β
Adriana opened her eyes. Margarita had a big smileβa real one this time. While they ate, they talked about school and fΓΊtbol and books. Adriana loved talking with Margarita.
When they finished eating, Adriana gave Margarita a big abrazo. βThank you for the snack. I had a great time!β
Margarita hugged Adriana back. βThank you, Adriana. I needed a friend today.β
Adriana beamed. βIβm glad weβre amigas.β
βIβm glad weβre friends too,β Margarita said. βWhy donβt you take the rest of these tortillas home? Iβm so full.β
Adriana skipped all the way back to her casa. She felt full tooβand not just from the tortillas! She was full of friendship from head to toe.
Adriana decided to visit her neighbor Margarita. Margaritaβs kids were all grown up, and she was like an abuela to Adriana. They always had lots of fun together.
Adriana went outside. The hot sun shone down on her as she walked to Margaritaβs house. She poked her head inside the door. βMargarita, are you home?β
βSΓ, I am in the cocina,β Margarita called. Adriana walked in. Margarita was sitting at the kitchen table with her head down.
βBuenas tardes, Adriana,β said Margarita. She looked up and gave a small smile. But she seemed sad.
βIs something wrong?β asked Adriana.
Margarita sighed. βNothing you need to worry about.β
How can I help her feel better? Adriana thought. Margarita always seemed happy when they cooked together. βMay I help you make tortillas?β
βI just finished making some,β said Margarita. She lifted a cloth napkin to show a stack of tortillas.
βThen may I help you eat tortillas?β Adriana asked with a grin.
Margarita laughed. βOf course. Let me just heat up some frijoles to go with them.β
Adriana stood by Margarita at the stove and stirred black refried beans in a pot. When the beans were done, she carried them to the mesa. Margarita brought the tortillas and the queso to the table too.
Adriana took a warm tortilla and spread beans over it. Then she sprinkled the cheese on top. It looked delicioso! Adriana couldnβt wait to take a bite. But there was something she wanted to do first.
βMay I please say an oraciΓ³n?β Adriana asked Margarita.
βSure.β
Adriana closed her eyes and folded her arms. βPadre Celestial, we thank Thee for this food. Please bless it to make us healthy and strong. And please help Margarita with whatever she needs. Iβm glad sheβs my friend. In the name of Jesucristo, amen.β
Adriana opened her eyes. Margarita had a big smileβa real one this time. While they ate, they talked about school and fΓΊtbol and books. Adriana loved talking with Margarita.
When they finished eating, Adriana gave Margarita a big abrazo. βThank you for the snack. I had a great time!β
Margarita hugged Adriana back. βThank you, Adriana. I needed a friend today.β
Adriana beamed. βIβm glad weβre amigas.β
βIβm glad weβre friends too,β Margarita said. βWhy donβt you take the rest of these tortillas home? Iβm so full.β
Adriana skipped all the way back to her casa. She felt full tooβand not just from the tortillas! She was full of friendship from head to toe.
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Companionship Council: Creating Intentional Happiness in Marriage
As a college student, the author learned about companionship councils from a returned-missionary friend and studied the practice further. She and her future husband, James, began holding weekly councils before marriage, and their first meeting built confidence in their relationship. They have continued the tradition and feel it has brought deep joy and fulfillment. They also keep records of their sessions to see their progress over time.
As a young college student of peace and conflict studies, I took great interest in any process that could be used for resolving conflict. One life-altering conversation with a friend introduced me to a process that I had never heard of before: companionship council.
While sharing about his mission, my friend told me that companionship council is the regular check-in where missionary companionships discuss how they are working together and how to improve. My friend had found the process so helpful as a missionary that he planned to use it in his marriage someday. The idea sank deep into my heart. I read about companionship council in Preach My Gospel and talked to other returned missionaries about their experiences with it. I saw how companionship councils, similar to family councils, could be used to address and prevent many of the destructive conflicts we face in our relationships today.
My husband, James, and I began holding weekly companionship councils before we were even married. I can still remember our first meeting. James was so open, kind, understanding, and willing to take my thoughts seriously that I felt confident in our ability to build a happy marriage.
Now well into our life together, we have continued the tradition of weekly companionship council. While our relationship isnβt perfect, we both agree that the many sessions weβve held have helped us find deeper joy and fulfillment in our marriage than we thought possible.
Taking notes will also help you to rememberβin the words of President Spencer W. Kimball (1895β1985)ββyour triumphs over adversity, your recovery after a fall, your progress when all seemed black, [and] your rejoicing when you [succeed].β James and I are so grateful that we have kept a record of the nearly 800 companionship council sessions we have held over the years. What a joy it is to look back and see how far weβve come!
While sharing about his mission, my friend told me that companionship council is the regular check-in where missionary companionships discuss how they are working together and how to improve. My friend had found the process so helpful as a missionary that he planned to use it in his marriage someday. The idea sank deep into my heart. I read about companionship council in Preach My Gospel and talked to other returned missionaries about their experiences with it. I saw how companionship councils, similar to family councils, could be used to address and prevent many of the destructive conflicts we face in our relationships today.
My husband, James, and I began holding weekly companionship councils before we were even married. I can still remember our first meeting. James was so open, kind, understanding, and willing to take my thoughts seriously that I felt confident in our ability to build a happy marriage.
Now well into our life together, we have continued the tradition of weekly companionship council. While our relationship isnβt perfect, we both agree that the many sessions weβve held have helped us find deeper joy and fulfillment in our marriage than we thought possible.
Taking notes will also help you to rememberβin the words of President Spencer W. Kimball (1895β1985)ββyour triumphs over adversity, your recovery after a fall, your progress when all seemed black, [and] your rejoicing when you [succeed].β James and I are so grateful that we have kept a record of the nearly 800 companionship council sessions we have held over the years. What a joy it is to look back and see how far weβve come!
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Guess Who
A prophet undertook two quick missions to Canada and later a short one to the eastern United States. Of his several missions, most were journeys to assist the Saints.
This prophet served two quick missions to Canada and later one short mission to the eastern states. Of his several missions, most were journeys to help the Saints.
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Prophecy in His Pocket
When war broke out in 1861, the Philadelphia Sunday Mercury published an article titled βA Mormon Prophecy,β quoting the 1851 Liverpool pamphlet of Joseph Smithβs revelation. The article noted how events matched the prediction and asked, βHave we not had a prophet among us?β Others likewise remembered the prophecy as Fort Sumter surrendered.
Interestingly, the printed prophecy had circulated far and wide. When war broke out in April 1861, 28 years after the prophecy was pronounced, the PhiladelphiaSunday Mercury newspaper carried a lengthy article entitled βA Mormon Prophecy.β βWe have in our possession a pamphlet, published at Liverpool, in 1851, βthe article began, referring to the civil war prophecy. βIn view of our present troubles, this prediction seems to be in progress of fulfillment, whether Joe Smith was a humbug or not.β The article reprinted the entire prophecy, then noted how events were fulfilling it, and concluded regarding Joseph Smith: βHave we not had a prophet among us?β
As Fort Sumter surrendered, others, like the Mercuryβs editors, remembered hearing about the prophecy. Perhaps some of those who once scoffed when youthful missionary Orson Pratt pulled the prophecy from his pocket and read it now had cause to wonder, to worry, and to wish they had listened more closely to what the rest of the prophecy said.
As Fort Sumter surrendered, others, like the Mercuryβs editors, remembered hearing about the prophecy. Perhaps some of those who once scoffed when youthful missionary Orson Pratt pulled the prophecy from his pocket and read it now had cause to wonder, to worry, and to wish they had listened more closely to what the rest of the prophecy said.
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A 17-year-old from France moved to the United States for a year and felt lonely and out of place. She prayed and chose to go to the temple weekly. She felt comfort through Jesus Christ, found friends, and was able to finish her time away from home with courage.
I love the temple because itβs a place where you can truly feel the Spirit. Itβs a place of purity where you can really feel the love of Christ.
I had the opportunity to live in the United States for a year. After I got there, for a while I was really lonely. I missed my family and my home, but I struggled with more than just that. I didnβt have a lot of friends at school, I was having a hard time with the language and culture, and I had a little trouble with the family I was living with.
Even at church I sometimes felt alone. I felt like going home. I really wanted to see my family again.
But I started to think about Jesus Christ and how He suffered for me. I prayed, and God comforted me. Where I was staying, the temple was so closeβjust six minutes away. So I decided to go to the temple once a week, and that really was a blessing in my life.
Things began to change. I found some good friends, and God made it possible for me to continue to the end of my time away from home. I know that I felt comfort because of Jesus Christ. He gave me help and strength, and that gave me courage. People sometimes think that the Atonement of Jesus Christ is just about repentance. But Christ is also a source of great comfort. I know I canβt possibly understand everything He endured, but He understands me.
Yona C., 17, France
I had the opportunity to live in the United States for a year. After I got there, for a while I was really lonely. I missed my family and my home, but I struggled with more than just that. I didnβt have a lot of friends at school, I was having a hard time with the language and culture, and I had a little trouble with the family I was living with.
Even at church I sometimes felt alone. I felt like going home. I really wanted to see my family again.
But I started to think about Jesus Christ and how He suffered for me. I prayed, and God comforted me. Where I was staying, the temple was so closeβjust six minutes away. So I decided to go to the temple once a week, and that really was a blessing in my life.
Things began to change. I found some good friends, and God made it possible for me to continue to the end of my time away from home. I know that I felt comfort because of Jesus Christ. He gave me help and strength, and that gave me courage. People sometimes think that the Atonement of Jesus Christ is just about repentance. But Christ is also a source of great comfort. I know I canβt possibly understand everything He endured, but He understands me.
Yona C., 17, France
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Come, Follow Me: Teaching the Basics at Home
Taught to always accept callings, a college student accepted the calling of Relief Society president despite feeling overwhelmed. Over the year, she experienced revelation, support from others, and encouragement. Looking back after her release, she knew the Lord magnified her efforts in building the kingdom.
This member learned to trust the Lord to help her build the kingdom: βI remember my parents teaching me from a young age that we always accept our callings because they are given by the Lord. While in college I was extended the call of Relief Society president. I was overwhelmed, but it never crossed my mind to say no. So I began the year with over 100 women to care for, little experience, and faith that the Lord would make up the difference. A year later I was released. As I thought back on the moments of revelation when I knew exactly what lesson to give or comment to share, or the many times when someone would make me a meal because I was too busy to cook, or the pile of encouraging notes Iβd received, I knew with a surety that the Lord had magnified my efforts in building the kingdom.β
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My Garden Dream
A faithful Latter-day Saint mother sorrowed when her son left the Church and pleaded with God to know what more she could do. She then had a dream where she tried to command garden plants to grow and realized how absurd it was. Upon waking, she understood that like seeds, her sonβs growth depends on his agency and Godβs power, while her role is to plant, nourish, love, and patiently wait. She resolved to trust the Lordβs timing and continue nurturing with faith and hope.
Growing up in a faithful, active Latter-day Saint family, I never thought that one day a child of mine would leave the Church.
My husband and I had married in the temple and eventually had seven children. We did everything we could to obey the counsel of the prophets. We taught our children the gospel, shared our testimonies with them, attended Sunday meetings together, held family home evening, prayed daily both morning and night, and read scriptures as a family. None of our actions, however, prevented our son from leaving the Church.
In my sorrow I turned to the Lord for strength and came to understand more clearly the role of agency in our lives. Still I wondered, βWhat more can I do? Certainly there is something I can do to bring him back to the truth.β I prayed for our son, but I felt I wasnβt doing enough. Certainly, if I had enough faith, wouldnβt he change?
Such thoughts ran through my mind as I went to sleep one night. Heavenly Father saw fit to answer my questions through a dream. It was a simple dream, but for me its meaning was profound.
In my dream I was standing in the middle of my vegetable garden. I had planted and watered the seeds, but the plants had not begun to grow. In my dream I told my plants to grow. I nagged them to grow! Then I began to laugh at myself. The very idea of trying to get my plants to grow by telling them to do so was absurd.
Then I awoke. I immediately understood my dreamβs meaning. My son was the seed I was trying to get to grow. But just as I could not make the garden seeds grow, I cannot make my son change. Inherent in each seed of my garden is a God-given ability to grow, and it is God who directs the growth of each seed. Likewise, my son has the ability to grow because he is a spirit son of Heavenly Father. But if growth and change are to occur in his life, they will result from his agency coupled with Godβs power.
In my dream garden, I planted the seeds, watered the garden, pulled out offending weeds, and sought in every way to nourish my seeds. Likewise, in my role as a mother I plant seeds in the lives of my children. With Heavenly Fatherβs help, I teach them, try to be an example for them, share my testimony with them, and love them, doing all in my power to be an instrument for good in their lives. Then I must wait. In due time the Master Gardener will help the seeds to grow.
In the meantime He helps me to wait with patience. He fills my heart with hope. He reminds me that I am doing all that He requires of me. He gives me daily evidence of His love. In every way I need, He supports me.
So I will wait, pray, trust in His promises, and continue to plant seeds. The harvest will come.
My husband and I had married in the temple and eventually had seven children. We did everything we could to obey the counsel of the prophets. We taught our children the gospel, shared our testimonies with them, attended Sunday meetings together, held family home evening, prayed daily both morning and night, and read scriptures as a family. None of our actions, however, prevented our son from leaving the Church.
In my sorrow I turned to the Lord for strength and came to understand more clearly the role of agency in our lives. Still I wondered, βWhat more can I do? Certainly there is something I can do to bring him back to the truth.β I prayed for our son, but I felt I wasnβt doing enough. Certainly, if I had enough faith, wouldnβt he change?
Such thoughts ran through my mind as I went to sleep one night. Heavenly Father saw fit to answer my questions through a dream. It was a simple dream, but for me its meaning was profound.
In my dream I was standing in the middle of my vegetable garden. I had planted and watered the seeds, but the plants had not begun to grow. In my dream I told my plants to grow. I nagged them to grow! Then I began to laugh at myself. The very idea of trying to get my plants to grow by telling them to do so was absurd.
Then I awoke. I immediately understood my dreamβs meaning. My son was the seed I was trying to get to grow. But just as I could not make the garden seeds grow, I cannot make my son change. Inherent in each seed of my garden is a God-given ability to grow, and it is God who directs the growth of each seed. Likewise, my son has the ability to grow because he is a spirit son of Heavenly Father. But if growth and change are to occur in his life, they will result from his agency coupled with Godβs power.
In my dream garden, I planted the seeds, watered the garden, pulled out offending weeds, and sought in every way to nourish my seeds. Likewise, in my role as a mother I plant seeds in the lives of my children. With Heavenly Fatherβs help, I teach them, try to be an example for them, share my testimony with them, and love them, doing all in my power to be an instrument for good in their lives. Then I must wait. In due time the Master Gardener will help the seeds to grow.
In the meantime He helps me to wait with patience. He fills my heart with hope. He reminds me that I am doing all that He requires of me. He gives me daily evidence of His love. In every way I need, He supports me.
So I will wait, pray, trust in His promises, and continue to plant seeds. The harvest will come.
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The couple listed Germany as their preferred mission location on their application. Despite doubting they would be sent so far from Australia, they were called to serve in the Freiberg Germany Temple. She was excited because she understood some Czech and knew Eastern European members often visited that temple.
In the application the bishop gave us, we could list the country we wanted to go to. Of course that was Germany. And although it seemed rather doubtful that we would be sent to the other side of the world, our Heavenly Father knew exactly what we needed. We were asked to fulfill a temple mission in Freiberg, Germany. I was excited because I still understand the Czech language from my youth and can speak a little bit. I knew that members from Eastern Europe often visit the Freiberg temple.
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Apostles Focus on Faith in the Lord Jesus Christ during Visit to Philippines
On Panay Island, members and missionaries traveled up to five hours by boat and bus to attend meetings with Elder Bednar. A missionary summarized that while missionaries teach, the Holy Ghost is the true teacher.
Members and missionaries in Iloilo, on Panay Island, traveled as much as five hours by boat and bus to attend meetings where Elder Bednar gave instruction on strengthening their faith in Jesus Christ and assisting others to come unto Christ.
βWe are here to teach the gospel of Jesus Christ, but we should always remember that the true teacher is the Holy Ghost,β summarized Sister Manguil, a full-time missionary serving in the Philippines Iloilo Mission.
βWe are here to teach the gospel of Jesus Christ, but we should always remember that the true teacher is the Holy Ghost,β summarized Sister Manguil, a full-time missionary serving in the Philippines Iloilo Mission.
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Strengthening Marriages
While serving as a bishop in Lagos, the speaker counseled a married couple whose communication had broken down and negative habits had taken root. He studied Moroni 7:45 with them, focusing on the attributes of charity. As they discussed these traits, both realized they had prioritized solving problems over loving the person. This realization marked a turning point in their approach to their marriage.
When I served as a bishop in Lagos, Nigeria (2011-2017), I had the opportunity to counsel couples who were facing marital challenges. The trials of one family I loved very much were astounding and seemed to come straight out of the manual Strengthening Marriage.
My friends βunthinkingly [said] and [did] things that hindered sharing and listening. Bad habits [became] deeply ingrained through years of repetition and reinforcement. . . . [Their] problems [became] more extensive as they intentionally [obstructed] communication because of anger, negative thinking, personal frustration, viciousness, or indifference.β2
After listening to them carefully, I was guided to the admonition of Moroni 7:45, which we studied together. It reads:
βAnd charity suffereth long, and is kind, and envieth not, and is not puffed up, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil, and rejoiceth not in iniquity but rejoiceth in the truth, beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.β
Discussing the characteristics of a charitable person prompted a realization for each of them that a problem to be solved had become more important than a person to be loved.3
My friends βunthinkingly [said] and [did] things that hindered sharing and listening. Bad habits [became] deeply ingrained through years of repetition and reinforcement. . . . [Their] problems [became] more extensive as they intentionally [obstructed] communication because of anger, negative thinking, personal frustration, viciousness, or indifference.β2
After listening to them carefully, I was guided to the admonition of Moroni 7:45, which we studied together. It reads:
βAnd charity suffereth long, and is kind, and envieth not, and is not puffed up, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil, and rejoiceth not in iniquity but rejoiceth in the truth, beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.β
Discussing the characteristics of a charitable person prompted a realization for each of them that a problem to be solved had become more important than a person to be loved.3
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Ministering
Report from a Health Missionary
During health-related proselyting, the author met Sister Ester, a Catholic nun, on a flight between Manila and Cebu. After sharing a copy of the Book of Mormon, it was thrilling to later see her reading from Alma.
Some of our proselyting opportunities come in connection with our health work. Weβve had discussions with many interesting and interested people and have placed tracts and copies of the Book of Mormon in such places as the Department of Health, the World Health Organization, the Nutrition Foundation of the Philippines, and with taxi drivers, people on the bus, people at the post office, and even with Sister Ester, a delightful Catholic nun I met on a plane between Manila and Cebu. It was thrilling to see Sister Ester reading Alma.
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And This Is Life Eternal
In April 1985, Elder Bruce R. McConkie bore a stirring testimony in general conference shortly before his passing. He declared his sure witness of Christ and explained that truths first proclaimed by others had become his through the Holy Spirit. Those who heard him were deeply moved.
In April 1985, Elder Bruce R. McConkie spoke in general conferenceβjust 13 days before he died. He concluded with this testimony:
βI am one of his witnesses, and in a coming day I shall feel the nail marks in his hands and in his feet and shall wet his feet with my tears.
βBut I shall not know any better then than I know now that he is Godβs Almighty Son, that he is our Savior and Redeemer, and that salvation comes in and through his atoning blood and in no other way.β4
Those of us who heard Elder McConkie speak that day have never forgotten how we felt. As he began his talk, he revealed why his witness was so powerful. He said:
βIn speaking of these wondrous things I shall use my own words, though you may think they are the words of scripture. β¦
βTrue it is they were first proclaimed by others, but they are now mine, for the Holy Spirit of God has borne witness to me that they are true, and it is now as though the Lord had revealed them to me in the first instance. I have thereby heard his voice and know his word.β5
βI am one of his witnesses, and in a coming day I shall feel the nail marks in his hands and in his feet and shall wet his feet with my tears.
βBut I shall not know any better then than I know now that he is Godβs Almighty Son, that he is our Savior and Redeemer, and that salvation comes in and through his atoning blood and in no other way.β4
Those of us who heard Elder McConkie speak that day have never forgotten how we felt. As he began his talk, he revealed why his witness was so powerful. He said:
βIn speaking of these wondrous things I shall use my own words, though you may think they are the words of scripture. β¦
βTrue it is they were first proclaimed by others, but they are now mine, for the Holy Spirit of God has borne witness to me that they are true, and it is now as though the Lord had revealed them to me in the first instance. I have thereby heard his voice and know his word.β5
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Friend to Friend
As a boy, Vaughn J. Featherstone faced hunger because his father spent paychecks on alcohol. His mother sent him with a note to Mr. Parsons to buy food on credit, which he hauled home in an old red wagon. He did this many times, and later affirmed that their family repaid every penny they owed.
Elder Featherstoneβs childhood years were often difficult. His father had a drinking problem. βI remember that on payday my mother would look out the window, waiting for the bus to come by that would drop my dad off. She would wait and wait until the last bus had gone by. He would not come home; he would be out spending his paycheck on alcohol.
βWeβd have no food in the house at all, and the next day my mother would send me to the store. Iβd get our old red wagon with the tires worn off and the rims worn flat and drag it up the street as slowly as I possibly could. Iβd get to the store, go in, and walk around the aisles, trying to avoid Mr. Parsons. Finally, Iβd hand him my motherβs note: βDear Mr. Parsons, We donβt have any food in the house. Would you mind charging fifty pounds of flour, a bucket of lard, some side pork, and a few other things? We promise to pay back every penny when we get some money. Thanks.β
βMr. Parsons would fill the order and make out a charge slip and put the food in the wagon, and Iβd drag it home. I did that more times than I can tell you. I give credit to my mother and older brothers that we paid back every single penny that we ever owed to Mr. Parsons.
βWeβd have no food in the house at all, and the next day my mother would send me to the store. Iβd get our old red wagon with the tires worn off and the rims worn flat and drag it up the street as slowly as I possibly could. Iβd get to the store, go in, and walk around the aisles, trying to avoid Mr. Parsons. Finally, Iβd hand him my motherβs note: βDear Mr. Parsons, We donβt have any food in the house. Would you mind charging fifty pounds of flour, a bucket of lard, some side pork, and a few other things? We promise to pay back every penny when we get some money. Thanks.β
βMr. Parsons would fill the order and make out a charge slip and put the food in the wagon, and Iβd drag it home. I did that more times than I can tell you. I give credit to my mother and older brothers that we paid back every single penny that we ever owed to Mr. Parsons.
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Bear Up Their Burdens with Ease
A husband wanted a four-wheel-drive truck, and after counseling with his wife they bought it. Eager to justify the purchase, he drove into snowy mountains to haul firewood, but got stuck. He decided to cut and load the truck with wood, and the added weight provided the traction needed to drive out and return home humbled. The experience became a lesson that loads can give needed traction in life.
I have a dear friend who, in the early years of his marriage, was convinced he and his family needed a four-wheel-drive pickup truck. His wife was sure that he did not need but merely wanted the new vehicle. A playful conversation between this husband and wife initiated their consideration of the advantages and disadvantages of such a purchase.
βSweetheart, we need a four-wheel-drive truck.β
She asked, βWhy do you think we need a new truck?β
He answered her question with what he believed was the perfect response: βWhat if we needed milk for our children in a terrible storm, and the only way I could get to the grocery store was in a pickup?β
His wife replied with a smile, βIf we buy a new truck, we will not have money for milkβso why worry about getting to the store in an emergency!β
Over time they continued to counsel together and ultimately decided to acquire the truck. Shortly after taking possession of the new vehicle, my friend wanted to demonstrate the utility of the truck and validate his reasons for wanting to purchase it. So he decided he would cut and haul a supply of firewood for their home. It was in the autumn of the year, and snow already had fallen in the mountains where he intended to find wood. As he drove up the mountainside, the snow gradually became deeper and deeper. My friend recognized the slick road conditions presented a risk, but with great confidence in the new truck, he kept going.
Sadly, my friend went too far along the snowy road. As he steered the truck off of the road at the place he had determined to cut wood, he got stuck. All four of the wheels on the new truck spun in the snow. He readily recognized that he did not know what to do to extricate himself from this dangerous situation. He was embarrassed and worried.
My friend decided, βWell, I will not just sit here.β He climbed out of the vehicle and started cutting wood. He completely filled the back of the truck with the heavy load. And then my friend determined he would try driving out of the snow one more time. As he put the pickup into gear and applied power, he started to inch forward. Slowly the truck moved out of the snow and back onto the road. He finally was free to go home, a happy and humbled man.
I pray for the assistance of the Holy Ghost as I emphasize vital lessons that can be learned from this story about my friend, the truck, and the wood. It was the load. It was the load of wood that provided the traction necessary for him to get out of the snow, to get back on the road, and to move forward. It was the load that enabled him to return to his family and his home.
For my friend, the load of wood provided life-saving traction. The empty truck could not move through the snow, even equipped with four-wheel drive. A heavy load was necessary to produce traction.
It was the load. It was the load that provided the traction that enabled my friend to get unstuck, to get back on the road, to press forward, and to return to his family.
βSweetheart, we need a four-wheel-drive truck.β
She asked, βWhy do you think we need a new truck?β
He answered her question with what he believed was the perfect response: βWhat if we needed milk for our children in a terrible storm, and the only way I could get to the grocery store was in a pickup?β
His wife replied with a smile, βIf we buy a new truck, we will not have money for milkβso why worry about getting to the store in an emergency!β
Over time they continued to counsel together and ultimately decided to acquire the truck. Shortly after taking possession of the new vehicle, my friend wanted to demonstrate the utility of the truck and validate his reasons for wanting to purchase it. So he decided he would cut and haul a supply of firewood for their home. It was in the autumn of the year, and snow already had fallen in the mountains where he intended to find wood. As he drove up the mountainside, the snow gradually became deeper and deeper. My friend recognized the slick road conditions presented a risk, but with great confidence in the new truck, he kept going.
Sadly, my friend went too far along the snowy road. As he steered the truck off of the road at the place he had determined to cut wood, he got stuck. All four of the wheels on the new truck spun in the snow. He readily recognized that he did not know what to do to extricate himself from this dangerous situation. He was embarrassed and worried.
My friend decided, βWell, I will not just sit here.β He climbed out of the vehicle and started cutting wood. He completely filled the back of the truck with the heavy load. And then my friend determined he would try driving out of the snow one more time. As he put the pickup into gear and applied power, he started to inch forward. Slowly the truck moved out of the snow and back onto the road. He finally was free to go home, a happy and humbled man.
I pray for the assistance of the Holy Ghost as I emphasize vital lessons that can be learned from this story about my friend, the truck, and the wood. It was the load. It was the load of wood that provided the traction necessary for him to get out of the snow, to get back on the road, and to move forward. It was the load that enabled him to return to his family and his home.
For my friend, the load of wood provided life-saving traction. The empty truck could not move through the snow, even equipped with four-wheel drive. A heavy load was necessary to produce traction.
It was the load. It was the load that provided the traction that enabled my friend to get unstuck, to get back on the road, to press forward, and to return to his family.
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