He worked as a driver for a local cacao company in his hometown until civil war and unrest led him to move to Abidjan in 2004. There he encountered Latter-day Saint missionaries and learned about the restored gospel.
He was baptized on March 25, 2005, and his testimony has only continued to grow from there.
โSix months after my baptism, President [Gordon B.] Hinckley invited all the members around the world to read the Book of Mormon. Following President Hinckleyโs invitation, my mind began to open, and the message of the Restoration became clearer for me to understand,โ Bishop says.
But it was those missionariesโ initial love and interest in him as a person that first piqued his interest.
โMy conversion did not begin with the [gospel] teachings. . . . I was only impressed by the missionaries; I loved their mark of attention towards me.โ
And those missionaries probably had no idea how much that โmark of attentionโ would mean to Bishop. It became a huge focal point in his life and how he now shares the gospel with others.
A Member in Ivory Coast Has Become an Unbelievably Effective Missionary
Amid civil unrest, Aime Miliatรฉ moved to Abidjan in 2004 and met Latter-day Saint missionaries. Impressed first by their personal care, he was baptized in 2005 and later deepened his testimony by following President Hinckleyโs invitation to read the Book of Mormon. The missionariesโ loving attention became a defining influence in his life.
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The Restoration
Sharing a Treat
A child notices their little sister is sad after finishing her candies. The child shares some of their own candies with her, which makes her happy. The child connects this act to following Jesus through sharing.
We were having a treat at the table. My little sister finished her candies first and was sad when they were all gone. I shared some of my candies with her. This made her so happy. Iโm trying to follow Jesus by sharing.
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Whatโs Happening in the Gathering Places?
Charlene and Emmanuella, sisters from the Bantama Stake, started baking and selling bread under their label, โBake Me.โ They credit the gathering place for helping them begin and continue learning alongside YSA friends and their catering instructor, Josephine.
Meet Charlene and Emmanuella, two sisters from the Bantama Stake in the Kumasi area. They bake bread under their label, โBake Me,โ and sell it. They were able to start this business because of what they learned at the gathering place. They continue to learn with their YSA friends and catering instructor, Josephine.
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Joseph SmithโMy Prophet
As a teenager, the author received a book of Joseph Smithโs teachings from his dad. He eagerly studied it, along with the revelations in the Doctrine and Covenants. This study became a major building block of his testimony of the restored gospel.
Ever since I was young, thatโs how Iโve feltโJoseph Smith is my prophet. More than anyone, this prophet of the Restoration has helped me come to know Jesus Christ and His gospel. I studied the revelations in the Doctrine and Covenants. And when I was a teenager, my dad gave me a book of the Prophet Joseph Smithโs teachings, and I ate it up. Studying those teachings became a major building block of my testimony of the restored gospel.
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Spiritual Benefits of Walking
The author and friends tried awe walks and began sharing selfies with extended family to connect. Ward sisters observed that this could supplement personal history and help with COVID-era isolation. At first, family replies were minimal, but continued sharing led to more comments and meaningful conversations that otherwise wouldnโt have happened.
My friends and I decided to give it a try. After a few attempts, we added a significant new component. In addition to becoming more observant ourselves, we shared our selfies with members of our extended families. This helped us to connect with them as we shared our everyday discoveries.
After talking about these โawe walksโ for a few weeks, one sister in my ward commented: โSome of us are very involved in family history. This is a good way to supplement our own personal history by talking about our personal insights and observations.โ
Another sister, who missed seeing family members during the coronavirus pandemic, said: โDuring COVID, I felt more alone and isolated than I had in years. Even our children and grandchildren stayed away so that we wouldnโt get the virus. We missed seeing them and talking about their plans. We thought sending these selfies with brief comments could be a good way to express gratitude for our blessings without being preachy.โ
Initially, family members didnโt quite know how to respond. Mostly they gave one-word replies like โNiceโ or โInteresting.โ But as we continued, we received more comments and had conversations with extended family members that otherwise would never have occurred to us.
After talking about these โawe walksโ for a few weeks, one sister in my ward commented: โSome of us are very involved in family history. This is a good way to supplement our own personal history by talking about our personal insights and observations.โ
Another sister, who missed seeing family members during the coronavirus pandemic, said: โDuring COVID, I felt more alone and isolated than I had in years. Even our children and grandchildren stayed away so that we wouldnโt get the virus. We missed seeing them and talking about their plans. We thought sending these selfies with brief comments could be a good way to express gratitude for our blessings without being preachy.โ
Initially, family members didnโt quite know how to respond. Mostly they gave one-word replies like โNiceโ or โInteresting.โ But as we continued, we received more comments and had conversations with extended family members that otherwise would never have occurred to us.
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First Person:Not a Hypocrite or a Hero
A high school senior, the only Latter-day Saint at her school, was offered stolen copies of two difficult exams. After praying and reflecting on her seminary case studies, she refused the tests despite classmates' expectations and some anger. Only she and a local preacherโs son declined to participate, and she earned an 82 in chemistry, feeling proud for passing a greater test of character.
If youโve ever taken seminary, Iโm sure you remember the case studies that are included in the lessons to help us liken the scriptures unto us. And if you remember them, then no doubt you remember the one concerning what you would do if your friends asked you to cheat on an important test or you would be tempted to cheat yourself. If youโre like me, it was all black and white, and you said you would do the noble thing, the right thing.
Probably like many of us, I never really thought of these situations as something that would ever happen. It was too easy. Who wouldnโt do the right thing? Well, just a week ago, I was faced with this problem. It was the week for nine-week exams. Being a senior, I knew these tests were important; not only do they decide who passes and graduates but they are also recorded on our transcripts, the same transcripts that are sent to colleges. The night before the two tests that were going to give me problemsโAdvanced Chemistry and Economicsโa friend called on the phone. She told me that two classmates had stolen copies of both of the tests. She had copies and would give me some early the next morning. Because she was in a hurry, my friend didnโt give me a chance to answer, which was just as well since I didnโt know what to say.
What a dilemma! Even though I was considered the best student in my class, I knew those tests would be tough. Oh, I knew I would pass even if I failed the tests, but I wanted so badly to keep that prestigious 4.0 average. I also knew I was the only LDS student in my school. It had been a worthwhile struggle to let everyone know what Mormons really believe. In fact, whenever a new person questioned me about the Church in front of my friends, it was my friends who hastened to tell my beliefs before I could answer.
All evening I thought about my problem. I tried to concentrate on how important it was for me to do well on these tests, but a thought kept nagging at me. For four years I had taken seminary and answered those case studies of how I would react in a situation exactly like this. Was I going to betray my standards after telling my friends what being a Mormon was all about? Was I now going to be a hypocrite? I decided to resist the temptation. I prayed to my Heavenly Father to make me strong and able to stand by my convictions.
At school the next morning my friend tried to give me a copy of the tests. I refused. She looked at me like I was crazy but said nothing. Later I realized that my friends had expected me to answer the questions on the stolen copies and then let a student who worked in the office run them off on the school copier for the rest of the class. I would like to say that I was looked upon as a hero, but, as it was, some of my classmates were angry with me. My true friends didnโt hold it against me. The students who had stolen the tests had my friend answer the questions and passed copies around to everyone in the class except for me and the local preacherโs son, who had also refused to get involved. I thank him for standing with me. No one ever likes to be alone. I wish I could say that I passed my tests with flying colors, but I only made an 82 on my Advanced Chemistry test. Nevertheless, I am proud of that 82.
The grades are not important when I realize that I passed an even greater test, a test of character, thanks to the gospel and seminary.
Probably like many of us, I never really thought of these situations as something that would ever happen. It was too easy. Who wouldnโt do the right thing? Well, just a week ago, I was faced with this problem. It was the week for nine-week exams. Being a senior, I knew these tests were important; not only do they decide who passes and graduates but they are also recorded on our transcripts, the same transcripts that are sent to colleges. The night before the two tests that were going to give me problemsโAdvanced Chemistry and Economicsโa friend called on the phone. She told me that two classmates had stolen copies of both of the tests. She had copies and would give me some early the next morning. Because she was in a hurry, my friend didnโt give me a chance to answer, which was just as well since I didnโt know what to say.
What a dilemma! Even though I was considered the best student in my class, I knew those tests would be tough. Oh, I knew I would pass even if I failed the tests, but I wanted so badly to keep that prestigious 4.0 average. I also knew I was the only LDS student in my school. It had been a worthwhile struggle to let everyone know what Mormons really believe. In fact, whenever a new person questioned me about the Church in front of my friends, it was my friends who hastened to tell my beliefs before I could answer.
All evening I thought about my problem. I tried to concentrate on how important it was for me to do well on these tests, but a thought kept nagging at me. For four years I had taken seminary and answered those case studies of how I would react in a situation exactly like this. Was I going to betray my standards after telling my friends what being a Mormon was all about? Was I now going to be a hypocrite? I decided to resist the temptation. I prayed to my Heavenly Father to make me strong and able to stand by my convictions.
At school the next morning my friend tried to give me a copy of the tests. I refused. She looked at me like I was crazy but said nothing. Later I realized that my friends had expected me to answer the questions on the stolen copies and then let a student who worked in the office run them off on the school copier for the rest of the class. I would like to say that I was looked upon as a hero, but, as it was, some of my classmates were angry with me. My true friends didnโt hold it against me. The students who had stolen the tests had my friend answer the questions and passed copies around to everyone in the class except for me and the local preacherโs son, who had also refused to get involved. I thank him for standing with me. No one ever likes to be alone. I wish I could say that I passed my tests with flying colors, but I only made an 82 on my Advanced Chemistry test. Nevertheless, I am proud of that 82.
The grades are not important when I realize that I passed an even greater test, a test of character, thanks to the gospel and seminary.
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Everyone but Me
Brother Johnson felt prompted to take a longer route home despite wanting to get back quickly. On the detour he found a car that had rolled off the road after the father fell asleep. He called for help and administered first aid to the young family.
In fast and testimony meeting, Brother Johnson told an experience he had while driving across a lonely stretch of highway. The still, small voice told him to take a different route home, one that would add about 10 kilometers to his trip. Although he had been eager to get home from his business trip, he obeyed the prompting. On his detour, he came across a car accident. A young family had been traveling to visit relatives. When the father, who was driving, fell asleep, the car drifted too close to the side of the road and rolled down a steep hill. Brother Johnson was able to call for help and administer first aid.
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โHaving Been Commissioned โฆโ
Daniel Kirkpatrick baptized his friend Jeron after helping the missionaries teach him. On the baptism day, the font water was very low, and Daniel needed multiple attempts before Jeron was fully immersed. After pausing to let the font fill, the baptism was completed successfully. The experience strengthened Danielโs testimony and increased his desire to serve a mission.
โIt was a great opportunity to strengthen my testimony,โ says Daniel Kirkpatrick, who baptized his friend Jeron Fosjord after helping the missionaries teach him. โIt helped me appreciate the priesthood more because it wasnโt my dad performing the ordinance. It wasnโt one of the older adults or even my older brother. It was me. I had the priesthood, and I could use it.โ
Daniel, a priest in the Pioneer Park Ward, was struck by the eternal consequences of performing Jeronโs baptism. โJeron is going to be a missionary some day. Heโll affect others, and theyโll affect others. It was a sobering thought, a wake-up call, that what I was doing will have eternal echoes.โ
When the day finally came, naturally Dan was nervous about performing an ordinance in front of other people. โI was a little scared,โ he says. โI probably asked Jeron his middle name a thousand times to make sure I got it right.โ It didnโt help that the font hadnโt filled all the way.
โThe water didnโt even reach our knees,โ Dan says.
He got the name right, but the water was so low that it took him four tries before Jeron was completely submerged. โI just about drowned him one time because as he was coming up I saw that he hadnโt gone all the way under, so I panicked and pushed him down again.โ
After the third try, they went ahead with the talks and musical number while the font filled some more. By Danโs fourth and final try, the water was up to their waists. โIt was easy then,โ he says.
Despite it being a โrough first time,โ Dan loved the experience: โIt was awesome.โ Not only did it strengthen his testimony and help him appreciate the priesthood more, the experience excited him about serving a mission.
โIโve felt the fears and tasted the successes of a full-time mission,โ he says. โIโm excited to get out there and serve.โ
Daniel, a priest in the Pioneer Park Ward, was struck by the eternal consequences of performing Jeronโs baptism. โJeron is going to be a missionary some day. Heโll affect others, and theyโll affect others. It was a sobering thought, a wake-up call, that what I was doing will have eternal echoes.โ
When the day finally came, naturally Dan was nervous about performing an ordinance in front of other people. โI was a little scared,โ he says. โI probably asked Jeron his middle name a thousand times to make sure I got it right.โ It didnโt help that the font hadnโt filled all the way.
โThe water didnโt even reach our knees,โ Dan says.
He got the name right, but the water was so low that it took him four tries before Jeron was completely submerged. โI just about drowned him one time because as he was coming up I saw that he hadnโt gone all the way under, so I panicked and pushed him down again.โ
After the third try, they went ahead with the talks and musical number while the font filled some more. By Danโs fourth and final try, the water was up to their waists. โIt was easy then,โ he says.
Despite it being a โrough first time,โ Dan loved the experience: โIt was awesome.โ Not only did it strengthen his testimony and help him appreciate the priesthood more, the experience excited him about serving a mission.
โIโve felt the fears and tasted the successes of a full-time mission,โ he says. โIโm excited to get out there and serve.โ
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Max and Mia Save the Day
Max dresses as a superhero and invites his sister Mia to save the day. They help their mom by folding laundry, picking up trash, and sweeping the floor. Mom hugs them and says they have already saved the day because of their help.
Max got ready to play superhero. He put on his red T-shirt. He put on his superhero cape. Then he went to his little sisterโs room.
โCome on, Mia,โ said Max. โLetโs go save the day!โ
Max and Mia went into the living room. They saw a basket full of clothes.
โWill you help me?โ asked Mom.
โOK,โ Max said. โThen we can go save the day.โ
Max and Mia helped Mom fold all the clothes and put them away.
Then Max saw some trash on the floor. โLetโs pick up all the trash,โ said Max. โThen we can go save the day.โ
Max and Mia raced around the house. They threw away all the trash they could find.
They saw Mom sweeping the kitchen floor. โWe can help you,โ Max said.
Mia held the dustpan while Max swept the floor.
โNow letโs go save the day,โ Max said.
Mom looked around at the clean house. Then she hugged Max and Mia. โI think you already did!โ
โCome on, Mia,โ said Max. โLetโs go save the day!โ
Max and Mia went into the living room. They saw a basket full of clothes.
โWill you help me?โ asked Mom.
โOK,โ Max said. โThen we can go save the day.โ
Max and Mia helped Mom fold all the clothes and put them away.
Then Max saw some trash on the floor. โLetโs pick up all the trash,โ said Max. โThen we can go save the day.โ
Max and Mia raced around the house. They threw away all the trash they could find.
They saw Mom sweeping the kitchen floor. โWe can help you,โ Max said.
Mia held the dustpan while Max swept the floor.
โNow letโs go save the day,โ Max said.
Mom looked around at the clean house. Then she hugged Max and Mia. โI think you already did!โ
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Father Christmas
A teen watches her once-kind father grow bitter after business losses and inactivity in church. The bishop invites him to play Santa at a ward party, and their faithful home teacher, Brother Darrin, prays, fasts, and leaves a loving note. The father unexpectedly arrives as Santa, promises Mom heโll return to church, and later serves in the bishopric. The family recognizes the change as a miracle brought by love and ministering.
He was a mean, gruff man. Every word that came out of his mouth was angry and sharp. His words always dug into us. He was mad at the world, mad at life, mad at God.
We hoped that the Christmas spirit would flicker in his soul. But, as with the rest of his dreams that year, the candle was being snuffed out.
Oh, he hadnโt always been that way. He used to be loving and funny. He had a quick wit. That disappeared when he stopped going to church.
I canโt remember when my dad became mean and gruff. It happened gradually. He sort of shifted that way like sand.
Mom and I are regular churchgoers. Maybe thatโs why we can deal with anger so well. We know God loves us. We know that he loves Dad too. Though I guess itโs sometimes hard even for Him.
Dad was a big man. The kind that could play Santa Claus without the pillows. The bishop must have thought so too because he marched right over to our house after church and asked Dad to play Santa Claus that year.
Has he lost his marbles? I thought. Whoโd want a Santa that would yell at the kids?
Dad thought it was just silly so he laughed sarcastically. I heard bitterness in his voice as he said, โInactive for yearsโnow heโs giving me a job that I donโt need any brains to do.โ
The bishop stared and so did I. He should have known, I thought to myself.
โYou think it over, Brother Henderson,โ the bishop said and made a speedy exit. Dad just grunted and turned on his noisy TV.
โThink it over all right,โ I complained to Mom later. โHe wants a miracle.โ I was disgusted with the whole thing by now. โDad will never do it.โ
Mom just stood there listening. She was a quiet personโthe type that would take lots from Dad and never say very much. The type that sat alone in church every Sunday while I sat with my friends. The type that taught a rambunctious Primary class and smiled.
โWe mustnโt give up, Andi. Thereโs a part of him that someone still might reach,โ Mom said. Here was a woman who hadnโt heard a home teaching message for years because Dad refused, and she was telling me about miracles.
โHogwash!โ I answered. I hurried out the door to catch a movie.
I suppose that I should have been more understanding of Dad. After all, his business had been ruined. He had lost everything when his store burned down. We had lived on borrowed money until he could rebuild. He must have felt defeated. I guess thatโs why he wasnโt going to play Santaโmainly because he had stopped believing there was one. He had stopped believing in himself. He just sat there in his chair watching television reruns. I sometimes thought he didnโt really watch them. Maybe it was just there to keep him from thinking or hurting. I was beginning to think that no one could help him. But there was Brother Darrin.
Brother Darrin was our long-suffering home teacher. He came every month. He always acted like he expected Dad to let him give a lesson. Brother Darrin was short and thin and soft spoken. Dad couldnโt wait to give him a hard time. The teachers quorum had to draw straws to see who would come with poor Brother Darrin. Dad had scared them all, one by one. But through it all, Brother Darrin was persistent.
I listened just to see how Brother Darrin would sneak the gospel in. One minute he and Dad would be talking about fishing, and Brother Darrin would put in loaves and fishes before Dad could get his next word out. The strangest thing was that Dad liked Brother Darrin.
I knew that Brother Darrin must have said his prayers the week before the Christmas party because he was starting out rather boldly. โBrother Henderson, do you believe in miracles?โ I just gulped and pretended to be a fly on the ceiling. I knew Dad was going to explode. When I finally started to breathe again, I heard Dad say, โNo, not anymore.โ The silence hung heavy in the air.
Brother Darrin continued, โWell, I do, Brother Henderson. Iโll see you at the Christmas party.โ He added quicklyโโin a Santa suit.โ Out he went, leaving Dad to glare at Mom and me as if it were our fault. He got up and turned on the TV.
โDoesnโt even faze him,โ I whispered to Mom. โHeโs as hard as an old rusty nail.โ That time I said it pretty loud.
I soon learned from Tricia Darrin that her father had been fasting and praying for Dad. โWonโt help,โ I promptly informed her. โTell him to stop before he gets anorexia.โ
She giggled for a minute. โHeโs serious, Andi.โ
As I knelt to say my prayers that night, I found myself thanking Heavenly Father for a dedicated home teacher. I even began begging to somehow get my dad back to church even if it was just to the cultural hall to play Santa.
The night of the Christmas party finally arrived. Mom and I carried our fruitcakes to the car as usual. When we came back in the house, Dad was in his chair watching television. โGood-bye, weโre leaving,โ we announced. He grunted a good-bye without even looking up. Suddenly an envelope slid under the door. I handed it to Dad since it had his name printed on the front. We left feeling empty and downhearted. I knew Mom felt worse than I did because she started to hum. Humming usually meant tears.
We went to the program and watched the Primary act out the Nativity, including a sheep that fell off the stage during the big scene.
We tried not to think of Dad sitting in front of the TV when he should be here with us. Across the aisle was Brother Darrin.
Soon the big announcement came for Santa. The air filled with anticipation. โWonder who they got?โ I asked Mom. She just answered, โSome unfortunate stand-in.โ
โHo ho ho!โ the shouts soon resounded in the hall. The children started to squeal in joy. The jolly Santa sounded familiar, like a sound that I had heard long ago. As I turned I gasped, for I couldnโt believe my eyes. Mom must have turned about the same time.
โDad,โ I said in a strange voice.
โItโs a miracle,โ said Mom. Her voice was strange too. Her eyes were swimming in a pool of green. I looked over at Brother Darrin. He just winked and smiled.
Mom went up and got in line to sit on Santaโs lap. โHi, good looking,โ he said to her. โI think I know what youโd like for Christmas.โ By this time her tears were spilling over into his glued on beard. โYouโd like your husband to come back to church.โ She just nodded and cried. โI think Old Santa can arrange that.โ He gave her a quick kiss, โMove along, kid. Santaโs got others to see.โ
Iโve never seen Mom look so happy, nor the bishop and Brother Darrin for that matter. They all looked like they swallowed chocolate-covered ice cream and it tasted sweet.
I couldnโt understand miracles right then, but I remembered the note that came under the door. I decided that it must have had something to do with it. I ran the whole block home just to read it. What it said shocked me. Scribbled in uneven handwriting were the words:
Dear Brother Henderson:
I believe in you and I love you.
Brother Darrin
I guess thatโs why it was the best Christmas ever. Dad thought so too. Heโs now the second counselor in the bishopric, and that, he says ironically, is a job that nobody should have, not even Santa Claus. Secretly he loves itโjust ask Mom. Too bad she still has to sit alone in church. Now, though, she probably doesnโt mind so much.
We hoped that the Christmas spirit would flicker in his soul. But, as with the rest of his dreams that year, the candle was being snuffed out.
Oh, he hadnโt always been that way. He used to be loving and funny. He had a quick wit. That disappeared when he stopped going to church.
I canโt remember when my dad became mean and gruff. It happened gradually. He sort of shifted that way like sand.
Mom and I are regular churchgoers. Maybe thatโs why we can deal with anger so well. We know God loves us. We know that he loves Dad too. Though I guess itโs sometimes hard even for Him.
Dad was a big man. The kind that could play Santa Claus without the pillows. The bishop must have thought so too because he marched right over to our house after church and asked Dad to play Santa Claus that year.
Has he lost his marbles? I thought. Whoโd want a Santa that would yell at the kids?
Dad thought it was just silly so he laughed sarcastically. I heard bitterness in his voice as he said, โInactive for yearsโnow heโs giving me a job that I donโt need any brains to do.โ
The bishop stared and so did I. He should have known, I thought to myself.
โYou think it over, Brother Henderson,โ the bishop said and made a speedy exit. Dad just grunted and turned on his noisy TV.
โThink it over all right,โ I complained to Mom later. โHe wants a miracle.โ I was disgusted with the whole thing by now. โDad will never do it.โ
Mom just stood there listening. She was a quiet personโthe type that would take lots from Dad and never say very much. The type that sat alone in church every Sunday while I sat with my friends. The type that taught a rambunctious Primary class and smiled.
โWe mustnโt give up, Andi. Thereโs a part of him that someone still might reach,โ Mom said. Here was a woman who hadnโt heard a home teaching message for years because Dad refused, and she was telling me about miracles.
โHogwash!โ I answered. I hurried out the door to catch a movie.
I suppose that I should have been more understanding of Dad. After all, his business had been ruined. He had lost everything when his store burned down. We had lived on borrowed money until he could rebuild. He must have felt defeated. I guess thatโs why he wasnโt going to play Santaโmainly because he had stopped believing there was one. He had stopped believing in himself. He just sat there in his chair watching television reruns. I sometimes thought he didnโt really watch them. Maybe it was just there to keep him from thinking or hurting. I was beginning to think that no one could help him. But there was Brother Darrin.
Brother Darrin was our long-suffering home teacher. He came every month. He always acted like he expected Dad to let him give a lesson. Brother Darrin was short and thin and soft spoken. Dad couldnโt wait to give him a hard time. The teachers quorum had to draw straws to see who would come with poor Brother Darrin. Dad had scared them all, one by one. But through it all, Brother Darrin was persistent.
I listened just to see how Brother Darrin would sneak the gospel in. One minute he and Dad would be talking about fishing, and Brother Darrin would put in loaves and fishes before Dad could get his next word out. The strangest thing was that Dad liked Brother Darrin.
I knew that Brother Darrin must have said his prayers the week before the Christmas party because he was starting out rather boldly. โBrother Henderson, do you believe in miracles?โ I just gulped and pretended to be a fly on the ceiling. I knew Dad was going to explode. When I finally started to breathe again, I heard Dad say, โNo, not anymore.โ The silence hung heavy in the air.
Brother Darrin continued, โWell, I do, Brother Henderson. Iโll see you at the Christmas party.โ He added quicklyโโin a Santa suit.โ Out he went, leaving Dad to glare at Mom and me as if it were our fault. He got up and turned on the TV.
โDoesnโt even faze him,โ I whispered to Mom. โHeโs as hard as an old rusty nail.โ That time I said it pretty loud.
I soon learned from Tricia Darrin that her father had been fasting and praying for Dad. โWonโt help,โ I promptly informed her. โTell him to stop before he gets anorexia.โ
She giggled for a minute. โHeโs serious, Andi.โ
As I knelt to say my prayers that night, I found myself thanking Heavenly Father for a dedicated home teacher. I even began begging to somehow get my dad back to church even if it was just to the cultural hall to play Santa.
The night of the Christmas party finally arrived. Mom and I carried our fruitcakes to the car as usual. When we came back in the house, Dad was in his chair watching television. โGood-bye, weโre leaving,โ we announced. He grunted a good-bye without even looking up. Suddenly an envelope slid under the door. I handed it to Dad since it had his name printed on the front. We left feeling empty and downhearted. I knew Mom felt worse than I did because she started to hum. Humming usually meant tears.
We went to the program and watched the Primary act out the Nativity, including a sheep that fell off the stage during the big scene.
We tried not to think of Dad sitting in front of the TV when he should be here with us. Across the aisle was Brother Darrin.
Soon the big announcement came for Santa. The air filled with anticipation. โWonder who they got?โ I asked Mom. She just answered, โSome unfortunate stand-in.โ
โHo ho ho!โ the shouts soon resounded in the hall. The children started to squeal in joy. The jolly Santa sounded familiar, like a sound that I had heard long ago. As I turned I gasped, for I couldnโt believe my eyes. Mom must have turned about the same time.
โDad,โ I said in a strange voice.
โItโs a miracle,โ said Mom. Her voice was strange too. Her eyes were swimming in a pool of green. I looked over at Brother Darrin. He just winked and smiled.
Mom went up and got in line to sit on Santaโs lap. โHi, good looking,โ he said to her. โI think I know what youโd like for Christmas.โ By this time her tears were spilling over into his glued on beard. โYouโd like your husband to come back to church.โ She just nodded and cried. โI think Old Santa can arrange that.โ He gave her a quick kiss, โMove along, kid. Santaโs got others to see.โ
Iโve never seen Mom look so happy, nor the bishop and Brother Darrin for that matter. They all looked like they swallowed chocolate-covered ice cream and it tasted sweet.
I couldnโt understand miracles right then, but I remembered the note that came under the door. I decided that it must have had something to do with it. I ran the whole block home just to read it. What it said shocked me. Scribbled in uneven handwriting were the words:
Dear Brother Henderson:
I believe in you and I love you.
Brother Darrin
I guess thatโs why it was the best Christmas ever. Dad thought so too. Heโs now the second counselor in the bishopric, and that, he says ironically, is a job that nobody should have, not even Santa Claus. Secretly he loves itโjust ask Mom. Too bad she still has to sit alone in church. Now, though, she probably doesnโt mind so much.
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Members Share Blessings from Come, Follow Me
Carla says Come, Follow Me helps her feel closer to Heavenly Father. By studying the lives of prophets and Jesus Christ, she comes to know and love Them and becomes more receptive to noticing daily blessings she previously missed.
โMy experience with Come, Follow Me is special because it makes me feel closer to my Heavenly Father. They say you cannot love someone that you donโt know. And studying the lives of the prophets and Jesus Christ allows me to know them and love them. It makes me feel the love of Heavenly Father in all things. ... It has made me more receptive to see little things He does for me each day that I didnโt notice before.โ โCarla Imelda Gutierrez, Mexico City, Mexico
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The Book of Mormon Club
The narrator describes how their love for reading began in second grade when they started reading bigger chapter books. They now read at every spare moment, even sneaking a book under the covers after bedtime.
I love to read! Reading is one of my favorite hobbies. When I was in second grade, I began reading bigger chapter books of all different genres. Now I read every spare moment that I can! I read in the morning, when I finish my work at school early, and on the way to violin lessons. Sometimes I even sneak a book under my covers to read after bedtime.
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My Weeping Ceased
As a young woman in Ecuador, the narrator became a nun under the influence of a mother superior but felt an ongoing spiritual void despite fervent prayer. She consulted a bishop, prayed again, and confirmed her decision to leave before taking solemn vows. After submitting a written request, the bishop granted her dismissal, and she left the convent in peace.
Even when I was young, I wanted to be useful, to help others, and to be close to Jesusโ Church. But I didnโt know how. As I grew older, my desire grew stronger and I began looking at ways I could serve God through my religion.
In time I went to a boarding school in Riobamba, Ecuador. I became acquainted with the mother superior at a convent. We became friends, and she eventually influenced me to become a nun. I took my first vows and became a novice.
During the next six years I prayed every day to Heavenly Father to help me know Him better. For some reason, I felt comfortable praying to Him directly instead of through intercessors, as I had been taught. I knew that by getting to know Him, I would get to know myself. I would also be able to see others with a more Christlike perspective and thus serve them as He would have me do. Though I prayed fervently, I felt an inexplicable void. The emptiness I felt became so great I decided to leave the convent.
One day while the bishop was visiting, I talked with him about my decision to leave. He asked me to ponder and pray about my decision. I did and felt even stronger that my decision was right. I knew if I waited until after my solemn vows, which would take place in a year, it would be even more difficult for me to leave. I would have to get the popeโs permission, not just the bishopโs.
The next time I met the bishop, I told him of my decision, and he asked me to request dismissal in writing. Eventually my letter reached him. He was surprised because he thought I would not follow through on my request. When he granted the dismissal of my vows, I bid farewell to the nuns, thankful for all the good I had learned and experienced, and I left in peace.
In time I went to a boarding school in Riobamba, Ecuador. I became acquainted with the mother superior at a convent. We became friends, and she eventually influenced me to become a nun. I took my first vows and became a novice.
During the next six years I prayed every day to Heavenly Father to help me know Him better. For some reason, I felt comfortable praying to Him directly instead of through intercessors, as I had been taught. I knew that by getting to know Him, I would get to know myself. I would also be able to see others with a more Christlike perspective and thus serve them as He would have me do. Though I prayed fervently, I felt an inexplicable void. The emptiness I felt became so great I decided to leave the convent.
One day while the bishop was visiting, I talked with him about my decision to leave. He asked me to ponder and pray about my decision. I did and felt even stronger that my decision was right. I knew if I waited until after my solemn vows, which would take place in a year, it would be even more difficult for me to leave. I would have to get the popeโs permission, not just the bishopโs.
The next time I met the bishop, I told him of my decision, and he asked me to request dismissal in writing. Eventually my letter reached him. He was surprised because he thought I would not follow through on my request. When he granted the dismissal of my vows, I bid farewell to the nuns, thankful for all the good I had learned and experienced, and I left in peace.
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Like the Savior: Growing in Four Important Areas
The author recalls preparing to rappel with an instructor who checked her harness, taught her how to release the rope, and promised not to let her fall. When she reached the edge, she shook with fear as she faced the first step off the cliff. The moment illustrates how hard it can be to act even when we have preparation and reassurance.
โSo, Iโm supposed to โฆ what?โ
I had listened. Really, I had. The instructor had checked my harness, had shown me exactly how to release the rope, had even looked me right in the eyes and said, โI will NOT let you fall!โ
But at that crucial moment, there I stood: shaking and sweating, as I looked over my shoulder and down โฆ way down, knowing I had to take that first step.
Off a cliff.
I had listened. Really, I had. The instructor had checked my harness, had shown me exactly how to release the rope, had even looked me right in the eyes and said, โI will NOT let you fall!โ
But at that crucial moment, there I stood: shaking and sweating, as I looked over my shoulder and down โฆ way down, knowing I had to take that first step.
Off a cliff.
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The Sabbath Day
The speaker recalls childhood on a farm where weekdays were devoted to heavy labor. On Saturday night, the family turned out the horses, cleaned the house, bathed, and laid out clean, mended clothes to prepare for Sunday. Sunday was distinctly set apart as the Lordโs day and a day of rest.
One of the outstanding memories carried over from childhood is my recollection of the Sabbath day. Back in those early times out on the farm, Sunday was a day completely set apart from the rest of the week. From Monday through Saturday, our attention was centered in the heavy labor involved in making a living by the muscle power of men and animals.
But Sunday was differentโit was the Sabbath. It was the day of rest. It was the day of the Lord. On Saturday night the horses were turned out to pasture and all work was suspended. Saturday was also a kind of special house cleaning day to get things and people ready for Sunday. The final act of the work week was โฆ the โSaturday night bath.โ This was supplemented by a parental issue of properly mended, clean clothing, all laid out, ready for Sunday. โฆ
But Sunday was differentโit was the Sabbath. It was the day of rest. It was the day of the Lord. On Saturday night the horses were turned out to pasture and all work was suspended. Saturday was also a kind of special house cleaning day to get things and people ready for Sunday. The final act of the work week was โฆ the โSaturday night bath.โ This was supplemented by a parental issue of properly mended, clean clothing, all laid out, ready for Sunday. โฆ
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Whatโs Up?
Children and youth from the Loomis Third Ward participated in the first annual Christmas on Temple Hill event at the Sacramento California Temple, forming a choir of nearly 50 and performing Christmas hymns. Youth also served as guest conductors and instrumental accompanists. Afterward, attendees sang together, watched a Nativity video, and enjoyed refreshments, and a nonmember friend praised the evening as an exhibit of the true meaning of Christmas.
Teaming up with children from the Primary, the young women and young men of the Loomis Third Ward in the Rocklin California Stake participated in the first annual Christmas on Temple Hill at the Sacramento California Temple. The young choir was nearly 50 strong and performed a number of Christmas hymns.
Young men and women from the ward even took part as guest conductors for several songs. Other youth accompanied the singers with choir bells, guitar, flute, and clarinet. After the performance, the crowd of over 100 gathered in the chapel adjacent to the temple to sing hymns, watch a Christmas video on the Nativity, and enjoy refreshments.
One of the many friends in the community to attend who is not a member of the Church described the evening as a heartwarming โexhibit of the true meaning of Christmas.โ
Young men and women from the ward even took part as guest conductors for several songs. Other youth accompanied the singers with choir bells, guitar, flute, and clarinet. After the performance, the crowd of over 100 gathered in the chapel adjacent to the temple to sing hymns, watch a Christmas video on the Nativity, and enjoy refreshments.
One of the many friends in the community to attend who is not a member of the Church described the evening as a heartwarming โexhibit of the true meaning of Christmas.โ
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Hold on a Little Longer
The speaker and his wife took their twin grandsons to Kirtland, Ohio, before the grandsons left on missions. During the visit they gained a better understanding of Joseph Smith and the Kirtland Saints. Later, while walking near the Kirtland Temple, the speaker pondered the tragedy that some could not remain faithful despite great spiritual manifestations.
Last summer my wife and I took our twin grandsons to Kirtland, Ohio. It was a special and precious opportunity for us to spend time with them before they left on their missions.
During our visit there, we learned to better understand the circumstances of the Prophet Joseph Smith and the Saints who lived in Kirtland. That era of Church history is known as a time of severe trials but also supreme blessings.
As I walked near the Kirtland Temple with my wife and grandsons, I pondered how tragic it was that some could not remain faithful even after the spiritual manifestations they had witnessed. How sorrowful it was that they could not endure the ridicule and criticism of disbelievers. How sad that, when faced with financial trial or other struggles, they could not have reached inside themselves and found the strength to remain faithful. How unfortunate it was that they somehow lost sight of the miraculous spiritual harvest at the dedication of the temple.
During our visit there, we learned to better understand the circumstances of the Prophet Joseph Smith and the Saints who lived in Kirtland. That era of Church history is known as a time of severe trials but also supreme blessings.
As I walked near the Kirtland Temple with my wife and grandsons, I pondered how tragic it was that some could not remain faithful even after the spiritual manifestations they had witnessed. How sorrowful it was that they could not endure the ridicule and criticism of disbelievers. How sad that, when faced with financial trial or other struggles, they could not have reached inside themselves and found the strength to remain faithful. How unfortunate it was that they somehow lost sight of the miraculous spiritual harvest at the dedication of the temple.
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FYI:For Your Information
Darius Jensen earned the Chief Scoutโs Award in Canada. To qualify, he served at a senior citizensโ center, where his work impressed staff enough that they hired him to continue after completing his award.
Darius Jensen, a teacher in the Kelowna First Ward, Vernon British Columbia Stake, received the highest award in Canadian Scoutingโthe Chief Scoutโs Award.
In order to earn the award, Darius performed community service at a senior citizensโ center. His work was so impressive that he was hired to continue some work after completing his award.
In order to earn the award, Darius performed community service at a senior citizensโ center. His work was so impressive that he was hired to continue some work after completing his award.
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As a new counselor in a stake presidency, he opposed a proposed stake center location with several reasons. After praying, he felt a strong impression that he was wrong and withdrew his opposition. The wisdom of the location soon became evident.
One of my first experiences in being restrained by the Spirit came soon after I was called as a counselor in a stake presidency in Chicago. In one of our first stake presidency meetings our stake president made a proposal that our new stake center be built in a particular location. I immediately saw four or five good reasons why that was the wrong location. When asked for my counsel, I opposed the proposal, giving each of those reasons. The stake president wisely proposed that each of us consider the matter prayerfully for a week and discuss it further in our next meeting. Almost perfunctorily I prayed about the subject and immediately received a strong impression that I was wrong, that I was standing in the way of the Lordโs will, and that I should remove myself from opposition to it. Needless to say, I was restrained and promptly gave my approval to the proposed construction. Incidentally, the wisdom of constructing the stake center at that location was soon evident, even to me. My reasons to the contrary turned out to be shortsighted, and I was soon grateful to have been restrained from relying on them.
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Sharing the Friend
After Primary in Kenya, a child happily shows a Friend magazine. Seeing someone nearby, the child decides to share the magazine, hoping it will bring her the same happiness from learning about Jesus Christ. The recipient thanks her, and the child explains her desire to share that joy.
This story happened in Kenya.
How was Primary?
It was good. And I got my Friend magazine!
Thatโs great! Ready to go home?
Yep!
Hello!
Hello!
Reading the Friend makes me happy. Maybe it will make her happy too.
This is for you! Itโs a magazine about Jesus Christ.
Thank you!
That was nice of you.
Thanks. I just wanted her to feel the happiness I feel when I learn about Jesus!
โShare the gospel. Be you and hold up the light.โ
Elder Marcus B. Nash of the Seventy, โHold Up Your Light,โ Liahona, Nov. 2021, 72.
Thanks to Sasha O. for sharing her story!
How can you share the gospel with others?
Illustrations by Kelly Light
How was Primary?
It was good. And I got my Friend magazine!
Thatโs great! Ready to go home?
Yep!
Hello!
Hello!
Reading the Friend makes me happy. Maybe it will make her happy too.
This is for you! Itโs a magazine about Jesus Christ.
Thank you!
That was nice of you.
Thanks. I just wanted her to feel the happiness I feel when I learn about Jesus!
โShare the gospel. Be you and hold up the light.โ
Elder Marcus B. Nash of the Seventy, โHold Up Your Light,โ Liahona, Nov. 2021, 72.
Thanks to Sasha O. for sharing her story!
How can you share the gospel with others?
Illustrations by Kelly Light
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