Five years later, on 18 June 1844, nine days before Josephโs martyrdom and amid all the excitement aroused by mobsters, Joseph gave his last public speech. It is quite possible that the man in the audience described by English convert Charles Lambert was a repentant mobster:
โI was present when the Prophet preached his last sermon. โฆ It was powerful. There was a tall man standing behind me sobbing and crying. When I turned around to look at him, he said he would never fight against the Mormons; no, never. He was a stranger to me.โ9
Foes Became His Friends
On June 18, 1844, Joseph preached his final public sermon. Charles Lambert observed a tall man behind him sobbing, declaring he would never fight against the Mormons again. The man was a stranger to Lambert and may have been a former adversary.
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Eight Japanese Brothers
Ten years after her husband's death, the mother moved from Nago to Naha, feeling guided by the Spirit. Around 1967, missionaries found their isolated home, taught the family, and the mother felt the Lordโs love and wept for the first time since her husbandโs passing. She was baptized first to set an example and desired all her sons to learn the gospel and serve as missionaries.
Ten years after the death of my father, as if guided by the Spirit, Mother left Nago amid the opposition of friends and relatives and moved to Naha, the capital of Okinawa. A few years later, about 1967, the missionaries knocked on our door. At that time our house was isolated and surrounded by sugarcane fields and a graveyard. The road to the house was in poor condition, and few people ever called on us. The missionaries were Elder Jackson and Elder Fuchigami, a second-generation Japanese-American from Hawaii. The missionaries asked, โMay we speak with you about God?โ Mother had been concerned about her sonsโ education and thought we might learn something good from the missionaries, so she invited the elders in and said, โPlease teach my children about God.โ
Mother found peace as she learned about the gospel. She was impressed that the missionaries paid their own way and that Elder Jackson was serving a mission, even though he had lost his parents in an automobile accident when he was younger and had struggled along with an older sister. As she listened to the missionaries, Mother shed tears for the first time since my fatherโs death. She felt the Lordโs love and the Spirit through the discussions. She knew that this was the church our family had been searching for.
To set an example for her sons, Mother was baptized first. She was touched by the missionariesโ message and by their loving, kind behavior. She began to think that the greatest education she could give her children would be for us to learn the gospel and become missionaries. Mother always told the missionaries, โThere are eight boys in our family. Please come to our house and teach the gospel to them. When they are all converted, there will be eight more priesthood holders at church. And they may be missionaries in the future.โ
Mother found peace as she learned about the gospel. She was impressed that the missionaries paid their own way and that Elder Jackson was serving a mission, even though he had lost his parents in an automobile accident when he was younger and had struggled along with an older sister. As she listened to the missionaries, Mother shed tears for the first time since my fatherโs death. She felt the Lordโs love and the Spirit through the discussions. She knew that this was the church our family had been searching for.
To set an example for her sons, Mother was baptized first. She was touched by the missionariesโ message and by their loving, kind behavior. She began to think that the greatest education she could give her children would be for us to learn the gospel and become missionaries. Mother always told the missionaries, โThere are eight boys in our family. Please come to our house and teach the gospel to them. When they are all converted, there will be eight more priesthood holders at church. And they may be missionaries in the future.โ
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A Glorious Doctrine
In October 1840, Vilate Kimball wrote to her husband, Elder Heber C. Kimball, serving in Great Britain, about Joseph Smithโs newly taught doctrine of baptism for the dead. She expressed joy and urgency to be baptized for her mother, citing Josephโs counsel to act quickly. The narrative recalls the Kimballsโ moves and persecutions before settling in Nauvoo. Vilate later became one of the first women baptized for the dead in Nauvoo.
In October 1840, 34-year-old Vilate Kimball wrote a letter to her husband, Elder Heber C. Kimball of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. โPresident [Joseph] Smith has opened a new and glorious subject โฆ which has caused quite a revival in the church,โ Vilate wrote to Heber, who was serving his second mission to Great Britain. The subject of Joseph Smithโs teaching on this occasion was baptism for those who hadnโt had the opportunity in their lifetimes.
โJoseph has received a more full explanation of it by Revelation,โ she reported. โIt is the privilege of this church to be baptised for all their kinsfolks that have died before this Gospel came forth.โ Vilate celebrated the revelation that in doing these proxy baptisms for deceased family members, โwe act as agents for them; and give them the privilege of coming forth in the first resurrection.โ
The Kimballs had moved from New York to be with the Saints in Kirtland, Ohio, and then moved to Far West, Missouri. Just a year later, in 1839, they had to flee Missouri with thousands of other Latter-day Saints to escape persecution at the hands of violent mobs. They made their home in Nauvoo, hundreds of miles from where their journey had started.
Although their arrival in Nauvoo had been under trying circumstances, Vilateโs October 1840 letter to her husband was teeming with excitement. โI want to be baptised for my Mother,โ she exclaimed. โI calculated to wait until you come home, but the last time Joseph spoke upon the subject, he advised every one to be up and a doing, and liberate their friends from bondage as quick as possible. โฆ Thus you see there is a chance for all. Is not this a glorious doctrine?โ
Vilate was one of the first women to be baptized for the dead in Nauvoo.
โJoseph has received a more full explanation of it by Revelation,โ she reported. โIt is the privilege of this church to be baptised for all their kinsfolks that have died before this Gospel came forth.โ Vilate celebrated the revelation that in doing these proxy baptisms for deceased family members, โwe act as agents for them; and give them the privilege of coming forth in the first resurrection.โ
The Kimballs had moved from New York to be with the Saints in Kirtland, Ohio, and then moved to Far West, Missouri. Just a year later, in 1839, they had to flee Missouri with thousands of other Latter-day Saints to escape persecution at the hands of violent mobs. They made their home in Nauvoo, hundreds of miles from where their journey had started.
Although their arrival in Nauvoo had been under trying circumstances, Vilateโs October 1840 letter to her husband was teeming with excitement. โI want to be baptised for my Mother,โ she exclaimed. โI calculated to wait until you come home, but the last time Joseph spoke upon the subject, he advised every one to be up and a doing, and liberate their friends from bondage as quick as possible. โฆ Thus you see there is a chance for all. Is not this a glorious doctrine?โ
Vilate was one of the first women to be baptized for the dead in Nauvoo.
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Friend to Friend
As a boy in Brazil, he and his brothers loved soccer but couldnโt afford a ball. Their mother sewed one from old clothes, and they used backyard fruit trees as goals. It allowed them to play despite limited means.
My four brothers and I loved to play soccer in our backyard. We had no money for a soccer ball, so our mother made us a ball out of old clothing. We used two fruit trees in our backyard as our soccer goals.
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No Ordinary Time
Kelly McGuirt accepted the Tampa challenge and documented values for her goals, even writing retroactively for prior years. Encouraged by her leader, she led a March of Dimes youth committee to promote a Walk-a-thon. Her project clearly aligned with the value of good works.
Kelly McGuirt of the Tampa Florida Third Ward took the challenge. She was among the first group of Laurels to complete her Young Womanhood Recognition, identifying the value that went with each goal. It was a lot of writing because she went the extra mile and went back and wrote about the goals completed in all her years in the Young Women program. Encouraged by her Young Women leader, Kelly chose as a Laurel project to become involved in the community March of Dimes. She led a team committee to get teenagers interested in the Walk-a-thon the March of Dimes sponsored in the area. It was easy for her to identify the value of good works in her project.
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The father reminds his daughter of her childhood experiences on a spinning amusement park platform. She recalls struggling to reach the center while children near the edge slid off and sometimes grabbed others as they fell, illustrating the danger of staying near the edge.
He smiled as he reminded his daughter of one of her favorite rides at the amusement park when she was younger. โRemember how much time you used to spend on that large spinning platform? You and the other children would scramble toward the center and try to hold your places as the huge platform spun around. It was just like a giant turntable.โ
โOh, yes,โ the daughter replied. โOnce that turntable started spinning, the children closest to the edge went sliding off just like that cotton ball, and the ones who managed to hold their position near the center stayed on. I tried my best to work my way from the edge toward the center, but it was a real struggle. I had to crawl and pull myself along. And if that werenโt hard enough, I always had to watch out for the children who didnโt make it to the center, because they usually grabbed someone else as they spun off and tried to take them with them.โ
โIn a way, life is like that,โ her father explained. โThere are struggles, and people going downward sometimes tend to drag those nearby down with them. We, on the other hand, are trying to climb against those forces that are pulling us down.
โOh, yes,โ the daughter replied. โOnce that turntable started spinning, the children closest to the edge went sliding off just like that cotton ball, and the ones who managed to hold their position near the center stayed on. I tried my best to work my way from the edge toward the center, but it was a real struggle. I had to crawl and pull myself along. And if that werenโt hard enough, I always had to watch out for the children who didnโt make it to the center, because they usually grabbed someone else as they spun off and tried to take them with them.โ
โIn a way, life is like that,โ her father explained. โThere are struggles, and people going downward sometimes tend to drag those nearby down with them. We, on the other hand, are trying to climb against those forces that are pulling us down.
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New England Christmas Traditions
The Webber children rise very early on Christmas morning, though their father has slowly pushed the time later by 15 minutes each year. Without alarm clocks, they play a record of alarm sounds to wake their parents, then line up on the stairs for a photo before running to designated spots marked by decorated cards.
Getting up early Christmas morning is a tradition thatโs a favorite. โOur earliest was 4:30 A.M., but because my father says Santaโs helpers need their sleep, weโve moved the time back 15 minutes each year,โ said John Webber, 16. โThis year weโre at 6:15. Weโre not allowed to use alarm clocks, though, so if we oversleep, thatโs our parentsโ luck. When we do wake up, we put on a record of alarm clocks going off so our parents will wake up. Then all of us kids go to the top of the stairs in the childrenโs hallway and wait until our parents and grandmother come down from the upper staircase. Dad takes a picture of us, then we run into the living room where we each have a particular spot for our presents. We make special cards for our spot, and each year we add more decoration to the cards.โ
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Cool Ben Grundy
Ben dreads hosting popular athlete Joe McCabe for a school project, fearing his quirky family's antics. At dinner and during the visit, his family awkwardly fawns over Joe and April tries to impress him, even walking into a chair without her glasses. Joe remains courteous throughout. Afterward, April admits Joe isn't conceited, and Ben begins to rethink what 'cool' means.
I blame this all on Mr. Barnes, our social studies teacher. Heโs the one who paired Joe and me up to work onโnow get thisโa team project on Finland. Can you believe it? What I know about Finland can be written on the back of a postage stamp.
Why Joe McCabe? Up until this point, I probably had as much meaning in his life, as say, cauliflower. Now itโs me and Joe Cool, no escape. After class, Joe comes up to me and says, โHey, Ben.โ
And I, not knowing how to speak cool, mumble something like, โGlrrrrk.โ
โWeโll ace this report. Letโs get together on it right away. I can stop by your house on Thursday. Donโt you live on Oakway Street?โ
Again, I utter a sensitive, insightful comment, โUh-hur.โ
โAbout eight oโclock okay? My mom has a business dinner at our place that night. Next time we get together it can be at our house.โ
I nod my head meekly, wisely having given up trying to speak.
โSee yaโ then, bud,โ says Joe before he saunters away.
* * *
Now itโs dinner time on Thursday, less than two hours from Joe time. Everything is more or less normal at the Grundys. We are at the kitchen table, finishing off the main courseโMomโs almost-famous cheesy noodles.
โAnyone doing something special tonight?โ Dad says, shoving a bite of cheesy noodles around his plate. โYou up to anything, Ben?โ
โNot much. Someone is coming over for a little social studies project.โ
โA girl?โ asks Mom, with great hope in her voice. Mom is aware of the fact that Iโm socially awkward, and she drops these subtle hints about how she wishes Iโd date more often. โIs it that cute little Margaret Gromo? I think sheโs darling.โ
โNo, Mom. Itโs not Margaret. Itโs a guy. His name is Joe McCabe.โ
Suddenly, life in the Grundy household comes to a grinding halt. My sister April almost chokes on a bite of noodles. My twin brothers, Philip and Andy, stop chewing in mid-bite. Mom ponders, โWhere do I know that name from?โ
โJoe McCabe?โ Dad asks. โIsnโt he the football player I keep reading about?โ
โYeah.โ
โJoe McCabe is coming here? Tonight?โ mumbles April, suddenly taking off her thick glasses and running her fingers through her hair. โHe is so conceited.โ
โDo you think heโll throw the football to us?โ asks Andy, with hope.
โNo. Itโs dark out. Now look, Joe and I are, like, assigned to do a social studies project together and heโs coming over and weโre going to talk about some ideas. Thatโs all. Joe is very popular, so please โฆโ
What I want to say is โdonโt embarrass me,โ but instead I say, โjust leave us alone so we can get some work done.โ
โWell sure, son. We can do that. You wonโt even know weโre here.โ
Exactly on time, the doorbell rings. Andy and Philip almost kill each other trying to get to the door first. Joe is dressed in jeans, a white T-shirt, running shoes, and a leather jacket. Andy and Philip are fighting over who can hang up Joeโs jacket.
Dad, who can usually be counted on to act fairly normal, stands up and says to Joe, โSo youโre the famous Joe McCabe. BYU could sure use someone like you on its football team. Are they trying to recruit you?โ
Joe smiles sheepishly. โYeah, I think they are.โ
Mom walks into the room. โI just have to ask, Are you the one dating Margaret Gromo? Sheโs this nice girl on the track team who lives down the street.โ
โNo, Iโm sorry, Mrs. Grundy. It must be someone else,โ Joe says, as I look for something to crawl under.
This is not the way I hoped the evening would start.
I usher Joe into the living room, hoping to get working before any other social blunders are committed. We start talking about what we know of Finland, which basically is nothing. At least April is keeping her word and not doing anything to embarrass the Grundy name.
Just then I hear a thump from near the doorway. Itโs April, now in a dress, without her glasses, which is unusual because her range of clear vision without them is about three inches. April, the one who was so determined not to impress Joe, has just accidentally walked into one of our living room chairs.
โOh, Benjamin! I didnโt know you had company!โ she says, straightening up and speaking in what I think is a slight English accent. โHow gauche of me! And what might be your guestโs name?โ
โThis is Joe McCabe. Joe, this is my sister, April.โ
โHi, April. Iโve seen you at school. Are you a tenth-grade cheerleader?โ
She almost falls over at his question. โUh, no, but Iโve thought about trying out,โ she stammers, suddenly forgetting the phony accent.
โWell, you should give it a try. I bet youโd be good.โ
โOh.โ April leans against the wall for support. โWell, I โฆ I must be going. I have to โฆ to, like do โฆ my hair. Yeah, my hair.โ
With that, she walks out of the room, although on somewhat wobbly legs.
We finally get down to the task at hand, although I notice Andy and Philip peeking in at Joe every once in a while. Just after nine we finish. We still donโt know much about Finland, although we dug up a few facts from the encyclopedia. โItโs a start, Grundy. Weโll hit it again next week.โ
โOkay, Joe.โ
I close the door and then slump into a big chair in our front room. There must be no doubt in Joeโs mind where I got my geekiness from. It runs in the family.
April comes around the corner, her glasses back on, dressed in baggy sweatpants and a sweatshirt. She has a thoughtful expression on her face, as though she is about to say something profound.
She clears her throat. โYou know what, Ben? Joe McCabe isnโt as conceited as I thought.โ
Why Joe McCabe? Up until this point, I probably had as much meaning in his life, as say, cauliflower. Now itโs me and Joe Cool, no escape. After class, Joe comes up to me and says, โHey, Ben.โ
And I, not knowing how to speak cool, mumble something like, โGlrrrrk.โ
โWeโll ace this report. Letโs get together on it right away. I can stop by your house on Thursday. Donโt you live on Oakway Street?โ
Again, I utter a sensitive, insightful comment, โUh-hur.โ
โAbout eight oโclock okay? My mom has a business dinner at our place that night. Next time we get together it can be at our house.โ
I nod my head meekly, wisely having given up trying to speak.
โSee yaโ then, bud,โ says Joe before he saunters away.
* * *
Now itโs dinner time on Thursday, less than two hours from Joe time. Everything is more or less normal at the Grundys. We are at the kitchen table, finishing off the main courseโMomโs almost-famous cheesy noodles.
โAnyone doing something special tonight?โ Dad says, shoving a bite of cheesy noodles around his plate. โYou up to anything, Ben?โ
โNot much. Someone is coming over for a little social studies project.โ
โA girl?โ asks Mom, with great hope in her voice. Mom is aware of the fact that Iโm socially awkward, and she drops these subtle hints about how she wishes Iโd date more often. โIs it that cute little Margaret Gromo? I think sheโs darling.โ
โNo, Mom. Itโs not Margaret. Itโs a guy. His name is Joe McCabe.โ
Suddenly, life in the Grundy household comes to a grinding halt. My sister April almost chokes on a bite of noodles. My twin brothers, Philip and Andy, stop chewing in mid-bite. Mom ponders, โWhere do I know that name from?โ
โJoe McCabe?โ Dad asks. โIsnโt he the football player I keep reading about?โ
โYeah.โ
โJoe McCabe is coming here? Tonight?โ mumbles April, suddenly taking off her thick glasses and running her fingers through her hair. โHe is so conceited.โ
โDo you think heโll throw the football to us?โ asks Andy, with hope.
โNo. Itโs dark out. Now look, Joe and I are, like, assigned to do a social studies project together and heโs coming over and weโre going to talk about some ideas. Thatโs all. Joe is very popular, so please โฆโ
What I want to say is โdonโt embarrass me,โ but instead I say, โjust leave us alone so we can get some work done.โ
โWell sure, son. We can do that. You wonโt even know weโre here.โ
Exactly on time, the doorbell rings. Andy and Philip almost kill each other trying to get to the door first. Joe is dressed in jeans, a white T-shirt, running shoes, and a leather jacket. Andy and Philip are fighting over who can hang up Joeโs jacket.
Dad, who can usually be counted on to act fairly normal, stands up and says to Joe, โSo youโre the famous Joe McCabe. BYU could sure use someone like you on its football team. Are they trying to recruit you?โ
Joe smiles sheepishly. โYeah, I think they are.โ
Mom walks into the room. โI just have to ask, Are you the one dating Margaret Gromo? Sheโs this nice girl on the track team who lives down the street.โ
โNo, Iโm sorry, Mrs. Grundy. It must be someone else,โ Joe says, as I look for something to crawl under.
This is not the way I hoped the evening would start.
I usher Joe into the living room, hoping to get working before any other social blunders are committed. We start talking about what we know of Finland, which basically is nothing. At least April is keeping her word and not doing anything to embarrass the Grundy name.
Just then I hear a thump from near the doorway. Itโs April, now in a dress, without her glasses, which is unusual because her range of clear vision without them is about three inches. April, the one who was so determined not to impress Joe, has just accidentally walked into one of our living room chairs.
โOh, Benjamin! I didnโt know you had company!โ she says, straightening up and speaking in what I think is a slight English accent. โHow gauche of me! And what might be your guestโs name?โ
โThis is Joe McCabe. Joe, this is my sister, April.โ
โHi, April. Iโve seen you at school. Are you a tenth-grade cheerleader?โ
She almost falls over at his question. โUh, no, but Iโve thought about trying out,โ she stammers, suddenly forgetting the phony accent.
โWell, you should give it a try. I bet youโd be good.โ
โOh.โ April leans against the wall for support. โWell, I โฆ I must be going. I have to โฆ to, like do โฆ my hair. Yeah, my hair.โ
With that, she walks out of the room, although on somewhat wobbly legs.
We finally get down to the task at hand, although I notice Andy and Philip peeking in at Joe every once in a while. Just after nine we finish. We still donโt know much about Finland, although we dug up a few facts from the encyclopedia. โItโs a start, Grundy. Weโll hit it again next week.โ
โOkay, Joe.โ
I close the door and then slump into a big chair in our front room. There must be no doubt in Joeโs mind where I got my geekiness from. It runs in the family.
April comes around the corner, her glasses back on, dressed in baggy sweatpants and a sweatshirt. She has a thoughtful expression on her face, as though she is about to say something profound.
She clears her throat. โYou know what, Ben? Joe McCabe isnโt as conceited as I thought.โ
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A student-produced seminary play, 'Awaiting Answers,' begins with a scene about listening to Heavenly Father. The project started after chaperone Shirley Anderson felt S?Day should feature something students could 'take home,' so she guided youth leaders and writers to develop a script. The production culminated in a moving performance that left few dry eyes.
The auditorium is dark. Downstage a spotlight picks out a white telephone. Rrrrrrrrrring! Rrrrrrrrring!
Then a deep, penetrating voice asks, โWaiting for a call?โ And as the voice continues, figures begin to gather onstage. โThey are. Theyโre waiting for a call from Heavenly Father. They donโt realize he is always calling and ready to listen. All they have to do is lift the receiver.โ
The orchestra begins to play ever so softly and is joined by a male voice singing.
It is the beginning of the play โAwaiting Answers,โ written, produced, and directed by high school seminary students. But, of course, that isnโt really the beginning. It started one spring at the annual Davis County Seminary District โS-Dayโ traditionally held at the Regional Center in Bountiful, Utah.
Shirley Anderson of Kaysville, Utah, was there as a chaperone. โThe professional music program was good,โ she recalls, โbut I had the strongest feeling an S-Day program should be something the kids can take home with them.โ So Sister Anderson devoted her speech and drama talent to guiding the seminary students for the coming year in an effort to create a really good, seminary-produced play. Two co-directors were appointed, Carolyn Hawkins and Todd Williams, and a committee of representatives was formed from every seminary in the district.
Like the teenagers who did the work, those in the story came out triumphant. With love of God and a growing love for each other, the actors acted, the singers sang, the orchestra played, and the dancers danced; and when they were through and the lights were lowered on the last strains of โOh, my child, this is Saturday. Blessings are in store, blessings are in store,โ there was scarcely a dry eye in the audience or on stage.
Then a deep, penetrating voice asks, โWaiting for a call?โ And as the voice continues, figures begin to gather onstage. โThey are. Theyโre waiting for a call from Heavenly Father. They donโt realize he is always calling and ready to listen. All they have to do is lift the receiver.โ
The orchestra begins to play ever so softly and is joined by a male voice singing.
It is the beginning of the play โAwaiting Answers,โ written, produced, and directed by high school seminary students. But, of course, that isnโt really the beginning. It started one spring at the annual Davis County Seminary District โS-Dayโ traditionally held at the Regional Center in Bountiful, Utah.
Shirley Anderson of Kaysville, Utah, was there as a chaperone. โThe professional music program was good,โ she recalls, โbut I had the strongest feeling an S-Day program should be something the kids can take home with them.โ So Sister Anderson devoted her speech and drama talent to guiding the seminary students for the coming year in an effort to create a really good, seminary-produced play. Two co-directors were appointed, Carolyn Hawkins and Todd Williams, and a committee of representatives was formed from every seminary in the district.
Like the teenagers who did the work, those in the story came out triumphant. With love of God and a growing love for each other, the actors acted, the singers sang, the orchestra played, and the dancers danced; and when they were through and the lights were lowered on the last strains of โOh, my child, this is Saturday. Blessings are in store, blessings are in store,โ there was scarcely a dry eye in the audience or on stage.
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High school senior Jeff is shocked when heโs cut from the basketball team and withdraws in anger and disappointment. Classmate Kristy invites him to help with a special education P.E. class playing basketball, where he mentors students like Joseph and rediscovers joy through service. Encouraging Joseph teaches Jeff about perseverance and adapting after failure. He decides to keep helping the class and considers writing for the school paper, starting a hopeful โsecond half.โ
Though only moments remained in Franklin Highโs last preseason scrimmage, several players were still fighting for their basketball survival. Final cuts were tomorrow, and the intense action on the court reflected the athletesโ anxiety. It was now or never to make that one last good impression.
Jeff Anderson, on the other hand, was as confident as they come. A slim six-foot-one senior with aspirations of a college scholarship, Jeff had made the varsity team three years running. He had even been named an all-star twice. The competition was a little tougher this year, the team had a new coach, and Jeff hadnโt exactly found the top of his game yet, but that was nothing to worry about. His position was sure.
When the buzzer finally sounded, the exhausted contenders headed for the showers. On the way off the court, Jeff found himself next to Mark, a freshman who had been giving his all to make the varsity squad. Poor Mark probably didnโt have a chance, Jeff thought.
โThink youโll make the cut?โ Jeff asked him anyway.
โI donโt know,โ Mark replied cautiously. โI hope so.โ
โWell, since this is your first year, donโt take it so hard if you donโt land a spot. Good luck, though.โ
โThanks,โ Mark said as the two split to go to their separate lockers. โI guess weโll find out tomorrow.โ
The next day when Jeff reported to practice, the final team roster was posted outside the coachโs door. Jeff almost didnโt bother to read it, but curiosity made him stop.
Mark had made the cut, as had a few other underclassmen. But when Jeff got to the end of the list, a terrible realization hit him like a right hook to the jawโhis own name was missing.
Jeff went white with shock. For five minutes he stood there dazed, frantically scanning the paper over and over. This canโt be happening, he thought. In desperation, he opened the door and asked the coach if there had been a mistake. There hadnโt.
โBut why?โ asked Jeff in disbelief. โIโm a senior and a two-time all-star. Doesnโt that count for anything?โ
The coach sat down. โYes, Jeff, it does,โ he began, โbut I have to go with my best players. This year there were a lot of younger guys who were better. I could have kept you on the team and let you sit on the bench, but didnโt think that would be fair to you. Iโm sorry, Jeff.โ
Itโs still not fair, Jeff thought as he walked away. You just donโt cut an all-star. He could feel the anger and frustration swelling within him. Even if your younger guys were better, seniors should have priority. But right now it didnโt matter what he thought. That morning he had been a star basketball player and a member of a real team, but now he was nobody, and when people found out, his life would be over for sure.
That afternoon, Jeffโs mom was quick with her usual greeting.
โHi, Jeff. How was your day?โ she asked cheerfully, unaware of the dayโs events.
โBad,โ Jeff retorted bluntly. Avoiding eye contact, he threw down his backpack and stomped into the kitchen. His mom followed.
โHow bad?โ she asked. โWhat happened?โ
Silence. He didnโt want to talk, but he guessed it would have to come out sometime.
โItโs so stupid,โ he finally confessed, banging his fist on the counter.
โWhatโs stupid?โ
โThe basketball team,โ Jeff started. โThe new coach thinks the sophomores and juniors are better than me and today he cut me from the teamโjust like that.โ
Jeffโs mother knew how much basketball meant to him. โOh, Jeff, Iโm sorry, but itโs not the end โฆโ she stopped abruptly, knowing this was not the time for a lecture.
โEnd, nothing,โ he replied angrily. โMy life is ruined.โ And with that he tromped upstairs to his room and slammed the door.
By dinnertime, word of Jeffโs catastrophe had spread through the entire family, and as expected, everyone had questions and advice he didnโt want to hear.
โAre you still going to be on the basketball team?โ Jeffโs ten-year-old brother, Doug, wanted to know. As younger brothers often do, Doug idolized Jeff and wanted to know every detail of his athletic affairs.
โNo,โ Jeff snapped, still mad at the world. โI got cut, okay? Now leave me alone.โ
Jeffโs dad tried to offer some sympathy. โWell, I think the coach made a poor decision,โ he said. โBut even if we could make him take you back, you know he wouldnโt play you. Just donโt let it get you down. When I was a freshman in high school I wanted to be a star baseball player, but I didnโt make the cut either. I was angry and disappointed like you, but instead of letting it eat at me, I got involved in other things and still had a fun four years. Just look at this as a kind of intermission,โ Dad continued. โWith the right attitude, you could still have a great second half.โ
โBut Dad,โ Jeff countered, โIโve already made the team three years in a row. You hadnโt put as much into it as I have. You still had plenty of time to start over. I donโt.โ
โThere are still plenty of activities you could try,โ his mom interjected. โMaybe you could audition for the drama club or join the school choir.โ
โHa ha,โ Jeff said dryly. โYou couldnโt get me into those things if you paid me. Besides, Iโm an athlete.โ
โHow about baseball?โ Doug suggested. โYou could be the pitcher!โ Any sport was fine for Doug.
โBaseball is different than basketball,โ Jeff explained, brushing Doug aside. โNow could everyone please just let me eat in peace?โ
The room immediately fell silent. Except for the occasional clink of knives and forks, no one spoke for several minutes. Finally, someone dared to try again.
โI hear thereโs an opening for a sports reporter on the school paper,โ suggested Cindy, a year younger than Jeff. โYouโve always been a good writer, and that might be right up your alley.โ
โThanks, but no thanks,โ Jeff said, getting up from the table. He couldnโt stand it anymore. โIf none of you mind, Iโll just run my own life.โ He stomped from the room, and with a loud clatter he dropped his plate in the kitchen sink and disappeared. It looked to be a long basketball season for the Andersons.
Several days passed, and Jeff refused to cheer up for anyone. He avoided his family whenever possible, and at school he distanced himself from friends. At lunch he sat alone, far from anyone who might dare talk to him, until one day he had a surprise visitor.
โHi, Jeff,โ she said as she sat down across from him. Her name was Kristy Campbell, and Jeff knew her from a few classes they had taken together. She had also been in his sixth period study hall at the beginning of this year but had disappeared after only a few weeks.
โLately you look like you could use a friend,โ she announced, โso Iโve come to apply for the position. Whatโs up?โ
โNothing,โ Jeff shot back. It was a nice gesture on her part, but it looked to him like she only wanted to be his psychiatrist, and the last thing he needed was one more self-styled shrink to analyze his plight.
โI heard about the basketball team,โ Kristy revealed. โThatโs really too bad.โ
โYeah, what else is new?โ Jeff asked sarcastically. He wasnโt in the mood for this.
Kristy chuckled. โWhat are you doing with your spare time now that youโre not playing basketball?โ she asked.
โNot a lot,โ Jeff answered evasively, looking down at his tray.
Kristy didnโt give up. โSay, donโt you have a free hour sixth period?โ she remembered.
โItโs my study hall hour,โ he said. โWhy do you want to know?โ
โWell, since youโve got a little time on your hands, I thought you might be able to come down to the gym sixth period and help me out with something.โ
โLike what?โ
Kristy got up from the table. โItโs a surprise,โ she said with a smile, โbut it has to do with basketball, and youโre just the person I need. Iโll see you there.โ
She turned and bolted for the door. By the time Jeff could say anything, she was yards away and out of earshot. Oh well, he thought, sheโll be disappointed when Iโm not there.
By the end of fifth period, however, Jeffโs curiosity was piqued. What kind of favor could Kristy possibly need that involved basketball? And why him? His homework was light today, so maybe he would at least go see what it was. If it didnโt look interesting, he could always go back to the library and study.
When the bell sounded, he walked slowly down the hall, still imagining what might lie ahead. As he neared the gym, he heard basketballs bouncing. He racked his brain again for possible explanations. Nothing could have prepared him for what he was about to find.
When he entered the gym he saw several students dribbling or shooting basketballs, but they werenโt in any of his classes and they werenโt on the basketball team. They were members of Franklin Highโs special education class, and all of them had some kind of mental disability. Some were physically handicapped as well.
Jeff instantly felt out of place and turned to make a quick exit, but an excited Kristy Campbell stood between him and the door.
โYou came!โ she nearly shouted. โIโm so glad youโre here.โ Then she explained. โYou see, Iโve been using my study period to help out with the special ed P.E. class, and today weโre playing basketball. I thought I could use a little help, and with your expertise, youโre the perfect person to be my assistant. Come and let me introduce you.โ
This was awkward. Jeff had seen the special ed class in the halls and in their own corner of the cafeteria, but he had never felt comfortable enough to talk to them and didnโt feel like starting now. He didnโt know them, and they were, well, different.
โAttention everyone. This is Jeff Anderson,โ Kristy announced to the group. โHe was on the school basketball team last year and today heโs going to watch and give us a little advice.โ
Great, Jeff thought. Now Iโm stuck.
โAnd since heโs such a hotshot superstar,โ Kristy continued, shooting Jeff a grin, โwe should all be pros by the end of the period.โ
As soon as Kristy finished, Jeff was immediately mobbed by his new fan club. One boy in particular was eager to get close to him.
โMy name is Joseph,โ he shouted above the clamor. He was Jeffโs age, and he shared Jeffโs love for basketball, but he also suffered from Downโs syndrome. Jeff didnโt know what to say.
โI went to five games last year and you played great,โ Joseph said. โIn the last game against Jefferson you scored 18 points and Franklin won, 55โ40. Can you teach us to shoot baskets like you? Please?โ
Jeff was flattered by Josephโs compliments, but more than that, he was astounded at Josephโs amazing memory of scores and statistics. He hadnโt thought anyone like Joseph could be capable of such a feat, but now he realized that he was wrong. More than that, he was intrigued.
โSure, I can show you,โ Jeff finally agreed, his face now sporting a visible grin. The small crowd erupted in cheers, and Jeff began to notice that for them this was an exciting day.
From there Kristy basically ran the show, naming the drills and organizing the students. Jeff, meanwhile, demonstrated each move and offered pointers and assistance wherever he could. All the participants loved his attention, and no one was the least bit annoyed with his suggestions. If only everyone could respond this well to coaching, he thought.
At one point during a shooting exercise, Joseph became discouraged because he couldnโt get the ball in the basket. He had tried several times from the same spot and hadnโt come close to hitting anything.
โI give up!โ he shouted in disgust. โIโm never going to make it from here.โ
โHey, relax,โ Jeff broke in. โLetโs try it again. Bend your knees a little bit, and push off with your feet when you shoot. Focus on the front of the rim and try to shoot the ball just over the rim.โ He gave the ball back to Joseph, who followed his instructions carefully. The shot still didnโt fall, but this time it went high enough and far enough and banked off the rim.
โThe most important thing to remember is to never give up,โ Jeff told Joseph. Then almost as a joke he added, โAnd if that doesnโt work, try a different shot.โ
โThanks,โ Joseph said. โYouโre awesome. Thatโs good advice.โ
โYou bet,โ Jeff replied without thinking. But as he passed the ball on, it suddenly hit him. These students were the embodiment of perseverance and improvisation. If anybody needed that advice, he did.
When the bell rang, the regular instructor returned and Kristy asked the students to gather up all the equipment. While they were busy, she ran to grab Jeff before he left the gym.
โThanks a lot, Jeff,โ she said. โI know you didnโt have to stay or even show up in the first place.โ
โYou really didnโt need me here,โ Jeff pointed out. โYou could have done all this yourself.โ
โMaybe,โ she answered, โbut they needed you. You gave them your attention, along with a shot of inspiration, and they wonโt soon forget that. Besides, I think you needed them.โ
Jeff didnโt admit it, but he knew exactly what Kristy meant. Just being there to actively help her students had forced him out of his shell. It had even been fun. Whatโs more, Josephโs astute observation had made him realize that he shouldnโt let anything keep him down for too longโnot even getting cut from the basketball team.
โWe donโt play basketball every time,โ Kristy continued, โbut we could sure use you again if you have the time. Our next class is Wednesday, same period.โ
Jeff hesitated. Although the hour had gone well, he wasnโt sure he wanted to make a habit out of it. โWell โฆโ he started.
โHey, Jeff!โ a voice suddenly bellowed from behind. It was Joseph, on his way out the door with the rest of the class. โAre you coming back Wednesday?โ
Instantly all Jeffโs excuses seemed to vanish. โSure,โ he answered. โYou can count on it.โ
Joseph grinned and waved good-bye. Jeff waved back and then turned to look at Kristy. โThanks,โ she said as she hoisted the equipment bag over her shoulder. โYouโre a real hero.โ
On the walk home that afternoon, Jeff thought about the dayโs developments. He wasnโt any closer to regaining his spot on the varsity basketball squad, but now he had a new team, and for the first time in weeks, he felt important. He had only coached Kristyโs students in small ways, but they had managed to teach him a lot more. He still had a lot to give, no matter what uniform he was wearing.
As for Kristyโs class, Jeff would see them Wednesday, and maybe more Wednesdays if Kristy asked. In the meantime, he might even check into that reporting job with the paper. If he couldnโt play the games, at least he could write about them. The second half was about to begin.
Jeff Anderson, on the other hand, was as confident as they come. A slim six-foot-one senior with aspirations of a college scholarship, Jeff had made the varsity team three years running. He had even been named an all-star twice. The competition was a little tougher this year, the team had a new coach, and Jeff hadnโt exactly found the top of his game yet, but that was nothing to worry about. His position was sure.
When the buzzer finally sounded, the exhausted contenders headed for the showers. On the way off the court, Jeff found himself next to Mark, a freshman who had been giving his all to make the varsity squad. Poor Mark probably didnโt have a chance, Jeff thought.
โThink youโll make the cut?โ Jeff asked him anyway.
โI donโt know,โ Mark replied cautiously. โI hope so.โ
โWell, since this is your first year, donโt take it so hard if you donโt land a spot. Good luck, though.โ
โThanks,โ Mark said as the two split to go to their separate lockers. โI guess weโll find out tomorrow.โ
The next day when Jeff reported to practice, the final team roster was posted outside the coachโs door. Jeff almost didnโt bother to read it, but curiosity made him stop.
Mark had made the cut, as had a few other underclassmen. But when Jeff got to the end of the list, a terrible realization hit him like a right hook to the jawโhis own name was missing.
Jeff went white with shock. For five minutes he stood there dazed, frantically scanning the paper over and over. This canโt be happening, he thought. In desperation, he opened the door and asked the coach if there had been a mistake. There hadnโt.
โBut why?โ asked Jeff in disbelief. โIโm a senior and a two-time all-star. Doesnโt that count for anything?โ
The coach sat down. โYes, Jeff, it does,โ he began, โbut I have to go with my best players. This year there were a lot of younger guys who were better. I could have kept you on the team and let you sit on the bench, but didnโt think that would be fair to you. Iโm sorry, Jeff.โ
Itโs still not fair, Jeff thought as he walked away. You just donโt cut an all-star. He could feel the anger and frustration swelling within him. Even if your younger guys were better, seniors should have priority. But right now it didnโt matter what he thought. That morning he had been a star basketball player and a member of a real team, but now he was nobody, and when people found out, his life would be over for sure.
That afternoon, Jeffโs mom was quick with her usual greeting.
โHi, Jeff. How was your day?โ she asked cheerfully, unaware of the dayโs events.
โBad,โ Jeff retorted bluntly. Avoiding eye contact, he threw down his backpack and stomped into the kitchen. His mom followed.
โHow bad?โ she asked. โWhat happened?โ
Silence. He didnโt want to talk, but he guessed it would have to come out sometime.
โItโs so stupid,โ he finally confessed, banging his fist on the counter.
โWhatโs stupid?โ
โThe basketball team,โ Jeff started. โThe new coach thinks the sophomores and juniors are better than me and today he cut me from the teamโjust like that.โ
Jeffโs mother knew how much basketball meant to him. โOh, Jeff, Iโm sorry, but itโs not the end โฆโ she stopped abruptly, knowing this was not the time for a lecture.
โEnd, nothing,โ he replied angrily. โMy life is ruined.โ And with that he tromped upstairs to his room and slammed the door.
By dinnertime, word of Jeffโs catastrophe had spread through the entire family, and as expected, everyone had questions and advice he didnโt want to hear.
โAre you still going to be on the basketball team?โ Jeffโs ten-year-old brother, Doug, wanted to know. As younger brothers often do, Doug idolized Jeff and wanted to know every detail of his athletic affairs.
โNo,โ Jeff snapped, still mad at the world. โI got cut, okay? Now leave me alone.โ
Jeffโs dad tried to offer some sympathy. โWell, I think the coach made a poor decision,โ he said. โBut even if we could make him take you back, you know he wouldnโt play you. Just donโt let it get you down. When I was a freshman in high school I wanted to be a star baseball player, but I didnโt make the cut either. I was angry and disappointed like you, but instead of letting it eat at me, I got involved in other things and still had a fun four years. Just look at this as a kind of intermission,โ Dad continued. โWith the right attitude, you could still have a great second half.โ
โBut Dad,โ Jeff countered, โIโve already made the team three years in a row. You hadnโt put as much into it as I have. You still had plenty of time to start over. I donโt.โ
โThere are still plenty of activities you could try,โ his mom interjected. โMaybe you could audition for the drama club or join the school choir.โ
โHa ha,โ Jeff said dryly. โYou couldnโt get me into those things if you paid me. Besides, Iโm an athlete.โ
โHow about baseball?โ Doug suggested. โYou could be the pitcher!โ Any sport was fine for Doug.
โBaseball is different than basketball,โ Jeff explained, brushing Doug aside. โNow could everyone please just let me eat in peace?โ
The room immediately fell silent. Except for the occasional clink of knives and forks, no one spoke for several minutes. Finally, someone dared to try again.
โI hear thereโs an opening for a sports reporter on the school paper,โ suggested Cindy, a year younger than Jeff. โYouโve always been a good writer, and that might be right up your alley.โ
โThanks, but no thanks,โ Jeff said, getting up from the table. He couldnโt stand it anymore. โIf none of you mind, Iโll just run my own life.โ He stomped from the room, and with a loud clatter he dropped his plate in the kitchen sink and disappeared. It looked to be a long basketball season for the Andersons.
Several days passed, and Jeff refused to cheer up for anyone. He avoided his family whenever possible, and at school he distanced himself from friends. At lunch he sat alone, far from anyone who might dare talk to him, until one day he had a surprise visitor.
โHi, Jeff,โ she said as she sat down across from him. Her name was Kristy Campbell, and Jeff knew her from a few classes they had taken together. She had also been in his sixth period study hall at the beginning of this year but had disappeared after only a few weeks.
โLately you look like you could use a friend,โ she announced, โso Iโve come to apply for the position. Whatโs up?โ
โNothing,โ Jeff shot back. It was a nice gesture on her part, but it looked to him like she only wanted to be his psychiatrist, and the last thing he needed was one more self-styled shrink to analyze his plight.
โI heard about the basketball team,โ Kristy revealed. โThatโs really too bad.โ
โYeah, what else is new?โ Jeff asked sarcastically. He wasnโt in the mood for this.
Kristy chuckled. โWhat are you doing with your spare time now that youโre not playing basketball?โ she asked.
โNot a lot,โ Jeff answered evasively, looking down at his tray.
Kristy didnโt give up. โSay, donโt you have a free hour sixth period?โ she remembered.
โItโs my study hall hour,โ he said. โWhy do you want to know?โ
โWell, since youโve got a little time on your hands, I thought you might be able to come down to the gym sixth period and help me out with something.โ
โLike what?โ
Kristy got up from the table. โItโs a surprise,โ she said with a smile, โbut it has to do with basketball, and youโre just the person I need. Iโll see you there.โ
She turned and bolted for the door. By the time Jeff could say anything, she was yards away and out of earshot. Oh well, he thought, sheโll be disappointed when Iโm not there.
By the end of fifth period, however, Jeffโs curiosity was piqued. What kind of favor could Kristy possibly need that involved basketball? And why him? His homework was light today, so maybe he would at least go see what it was. If it didnโt look interesting, he could always go back to the library and study.
When the bell sounded, he walked slowly down the hall, still imagining what might lie ahead. As he neared the gym, he heard basketballs bouncing. He racked his brain again for possible explanations. Nothing could have prepared him for what he was about to find.
When he entered the gym he saw several students dribbling or shooting basketballs, but they werenโt in any of his classes and they werenโt on the basketball team. They were members of Franklin Highโs special education class, and all of them had some kind of mental disability. Some were physically handicapped as well.
Jeff instantly felt out of place and turned to make a quick exit, but an excited Kristy Campbell stood between him and the door.
โYou came!โ she nearly shouted. โIโm so glad youโre here.โ Then she explained. โYou see, Iโve been using my study period to help out with the special ed P.E. class, and today weโre playing basketball. I thought I could use a little help, and with your expertise, youโre the perfect person to be my assistant. Come and let me introduce you.โ
This was awkward. Jeff had seen the special ed class in the halls and in their own corner of the cafeteria, but he had never felt comfortable enough to talk to them and didnโt feel like starting now. He didnโt know them, and they were, well, different.
โAttention everyone. This is Jeff Anderson,โ Kristy announced to the group. โHe was on the school basketball team last year and today heโs going to watch and give us a little advice.โ
Great, Jeff thought. Now Iโm stuck.
โAnd since heโs such a hotshot superstar,โ Kristy continued, shooting Jeff a grin, โwe should all be pros by the end of the period.โ
As soon as Kristy finished, Jeff was immediately mobbed by his new fan club. One boy in particular was eager to get close to him.
โMy name is Joseph,โ he shouted above the clamor. He was Jeffโs age, and he shared Jeffโs love for basketball, but he also suffered from Downโs syndrome. Jeff didnโt know what to say.
โI went to five games last year and you played great,โ Joseph said. โIn the last game against Jefferson you scored 18 points and Franklin won, 55โ40. Can you teach us to shoot baskets like you? Please?โ
Jeff was flattered by Josephโs compliments, but more than that, he was astounded at Josephโs amazing memory of scores and statistics. He hadnโt thought anyone like Joseph could be capable of such a feat, but now he realized that he was wrong. More than that, he was intrigued.
โSure, I can show you,โ Jeff finally agreed, his face now sporting a visible grin. The small crowd erupted in cheers, and Jeff began to notice that for them this was an exciting day.
From there Kristy basically ran the show, naming the drills and organizing the students. Jeff, meanwhile, demonstrated each move and offered pointers and assistance wherever he could. All the participants loved his attention, and no one was the least bit annoyed with his suggestions. If only everyone could respond this well to coaching, he thought.
At one point during a shooting exercise, Joseph became discouraged because he couldnโt get the ball in the basket. He had tried several times from the same spot and hadnโt come close to hitting anything.
โI give up!โ he shouted in disgust. โIโm never going to make it from here.โ
โHey, relax,โ Jeff broke in. โLetโs try it again. Bend your knees a little bit, and push off with your feet when you shoot. Focus on the front of the rim and try to shoot the ball just over the rim.โ He gave the ball back to Joseph, who followed his instructions carefully. The shot still didnโt fall, but this time it went high enough and far enough and banked off the rim.
โThe most important thing to remember is to never give up,โ Jeff told Joseph. Then almost as a joke he added, โAnd if that doesnโt work, try a different shot.โ
โThanks,โ Joseph said. โYouโre awesome. Thatโs good advice.โ
โYou bet,โ Jeff replied without thinking. But as he passed the ball on, it suddenly hit him. These students were the embodiment of perseverance and improvisation. If anybody needed that advice, he did.
When the bell rang, the regular instructor returned and Kristy asked the students to gather up all the equipment. While they were busy, she ran to grab Jeff before he left the gym.
โThanks a lot, Jeff,โ she said. โI know you didnโt have to stay or even show up in the first place.โ
โYou really didnโt need me here,โ Jeff pointed out. โYou could have done all this yourself.โ
โMaybe,โ she answered, โbut they needed you. You gave them your attention, along with a shot of inspiration, and they wonโt soon forget that. Besides, I think you needed them.โ
Jeff didnโt admit it, but he knew exactly what Kristy meant. Just being there to actively help her students had forced him out of his shell. It had even been fun. Whatโs more, Josephโs astute observation had made him realize that he shouldnโt let anything keep him down for too longโnot even getting cut from the basketball team.
โWe donโt play basketball every time,โ Kristy continued, โbut we could sure use you again if you have the time. Our next class is Wednesday, same period.โ
Jeff hesitated. Although the hour had gone well, he wasnโt sure he wanted to make a habit out of it. โWell โฆโ he started.
โHey, Jeff!โ a voice suddenly bellowed from behind. It was Joseph, on his way out the door with the rest of the class. โAre you coming back Wednesday?โ
Instantly all Jeffโs excuses seemed to vanish. โSure,โ he answered. โYou can count on it.โ
Joseph grinned and waved good-bye. Jeff waved back and then turned to look at Kristy. โThanks,โ she said as she hoisted the equipment bag over her shoulder. โYouโre a real hero.โ
On the walk home that afternoon, Jeff thought about the dayโs developments. He wasnโt any closer to regaining his spot on the varsity basketball squad, but now he had a new team, and for the first time in weeks, he felt important. He had only coached Kristyโs students in small ways, but they had managed to teach him a lot more. He still had a lot to give, no matter what uniform he was wearing.
As for Kristyโs class, Jeff would see them Wednesday, and maybe more Wednesdays if Kristy asked. In the meantime, he might even check into that reporting job with the paper. If he couldnโt play the games, at least he could write about them. The second half was about to begin.
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๐ค Youth
๐ค Parents
๐ค Children
๐ค Friends
๐ค Other
Adversity
Disabilities
Family
Friendship
Hope
Humility
Kindness
Service
The Perpetual Education Fund:
A young married couple applied for PEF loans and took the programโs short training on career choice and budgeting. After reviewing their expenses, they cut nonessentials like fast food. They realized they didnโt need the loans and could pay for school themselves.
One young married couple applied for PEF loans. During the application process, they took the short training course designed to help them choose a career and budget their money. Upon reflection and upon working out their budget, they decided what unessential expenditures they could reduce or eliminate, such as eating in fast-food establishments. They were startled to discover that by exercising frugality they would not need the loans. They could pay for their own schooling.
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๐ค Young Adults
๐ค Church Members (General)
Debt
Education
Employment
Sacrifice
Self-Reliance
Diary of a Would-be Minister
The narrator and his parents were sealed in the Logan Temple. Later, Elder Tuttle married him and Jan in the Salt Lake Temple, and additional family sealings took place that same day, including his brother to their parents and cousins from Missouri. His mother played a key role in their conversion.
Temple SealingโMom, Dad, and I were sealed as a family today in the Logan Temple for time and all eternity. Bill was still in school back in Kansas.
Temple MarriageโElder Tuttle married Jan and me this morning in the Salt Lake Temple. Today was even more special because Bill was finally sealed to Mom and Dad. In addition, Momโs cousins from Missouri were also sealed for time and eternity in the Lordโs house. Mother played a large role in their conversion.
Temple MarriageโElder Tuttle married Jan and me this morning in the Salt Lake Temple. Today was even more special because Bill was finally sealed to Mom and Dad. In addition, Momโs cousins from Missouri were also sealed for time and eternity in the Lordโs house. Mother played a large role in their conversion.
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Plain and Precious Truths
While struggling with feelings of inadequacy during the week, Elder Stevenson received a distinct spiritual impression. The impression chastened and comforted him, directing him to focus on what he could do. He resolved to testify of plain and precious gospel truths.
As I agonized over my inadequacies this week, I received a distinct impression which both chastened and comforted me: to focus not on what I canโt do but rather on what I can do. I can testify of the plain and precious truths of the gospel.
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Testimony
Anne looked at a picture of Jesus in her room and felt a warm assurance that Heavenly Father loves her. She also felt the Holy Ghost confirm that Jesus is real and loves her too.
One day I was in my room, and I looked at my picture of Jesus. I felt a warm feeling inside that Heavenly Father loves me. I also felt the Holy Ghost tell me that Jesus is real and He loves me too.
Anne M., age 5, Utah, USA
Anne M., age 5, Utah, USA
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Comment
Sally shares her gospel knowledge using the Tambuli magazine. A best friend at school asked to look at it and now enjoys reading it cover to cover.
Iโm so grateful that I know the truth. Iโm also thankful for the Tambuli (English), which is an interesting magazine.
Because being a member of the Church is so wonderful, I share my gospel knowledge using the magazine. I know this is a way people can know about the Church and can apply its principles in their lives. One of my best friends in school wanted to look at the magazine, and now she enjoys reading it from cover to cover.
Thank you for helping me know the truth. I know that I am truly a child of God and that Iโm a very blessed young woman.
Sally H. ValencianoMilaor Ward, Naga Philippines Stake
Because being a member of the Church is so wonderful, I share my gospel knowledge using the magazine. I know this is a way people can know about the Church and can apply its principles in their lives. One of my best friends in school wanted to look at the magazine, and now she enjoys reading it from cover to cover.
Thank you for helping me know the truth. I know that I am truly a child of God and that Iโm a very blessed young woman.
Sally H. ValencianoMilaor Ward, Naga Philippines Stake
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Mary Fielding SmithโMother in Israel
After a hard first winter in the Salt Lake Valley, Mary insisted on paying a full tithe from her first crop. A tithing clerk questioned her because of her poverty, but she rebuked him, affirming that tithing brings blessings. She continued faithfully paying tithing and provided for her family, impressing her children with its importance.
The first winter in the Salt Lake Valley was hard for the Smith family. Food and shelter were scarce. When summer came and the family finally had a crop, Mary insisted that they pay a full and honest tithe. In those days, tithing was often paid in goods. Mary selected her best potatoes and headed for the tithing office. When William Thompson, a tithing clerk, saw her, he questioned her need to pay tithing, because she was so poor. Mary retorted, โWilliam, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. Would you deny me a blessing? If I did not pay my tithing I should expect the Lord to withhold His blessings from me; I pay my tithing, not only because it is a law of God but because I expect a blessing by doing it.โ
Mary continued to pay her tithing, whatever her circumstances. She remained independent, raising chickens, sheep, and cattle. Her faithfulness impressed her children with the importance of tithing.
Mary continued to pay her tithing, whatever her circumstances. She remained independent, raising chickens, sheep, and cattle. Her faithfulness impressed her children with the importance of tithing.
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Church Opens Third Temple in the Philippines
After the dedication, volunteers were surprised when President Oaks entered and thanked them, even referencing a brief power outage. A local leader felt it was as if the Savior Himself expressed gratitude to them.
The volunteers gathered in the Waiting Room of the Temple after the Dedication. Little did they know that they were in for a pleasant surprise!
When the door opened, they quickly stood up astonished seeing President Dallin H. Oaks in front of them!
Pres. Oaks commended and thanked all who helped make the Open House and Dedication a success.
He added, probably referring to the 15-minute power outage during the afternoon session, โAnything can go wrong but thereโs nothing we canโt do something about.โ
He continued, โIโve been to many temple dedications and I can say that this team was excellent, if not the best.โ
Elder Gregorio Karganilla shared:
โWhen Pres. Oaks came to the Waiting Room before heading home to Utah, it dawned on me that it was as if Jesus Christ visited us in the room to express His gratitude for all that weโve done to make the Temple Dedication edifying and successful.โ
President Oaks then expressed his love to the volunteers and left them with tears and joyful spirits.
When the door opened, they quickly stood up astonished seeing President Dallin H. Oaks in front of them!
Pres. Oaks commended and thanked all who helped make the Open House and Dedication a success.
He added, probably referring to the 15-minute power outage during the afternoon session, โAnything can go wrong but thereโs nothing we canโt do something about.โ
He continued, โIโve been to many temple dedications and I can say that this team was excellent, if not the best.โ
Elder Gregorio Karganilla shared:
โWhen Pres. Oaks came to the Waiting Room before heading home to Utah, it dawned on me that it was as if Jesus Christ visited us in the room to express His gratitude for all that weโve done to make the Temple Dedication edifying and successful.โ
President Oaks then expressed his love to the volunteers and left them with tears and joyful spirits.
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A Firm Foundation in a Shaky World
At work, Francisco Lopes faced coworkersโ criticism and scientific arguments against his beliefs. Without ready answers, he leaned on his testimony and trusted God to reveal understanding in His time. He also encountered questions from his parents about his decision to join the Church at age 14 and sought guidance through scriptures, Church leaders, and prayer.
At work, Francisco Lopes (who has since married) was subjected to frequent spiritual tremors. โSome of the people I worked with were skeptical of my beliefs and criticized me for what I believed in,โ he says. โThey often questioned me, using science that seemed to conflict with our faith.โ
Brother Lopes recalls discussions about evolution, DNA, and more. โThey did their best to convince me the Church is false,โ he says of the questions for which he had few answers. โI had to rely upon my testimony of God and His gospel. I am grateful for that foundation.โ
Sometimes, as with Brother Lopes, members are faced with questions to which they donโt have answers. But he didnโt let something he didnโt know shake his faith in something he did know.
โThere are things that I donโt know yet. But I donโt question those things because I know that in time God will reveal what I need to know,โ Brother Lopes says, โnot in my time or when I want it, but when He thinks that it needs to be revealed.โ
What does one do when faced with tough questions that donโt seem to have answers?
โMost of our answers are in the scriptures,โ says Brother Lopes, who has faced questions not only from friends and co-workers but from his parents, who questioned his decision to join the Church at age 14. โBut finding and understanding those answers depends on personal revelation. I can also go to my Church leaders or ask God directly. Iโm grateful for the Holy Ghost and a caring Father in Heaven.โ
Brother Lopes recalls discussions about evolution, DNA, and more. โThey did their best to convince me the Church is false,โ he says of the questions for which he had few answers. โI had to rely upon my testimony of God and His gospel. I am grateful for that foundation.โ
Sometimes, as with Brother Lopes, members are faced with questions to which they donโt have answers. But he didnโt let something he didnโt know shake his faith in something he did know.
โThere are things that I donโt know yet. But I donโt question those things because I know that in time God will reveal what I need to know,โ Brother Lopes says, โnot in my time or when I want it, but when He thinks that it needs to be revealed.โ
What does one do when faced with tough questions that donโt seem to have answers?
โMost of our answers are in the scriptures,โ says Brother Lopes, who has faced questions not only from friends and co-workers but from his parents, who questioned his decision to join the Church at age 14. โBut finding and understanding those answers depends on personal revelation. I can also go to my Church leaders or ask God directly. Iโm grateful for the Holy Ghost and a caring Father in Heaven.โ
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โWhat should I do when I am mocked at school for following Church standards?โ
Jazzyโs classmates and friends pressure her to wear immodest clothing for school events and to set aside her beliefs to fit in. She consistently refuses and affirms that being true to herself means following Godโs ways, even if others dislike it.
For school events, my classmates or even my friends tell me to wear clothes that are not appealing in Godโs eyes. They say, โYou must look cute. You must look different.โ Sometimes they say that I must forget my beliefs in order to fit in with this world. But my answer is always no. I know that being the real me is being true and different from the world. Itโs OK if they donโt like me for being me. It is not about what others say; itโs about following Heavenly Fatherโs ways.
Jazzy C., age 19, Philippines
Jazzy C., age 19, Philippines
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Dadโs Tithing Trek
As a boy in Utah, the narratorโs father came from a poor family with worn-out shoes. His father handed him tithing money to take to the bishop during winter, and despite cold feet and the temptation to use the money for shoes, he continued to the bishop's house. Through this experience, he realized that tithing is fundamentally an act of faith rather than about money.
My father especially encouraged me to pay my tithing, so one day I asked him about his testimony of this principle. โWhen did you really know the importance of paying your tithes?โ I asked. In response to my question, my father told me a story about his parents paying their tithing.
When my father was growing up in Utah, his family was poor. His shoes were so worn out that the soles had holes in them and were barely attached to his shoes.
One day his father gave him an envelope full of money and said, โTake this to the bishop. This represents our tithing to the Lord.โ
So my father started walking through the fields to the bishopโs house. It was winter, and there was snow on the ground. As my father walked, his feet were very cold. He felt the money in his hand and thought how much he could use a new pair of shoes.
But my father kept walking, and he thought to himself, โI guess this has to be a very important thing, so important that my father would take this money and give it to the bishop even when we need it so badly.โ
Walking through the snow that day, my father realized the importance of tithing. He came to understand that tithing is more a matter of faith than of money.
When my father was growing up in Utah, his family was poor. His shoes were so worn out that the soles had holes in them and were barely attached to his shoes.
One day his father gave him an envelope full of money and said, โTake this to the bishop. This represents our tithing to the Lord.โ
So my father started walking through the fields to the bishopโs house. It was winter, and there was snow on the ground. As my father walked, his feet were very cold. He felt the money in his hand and thought how much he could use a new pair of shoes.
But my father kept walking, and he thought to himself, โI guess this has to be a very important thing, so important that my father would take this money and give it to the bishop even when we need it so badly.โ
Walking through the snow that day, my father realized the importance of tithing. He came to understand that tithing is more a matter of faith than of money.
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