Reading the New Era for the first time in 12 years and seeing the Extra Smile helped me laugh and smile a bit. Being disabled and alone gets kind of hard sometimes. It also showed me that young adults can teach the gospel and that we can be a good influence on others.
Brenton F., Oklahoma
After not reading the New Era for 12 years, a reader in Oklahoma picked it up again and saw the Extra Smile. Being disabled and alone, he found it helped him laugh and smile. He also felt reminded that young adults can teach the gospel and be a good influence.
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π€ Church Members (General)
Adversity
Disabilities
Happiness
Teaching the Gospel
The Big-Brother Trap
A child admits they are sometimes not as kind as they should be. They choose to apologize, feel good inside, and then try to be extra nice by doing something for their siblings.
My favorite story is βThe Big-Brother Trapβ (March 2014). Sometimes Iβm not as nice as I could be, so then I say βsorryβ and feel good inside. After that I try to be extra nice and do something for my siblings.
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π€ Children
Children
Family
Kindness
Repentance
Service
A Tsunami and a Life-Changing Choice
After meeting church leaders and missionaries, Kumar chose to take the missionary lessons. Branch president Roshan reassured him about occasional absences due to tour commitments, easing his worries. Kumar studied the Book of Mormon, felt closer to his family, and was baptized in December 2019.
Over the years, Kumar met two other mission presidents and occasionally had the opportunity to take some couple missionaries on tours which also had a positive influence on him. After talking with some good members, Kumar decided to take the missionary lessons.
Kumar remembered the first lesson when President Roshan, Negombo branch president, told him he shouldnβt worry if a tour group commitment prevented him from coming to church sometimes. He assured him that this church is not for perfect people but those who are striving to become perfect.
Kumar exclaimed, βThis was wonderful to my ears,β as this issue of missing church after committing himself to Christ weighed heavily on his mind. Now he could progress with a clear conscience and learn more about the restored gospel of Jesus Christ.
βThe Book of Mormon was very nice to read. It helped me feel closer to my wife and more comfortable with my family,β says Kumar. In December of 2019, Kumar was baptized a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Kumar remembered the first lesson when President Roshan, Negombo branch president, told him he shouldnβt worry if a tour group commitment prevented him from coming to church sometimes. He assured him that this church is not for perfect people but those who are striving to become perfect.
Kumar exclaimed, βThis was wonderful to my ears,β as this issue of missing church after committing himself to Christ weighed heavily on his mind. Now he could progress with a clear conscience and learn more about the restored gospel of Jesus Christ.
βThe Book of Mormon was very nice to read. It helped me feel closer to my wife and more comfortable with my family,β says Kumar. In December of 2019, Kumar was baptized a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
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π€ Other
Baptism
Book of Mormon
Conversion
Family
Missionary Work
Testimony
The Restoration
FYI:For Your Information
Calgary Alberta West Stake youth planned multi-site car washes to raise funds for a childrenβs hospital, but snow and rain canceled the effort. They redirected their service to cleaning two chapels, then enjoyed food and volleyball. A concluding banquet and testimonies reinforced the lesson of flexibility amid disappointment.
The youth of Calgary Alberta West Stake planned a big day devoted to service. The project included holding car washes in several locations and donating the money collected to the Alberta Childrenβs Hospital. But the weather had something to say in the matter. Their plans were not only rained out; they were snowed out.
Instead of washing dirty cars, the youth turned their brushes and buckets to the windows and baseboards of two chapels. After a thorough job, they turned the rest of the day into a fun time with food and volleyball.
The Super Saturday activity concluded with a banquet and special speaker. In the testimonies borne by several young people, they mentioned learning a vivid lesson about being flexible and dealing with lifeβs disappointments.
Instead of washing dirty cars, the youth turned their brushes and buckets to the windows and baseboards of two chapels. After a thorough job, they turned the rest of the day into a fun time with food and volleyball.
The Super Saturday activity concluded with a banquet and special speaker. In the testimonies borne by several young people, they mentioned learning a vivid lesson about being flexible and dealing with lifeβs disappointments.
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π€ Youth
Adversity
Charity
Patience
Service
Testimony
Mirrormood Magic
Newlyweds Jan and Paul are enchanted by a high-tech 'Mirrormood' house that mirrors their emotions and decide to live there. When the house malfunctions for a week, they feel unsettled until Jan adds simple, colorful touches and Paul learns they can cancel the contract. They realize the 'magic' of joy and connection comes from within them, not from the house, and choose a modest place instead.
Jan peered into the room. All neutral tones and silence. She stepped across the threshold. Suddenly the walls turned to soft, warm yellow, and the modular arrangement at the far end of the βhospitality sectorβ blinked on with patterns of fairy tale-like whimsy. Some tinkling, teasing music played softly all around.
Jan was delighted. βHow lovely to think that this is me!β
Paul entered the room. The walls now turned slightly rust. Panels opened to reveal textured symmetrical patterns. The music took on a low, slower melody.
Paul smiled playfully at Jan. He made a sweeping gesture with his hand. βAha! My personality is overshadowing yours.β
There were quick flashes of red all around the room. Loud percussion came and went.
Paul showed surprise. Bright patterns appeared on all sides of the couple. A classical selection with bursting crescendos boomed forth.
βWhy, Jan! Iβm sorry that stupid comment made you angry.β
Jan was gazing again with wonder at the marvelous constructions around them. She almost expected to hear breathing or feel beating.
Isnβt it eerie Paul? Eerie and exciting!β She paused, deciding which words to choose. βI β¦ wasnβt really mad. But I guess there was a second of resentment or something β¦β She stopped, glancing to each side, then upward. βAnd this house picks up those just-barely-there vibrations!β
βWell, you knew I was just kidding, didnβt you?β Paul put his arm around Jan and squeezed her shoulder.
A sudden change around them: pastel flurries, a heavy scent of spring, a Strauss waltz.
Paul jerked his hand off of Janβs shoulder. It was a reflex movement, as if his fingers had been burned. Both Jan and Paul burst out laughing and the house seemed to laugh with them.
When the comfortable rust-and-gold decor returned, Jan and Paul sat on one of the two stabiles in the sector. Paul leafed through the pamphlet. The two of them discussed the pending decision. The real estate agent was waiting outside. He had told them to take as much time as they wanted. It wasnβt more time they needed, it was more money. The budget would be strained to the breaking point, no question about it. But, oh, the house, this marvelous house! Mirrormood Estates meant not only upper-crust living, it meant lifetime insurance against the deterioration of human relationships through misunderstanding. Jan and Paul, newly married and wonderfully in love, were determined to maintain their open communication, thus fortifying their lives against unhappiness. This house would be a tender touchstone if the going ever did get rough.
βListen!β Jan pulled at Paulβs arm βWhat are we doing sitting here? We should be looking around.β
So Jan and Paul explored.
In each βliving sectorβ (as the pamphlet was wont to call the room arrangements), Jan and Paul had fun trying to toss out a variety of feelings and to watch the bouncings. But the newlyweds soon found that the house did not react as readily and as dramatically to conjured emotions. Still, it was so much fun to shout or grimaceβor whateverβand to see, hear, and sometimes feel and smell echoes that were more clearly understood than had been the original outputs. Time passed too quickly.
βWeβd better get on with it,β Paul noted just as Jan was turning to again review the possibilities of the food preparation sector. βThat real estate man will be coming in here to pry us out before long.β
Jan and Paul returned again to the hospitality sector and sat on the stabile closest to the front entrance. They hated to leave the house. Together they looked through the pamphlet. On the last pages of the pamphlet were more explicit descriptions, in quasi-technical terms, of the equipment built into the house: computers to record and decipher even a slight odor of perspiration, a sudden tightening of a muscle, a quick flutter of an eyelid. Diagrams attempted to show the intricate networks of sensors and reactors built into various walls and arrangements. Mathematical data followed.
Jan lost interest. She didnβt care that much about explanations and proof. She knew only that she loved the house. The real estate agent had shown wisdom in simply unlocking the door and telling them to wander through the model home at their leisure. The house was its own best sales agent.
βI love it,β Jan enthused.
βWell, I do too. But we have to look at this from the practical standpoint, you know.β
The house went bland. Too much black and white. There was some kind of clean and crisp electronic music playing. The temperature in the room cooled.
Jan stuck out her tongue. βUgh!β And there was a waver of greenness, a few droning notes.
Then Jan and Paul found themselves giggling. And surrounded by merry pulsations and wild colors, they decided that, oh, yes, they had to live in the house.
Jan was awake. Her eyes were still closed. It had become a game. Guess whatβs out there. Then, bang! Open the eyes! See how close you came.
It was difficult to win in this game. The many computers in the house that worked separately and together made countless environmental expressions possible. And the waking scene was a mixture of the blurring dreams of two people and the crystallizing thoughts of the waker. Jan could inventory her own fading dream glowβwhether or not she was able to remember having dreamed. She could note her bent for the day. But how unlikely to be able to wild-guess the dream of someone else. That was the mystery factor: Paulβs dream. But thatβs what made the game intriguing.
Hmmm. A trailing melancholy β¦ anticipation of a busy day. And maybe Paul had had a scrapbook-type dream last night.
During the first two weeks after they had moved into the house, Jan and Paul had alternated their waking and sleeping times in order to experience the dream flicker excitement spoken of by so many Mirrormood residents. A couple of those times when Paul had been asleep and she had been awake, Jan had watched with interest very homey and nostalgic happenings in the room. So she would choose a scrapbook-type dream for last night. A vague supposition, but at least something to work with. Jan mixed the ingredients together and decided: A warm plaid on the folio-panel, coordinated wide stripes on the overhead and β¦
No music!
Janβs eyes snapped open. All was neutral. She listened carefully. Sometimes the morning audios were very soft. Funny she hadnβt noticed. She usually allowed herself the audio clues. Nothing. A fear was rising from Jan, was rising and dispersing. No reinforcements wrapping all around. The wavers of dismay werenβt being caught and labeled and hung out for display. Jan heard herself emit a strange wail. She reached for Paul.
βPaul! Wake up, wake up! The house is broken!β
The week had been a waiting timeβlong and blandly tedious. Technicians had come, had checked, had consulted. Nothing was resolved. Nothing was fixed. Jan had had a bothersome feeling of uneasiness with her for most of the weary week. At least, she had supposed it was uneasiness. She couldnβt be sure. It was hard to decide how she really felt. She and Paul had lived in Mirrormood for six months. She had not had occasion for some time to concern herself with careful introspection and then to arrive at conclusions without aid of βoutside corroborationβ.
The passive house did not now demand attention. Jan was free to look elsewhere. Several times she had caught herself watching Paul surreptitiously. Jan supposed that Paul was equally suspicious of her actions, unsure of motivation and intent. Paul had been quieter this week, had seemed to be spending more time thinking. Jan decided that she felt very uneasy. If only those people would get the house fixed.
Drab. It was so drab. The magic was gone. Too bad there wasnβt a nice yard outside with living plants, a place where she could go for some deep breathing and smiling. Mirrormood houses had only small, hard courtyards. The Mirrormood Development Corporation didnβt concern itself with outdoor life-styles. Geode living, Jan decided. Thatβs what it was like. All the glory was sealed inside. And now there was no glory. The geode looked like it had been sacked and scoured. The magic was gone.
Jan knew, of course, that not even the intensifiers were working; yet, it seemed that with each succeeding day of house inactivity the house became gloomier. It was as if more and more layers of grayness were being stretched tautly and uncomfortably over the whole. Jan could almost feel a cloudy film hardening on her very skin. She rubbed her arms. Maybe it was just a damp chilliness she felt. The heat, humidity, and ion regulators werenβt working either.
Jan bit her lower lip in thought. How ironic! Now she was reacting to the house instead of the house reacting to her. And it was getting worse and worse. Maybe if she had a good cry she would feel better.
A defiance welled inside her. She let the defiance come out in a glare of her eyes. She wanted to direct the glare toward the very heart or brain or core of this pompous house! But Jan had never been interested enough in the systems of the house to find out if there was a central something-or-other control unit. So she had to be content with pressing the glare up one wall, across the ceiling, and down another wall.
βIβll decide my own mood,β she threatened to the gray hollowness about her. Jan went to the sleeping sector, grabbed her purse, and left the house.
Jan stood rearranging and reconsidering, moving an orange marigold closer to a purple columbine, adding a few more sprays of babyβs breath. She stood to admire the bouquet, then glanced toward the walls to consider the effect of the two wall hangings. Jan would never have imagined that she, who professed to have quality taste, would have purchased such garish items. But they had been cheap; and, she did like the way they worried the grayness. She hoped Paul would approve. Jan paced back and forth, stopping twice to touch the warmth of the flowers.
She was startled when the door burst open. Paul was not one for bursting into rooms. But there he was, standing too still now. There was an unusual gleam in his eyes.
Jan gestured toward the spots of colors in the room. βI hope you like it. I used money from the food budget, but β¦β
βItβs beautiful! Itβs beautiful! Youβre beautiful!β Paul grabbed Jan and danced her around the room.
She certainly hadnβt expected such an enthusiastic reaction. They stopped the twirling in front of the bouquet.
βI wished I could have bought basketful of flowers and bright, plastic doodads to scatter and hang in every room. But I knew we couldnβt afford it.β
βSpeaking-of-affording-things.β Paul pranced the statement out. Jan, who had been pushing the flowers into a tighter arrangement, turned to devote her full attention to Paul.
No careful parade of phrases now. Paul let the words tumble happily. The tone was pure joy.
βDo you know that the guarantee contract has been violated? We werenβt repaired within six days. I got a solemn phone call at work today. Do you know we have the option to take possession of a new Mirrormood or to terminate the mortgage agreement? Weβre free!β
It was the moment to toss something into the air. But Jan and Paul merely stood looking at one another, smiles of satisfaction on their faces. The smiles stretched to laughter, which propelled them into one anotherβs arms.
Oh, life was a parade! They could both feel the tingle of confetti-and-balloon time with booming drums and banners unfurling.
Paul kissed Jan. The happy glow Jan felt seemed to light up the gray room. The magic wasnβt gone, Jan realized. It had been inside her, waiting.
βLetβs find a nice, drab, cheap apartment to rent.β
Jan nodded. βYes. And, oh, please, letβs go looking right now.β
They hurried out of the house, taking the magic with them.
Jan was delighted. βHow lovely to think that this is me!β
Paul entered the room. The walls now turned slightly rust. Panels opened to reveal textured symmetrical patterns. The music took on a low, slower melody.
Paul smiled playfully at Jan. He made a sweeping gesture with his hand. βAha! My personality is overshadowing yours.β
There were quick flashes of red all around the room. Loud percussion came and went.
Paul showed surprise. Bright patterns appeared on all sides of the couple. A classical selection with bursting crescendos boomed forth.
βWhy, Jan! Iβm sorry that stupid comment made you angry.β
Jan was gazing again with wonder at the marvelous constructions around them. She almost expected to hear breathing or feel beating.
Isnβt it eerie Paul? Eerie and exciting!β She paused, deciding which words to choose. βI β¦ wasnβt really mad. But I guess there was a second of resentment or something β¦β She stopped, glancing to each side, then upward. βAnd this house picks up those just-barely-there vibrations!β
βWell, you knew I was just kidding, didnβt you?β Paul put his arm around Jan and squeezed her shoulder.
A sudden change around them: pastel flurries, a heavy scent of spring, a Strauss waltz.
Paul jerked his hand off of Janβs shoulder. It was a reflex movement, as if his fingers had been burned. Both Jan and Paul burst out laughing and the house seemed to laugh with them.
When the comfortable rust-and-gold decor returned, Jan and Paul sat on one of the two stabiles in the sector. Paul leafed through the pamphlet. The two of them discussed the pending decision. The real estate agent was waiting outside. He had told them to take as much time as they wanted. It wasnβt more time they needed, it was more money. The budget would be strained to the breaking point, no question about it. But, oh, the house, this marvelous house! Mirrormood Estates meant not only upper-crust living, it meant lifetime insurance against the deterioration of human relationships through misunderstanding. Jan and Paul, newly married and wonderfully in love, were determined to maintain their open communication, thus fortifying their lives against unhappiness. This house would be a tender touchstone if the going ever did get rough.
βListen!β Jan pulled at Paulβs arm βWhat are we doing sitting here? We should be looking around.β
So Jan and Paul explored.
In each βliving sectorβ (as the pamphlet was wont to call the room arrangements), Jan and Paul had fun trying to toss out a variety of feelings and to watch the bouncings. But the newlyweds soon found that the house did not react as readily and as dramatically to conjured emotions. Still, it was so much fun to shout or grimaceβor whateverβand to see, hear, and sometimes feel and smell echoes that were more clearly understood than had been the original outputs. Time passed too quickly.
βWeβd better get on with it,β Paul noted just as Jan was turning to again review the possibilities of the food preparation sector. βThat real estate man will be coming in here to pry us out before long.β
Jan and Paul returned again to the hospitality sector and sat on the stabile closest to the front entrance. They hated to leave the house. Together they looked through the pamphlet. On the last pages of the pamphlet were more explicit descriptions, in quasi-technical terms, of the equipment built into the house: computers to record and decipher even a slight odor of perspiration, a sudden tightening of a muscle, a quick flutter of an eyelid. Diagrams attempted to show the intricate networks of sensors and reactors built into various walls and arrangements. Mathematical data followed.
Jan lost interest. She didnβt care that much about explanations and proof. She knew only that she loved the house. The real estate agent had shown wisdom in simply unlocking the door and telling them to wander through the model home at their leisure. The house was its own best sales agent.
βI love it,β Jan enthused.
βWell, I do too. But we have to look at this from the practical standpoint, you know.β
The house went bland. Too much black and white. There was some kind of clean and crisp electronic music playing. The temperature in the room cooled.
Jan stuck out her tongue. βUgh!β And there was a waver of greenness, a few droning notes.
Then Jan and Paul found themselves giggling. And surrounded by merry pulsations and wild colors, they decided that, oh, yes, they had to live in the house.
Jan was awake. Her eyes were still closed. It had become a game. Guess whatβs out there. Then, bang! Open the eyes! See how close you came.
It was difficult to win in this game. The many computers in the house that worked separately and together made countless environmental expressions possible. And the waking scene was a mixture of the blurring dreams of two people and the crystallizing thoughts of the waker. Jan could inventory her own fading dream glowβwhether or not she was able to remember having dreamed. She could note her bent for the day. But how unlikely to be able to wild-guess the dream of someone else. That was the mystery factor: Paulβs dream. But thatβs what made the game intriguing.
Hmmm. A trailing melancholy β¦ anticipation of a busy day. And maybe Paul had had a scrapbook-type dream last night.
During the first two weeks after they had moved into the house, Jan and Paul had alternated their waking and sleeping times in order to experience the dream flicker excitement spoken of by so many Mirrormood residents. A couple of those times when Paul had been asleep and she had been awake, Jan had watched with interest very homey and nostalgic happenings in the room. So she would choose a scrapbook-type dream for last night. A vague supposition, but at least something to work with. Jan mixed the ingredients together and decided: A warm plaid on the folio-panel, coordinated wide stripes on the overhead and β¦
No music!
Janβs eyes snapped open. All was neutral. She listened carefully. Sometimes the morning audios were very soft. Funny she hadnβt noticed. She usually allowed herself the audio clues. Nothing. A fear was rising from Jan, was rising and dispersing. No reinforcements wrapping all around. The wavers of dismay werenβt being caught and labeled and hung out for display. Jan heard herself emit a strange wail. She reached for Paul.
βPaul! Wake up, wake up! The house is broken!β
The week had been a waiting timeβlong and blandly tedious. Technicians had come, had checked, had consulted. Nothing was resolved. Nothing was fixed. Jan had had a bothersome feeling of uneasiness with her for most of the weary week. At least, she had supposed it was uneasiness. She couldnβt be sure. It was hard to decide how she really felt. She and Paul had lived in Mirrormood for six months. She had not had occasion for some time to concern herself with careful introspection and then to arrive at conclusions without aid of βoutside corroborationβ.
The passive house did not now demand attention. Jan was free to look elsewhere. Several times she had caught herself watching Paul surreptitiously. Jan supposed that Paul was equally suspicious of her actions, unsure of motivation and intent. Paul had been quieter this week, had seemed to be spending more time thinking. Jan decided that she felt very uneasy. If only those people would get the house fixed.
Drab. It was so drab. The magic was gone. Too bad there wasnβt a nice yard outside with living plants, a place where she could go for some deep breathing and smiling. Mirrormood houses had only small, hard courtyards. The Mirrormood Development Corporation didnβt concern itself with outdoor life-styles. Geode living, Jan decided. Thatβs what it was like. All the glory was sealed inside. And now there was no glory. The geode looked like it had been sacked and scoured. The magic was gone.
Jan knew, of course, that not even the intensifiers were working; yet, it seemed that with each succeeding day of house inactivity the house became gloomier. It was as if more and more layers of grayness were being stretched tautly and uncomfortably over the whole. Jan could almost feel a cloudy film hardening on her very skin. She rubbed her arms. Maybe it was just a damp chilliness she felt. The heat, humidity, and ion regulators werenβt working either.
Jan bit her lower lip in thought. How ironic! Now she was reacting to the house instead of the house reacting to her. And it was getting worse and worse. Maybe if she had a good cry she would feel better.
A defiance welled inside her. She let the defiance come out in a glare of her eyes. She wanted to direct the glare toward the very heart or brain or core of this pompous house! But Jan had never been interested enough in the systems of the house to find out if there was a central something-or-other control unit. So she had to be content with pressing the glare up one wall, across the ceiling, and down another wall.
βIβll decide my own mood,β she threatened to the gray hollowness about her. Jan went to the sleeping sector, grabbed her purse, and left the house.
Jan stood rearranging and reconsidering, moving an orange marigold closer to a purple columbine, adding a few more sprays of babyβs breath. She stood to admire the bouquet, then glanced toward the walls to consider the effect of the two wall hangings. Jan would never have imagined that she, who professed to have quality taste, would have purchased such garish items. But they had been cheap; and, she did like the way they worried the grayness. She hoped Paul would approve. Jan paced back and forth, stopping twice to touch the warmth of the flowers.
She was startled when the door burst open. Paul was not one for bursting into rooms. But there he was, standing too still now. There was an unusual gleam in his eyes.
Jan gestured toward the spots of colors in the room. βI hope you like it. I used money from the food budget, but β¦β
βItβs beautiful! Itβs beautiful! Youβre beautiful!β Paul grabbed Jan and danced her around the room.
She certainly hadnβt expected such an enthusiastic reaction. They stopped the twirling in front of the bouquet.
βI wished I could have bought basketful of flowers and bright, plastic doodads to scatter and hang in every room. But I knew we couldnβt afford it.β
βSpeaking-of-affording-things.β Paul pranced the statement out. Jan, who had been pushing the flowers into a tighter arrangement, turned to devote her full attention to Paul.
No careful parade of phrases now. Paul let the words tumble happily. The tone was pure joy.
βDo you know that the guarantee contract has been violated? We werenβt repaired within six days. I got a solemn phone call at work today. Do you know we have the option to take possession of a new Mirrormood or to terminate the mortgage agreement? Weβre free!β
It was the moment to toss something into the air. But Jan and Paul merely stood looking at one another, smiles of satisfaction on their faces. The smiles stretched to laughter, which propelled them into one anotherβs arms.
Oh, life was a parade! They could both feel the tingle of confetti-and-balloon time with booming drums and banners unfurling.
Paul kissed Jan. The happy glow Jan felt seemed to light up the gray room. The magic wasnβt gone, Jan realized. It had been inside her, waiting.
βLetβs find a nice, drab, cheap apartment to rent.β
Jan nodded. βYes. And, oh, please, letβs go looking right now.β
They hurried out of the house, taking the magic with them.
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Debt
Family
Happiness
Love
Marriage
Self-Reliance
Forgetting the Notes
Ashley, nervous at her first piano recital, forgets part of her memorized piece and skips to the ending. Embarrassed, she tries to leave, but her mom, teacher, and attendees offer kind encouragement. Their support helps her feel better and realize that trying her best was enough.
Ashley pulled her stuffed-animal elephant to her chest and closed her eyes. She pictured the notes of her song, βThe Elephant and the Flea,β just as they were on her music. She took a deep breath, opened her eyes, and smiled. Her turn was next, and she was sure she would remember the music she had so carefully memorized.
This was her first piano recital, and Ashley was nervous. The small room was packed with people, and she hardly knew any of them. But her mom was there, and her piano teacher, Miss Stewart, sat smiling at the front of the room near the piano. The students had been asked to dress to represent their songs, so Ashley carried a stuffed-animal elephant with a flea on its nose.
A little boy finished his song and stood up. He bowed while everyone clapped loudly. He did well. He didnβt forget any notes in his song.
Ashley swallowed. What if she messed up? Would they still clap for her? What would her mom and her piano teacher think?
Mom reached over and put her hand on Ashleyβs back. βItβs your turn,β she whispered. Then she saw the nervous look on Ashleyβs face and added, βYouβll do fine.β
Ashley stood up and started to picture the notes in her head one last time. Then she walked slowly to the front of the room.
After announcing her name and the title of her song, she placed the elephant on the edge of the bench, sat down next to it, and stared at the piano keys. She knew she could remember the notes. She had practiced so hard; she had to remember. She started playing. Her fingers danced across the keys as she made it through the first part of the song perfectly. Then she got to the second part. This part had always been tricky. Ashley tried to play the right notes, but her fingers and her brain forgot what came next.
Everyone watched her sit silently at the piano. How could this be happening? Miss Stewart searched through a pile of music and pulled out Ashleyβs piece. She stood up and began walking toward Ashley. How embarrassing if she had to use the actual written music when she was supposed to have it memorized! Just before Miss Stewart could put the music on the piano, Ashley started playing again. Instead of starting where she had stopped, she skipped the middle part and began to play the short ending, which she remembered.
Embarrassed, Ashley finished the song and hurried back to her seat. She didnβt bow, and she didnβt look at anyone. The audience clapped, but Ashley was sure it wasnβt as loud or as long as it had been for the little boy before her.
βItβs OK,β her mom said. She put her arm around Ashley and kissed the top of her head. βYou did so well.β
But Ashley knew she hadnβt done well at all.
When the recital was over, Ashley walked quickly toward the door. She couldnβt stand the embarrassment. A lady stepped in front of the door, stopping her from escaping.
βYou did so well up there. I just love that you can play the piano at such a young age,β she said.
A man joined in. βI really liked your song,β he said.
More people walked by and smiled or patted Ashley on the back. Then Miss Stewart put her arm around Ashleyβs shoulder. βYou did a wonderful job,β she said. She smiled, then moved on to talk to some other piano students.
Ashley felt much better on the ride home. She had messed up, but that didnβt matter so much anymore. Everyone seemed to understand. Ashley had tried her best, and that was enough.
This was her first piano recital, and Ashley was nervous. The small room was packed with people, and she hardly knew any of them. But her mom was there, and her piano teacher, Miss Stewart, sat smiling at the front of the room near the piano. The students had been asked to dress to represent their songs, so Ashley carried a stuffed-animal elephant with a flea on its nose.
A little boy finished his song and stood up. He bowed while everyone clapped loudly. He did well. He didnβt forget any notes in his song.
Ashley swallowed. What if she messed up? Would they still clap for her? What would her mom and her piano teacher think?
Mom reached over and put her hand on Ashleyβs back. βItβs your turn,β she whispered. Then she saw the nervous look on Ashleyβs face and added, βYouβll do fine.β
Ashley stood up and started to picture the notes in her head one last time. Then she walked slowly to the front of the room.
After announcing her name and the title of her song, she placed the elephant on the edge of the bench, sat down next to it, and stared at the piano keys. She knew she could remember the notes. She had practiced so hard; she had to remember. She started playing. Her fingers danced across the keys as she made it through the first part of the song perfectly. Then she got to the second part. This part had always been tricky. Ashley tried to play the right notes, but her fingers and her brain forgot what came next.
Everyone watched her sit silently at the piano. How could this be happening? Miss Stewart searched through a pile of music and pulled out Ashleyβs piece. She stood up and began walking toward Ashley. How embarrassing if she had to use the actual written music when she was supposed to have it memorized! Just before Miss Stewart could put the music on the piano, Ashley started playing again. Instead of starting where she had stopped, she skipped the middle part and began to play the short ending, which she remembered.
Embarrassed, Ashley finished the song and hurried back to her seat. She didnβt bow, and she didnβt look at anyone. The audience clapped, but Ashley was sure it wasnβt as loud or as long as it had been for the little boy before her.
βItβs OK,β her mom said. She put her arm around Ashley and kissed the top of her head. βYou did so well.β
But Ashley knew she hadnβt done well at all.
When the recital was over, Ashley walked quickly toward the door. She couldnβt stand the embarrassment. A lady stepped in front of the door, stopping her from escaping.
βYou did so well up there. I just love that you can play the piano at such a young age,β she said.
A man joined in. βI really liked your song,β he said.
More people walked by and smiled or patted Ashley on the back. Then Miss Stewart put her arm around Ashleyβs shoulder. βYou did a wonderful job,β she said. She smiled, then moved on to talk to some other piano students.
Ashley felt much better on the ride home. She had messed up, but that didnβt matter so much anymore. Everyone seemed to understand. Ashley had tried her best, and that was enough.
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π€ Parents
π€ Other
Children
Courage
Kindness
Music
Parenting
Grandmaβs Notebook
After years of prayer, Grandma and James are sealed in the temple. Their daughters, dressed in white, join them, and Grandma feels overwhelming joy and love from Heavenly Father. She is grateful for the promise of being an eternal family.
April 29, 1957
Today I knelt across from James in the Lordβs holy temple. I have prayed for this moment for many years. I am thankful to know that we can be eternal companions. Words cannot express even the smallest portion of the joy and love I felt from Heavenly Father.
When they brought in our daughters all dressed in white, tears fell freely from my eyes. Kneeling together and being sealed as a family was the most important moment of my life. I am grateful for the knowledge that if I live the teachings of the gospel, I can have these precious daughters throughout eternity.
Today I knelt across from James in the Lordβs holy temple. I have prayed for this moment for many years. I am thankful to know that we can be eternal companions. Words cannot express even the smallest portion of the joy and love I felt from Heavenly Father.
When they brought in our daughters all dressed in white, tears fell freely from my eyes. Kneeling together and being sealed as a family was the most important moment of my life. I am grateful for the knowledge that if I live the teachings of the gospel, I can have these precious daughters throughout eternity.
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π€ Children
Children
Covenant
Family
Gratitude
Marriage
Prayer
Sealing
Temples
Conference Story Index
Linda S. Reeves listens as a friend shares her challenges. She feels deep concern for those harmed by others.
After hearing a friend recount some of her challenges, Linda S. Reeves aches for those who have been harmed by others.
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π€ Friends
π€ Church Members (General)
Abuse
Charity
Friendship
Kindness
Mercy
Mirror
A child looks in a bedroom mirror and sees a playmate who mirrors every action. The child claps, kneels, bobs, and touches toes, and the playmate does the same. When the child walks away, the friend also disappears, leaving the child to wonder where the friend went.
Looking in my bedroom mirror,
I see a playmate there.
He wears pajamas just like me
And has my color hair.
I clap my hands and show a smile,
Then get down on one knee.
I bob my head and touch my toes;
He does the same to me.
I say good-bye and walk away.
My friend is going too.
I think I know just where he went.
Donβt you?
I see a playmate there.
He wears pajamas just like me
And has my color hair.
I clap my hands and show a smile,
Then get down on one knee.
I bob my head and touch my toes;
He does the same to me.
I say good-bye and walk away.
My friend is going too.
I think I know just where he went.
Donβt you?
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π€ Children
Children
Friendship
Friends in Books
Lydia habitually leaves things unfinished, either due to busyness or procrastination. She learns a new approach. By taking time, she finds she actually has time.
Lydia never finishes anything. Either she doesnβt have time because she is busy doing too many things, or she puts it off until later. It is fun to read how she learns that if she takes time, she has time.
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π€ Other
Agency and Accountability
Education
Self-Reliance
Turn On Your Light
In 1979, President Spencer W. Kimball prepared remarks for the second worldwide womenβs general meeting but was hospitalized on the day of the conference. He asked his wife, Camilla Eyring Kimball, to read his talk. In it, he prophesied that much of the Churchβs future growth would come as good women of the world were drawn by the righteous, articulate, and distinct examples of Latter-day Saint women.
For my text I am going back almost 40 years to a remarkable prophecy written by President Spencer W. Kimball. September 1979 was only the second time the women of the global Church had met in their own general meeting. President Kimball had prepared his talk, but when the day of the conference came, he was in the hospital. So instead, he asked his wife, Camilla Eyring Kimball, to read his remarks on his behalf.2
Sister Kimball read the prophetβs words, which emphasized the influence of LDS women on the good women of the world prior to the Second Coming of the Savior. Near the end, there was an electrifying charge to the women of the Church that we have been talking about ever since.
Let me quote a little of what President Kimball said:
βFinally, my dear sisters, may I suggest to you something that has not been said before or at least in quite this way. Much of the major growth that is coming to the Church in the last days will come because many of the good women of the world β¦ will be drawn to the Church in large numbers. This will happen to the degree that the women of the Church reflect righteousness and articulateness in their lives and to the degree that the women of the Church are seen as distinct and differentβin happy waysβfrom the women of the world.
βAmong the real heroines in the world who will come into the Church are women who are more concerned with being righteous than with being selfish. These real heroines have true humility, which places a higher value on integrity than on visibility. β¦
ββ¦ It will be β¦ female exemplars of the Church [who] will be a significant force in both the numerical and the spiritual growth of the Church in the last days.β3
Sister Kimball read the prophetβs words, which emphasized the influence of LDS women on the good women of the world prior to the Second Coming of the Savior. Near the end, there was an electrifying charge to the women of the Church that we have been talking about ever since.
Let me quote a little of what President Kimball said:
βFinally, my dear sisters, may I suggest to you something that has not been said before or at least in quite this way. Much of the major growth that is coming to the Church in the last days will come because many of the good women of the world β¦ will be drawn to the Church in large numbers. This will happen to the degree that the women of the Church reflect righteousness and articulateness in their lives and to the degree that the women of the Church are seen as distinct and differentβin happy waysβfrom the women of the world.
βAmong the real heroines in the world who will come into the Church are women who are more concerned with being righteous than with being selfish. These real heroines have true humility, which places a higher value on integrity than on visibility. β¦
ββ¦ It will be β¦ female exemplars of the Church [who] will be a significant force in both the numerical and the spiritual growth of the Church in the last days.β3
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π€ General Authorities (Modern)
Conversion
Humility
Missionary Work
Relief Society
Revelation
Women in the Church
Is It Worth It?
The speaker presents a scenario of a man who smokes, dies, and is buried, questioning whether the desire to smoke disappears upon resurrection. He concludes the desire would persist and that body and spirit must overcome such habits together in mortality. This reinforces the urgency of repentance now.
For example, when a man who smokes dies, and his body is placed six feet into the ground, is there any reason for us to believe that when his body comes back up out of the ground it will no longer have the desires that it had when it was laid down? I do not think so. I think that the body will rise in the Resurrection with the same desire, and that the body and the spirit together must work out this matter of eternal salvation. That is why you and I must be believing enough and willing enough while we are here on this earth to strive with all our power to keep the commandments. βIs it worth it?β we need to ask ourselves. I hope I have made the point clear that it certainly is worth it.
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Addiction
Agency and Accountability
Commandments
Death
Obedience
Plan of Salvation
Temptation
Word of Wisdom
Gospel Learning and Teaching
President Thomas S. Monson recalled his childhood teacher, Lucy Gertsch, who loved and listened to her students. She taught core doctrines and made scriptural figures feel present, helping the children learn to love, honor, and emulate them.
President Thomas S. Monson still treasures the memory of his boyhood Sunday School teacher. He said: βIt was my experience as a small boy to come under the influence of a most effective and inspired teacher who listened to us and who loved us. Her name was Lucy Gertsch. In our Sunday School class, she taught us concerning the Creation of the world, the Fall of Adam, the atoning sacrifice of Jesus. She brought to her classroom as honored guests Moses, Joshua, Peter, Thomas, Paul, and, of course, Christ. Though we did not see them, we learned to love, honor, and emulate them.β
Lucy Gertsch was able to invite these honored guests into her classroom because she knew them. They were her cherished friends. Because of that, her class also learned to βlove, honor, and emulate them.β
Lucy Gertsch was able to invite these honored guests into her classroom because she knew them. They were her cherished friends. Because of that, her class also learned to βlove, honor, and emulate them.β
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π€ General Authorities (Modern)
π€ Church Leaders (Local)
π€ Children
Atonement of Jesus Christ
Bible
Children
Creation
Jesus Christ
Love
Teaching the Gospel
FYI:For Your Info
Second-year Beehives in Utah tied two child-size quilts for Kurdish refugees in Iraq. With their families, they also donated essential supplies.
The second-year Beehives in the Ridgecrest Ward, South Jordan Utah Stake, tied two child-size quilts which were sent to Kurdish refugees in Iraq. The girls and their families also donated soap, beans, rice, and other necessary supplies. Way to go, girls!
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π€ Youth
π€ Church Members (General)
π€ Other
Charity
Family
Kindness
Service
Young Women
In Every Footstep
Sarah Ann recounts how her parents left Norway to escape persecution and settled in America, where her father built a house. When their home later burned down, her father made sure the family was safe and then knelt in the street to thank God for their protection. Mr. James remarks on the father's strong faith.
βWeβre glad you could stay with us tonight. This is the coldest night I can remember in Illinois,β Sarah Ann said, taking a seat at the table across from Mr. James. βOur family moved here from New York after Father died. He and Mother left Norway to escape those who wanted to punish them for being Quakers. When they arrived in America, Father worked hard to build a house.β
As Sarah Ann told the story, she could almost smell the fresh-cut maple wood again.
βOne day, our home caught fire, and everything was destroyed. When Father returned from work and saw us standing in the street, he asked Mother if we were safe. She answered yes, and Father knelt down right there in the middle of the street and thanked God for protecting us.β
βYour father must have had a lot of faith in God,β Mr. James said.
Sarah Ann nodded, wishing her father were still with them.
As Sarah Ann told the story, she could almost smell the fresh-cut maple wood again.
βOne day, our home caught fire, and everything was destroyed. When Father returned from work and saw us standing in the street, he asked Mother if we were safe. She answered yes, and Father knelt down right there in the middle of the street and thanked God for protecting us.β
βYour father must have had a lot of faith in God,β Mr. James said.
Sarah Ann nodded, wishing her father were still with them.
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π€ Children
π€ Other
Adversity
Death
Faith
Family
Gratitude
Grief
Prayer
Religious Freedom
From Glasgow to Greece: The Still, Small Voice That Wouldnβt Be Still
A small insurance policy taken out at age 17 became the unexpected means to pay for the narratorβs mission. She cashed it in early without penalty and received a check covering the entire mission. She saw it as an unplanned blessing and mailed her papers.
When I was 17, Iβd taken out a small insurance policy that I thought would be useful, when it matured, to go towards a deposit for a house. I cashed it in early. (I lost nothing; every penny I had paid was returned to me; there was no financial penalty for early exit.) I was sent a cheque that paid for my whole mission. Isnβt it funny how things work out? Another small unplanned blessing. I then posted my papers.
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π€ Church Members (General)
Gratitude
Missionary Work
Young Men
Powerfully Prepared
While collecting fast offerings, the author was surprised by who chose to donate. He later understood the importance of offering everyone the chance to contribute and receive blessings while staying connected to the Church.
Collected fast offerings and learned the people I least expected would make a donation. Later, I came to appreciate that providing everyone the opportunity to pay fast offerings gives them the opportunity to be blessed by the Lord and remain in contact with the Church.
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π€ Youth
π€ Church Members (General)
Charity
Fasting and Fast Offerings
Judging Others
Stewardship
Church Handbooksβthe Written Order of Things
Elder Rafael E. Pino recounted that his son became frustrated assembling a jigsaw puzzle. The boy succeeded once he realized each piece had a specific place in the final picture. The story illustrates how seeing the big picture enables effective action.
During general conference in April 2015, Elder Rafael E. Pino of the Seventy related the story of how one of his sons became frustrated while putting together a jigsaw puzzle. βHe finally learned to do the puzzle,β Elder Pino recalled, βwhen he understood that each small piece had its place in the final picture.β18
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π€ General Authorities (Modern)
π€ Parents
π€ Children
Children
Family
Parenting
Patience
A Champion Again
A girl told Diane she had heard her speak four times and made life-changing decisions after each. She chose not to commit suicide, decided not to fail school, set a goal to make the honor roll, and was on her way to achieving it.
Diane says, βIt makes me feel really good when people tell me theyβre going to try harder after theyβve heard my talk. One girl came to me once and told me sheβd heard me speak four different times. The first time, she decided not to commit suicide. The second time, she decided that she didnβt have to flunk out of school. The third time, she made a goal to make the honor roll, and the last time she was on her way to that goal.β Another champion in the making, thanks to Diane.
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π€ Youth
π€ Church Members (General)
Education
Hope
Mental Health
Suicide
FYI:For Your Information
Youth from the Salmon Idaho Stake volunteered to paint city fireplugs bright yellow with red caps and added cheerful messages. Led by a local youth committee president, they organized into groups while the city supplied paint and the youth provided the labor.
Salmon, Idaho, may have the friendliest fireplugs of any town in the U.S. As a community service project the Aaronic Priesthood youths and Young Women of the Salmon Idaho Stake volunteered to paint city fireplugs a shiny yellow with red caps. Once they got started the young people decided to add a little zest to the project, and several fireplugs wound up with βHave a Happy Day,β βSmile,β or βHowdy Doβ painted on them.
Wayne Van Hoose, president of the Salmon First Ward youth committee, said the young volunteers, ages 12 to 17, divided into groups for the project, with the city furnishing the paint and the young people the brushes and the elbow grease.
Wayne Van Hoose, president of the Salmon First Ward youth committee, said the young volunteers, ages 12 to 17, divided into groups for the project, with the city furnishing the paint and the young people the brushes and the elbow grease.
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π€ Youth
π€ Church Leaders (Local)
π€ Other
Kindness
Service
Young Men
Young Women