Our season was ending, and we had one more race in Spartanburg, South Carolina. We stayed at a Marriott hotel, which had a Book of Mormon in every room. I found a teammate reading a copy. When I asked her why she was reading it, she replied that she was interested in what it was about. Excited, I bore my testimony to her of its truthfulness. Many of the other girls on the team had joined us in the room, and they asked me questions about the Book of Mormon.
When we got home I invited my best friend on the team, Rosa, to go to church with me. She enjoyed the meetings and felt peaceful there. After that, Rosa came to church almost every week. It was so wonderful to see the gospel touch her life.
About a month later I received an unexpected phone call from a young man on the menâs cross-country team, Brendan. He told me that he had taken the missionary lessons and was getting baptized in a week! I was so happy and thrilled for him. Both Rosa and I attended Brendanâs baptism. Rosa also took the missionary lessons and later chose to be baptized.
Looking back on these wonderful experiences, I am amazed that so many blessings resulted from joining my college cross-country team. I learned you donât have to be set apart or wear a badge to be an instrument for Heavenly Father. Through my actions and living the gospel, my teammates wanted to know more about the gospel, which led them to baptism. I found that truly âby small and simple things are great things brought to passâ (Alma 37:6).
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A Captain for the Cause
Summary: After a teammate asked about the Book of Mormon during a race trip, the narrator shared her testimony and later invited her friend Rosa to church. Rosa began attending regularly, and a teammate named Brendan later called to say he was getting baptized after taking the missionary lessons. The narrator reflects that her example and actions helped others come to the gospel, showing that small and simple things can bring great blessings.
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Kirtland: School of the Saints
Summary: Young William Cahoon was assigned as a teacher to visit Joseph and Emma Smithâs home and initially felt afraid. Joseph warmly welcomed him, invited him to ask his questions, and then blessed him with counsel and promised power if he remained humble and faithful. William concluded by leaving a blessing upon the Prophetâs family.
Would you be a little nervous if you were called to be a home teacher to the prophet and his family? This is just what happened to William Cahoon, a young man who lived in Kirtland; and he was, in fact, a bit anxious about this responsibility.
âI was called and ordained to act as a teacher to visit the families of the Saints,â he said. âI got along very well till I found that I was obliged to call and pay a visit to the Prophet. Being young, ⊠I felt my weakness in visiting the Prophet and his family in the capacity of a teacher. I almost felt like shrinking from duty. Finally I went to his door and knocked, and in a minute the Prophet came to the door. I stood there trembling, and said to him:
ââBrother Joseph, I have come to visit you in the capacity of a teacher, if it is convenient for you.â
âHe said âBrother William, come right in, I am glad to see you; sit down in that chair there and I will go and call my family in.â
âThey soon came in and took seats. He then said, âBrother William, I submit myself and family into your hands,â and then took his seat. âNow Brother William,â said he âask all the questions you feel like.â
âBy this time all my fears and trembling had ceased, and I said, âBrother Joseph, are you trying to live your religion?â
âHe answered âYes.â
âThen I said, âDo you pray in your family?â
âHe said, âYes.â
ââDo you teach your family the principles of the gospel?â
âHe replied, âYes, I am trying to do it.â
ââDo you ask a blessing on your food?â
âHe answered, âYes.â
ââAre you trying to live in peace and harmony with all your family?â
âHe said that he was.
âI turned to Sister Emma, his wife, and said âSister Emma, are you trying to live your religion? Do you teach your children to obey their parents? Do you try to teach them to pray?â
âTo all these questions, she answered, âYes, I am trying to do so.â
âI then turned to Joseph and said, âI am now through with my questions as a teacher; and now if you have any instructions to give, I shall be happy to receive them.â
âHe said, âGod bless you, Brother William; and if you are humble and faithful, you shall have power to settle all difficulties that may come before you in the capacity of a teacher.â
âI then left my parting blessing upon him and his family, as a teacher, and took my departureâ (quoted in Marion G. Romney, âThe Responsibilities of Home Teachers,â Ensign, Mar. 1973, 14â15).
âI was called and ordained to act as a teacher to visit the families of the Saints,â he said. âI got along very well till I found that I was obliged to call and pay a visit to the Prophet. Being young, ⊠I felt my weakness in visiting the Prophet and his family in the capacity of a teacher. I almost felt like shrinking from duty. Finally I went to his door and knocked, and in a minute the Prophet came to the door. I stood there trembling, and said to him:
ââBrother Joseph, I have come to visit you in the capacity of a teacher, if it is convenient for you.â
âHe said âBrother William, come right in, I am glad to see you; sit down in that chair there and I will go and call my family in.â
âThey soon came in and took seats. He then said, âBrother William, I submit myself and family into your hands,â and then took his seat. âNow Brother William,â said he âask all the questions you feel like.â
âBy this time all my fears and trembling had ceased, and I said, âBrother Joseph, are you trying to live your religion?â
âHe answered âYes.â
âThen I said, âDo you pray in your family?â
âHe said, âYes.â
ââDo you teach your family the principles of the gospel?â
âHe replied, âYes, I am trying to do it.â
ââDo you ask a blessing on your food?â
âHe answered, âYes.â
ââAre you trying to live in peace and harmony with all your family?â
âHe said that he was.
âI turned to Sister Emma, his wife, and said âSister Emma, are you trying to live your religion? Do you teach your children to obey their parents? Do you try to teach them to pray?â
âTo all these questions, she answered, âYes, I am trying to do so.â
âI then turned to Joseph and said, âI am now through with my questions as a teacher; and now if you have any instructions to give, I shall be happy to receive them.â
âHe said, âGod bless you, Brother William; and if you are humble and faithful, you shall have power to settle all difficulties that may come before you in the capacity of a teacher.â
âI then left my parting blessing upon him and his family, as a teacher, and took my departureâ (quoted in Marion G. Romney, âThe Responsibilities of Home Teachers,â Ensign, Mar. 1973, 14â15).
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Ye Are No More Strangers
Summary: In Les MisĂ©rables, the ex-prisoner Jean Valjean is rejected throughout a town as he seeks food and shelter. He collapses at a bishopâs door, where the clergyman compassionately welcomes him, calling him 'my brother.' The scene illustrates unprejudiced, Christlike hospitality toward outsiders.
A passage from the novel Les misĂ©rables illustrates how priesthood holders can treat those individuals viewed as strangers. Jean Valjean had just been released as a prisoner. Exhausted by a long voyage and dying of hunger and thirst, he arrives in a small town seeking a place to find food and shelter for the night. When the news of his arrival spreads, one by one all the inhabitants close their doors to him. Not the hotel, not the inn, not even the prison would invite him in. He is rejected, driven away, banished. Finally, with no strength left, he collapses at the front door of the townâs bishop.
The good clergyman is entirely aware of Valjeanâs background, but he invites the vagabond into his home with these compassionate words:
ââThis is not my house; it is the house of Jesus Christ. This door does not demand of him who enters whether he has a name, but whether he has a grief. You suffer, you are hungry and thirsty; you are welcome. ⊠What need have I to know your name? Besides, before you told me [your name], you had one which I knew.â
â[Valjean] opened his eyes in astonishment.
ââReally? You knew what I was called?â
ââYes,â replied the Bishop, âyou are called my brother.ââ
The good clergyman is entirely aware of Valjeanâs background, but he invites the vagabond into his home with these compassionate words:
ââThis is not my house; it is the house of Jesus Christ. This door does not demand of him who enters whether he has a name, but whether he has a grief. You suffer, you are hungry and thirsty; you are welcome. ⊠What need have I to know your name? Besides, before you told me [your name], you had one which I knew.â
â[Valjean] opened his eyes in astonishment.
ââReally? You knew what I was called?â
ââYes,â replied the Bishop, âyou are called my brother.ââ
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Garden Plots
Summary: Twins Randy and Cindy plant a garden, but Randy neglects weeding while Cindy carefully tends her plants. Cindy's radishes grow large, while Randy's are small and stunted. Their dad explains that weeds steal what plants need, just as breaking God's commandments stunts spiritual growth. Randy immediately starts pulling weeds to correct the problem.
âDad, will you buy some seeds for Cindy and me?â Randy asked. âWe could plant a really neat garden in the backyard.â
It was Saturday morning, and Mr. Ortez had taken the twins with him to the garden store to get some fertilizer for the lawn.
âThatâs a good idea,â Dad answered. âWhat do you want to plant?â
âHow about radishes? They grow really quick. And cucumbers too. I love cucumber sandwiches,â Randy said.
âI want some tomato seeds,â Cindy added. âTomatoes are red and pretty.â
Dad nodded and said, âYou two decide what seeds you want while Iâm getting the fertilizer. Youâll divide each pack between you, so be sure to choose what pleases both of you. I donât want any arguing about it when we get home.â
After many exclamations of âI donât want those,â âThatâs yucky,â and âLetâs get those,â Cindy and Randy finally decided on radishes, tomatoes, cucumbers, and green beans.
Each twin hoed, spaded, and raked until there were two garden plots turned and raked smooth. Each plot was six feet wide and ten feet longâjust the right size for four rows of vegetables.
Every day after school, they made a beeline to the backyard to see if the seeds had sprouted yet. Finally, on the fourth day, there were cracks in the soil, and small radish plants were pushing their way through.
It wasnât long before all the rows were green with growing plants. Every day the twins watered the plants. They scattered fertilizer along the edges of the rows. Cindy kept the hoe busy, too, uprooting the weeds around her young plants.
Randy had other things to do. A new boy had just moved in down the street, and they had quickly become pals. Randy watered his garden every afternoon, then hurried to his new friendâs house to play until suppertime.
One evening Cindy came running into the house with a big bunch of radishes. âTake a look at these, Mom. Theyâre real beauties!â
âOh, they really are!â Mom exclaimed. âIâll wash them, and weâll have them for supper. And tomorrow, Randy, weâll try some of yours.â
The next evening Randy brought a bunch of radishes to the kitchen. He hung his head as he handed them to Mom. âI donât know why, but mine didnât grow as big as Cindyâs.â
âMaybe itâs the soil,â Dad said. âLetâs go out and take a look.â
When they arrived at the garden, it was clear why Randyâs crop was not growing as well as Cindyâs. His rows were choked with weeds, while hers were weed-free. Her plants were green and healthy, reaching up toward the sun. The weeds in his garden were so thick that hardly any sun could reach his plants.
Dad pulled up a weed. âHereâs your problem, Randy. Plants need plenty of food and sunshine to grow.â
âBut I gave them fertilizer, and I watered them every day.â
âYes, you fed them, but you didnât keep the weeds out. They stole water, nutrients, and sunshine from your plants. They stunted your radishesâ growth just as breaking Godâs commandments would stunt your spiritual growth.â
âWell, Iâm going to do something about it right now,â Randy said, dropping to his knees and starting to pull up weeds.
âGood for you!â Mr. Ortez said. âItâs never too late to get rid of weeds.â
It was Saturday morning, and Mr. Ortez had taken the twins with him to the garden store to get some fertilizer for the lawn.
âThatâs a good idea,â Dad answered. âWhat do you want to plant?â
âHow about radishes? They grow really quick. And cucumbers too. I love cucumber sandwiches,â Randy said.
âI want some tomato seeds,â Cindy added. âTomatoes are red and pretty.â
Dad nodded and said, âYou two decide what seeds you want while Iâm getting the fertilizer. Youâll divide each pack between you, so be sure to choose what pleases both of you. I donât want any arguing about it when we get home.â
After many exclamations of âI donât want those,â âThatâs yucky,â and âLetâs get those,â Cindy and Randy finally decided on radishes, tomatoes, cucumbers, and green beans.
Each twin hoed, spaded, and raked until there were two garden plots turned and raked smooth. Each plot was six feet wide and ten feet longâjust the right size for four rows of vegetables.
Every day after school, they made a beeline to the backyard to see if the seeds had sprouted yet. Finally, on the fourth day, there were cracks in the soil, and small radish plants were pushing their way through.
It wasnât long before all the rows were green with growing plants. Every day the twins watered the plants. They scattered fertilizer along the edges of the rows. Cindy kept the hoe busy, too, uprooting the weeds around her young plants.
Randy had other things to do. A new boy had just moved in down the street, and they had quickly become pals. Randy watered his garden every afternoon, then hurried to his new friendâs house to play until suppertime.
One evening Cindy came running into the house with a big bunch of radishes. âTake a look at these, Mom. Theyâre real beauties!â
âOh, they really are!â Mom exclaimed. âIâll wash them, and weâll have them for supper. And tomorrow, Randy, weâll try some of yours.â
The next evening Randy brought a bunch of radishes to the kitchen. He hung his head as he handed them to Mom. âI donât know why, but mine didnât grow as big as Cindyâs.â
âMaybe itâs the soil,â Dad said. âLetâs go out and take a look.â
When they arrived at the garden, it was clear why Randyâs crop was not growing as well as Cindyâs. His rows were choked with weeds, while hers were weed-free. Her plants were green and healthy, reaching up toward the sun. The weeds in his garden were so thick that hardly any sun could reach his plants.
Dad pulled up a weed. âHereâs your problem, Randy. Plants need plenty of food and sunshine to grow.â
âBut I gave them fertilizer, and I watered them every day.â
âYes, you fed them, but you didnât keep the weeds out. They stole water, nutrients, and sunshine from your plants. They stunted your radishesâ growth just as breaking Godâs commandments would stunt your spiritual growth.â
âWell, Iâm going to do something about it right now,â Randy said, dropping to his knees and starting to pull up weeds.
âGood for you!â Mr. Ortez said. âItâs never too late to get rid of weeds.â
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Swimming Like a Seahorse
Summary: Robin in Germany trains hard and earns his Seepferdchen swimming badge. He prays that his busy dad will have time to go to the pool, and moments later Dad feels a prompting from the Holy Ghost to take him. They celebrate at the pool, share somersaults and a splash fight, and Dad commits to making time for their relationship.
Robin stared into the swimming pool. He tried not to think about how far he had to swim. All that mattered was earning the badge. The Seepferdchen (seahorse) badge would show everybody in Germany that he knew how to swim all by himself.
I can do this! Robin thought. He took a deep breath and jumped.
SPLASH!
The cool water felt great on such a hot day.
Take it one meter at a time, Dad had told him. Donât think about all 25 meters at once.
Robin kept his head down. He moved his arms and legs the way heâd been practicing for months. Every few seconds he pulled up for air.
Kick. Stroke. Kick. Stroke.
Suddenly, the swimming teacher blew her whistle. Robin looked up in surprise.
âWay to go,â his teacher said.
Heâd done it!
Robin laughed and did a few underwater somersaults to celebrate. He was a seahorse!
When Robin got home, he hurried to find Dad.
âDad, look!â
As soon as Dad saw the Seepferdchen badge, he smiled wide.
âOn your first try?â Dad gave Robin a big hug. âWhat do you want to do to celebrate?â
Robin thought for a second. âWhat I would really like is to go to the pool with you. I want to show you what I can do.â
Dad smiled even bigger. âNow that would be a celebration for both of us. As soon as I have some time, weâll go.â
Robin pumped his fist in the air. He couldnât wait to have the badge sewn onto his swimsuit and go swimming with Dad.
Several days passed. Robin kept asking about the pool, but something was always in the way. Dad always seemed to be busy.
One morning Robin knelt by his bed to pray. At the end of the prayer, he added one more thing.
âPlease give my dad some extra time so we can go to the pool. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.â
As Robin opened his eyes, he heard Dad knock on the door.
âLetâs head to the pool. I want to see you in action!â
Robinâs jaw dropped. âDad! You wonât believe this. I just prayed that you would get some extra time so we could go.â
Dad folded his arms and leaned against the doorway. âNow, isnât that interesting? You see, I just heard a quiet message from the Holy Ghost that I should take you to the pool. Why donât we go now?â
They had a fantastic trip. Robin showed Dad how he could swim for 25 meters without stopping. Dad was impressed. And Robin was impressed with Dadâs underwater somersaults. Dad could do five in a row!
âIâm glad Heavenly Father gave you some extra time today,â Robin said.
âActually,â Dad said, âI think I was just letting myself get too busy. I think the Holy Ghost was reminding me that we have to make time for each other, donât you think? I promise to do my part.â
Robin smiled. âMe too!â
Dadâs eyes crinkled in a smile. âOne more thing. Have I ever told you that Iâve never lost a splash fight?â
Robin grinned back. âThe dayâs not over yet!â
This story takes place in Germany! Read more about Germany on pages 12â13.
I can do this! Robin thought. He took a deep breath and jumped.
SPLASH!
The cool water felt great on such a hot day.
Take it one meter at a time, Dad had told him. Donât think about all 25 meters at once.
Robin kept his head down. He moved his arms and legs the way heâd been practicing for months. Every few seconds he pulled up for air.
Kick. Stroke. Kick. Stroke.
Suddenly, the swimming teacher blew her whistle. Robin looked up in surprise.
âWay to go,â his teacher said.
Heâd done it!
Robin laughed and did a few underwater somersaults to celebrate. He was a seahorse!
When Robin got home, he hurried to find Dad.
âDad, look!â
As soon as Dad saw the Seepferdchen badge, he smiled wide.
âOn your first try?â Dad gave Robin a big hug. âWhat do you want to do to celebrate?â
Robin thought for a second. âWhat I would really like is to go to the pool with you. I want to show you what I can do.â
Dad smiled even bigger. âNow that would be a celebration for both of us. As soon as I have some time, weâll go.â
Robin pumped his fist in the air. He couldnât wait to have the badge sewn onto his swimsuit and go swimming with Dad.
Several days passed. Robin kept asking about the pool, but something was always in the way. Dad always seemed to be busy.
One morning Robin knelt by his bed to pray. At the end of the prayer, he added one more thing.
âPlease give my dad some extra time so we can go to the pool. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.â
As Robin opened his eyes, he heard Dad knock on the door.
âLetâs head to the pool. I want to see you in action!â
Robinâs jaw dropped. âDad! You wonât believe this. I just prayed that you would get some extra time so we could go.â
Dad folded his arms and leaned against the doorway. âNow, isnât that interesting? You see, I just heard a quiet message from the Holy Ghost that I should take you to the pool. Why donât we go now?â
They had a fantastic trip. Robin showed Dad how he could swim for 25 meters without stopping. Dad was impressed. And Robin was impressed with Dadâs underwater somersaults. Dad could do five in a row!
âIâm glad Heavenly Father gave you some extra time today,â Robin said.
âActually,â Dad said, âI think I was just letting myself get too busy. I think the Holy Ghost was reminding me that we have to make time for each other, donât you think? I promise to do my part.â
Robin smiled. âMe too!â
Dadâs eyes crinkled in a smile. âOne more thing. Have I ever told you that Iâve never lost a splash fight?â
Robin grinned back. âThe dayâs not over yet!â
This story takes place in Germany! Read more about Germany on pages 12â13.
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Elder Robert D. Hales of the Quorum of the Twelve:
Summary: During a move to Germany, Robert dropped Mary and their two boys in Frankfurt before flying on to Berlin for work. Mary enrolled the boys in school, learned to navigate the autobahn, and eventually learned German, exemplifying her ability to âmake it work.â
Moving was a challenge for Mary, too, but she met it with independence and tenacity. Once when they moved, âI took her to Germany, dropped her off in Frankfurt with the two boys, and then I had to fly on to Berlin for a temporary assignment,â says Elder Hales. âMary got the boys into school, learned to find her way around the busy autobahn, and eventually learned to speak German. This was typical. She has always made it work.â
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Itâs Your Call
Summary: Joel Hiller anxiously awaited opening his mission call with his family and two close friends. As he read the prophetâs words, a spiritual calm filled the room, and he felt an immediate witness that the call and mission were right for him. He described it as a once-in-a-lifetime, honoring experience.
Anyone who has had the experience of opening a mission call knows what a thrilling and spiritual experience it can be. When Joel Hiller of Taylorsville, Utah, saw the white call packet his mother had placed on the kitchen table, his heart jumped, and he could hardly wait until his family and two close friends were able to join him at his home a few hours later to open it.
After what seemed like the longest three hours of Joelâs life, major excitement erupted as everyone gathered together, talking, laughing, and speculating. But a spiritual calm suddenly filled the room as Joel opened the envelope and began to read aloud the words of the prophet: âDear Elder Hiller, you are hereby called to serve as a missionary of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.â
Joel describes what he experienced as he continued reading the letter, âI felt honored to be called, and the Spirit bore an immediate witness that this was the right thing and the right mission for me. It was a once-in-a-lifetime experience.â
After what seemed like the longest three hours of Joelâs life, major excitement erupted as everyone gathered together, talking, laughing, and speculating. But a spiritual calm suddenly filled the room as Joel opened the envelope and began to read aloud the words of the prophet: âDear Elder Hiller, you are hereby called to serve as a missionary of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.â
Joel describes what he experienced as he continued reading the letter, âI felt honored to be called, and the Spirit bore an immediate witness that this was the right thing and the right mission for me. It was a once-in-a-lifetime experience.â
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Priceless Principles for Success
Summary: A Church member felt like a failure because he had not provided his family with material comforts. The speaker asked him about his children, their Church membership, faithfulness, temple sealing, and temple marriages, showing that all four of his children had remained faithful. He then told the man that this was one of the greatest success stories he had ever heard.
I remember a faithful and devoted member of the Church who was always in a good mood and always smiling. But one day I saw him crying. He told me the reason he was sad was because, at the age of seventy, he saw himself as a failure for having never been able to give his family the material comforts he felt they deserved.
I asked him, âHow many children do you have?â He answered, âFour.â I continued, âHow many are members of the Church?â He said, âFour.â I asked further, âHow many are faithful members of the Church?â His answer: âFour.â âHow many are sealed to you?â âFour.â âHow many have married in the temple?â Again his answer was âFour.â Then, moved by the Spirit, I told him that the success he had achieved in his life was one of the greatest success stories I had ever heard.
I asked him, âHow many children do you have?â He answered, âFour.â I continued, âHow many are members of the Church?â He said, âFour.â I asked further, âHow many are faithful members of the Church?â His answer: âFour.â âHow many are sealed to you?â âFour.â âHow many have married in the temple?â Again his answer was âFour.â Then, moved by the Spirit, I told him that the success he had achieved in his life was one of the greatest success stories I had ever heard.
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My Dream about the Gathering of Israel
Summary: A mother dreamed of picking up her exhausted missionary son at Heathrow and taking him to the London England Temple. While he slept in the car, a woman in white recognized him as Elder Lawer and gathered others, also dressed in white with hairstyles from different eras. The mother realized these were spirits from the other side of the veil who had been blessed by her son's missionary work as their temple ordinances were performed by those he had taught. The dream deeply impressed her with the marvelous ways the Lord multiplies missionary efforts.
My son Phillip recently returned from serving a mission in Cape Town, South Africa. But before he was due home, I had a dream about his homecoming, like a revelation, that helped me better understand the wonderful ways of the Lord.
I dreamt that we had gone to pick up my son at Heathrow airport. He hadnât slept all the way home, so when we saw him, he was so tired that his eyes were bloodshot, and he was so cold. We bought a big quilt and pillows and snuggled him up in the back of the car. He soon fell fast asleep with his head on a pillow against a window.
In my dream, we drove to the London England Temple where we had booked to stay a couple of nights so that we could attend together before setting off home to Cornwall. As we parked, my son was still sound asleep in the back of the car, so we unloaded the car and started taking our things into the accommodation centre. But as I stood at the driverâs door, a lady dressed in a white temple dress approached the car and going straight up to the window where she could see my son sleeping, she gasped and said, âItâs Elder Lawer!â She then started beckoning to others approaching from the temple to come and see. She kept saying excitedly, âItâs Elder Lawer!â
More and more people were coming over to see Elder Lawer. They seemed delighted to see him. They were all dressed in white temple dresses, but I noticed that they had hairstyles from different eras. As I studied them, I could suddenly âseeâ that they were from the other side of the veil. Because Elder Lawer had taught people the gospel of Jesus Christ on this side of the veil, it had also benefited them! They had their temple ordinance work carried out by those whom Elder Lawer had taught, and so for them, Elder Lawer was their missionary too.
This dream touched me so much that I havenât been able to stop thinking about it; the joy these people had because Elder Lawer had served on the Lordâs mission. The ways of the Lord are marvellous indeed.
I dreamt that we had gone to pick up my son at Heathrow airport. He hadnât slept all the way home, so when we saw him, he was so tired that his eyes were bloodshot, and he was so cold. We bought a big quilt and pillows and snuggled him up in the back of the car. He soon fell fast asleep with his head on a pillow against a window.
In my dream, we drove to the London England Temple where we had booked to stay a couple of nights so that we could attend together before setting off home to Cornwall. As we parked, my son was still sound asleep in the back of the car, so we unloaded the car and started taking our things into the accommodation centre. But as I stood at the driverâs door, a lady dressed in a white temple dress approached the car and going straight up to the window where she could see my son sleeping, she gasped and said, âItâs Elder Lawer!â She then started beckoning to others approaching from the temple to come and see. She kept saying excitedly, âItâs Elder Lawer!â
More and more people were coming over to see Elder Lawer. They seemed delighted to see him. They were all dressed in white temple dresses, but I noticed that they had hairstyles from different eras. As I studied them, I could suddenly âseeâ that they were from the other side of the veil. Because Elder Lawer had taught people the gospel of Jesus Christ on this side of the veil, it had also benefited them! They had their temple ordinance work carried out by those whom Elder Lawer had taught, and so for them, Elder Lawer was their missionary too.
This dream touched me so much that I havenât been able to stop thinking about it; the joy these people had because Elder Lawer had served on the Lordâs mission. The ways of the Lord are marvellous indeed.
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Temples
Overcoming Spiritual âImposter Syndromeâ
Summary: The author shares how a friendâs compliments made her uncomfortable because she felt inadequate and assumed others saw her as more capable than she really was. She later learned her friend felt the same way, which led into a discussion of imposter syndrome and spiritual insecurity.
The article then offers gospel-based counsel: remember that others struggle too, rely on the Saviorâs enabling power, give and receive sincere encouragement, and focus on progression rather than perfection. It concludes by affirming that each personâs worth is inherent and that Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ love and see individuals as they can become.
I have a friend who is liberal with compliments. We faithfully emailed each other while we served our missions, and almost every week sheâd tell me she hoped to be like me. Every time she said that, I cringed. I appreciated the compliment, but I couldnât help but feel that if she knew me better, she wouldnât think of me so highly. In her eyes, I was a missionary of the same caliber as Alma the Youngerâin my own eyes, I still had a lot to learn.
My friend didnât see the parts of my mission where I felt like I fell short. I wanted to be more like her! Imagine my surprise when I learned of her own feelings of inadequacy; she also felt the immense pressure of being a missionary and was too hard on herself when she couldnât meet her own high expectations.
Sometimes when Iâm given a compliment, I assume itâs exaggerated or inaccurate. I feel like my best isnât enough at times. My little failures hit me hard because they âproveâ Iâm not good enough. Sometimes I think God is disappointed in me.
Does this sound like you? Having a mindset like this can be caused by âimposter syndromeâ: âIt is the nagging sense that no matter what you have accomplished, sooner or later someone will discover that you simply are not good enough, that you do not belong, and that your qualifications really are a sham.â1
In a spiritual context, this might mean that you struggle to feel that you belong in the Church and sometimes wonder if youâre as righteous as the people around you. But donât worry, youâre far from the only young adult who feels spiritually inadequate in life. As disciples of Jesus Christ, we hold ourselves to high standards. However, when we demand immediate perfection, we might feel discouraged and forget our worth and potential as divine children of Heavenly Father.
Focusing on these practical tips and principles of the gospel helped me shift my perspective from feeling like Iâm not measuring up to feeling like a child of God.
As Sister J. Annette Dennis, First Counselor in the Relief Society General Presidency, taught, âWhen we seek to empathize with others who also experience challenges and imperfections, it can help them feel that they are not alone in their struggles. Everyone needs to feel that they really do belong and are needed in the body of Christ [see 1 Corinthians 12:12â27]â2
Youâd be surprised how many other great people you know have experienced similar feelings at some point in their life.
But we can remind each other of the Saviorâs enabling power in our lives. Weâre all agonizingly aware of our own imperfections, but Christ knows how we feelâHe understands our afflictions, temptations, and pains. Because of His Atonement, He can forgive and empower us to move on from our mistakes as we repent and follow His example.
Sharing your feelings and struggles with othersâespecially with Heavenly Father through prayerâcan help you to feel less alone and help you support others as you strive to follow Jesus Christ and move forward on the covenant path.
Share genuine compliments with others, focusing on character or effort-related compliments instead of things outside someoneâs control. Praise their work ethic, kindness, listening abilities, or the comments they make in Sunday School.
Compliment yourself too. You have strengths and successes that you miss because itâs easier to focus on weaknesses and failures. Remember what our Savior has promised us if we come unto Him. As Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles taught, âI believe the Savior Jesus Christ would want you to see, feel, and know that He is your strength. That with His help, there are no limits to what you can accomplish. That your potential is limitless. He would want you to see yourself the way He sees you.â3
Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles also taught, âThe Lord blesses those who want to improve, who accept the need for commandments and try to keep them, who cherish Christlike virtues and strive to the best of their ability to acquire them.â4 Your desires and efforts and divine identity say much more about who you are than any achievement, title, or grade.
âPerfection is pending,â5 says President Russell M. Nelson. Understanding that perfection doesnât come in this life can be freeing. Instead, focus on progression. Elder Michael A. Dunn of the Seventy also recently taught us that doing just âone percent betterâ6 and focusing on small improvements can help us reach our potential.
Quoting Elder Neal A. Maxwell of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles (1926-2004), Sister Michelle D. Craig, Second Counselor in the General Young Women Presidency, calls our desire to be better âdivine discontent,â saying that it âleads to humility, not to self-pity or the discouragement that comes from making comparisons in which we always come up short.â7
I would add that there is no such thing as divine despair. If you think that your feelings of worthlessness or inadequacy are humility, youâre misunderstanding what humility is. Humility is holy; despair is not. God wants us to be humble enough to acknowledge our dependence on Him, but He also wants us to see ourselves as what we can become: exalted beings like Him.
The gospel is for everyone, but itâs also specifically for you. Jesus always showed His love for the one while He was here on earth, and that hasnât changed. Take the time to read your patriarchal blessing and understand your unique gifts, responsibilities, and blessings. Develop a personal relationship with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ through prayer, scripture study, and attending church. Youâll realize They love you as an individual.
So, if you read this article believing youâre not good enough or youâre not measuring up, please know that your worth is inherent; as sons and daughters of Heavenly Father, we each have divine potential. As President Russell M. Nelson taught: âYour potential is divine. With your diligent seeking, God will give you glimpses of who you may become.â8
My friend didnât see the parts of my mission where I felt like I fell short. I wanted to be more like her! Imagine my surprise when I learned of her own feelings of inadequacy; she also felt the immense pressure of being a missionary and was too hard on herself when she couldnât meet her own high expectations.
Sometimes when Iâm given a compliment, I assume itâs exaggerated or inaccurate. I feel like my best isnât enough at times. My little failures hit me hard because they âproveâ Iâm not good enough. Sometimes I think God is disappointed in me.
Does this sound like you? Having a mindset like this can be caused by âimposter syndromeâ: âIt is the nagging sense that no matter what you have accomplished, sooner or later someone will discover that you simply are not good enough, that you do not belong, and that your qualifications really are a sham.â1
In a spiritual context, this might mean that you struggle to feel that you belong in the Church and sometimes wonder if youâre as righteous as the people around you. But donât worry, youâre far from the only young adult who feels spiritually inadequate in life. As disciples of Jesus Christ, we hold ourselves to high standards. However, when we demand immediate perfection, we might feel discouraged and forget our worth and potential as divine children of Heavenly Father.
Focusing on these practical tips and principles of the gospel helped me shift my perspective from feeling like Iâm not measuring up to feeling like a child of God.
As Sister J. Annette Dennis, First Counselor in the Relief Society General Presidency, taught, âWhen we seek to empathize with others who also experience challenges and imperfections, it can help them feel that they are not alone in their struggles. Everyone needs to feel that they really do belong and are needed in the body of Christ [see 1 Corinthians 12:12â27]â2
Youâd be surprised how many other great people you know have experienced similar feelings at some point in their life.
But we can remind each other of the Saviorâs enabling power in our lives. Weâre all agonizingly aware of our own imperfections, but Christ knows how we feelâHe understands our afflictions, temptations, and pains. Because of His Atonement, He can forgive and empower us to move on from our mistakes as we repent and follow His example.
Sharing your feelings and struggles with othersâespecially with Heavenly Father through prayerâcan help you to feel less alone and help you support others as you strive to follow Jesus Christ and move forward on the covenant path.
Share genuine compliments with others, focusing on character or effort-related compliments instead of things outside someoneâs control. Praise their work ethic, kindness, listening abilities, or the comments they make in Sunday School.
Compliment yourself too. You have strengths and successes that you miss because itâs easier to focus on weaknesses and failures. Remember what our Savior has promised us if we come unto Him. As Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles taught, âI believe the Savior Jesus Christ would want you to see, feel, and know that He is your strength. That with His help, there are no limits to what you can accomplish. That your potential is limitless. He would want you to see yourself the way He sees you.â3
Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles also taught, âThe Lord blesses those who want to improve, who accept the need for commandments and try to keep them, who cherish Christlike virtues and strive to the best of their ability to acquire them.â4 Your desires and efforts and divine identity say much more about who you are than any achievement, title, or grade.
âPerfection is pending,â5 says President Russell M. Nelson. Understanding that perfection doesnât come in this life can be freeing. Instead, focus on progression. Elder Michael A. Dunn of the Seventy also recently taught us that doing just âone percent betterâ6 and focusing on small improvements can help us reach our potential.
Quoting Elder Neal A. Maxwell of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles (1926-2004), Sister Michelle D. Craig, Second Counselor in the General Young Women Presidency, calls our desire to be better âdivine discontent,â saying that it âleads to humility, not to self-pity or the discouragement that comes from making comparisons in which we always come up short.â7
I would add that there is no such thing as divine despair. If you think that your feelings of worthlessness or inadequacy are humility, youâre misunderstanding what humility is. Humility is holy; despair is not. God wants us to be humble enough to acknowledge our dependence on Him, but He also wants us to see ourselves as what we can become: exalted beings like Him.
The gospel is for everyone, but itâs also specifically for you. Jesus always showed His love for the one while He was here on earth, and that hasnât changed. Take the time to read your patriarchal blessing and understand your unique gifts, responsibilities, and blessings. Develop a personal relationship with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ through prayer, scripture study, and attending church. Youâll realize They love you as an individual.
So, if you read this article believing youâre not good enough or youâre not measuring up, please know that your worth is inherent; as sons and daughters of Heavenly Father, we each have divine potential. As President Russell M. Nelson taught: âYour potential is divine. With your diligent seeking, God will give you glimpses of who you may become.â8
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đ€ Friends
Adversity
Friendship
Humility
Missionary Work
More Fit for the Kingdom
Summary: The speaker encourages taking advantage of every opportunity to learn, showing how family lessons, Church experiences, and practical skills can bless both present life and future service. She recounts how a college class helped her support missionaries in Mongolia by building their confidence as English teachers. Later, one missionary thanked her because that encouragement helped him succeed in school and in life. The story concludes that education makes people more fit for the kingdom and more useful in serving the Lord.
Get in the habit of taking advantage of every opportunity to learn and remember. You can learn much from those who love and teach you bestâyour family. Let me share with you part of a letter I wrote to my grandchildren while on our mission:
âThe one âpearl of wisdomâ that I might impart to you is how valuable every experience in life is. We have been amazed at how many times, since we have been here, that we have grasped onto some idea or skill we learned along the way. Momâs âbasicâ cooking lessons have helped me to creatively use what we have hereâcarrots, cabbage, onions, potatoes, eggs, rice, and muttonâto prepare nourishing meals.â
The Church also gives us many learning opportunities. Remember, starting in Primary, you learned step-by-step how to remain calm and repeat the words you had practiced. As you grew you learned how to organize your thoughts, illustrate them with personal experiences, and gain the confidence to speak in front of a group. These kinds of experiences can lead to practical things like doing presentations in your classes, getting better job opportunities, and most importantly, being able to teach and speak comfortably in Church.
Opportunities to learn are all around you. Join the choir and learn to read music. Youâll be glad your whole life that you have this skill. When I visited young women in Colombia and Ecuador, the young women were the ones who conducted the music, making it possible for all of us to worship the Lord through song.
Take advantage by learning the skills taught at camp and in Scoutingâfirst aid, different methods of cooking, and recreational safety. These skills can bless your families now and in the future.
Look for opportunities to learn to care for and teach children. Now is the time to prepare for your future roles as fathers and mothers. You can literally make a world of difference in the life of a child right now, let alone being a well-prepared parent in the future.
Most people want to know how to be happy. King Benjamin helps us understand that service is the secret to happiness. In Mosiah 2:17 he teaches:
âAnd behold, I tell you these things that ye may learn wisdom; that ye may learn that when ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God.â
What can you do as a teenager to learn to serve others? Learn as many skills and gain as much education as you can. This knowledge will allow you to be âmore fit for the kingdom, more used.â And by giving service, you will unlock the secret to happiness.
Let me finish telling you about the missionaries in Mongolia. Because all the elders were expected to teach English, I became something of a teaching supervisor to help them provide the best classes possible. I would visit them in class, observe their teaching, and then give suggestions.
I never expected to have to supervise teachers on a mission. But the Lord needed someone who could help these elders do the job they needed to do in order to introduce the gospel to Mongolia. From one class I had taken in college, I knew enough to talk about the positive things they had done instead of focusing on the negative. I knew I had to build their confidence. Having these young men do a good job was so important to introducing the gospel to the Mongolian people.
Much later, when we had returned from the mission field and the missionaries I helped were pursuing their own educations, one elder e-mailed me and thanked me for the day I came to their class to watch him and his companion. The first thing I had asked them that day was to list all the things they had done right. They made their list, but what he remembers is that I came up with a long list of things they had done well. It changed his attitude. It gave him confidence. He had not done well in school before his mission, but now, because he felt he was a good teacher of English, he thought he could return to school and succeed. It wasnât until he had graduated from college that he wrote the e-mail to thank me. I had no idea that I was helping him. But the Lord knew how to use that bit of knowledge I had learned in college to help one of His missionaries while on his mission and afterwards in his own education.
That is the value of gaining and continuing to gain an education. Remember that being âmore fit for the kingdomâ will help you be a better mother or father, a better wife or husband, a better employee, a better servant of the Lord. Education of any and every type will help you become more useful to the Lord as we help each other return to live with Him.
âThe one âpearl of wisdomâ that I might impart to you is how valuable every experience in life is. We have been amazed at how many times, since we have been here, that we have grasped onto some idea or skill we learned along the way. Momâs âbasicâ cooking lessons have helped me to creatively use what we have hereâcarrots, cabbage, onions, potatoes, eggs, rice, and muttonâto prepare nourishing meals.â
The Church also gives us many learning opportunities. Remember, starting in Primary, you learned step-by-step how to remain calm and repeat the words you had practiced. As you grew you learned how to organize your thoughts, illustrate them with personal experiences, and gain the confidence to speak in front of a group. These kinds of experiences can lead to practical things like doing presentations in your classes, getting better job opportunities, and most importantly, being able to teach and speak comfortably in Church.
Opportunities to learn are all around you. Join the choir and learn to read music. Youâll be glad your whole life that you have this skill. When I visited young women in Colombia and Ecuador, the young women were the ones who conducted the music, making it possible for all of us to worship the Lord through song.
Take advantage by learning the skills taught at camp and in Scoutingâfirst aid, different methods of cooking, and recreational safety. These skills can bless your families now and in the future.
Look for opportunities to learn to care for and teach children. Now is the time to prepare for your future roles as fathers and mothers. You can literally make a world of difference in the life of a child right now, let alone being a well-prepared parent in the future.
Most people want to know how to be happy. King Benjamin helps us understand that service is the secret to happiness. In Mosiah 2:17 he teaches:
âAnd behold, I tell you these things that ye may learn wisdom; that ye may learn that when ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God.â
What can you do as a teenager to learn to serve others? Learn as many skills and gain as much education as you can. This knowledge will allow you to be âmore fit for the kingdom, more used.â And by giving service, you will unlock the secret to happiness.
Let me finish telling you about the missionaries in Mongolia. Because all the elders were expected to teach English, I became something of a teaching supervisor to help them provide the best classes possible. I would visit them in class, observe their teaching, and then give suggestions.
I never expected to have to supervise teachers on a mission. But the Lord needed someone who could help these elders do the job they needed to do in order to introduce the gospel to Mongolia. From one class I had taken in college, I knew enough to talk about the positive things they had done instead of focusing on the negative. I knew I had to build their confidence. Having these young men do a good job was so important to introducing the gospel to the Mongolian people.
Much later, when we had returned from the mission field and the missionaries I helped were pursuing their own educations, one elder e-mailed me and thanked me for the day I came to their class to watch him and his companion. The first thing I had asked them that day was to list all the things they had done right. They made their list, but what he remembers is that I came up with a long list of things they had done well. It changed his attitude. It gave him confidence. He had not done well in school before his mission, but now, because he felt he was a good teacher of English, he thought he could return to school and succeed. It wasnât until he had graduated from college that he wrote the e-mail to thank me. I had no idea that I was helping him. But the Lord knew how to use that bit of knowledge I had learned in college to help one of His missionaries while on his mission and afterwards in his own education.
That is the value of gaining and continuing to gain an education. Remember that being âmore fit for the kingdomâ will help you be a better mother or father, a better wife or husband, a better employee, a better servant of the Lord. Education of any and every type will help you become more useful to the Lord as we help each other return to live with Him.
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đ€ Children
đ€ Other
Children
Education
Family
Missionary Work
Parenting
Self-Reliance
Yielding to the Enticings of the Holy Spirit
Summary: Weeks after the apple incident, the narrator found his friends smoking in the woods and they urged him to join. He refused, enduring taunts and ridicule, guided only by an inner feeling since he did not yet know the Word of Wisdom. Walking home alone, he felt good and learned that right choices bring real happiness.
Several weeks after the experience with the apples, I set out to join my friends in the wooded area close to home, anticipating that we would devise some activity or game to play. As I approached them, they were huddled together. I saw smoke rising in the air above them and recognized the aroma of burning tobacco. One of them had obtained a packet of cigarettes, and they were smoking. They invited me to join them, but I declined. They persisted, suggesting that my reluctance to participate was a sign of weakness. Their taunts turned to ridicule, combined with condescending remarks. But nothing they could say or do could persuade me to change my mind. I had not been raised with a knowledge of the restored gospel and knew nothing of the Word of Wisdom, but I was restrained by a feeling within that I should not participate with them.
As I walked home reflecting on the decision I had made, I felt good inside. Although my expectations for the day had not materialized and I would have to find a way to occupy my time without my friends, I had discovered something about myselfâabout the source of real happiness and the invigoration that results from making the right decision, whatever the circumstances or outcome may be.
As I walked home reflecting on the decision I had made, I felt good inside. Although my expectations for the day had not materialized and I would have to find a way to occupy my time without my friends, I had discovered something about myselfâabout the source of real happiness and the invigoration that results from making the right decision, whatever the circumstances or outcome may be.
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đ€ Children
đ€ Friends
Agency and Accountability
Courage
Friendship
Happiness
Light of Christ
Temptation
Word of Wisdom
Pride of Lions
Summary: A new student, Forrest, befriends Heather, another Latter-day Saint, challenging her assumptions about popularity and friendship. After ongoing debates and a conversation with Heather's mom about integrity, they attend a senior night event where Rob mistreats Linda. Forrest calmly intervenes, de-escalates the situation, and leaves with Heather and Linda, prompting Heather to recognize the value of integrity over social status.
Forrest Michaelson showed up in my homeroom the Wednesday after Easter vacation. It had been a typically wet April morning, and he had on jeans, a T-shirt, and cowboy boots. An ankle-length, buff-leather, oilskin slicker made him look like heâd blown into town out of a Clint Eastwood western. He gave Mr. Riegert a form from the office. Raking his fingers through his tousled, black hair, he gave the rest of us a bemused look as Mr. Riegert shuffled us about so he could reseat us alphabetically.
But the thing that struck me most was how totally unself-conscious he was. His whole demeanor said: Whateverâs going on here, Iâm not getting uptight about it.
âShophead,â sniffed Linda Matthews, who sat behind me.
That said it all. But as Mr. Riegert read the roll to make up a new seating chart, I couldnât help noticing how Forrest Michaelson paid close attention to each name as it was called out. And when Mr. Riegert called my name and I said, âHere,â our eyes met momentarily. He had sharp, clear eyes, and he winked at me, like we had something in common.
I turned away sharply to tell him he was wrong.
But after the bell rang, he caught up with me in the hall.
âHeather Mastrioanni?â
I nodded.
âKinda new here, you know. Direct me to D-wing? Room 104.â He pointed to the first class on his schedule. I almost gaped. Auto shop, of course, but he was also signed up for AP calculus.
I said, âFirst room on the right past the cafeteria.â
âThanks.â He ambled off down the hall.
After civics I went to the cafeteria and sat down at my usual place. When Forrest Michaelson put his tray down right across the table from me I didnât notice him. Well, Rob Herndon had just walked in with Linda and I was thinking it would be nice if he ever wanted to eat lunch with me. I looked up and nearly choked on my tuna fish sandwich.
âThought we should get to know each other better,â Forrest said. âIt seems that we constitute a minority of two.â
âWhat minority of two?â I finally said.
âMormons,â he said, as if it were the most obvious thing in the world. âAt least in the senior class. Thatâs what I gathered from your father.â
Of course. I nearly smacked myself on the side of the head. The Michaelsons. Monday, Mom and Dad had gone over to help a family who were just moving into the ward. But I never connected them with this Forrest Michaelson.
Forrest read my reaction with a smile. âInitial impressions can be misleading.â He glanced around the cafeteria. âSo, how about a tour of the student body? Beginning with the pack of jackals over there, for example.â He nodded to where Rob and his teammates were sitting.
âThatâs Rob Herndon,â I said, coldly. âHeâs on the wrestling team, and heâs a nice guy.â
âIf you say so.â
âInitial impressions can be misleading.â
âTouchĂ©,â he said, touching his forehead in a kind of salute.
He always sat with me during lunch. There wasnât anything I could do about it, and I knew as long as Forrest was sitting there, no one else would dare to.
âYou know, Forrest,â I finally said to him one day, âI donât know why you think you have to sit with me. We really donât have anything in common.â
That provoked a raised eyebrow. âI would have thought we had most everything in common. We sure donât share the same taste in fashion, but we believe the same things, and that makes us pretty even.â
âOh, really? What about those shophead friends of yours? Iâve got a lot more in common with Rob than you do with them.â
âNo, you donât. Okay, maybe my friends donât believe the same things I do, but they donât pretend they do, either.â
âWhatâs that supposed to mean?â
âThe people who hang around guys like Herndon, they want to think heâs their friend because they want to pretend theyâre his friends.â
I didnât pretend to understand what he had just said. I just laughed. âYou expect me to believe heâs such a terrible person just because you donât get along with him?â
âI really donât worry about getting along with Herndon or not, Heather. But I donât laugh at his jokes or marvel at who he goes out with, so that kind of counts me out, doesnât it? Every school Iâve been in has a pack of them. And they come on to you depending on what kind of a person they think you are.â
âHeâs always been nice to me,â I protested.
âHeâs as nice as it takes.â
The worst thing about these arguments was that they convinced everybody that Forrest and I were a serious thing. Even Linda was convinced. Linda would ask me about him, about us, and about other things as well, which was a total shock, because before Linda hardly said two sentences to me. We became pretty good friends, though. She even got me on the publicity committee for senior class night at Jumpinâ Jacks drive-in.
Friday I stayed late cleaning up in art class and missed the bus. I was standing at the front entrance debating whether to call Mom or wait for the late bus when Forrest walked up.
âMiss your bus?â
I hesitated a moment too long.
âBe right back,â Forrest said and jogged off to the student lot. He drove up and got the door for me.
âSo whatâs this big deal at Jumpinâ Jacks?â he asked.
âItâs the drive-in across from the park by the river marina. The Friday before Memorial Day is senior class night. Nothing formal. Just a chance to have a good time before the Regents exams begin.â I waited as long as I thought I could before I felt I had to ask him the obvious question. âI donât expect youâd want to come?â
âI thought I might.â
âReally? I didnât think youâd be interested in that kind of thing. After all, Rob Herndon and his friends will be there.â
âOrdinarily I wouldnât be. But if youâre going to be there âŠâ
âI donât need a chaperon, Forrest.â
He pulled into our driveway. I got out and slammed the door to show just how grateful I wasnât for the ride and stormed up the steps and into the house.
Mom was in the kitchen preparing dinner. âForrest drive you home?â
I sat down at the kitchen table and folded my arms and didnât answer.
Mom wasnât impressed by my attitude. âForrest taking you to Jumpinâ Jacks tonight?â
âMom!â I exploded, âWhy does everybody think Iâm dating Forrest Michaelson?â
Mom looked at me quite innocently. âI didnât think you were dating Forrest. It just seemed reasonable that he would give you a ride, if youâre both going.â
âI wouldnât go out with him if he were the last man on Earth,â I stated. âHeâs stubborn and opinionated. He always thinks heâs right.â
I could tell by the way Mom reacted that she didnât like my choice of words, and I cringed inside at the anticipated correction.
âWell, yes,â Mom said, after giving it some thought, âbut itâs more than that.â
I looked at Mom, amazed. She was actually agreeing with me.
âI think, like most teenagers, he canât bring himself to be just another slice of bread. But heâs smart enough to know whatâs important. So itâs his way of proving what the Church means to him without having to come out and say it. The same way you wouldnât respect a lion if it barked like a Chihuahua. Heâs protecting what he respects.â
âHeâs determined to protect me as well,â I said glumly. âHeâs got an opinion about all my friends, whether I ought to be associating with them at all, whether theyâre really my friends. Like itâs any of his business.â
Mom laughed. âYoung men like Forrest suffer from being taken too seriously too much of the time. I think humoring him would go a long way.â
âThen heâs going to have to be humored at a distance.â
It was only a short walk through the park to the drive-in. Someone came up behind me and I turned around. It was Forrest.
There were tons of kids there already. We crowded into line. It was great food but pretty expensive. I had eaten dinner so I wouldnât be tempted, but Forrest ordered a seafood platter that made my mouth water. When we sat down and Forrest said, âHave a shrimp,â I couldnât refuse.
âSo whereâs Linda?â Forrest asked.
I didnât know.
A moment later he said, âSpeak of the devil.â
Rob drove up and he and Linda got out. She looked flustered, a bit disheveled, and a little scared. Rob just looked angry.
After they ordered, Linda brought her plate over to our table. I couldnât believe she knew what she was doing. I could tell Rob was hating it.
âDonât mind, do you?â Rob said icily.
âNot at all,â Forrest said. âIn fact, I was just leaving.
âYes,â I said, almost without thinking, âwe were just leaving.â
The rest of the jackals then crowded around the table, pushing us out of the way.
âAre you really leaving?â Linda asked quietly. She tried to laugh and stood up. âI guess I donât care much for the company of some of my friends,â she said as she began to follow us.
âI donât care much for the company of some of your friends, either,â Forrest said.
Rob stood up and looked around. âHey, Linda, where are you going? Get over here. Câmon, the night is still young.â
I heard the jackals laughing. I used to think it was funny, the way Rob talked to Linda, but I felt cold and sick inside.
Then Rob grabbed for her. Linda shied away. âQuit playing hard to get, Linda.â He reached for her again, and Forrest caught Robâs wrist like a vice grip. Robâs mouth dropped open in surprise. âYou got some kind of problem?â
It suddenly got quiet.
âNo problem,â Forrest said. He stepped to the side and let go of Robâs wrist. Rob immediately lurched forward, thumping Forrest hard on his shoulders. Forrest backed away, showing the palms of his hands.
âLetâs go, Linda,â I said quietly.
Rob stood, flushed and angry. Forrest, facing him, looked like he had just solved a math problem too simple to bother with in the first place. When we reached the sidewalk, he turned and walked away.
âThatâs right, chump!â Rob shouted. âGo ahead, walk away!â
âIâm sorry,â said Linda, when Forrest joined us.
Forrest simply shrugged.
We walked through the park, then up Lakeside Avenue to the Michaelsonsâs house. It was reassuring to have Forrest with us. So I did have more in common with him than Rob Herndon, a lot more. But I could live with that. When youâve been in a den of jackals, you come to appreciate the pride of lions.
But the thing that struck me most was how totally unself-conscious he was. His whole demeanor said: Whateverâs going on here, Iâm not getting uptight about it.
âShophead,â sniffed Linda Matthews, who sat behind me.
That said it all. But as Mr. Riegert read the roll to make up a new seating chart, I couldnât help noticing how Forrest Michaelson paid close attention to each name as it was called out. And when Mr. Riegert called my name and I said, âHere,â our eyes met momentarily. He had sharp, clear eyes, and he winked at me, like we had something in common.
I turned away sharply to tell him he was wrong.
But after the bell rang, he caught up with me in the hall.
âHeather Mastrioanni?â
I nodded.
âKinda new here, you know. Direct me to D-wing? Room 104.â He pointed to the first class on his schedule. I almost gaped. Auto shop, of course, but he was also signed up for AP calculus.
I said, âFirst room on the right past the cafeteria.â
âThanks.â He ambled off down the hall.
After civics I went to the cafeteria and sat down at my usual place. When Forrest Michaelson put his tray down right across the table from me I didnât notice him. Well, Rob Herndon had just walked in with Linda and I was thinking it would be nice if he ever wanted to eat lunch with me. I looked up and nearly choked on my tuna fish sandwich.
âThought we should get to know each other better,â Forrest said. âIt seems that we constitute a minority of two.â
âWhat minority of two?â I finally said.
âMormons,â he said, as if it were the most obvious thing in the world. âAt least in the senior class. Thatâs what I gathered from your father.â
Of course. I nearly smacked myself on the side of the head. The Michaelsons. Monday, Mom and Dad had gone over to help a family who were just moving into the ward. But I never connected them with this Forrest Michaelson.
Forrest read my reaction with a smile. âInitial impressions can be misleading.â He glanced around the cafeteria. âSo, how about a tour of the student body? Beginning with the pack of jackals over there, for example.â He nodded to where Rob and his teammates were sitting.
âThatâs Rob Herndon,â I said, coldly. âHeâs on the wrestling team, and heâs a nice guy.â
âIf you say so.â
âInitial impressions can be misleading.â
âTouchĂ©,â he said, touching his forehead in a kind of salute.
He always sat with me during lunch. There wasnât anything I could do about it, and I knew as long as Forrest was sitting there, no one else would dare to.
âYou know, Forrest,â I finally said to him one day, âI donât know why you think you have to sit with me. We really donât have anything in common.â
That provoked a raised eyebrow. âI would have thought we had most everything in common. We sure donât share the same taste in fashion, but we believe the same things, and that makes us pretty even.â
âOh, really? What about those shophead friends of yours? Iâve got a lot more in common with Rob than you do with them.â
âNo, you donât. Okay, maybe my friends donât believe the same things I do, but they donât pretend they do, either.â
âWhatâs that supposed to mean?â
âThe people who hang around guys like Herndon, they want to think heâs their friend because they want to pretend theyâre his friends.â
I didnât pretend to understand what he had just said. I just laughed. âYou expect me to believe heâs such a terrible person just because you donât get along with him?â
âI really donât worry about getting along with Herndon or not, Heather. But I donât laugh at his jokes or marvel at who he goes out with, so that kind of counts me out, doesnât it? Every school Iâve been in has a pack of them. And they come on to you depending on what kind of a person they think you are.â
âHeâs always been nice to me,â I protested.
âHeâs as nice as it takes.â
The worst thing about these arguments was that they convinced everybody that Forrest and I were a serious thing. Even Linda was convinced. Linda would ask me about him, about us, and about other things as well, which was a total shock, because before Linda hardly said two sentences to me. We became pretty good friends, though. She even got me on the publicity committee for senior class night at Jumpinâ Jacks drive-in.
Friday I stayed late cleaning up in art class and missed the bus. I was standing at the front entrance debating whether to call Mom or wait for the late bus when Forrest walked up.
âMiss your bus?â
I hesitated a moment too long.
âBe right back,â Forrest said and jogged off to the student lot. He drove up and got the door for me.
âSo whatâs this big deal at Jumpinâ Jacks?â he asked.
âItâs the drive-in across from the park by the river marina. The Friday before Memorial Day is senior class night. Nothing formal. Just a chance to have a good time before the Regents exams begin.â I waited as long as I thought I could before I felt I had to ask him the obvious question. âI donât expect youâd want to come?â
âI thought I might.â
âReally? I didnât think youâd be interested in that kind of thing. After all, Rob Herndon and his friends will be there.â
âOrdinarily I wouldnât be. But if youâre going to be there âŠâ
âI donât need a chaperon, Forrest.â
He pulled into our driveway. I got out and slammed the door to show just how grateful I wasnât for the ride and stormed up the steps and into the house.
Mom was in the kitchen preparing dinner. âForrest drive you home?â
I sat down at the kitchen table and folded my arms and didnât answer.
Mom wasnât impressed by my attitude. âForrest taking you to Jumpinâ Jacks tonight?â
âMom!â I exploded, âWhy does everybody think Iâm dating Forrest Michaelson?â
Mom looked at me quite innocently. âI didnât think you were dating Forrest. It just seemed reasonable that he would give you a ride, if youâre both going.â
âI wouldnât go out with him if he were the last man on Earth,â I stated. âHeâs stubborn and opinionated. He always thinks heâs right.â
I could tell by the way Mom reacted that she didnât like my choice of words, and I cringed inside at the anticipated correction.
âWell, yes,â Mom said, after giving it some thought, âbut itâs more than that.â
I looked at Mom, amazed. She was actually agreeing with me.
âI think, like most teenagers, he canât bring himself to be just another slice of bread. But heâs smart enough to know whatâs important. So itâs his way of proving what the Church means to him without having to come out and say it. The same way you wouldnât respect a lion if it barked like a Chihuahua. Heâs protecting what he respects.â
âHeâs determined to protect me as well,â I said glumly. âHeâs got an opinion about all my friends, whether I ought to be associating with them at all, whether theyâre really my friends. Like itâs any of his business.â
Mom laughed. âYoung men like Forrest suffer from being taken too seriously too much of the time. I think humoring him would go a long way.â
âThen heâs going to have to be humored at a distance.â
It was only a short walk through the park to the drive-in. Someone came up behind me and I turned around. It was Forrest.
There were tons of kids there already. We crowded into line. It was great food but pretty expensive. I had eaten dinner so I wouldnât be tempted, but Forrest ordered a seafood platter that made my mouth water. When we sat down and Forrest said, âHave a shrimp,â I couldnât refuse.
âSo whereâs Linda?â Forrest asked.
I didnât know.
A moment later he said, âSpeak of the devil.â
Rob drove up and he and Linda got out. She looked flustered, a bit disheveled, and a little scared. Rob just looked angry.
After they ordered, Linda brought her plate over to our table. I couldnât believe she knew what she was doing. I could tell Rob was hating it.
âDonât mind, do you?â Rob said icily.
âNot at all,â Forrest said. âIn fact, I was just leaving.
âYes,â I said, almost without thinking, âwe were just leaving.â
The rest of the jackals then crowded around the table, pushing us out of the way.
âAre you really leaving?â Linda asked quietly. She tried to laugh and stood up. âI guess I donât care much for the company of some of my friends,â she said as she began to follow us.
âI donât care much for the company of some of your friends, either,â Forrest said.
Rob stood up and looked around. âHey, Linda, where are you going? Get over here. Câmon, the night is still young.â
I heard the jackals laughing. I used to think it was funny, the way Rob talked to Linda, but I felt cold and sick inside.
Then Rob grabbed for her. Linda shied away. âQuit playing hard to get, Linda.â He reached for her again, and Forrest caught Robâs wrist like a vice grip. Robâs mouth dropped open in surprise. âYou got some kind of problem?â
It suddenly got quiet.
âNo problem,â Forrest said. He stepped to the side and let go of Robâs wrist. Rob immediately lurched forward, thumping Forrest hard on his shoulders. Forrest backed away, showing the palms of his hands.
âLetâs go, Linda,â I said quietly.
Rob stood, flushed and angry. Forrest, facing him, looked like he had just solved a math problem too simple to bother with in the first place. When we reached the sidewalk, he turned and walked away.
âThatâs right, chump!â Rob shouted. âGo ahead, walk away!â
âIâm sorry,â said Linda, when Forrest joined us.
Forrest simply shrugged.
We walked through the park, then up Lakeside Avenue to the Michaelsonsâs house. It was reassuring to have Forrest with us. So I did have more in common with him than Rob Herndon, a lot more. But I could live with that. When youâve been in a den of jackals, you come to appreciate the pride of lions.
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Courage
Dating and Courtship
Faith
Friendship
Judging Others
Kindness
Being a Leader
Summary: As a boy, Spencer W. Kimball showed honesty and integrity by refusing to join in mischief and by taking responsibility for his duties. Later, as a young leader, he accepted calls to serve and insisted on paying for damage caused by a broken buggy spring. The story concludes that the Lord could use him as a leader because of these qualities developed in youth.
As a young boy, Spencer watched other boys his age steal watermelons from neighborsâ fields or slash the melons open to rot and then run away.
Boy: I dare you to do it, Spencer.
Spencer: Thatâs not my idea of fun. Itâs just plain mean.Why, if you asked any farmer in Thatcher, heâd give you all the melon your belly could hold.I wonât join in.
When Spencer was a deacon, his duties included gathering fast offerings, which at the time were often fruit, flour, and vegetables. His father lent him the horse and buggy, and Spencer took the responsibility very seriously.
Spencer: The other boy hasnât shown up. Well, the job still has to be done.Iâll just have to do it alone.
Spencer went on to become the secretary and then president of his deacons quorum.
A few years later, Spencer was stopped by the superintendent as he left Sunday School.
Superintendent: Spencer, I want you to teach a Sunday School class.
Spencer: Me? But Iâm only 14.
Superintendent: Lean on the Lord, and youâll do fine.
In high school, Spencer was voted class president. One day Spencer and some friends borrowed an old buggy for a field trip to the mountains. The rough road was too much for it.
Friend: Whatâs wrong?
Spencer: A spring broke.
The next day in class, Spencer spoke up.
Spencer: That spring has to be paid for, even if I have to do it myself.
Friend: If youâre pitching in, Spencer, so will I.
Friend: I guess I will too.
The Lord was able to use Spencer W. Kimball as a leader and an example because he was honest, obedient, and filled with integrity.
The qualities he developed in his youth helped him become a great prophet.
Boy: I dare you to do it, Spencer.
Spencer: Thatâs not my idea of fun. Itâs just plain mean.Why, if you asked any farmer in Thatcher, heâd give you all the melon your belly could hold.I wonât join in.
When Spencer was a deacon, his duties included gathering fast offerings, which at the time were often fruit, flour, and vegetables. His father lent him the horse and buggy, and Spencer took the responsibility very seriously.
Spencer: The other boy hasnât shown up. Well, the job still has to be done.Iâll just have to do it alone.
Spencer went on to become the secretary and then president of his deacons quorum.
A few years later, Spencer was stopped by the superintendent as he left Sunday School.
Superintendent: Spencer, I want you to teach a Sunday School class.
Spencer: Me? But Iâm only 14.
Superintendent: Lean on the Lord, and youâll do fine.
In high school, Spencer was voted class president. One day Spencer and some friends borrowed an old buggy for a field trip to the mountains. The rough road was too much for it.
Friend: Whatâs wrong?
Spencer: A spring broke.
The next day in class, Spencer spoke up.
Spencer: That spring has to be paid for, even if I have to do it myself.
Friend: If youâre pitching in, Spencer, so will I.
Friend: I guess I will too.
The Lord was able to use Spencer W. Kimball as a leader and an example because he was honest, obedient, and filled with integrity.
The qualities he developed in his youth helped him become a great prophet.
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Agency and Accountability
Friendship
Honesty
Self-Reliance
Never Give Up
Summary: After hearing Brother Wolff urge 'never give up,' Tommy struggles with discouragement about visiting the inactive Albert Tregaron. He and Brother Carson pray before the visit, and Tommy persistently invites Albert to a ward activity, ultimately telling him, 'Because youâre my brother.' Albert softens and says he will see if he is free, showing a hopeful change.
The bell rang, and the boys of the teachers quorum left. But Tommy and Richard hung back. It was their responsibility to return the hymnbooks this week. Tommy was still thinking about the lesson, his face creased in a pensive frown.
âDo you teach any inactives, Richard?â he asked tentatively.
âYeah, weâve got Brother and Sister Dunbar, but I donât know what weâre going to do about them. Brother Dunbar is even smoking in front of us now. Not much chance with him, Iâd say.â
âWhat do you think about what Brother Wolff just said?â
âOh yeah, that was good, but sometimes I guess it just doesnât work out that way. Some people just donât want to come back again, so youâre wasting your time, I guess.â
âDo you really think that?â Tommyâs worried frown had deepened, and he searched Richardâs face. âReally?â
âWell, you have to, donât you? Itâs no use thinking itâs all going to be marvellous when it isnât.â Richard shrugged philosophically. âHave you finished with those books? Iâll take them back to the library.â
Tommy looked at the pile of books in his hands. âOh, yes. Here you are,â he said, handing them over. He picked up his own scriptures, but his mind was still on Brother Tregaron. He was a problem with a capital P.
Tommy was going with Brother Carson to home teach Brother Tregaron this afternoon, but it was always the same whenever they went. All he did was knock back everything they said to him. If they greeted him with, âNice day, isnât it?â He would reply, âI donât think it will lastâprobably have a storm later, Iâd say.â
If they complimented him on his garden, he would only talk about the weeds, or the slugs and snails. If they asked him about his family, he would remark that he never heard from them, and why should he when they didnât care about him anyway. He really was hard to talk to. Tommy always felt depressed when he came away from Brother Tregaronâs, depressed and useless. There didnât seem to be anything anyone could do with him.
But Brother Wolff had said, âNever give up!â And when he heard him, Tommy felt as if Brother Wolff was begging and pleading on his own behalf again, reliving the alienation he had gone through for so many years, and pleading for someone to care enough, as his home teacher had done, to ânever give up.â
Tommy shrugged. Maybe Richard was right. Maybe it was a waste of time. What could he, a mere teacher, do when grown men, even the elders quorum president himself, had failed? There didnât seem to be much point. He would just go there this afternoon, go through the motions, and leave as usual. Only this time, he wouldnât feel depressed about it, for now he understood that Brother Tregaron didnât really want to come back. Yes, thatâs what he would do.
And thatâs what he would have done, if only Brother Wolff hadnât come back into the room just then. He smiled at Tommy and gripped his hand. Maybe Tommy just imagined it, but a funny sort of feeling was in his stomach and a prickly sort of feeling around his eyes as he looked into Brother Wolffâs face. No words had been said, yet there seemed to be an understanding, as if Brother Wolff knew exactly what had passed through Tommyâs mind those few short minutes ago.
Later that afternoon, he found himself outside Brother Tregaronâs place. Brother Carson was taking the keys out of the ignition, and Tommy heard him say, âWell, come on, letâs get this one over with first.â Suddenly Tommy felt an overwhelming feeling come over him.
âBrother Carson,â he heard himself say, âcould we have a word of prayer before we go in, please?â
âEh?â Brother Carson seemed puzzled, and Tommy knew it was because he had never been asked that before. Usually they had the prayer inside with the family they were teachingâall except Brother Tregaron, of course. But Tommy felt an urgent need for a prayer and repeated his request, âA word of prayer, please.â
âOh, yeah, sure.â Brother Carson leaned back in his seat and nodded at Tommy. âPerhaps youâd like to offer it?â
Tommy felt strangely nervous, and his palms were sweaty, but he started the prayer, not knowing quite what to say or why he had even asked for it. Afterwards, he couldnât quite remember what he actually said, but he did remember the look on Brother Carsonâs face when he had finished. It reminded him of Brother Wolff.
Albert Tregaron opened the door to them with his habitual scowl and invited them in with his usual terseness. They followed him down the passageway into the small living room, and Tommy saw that nothing had changed much since the last time they had been there. It was a large, untidy room with a forlorn air about it. Tommy could almost feel the usual depression settle about his shoulders like a heavy cloak, and it took a great effort on his part to shrug it off. Never give up, he reminded himself.
Brother Tregaron was saying, âYouâd better sit down, I suppose.â Brother Carson chose a big, faded armchair and perched gingerly on the edge of it, saying, with a hearty smile, âAnd how are you this month, Albert?â
âOkay, I guess,â came the reply. Brother Carson shifted uncomfortably and caught Tommyâs eye. Tommy could sense the hint of despair in his attitude, but it didnât prepare him for Brother Carsonâs next words.
âBy the way, Albert, Tommy has something heâd like to say to you, wouldnât you, Tommy?â Tommy felt his jaw drop as he met Brother Carsonâs strained, jovial smile.
Hey, come on, Brother Carson, donât leave it all up to me, thought Tommy desperately. His gaze swung from Brother Carson to Brother Tregaronâs face, which now had a speculative look on it.
âWell?â Brother Tregaron asked, mildly curious.
âWell, er âŠâ Tommy fought desperately for the right words to say. Help me, Heavenly Father, he pleaded within himself. What shall I say? Then he heard himself saying, âWell, thereâs an elders quorum activity this Saturday. Itâs a picnic, and thereâs going to be some rafting and games and so on, and we, that is my family and I, thought you might like to come with us?â I must remember to tell Mom and Dad, he thought to himself.
âAh, no, thatâs not my idea of spending a Saturday âŠâ started Brother Tregaron, but Tommy was already brushing aside his refusal.
âOh, please, Brother Tregaron. See, Dad and I wanted to be in the tug-of-war against the Williamses, but we havenât got quite enough for our team. Wouldnât you make up the numbers for us?â
Again the shake of the head came, but still Tommy persisted.â And the deacons reckon you were really good with the rafting competitions at one time.â Brother Tregaronâs head slowed its shaking and tilted to one side, his eyes narrowing as he looked at Tommy.
âWhy are you doing this, boy, eh? Why do you want me?â
Tommy stopped in mid-sentence, dumbstruck. Why was he doing it? What answer could he give? What should he say? Then he said something he immediately felt was the stupidest thing of all to say, âBecause youâre my brother.â
He flushed crimson. What a stupid thing to say! He began to think of all the things he could have said, should have said, but his mind had gone blank. He was about to apologize when he noticed that Brother Tregaronâs face had softened and there was a hint of a tear in his eye. The silence stretched into infinity as they looked into each otherâs eyes.
At last, Brother Tregaron broke the silence with a mumbled, âWell, I guess I could see if Iâm free.â It was more a question than a statement. Tommy felt his heart swell.
âSure, Brother Tregaron! What time shall we pick you up?â
âHang on, young man. Not so fast. I only said Iâd see if I was free.â But there was a smile in his eyes that hadnât been there before, and the stern lines of his face were relaxed. Tommy grinned and looked across to where Brother Carson was sitting, but in his mind, he saw only Brother Wolff looking at him. He heard him say again, âNever, ever, give up on anyone.â And as he turned back to Brother Tregaron, he knew that despite the heartaches that might lie ahead, he never, ever, would.
âDo you teach any inactives, Richard?â he asked tentatively.
âYeah, weâve got Brother and Sister Dunbar, but I donât know what weâre going to do about them. Brother Dunbar is even smoking in front of us now. Not much chance with him, Iâd say.â
âWhat do you think about what Brother Wolff just said?â
âOh yeah, that was good, but sometimes I guess it just doesnât work out that way. Some people just donât want to come back again, so youâre wasting your time, I guess.â
âDo you really think that?â Tommyâs worried frown had deepened, and he searched Richardâs face. âReally?â
âWell, you have to, donât you? Itâs no use thinking itâs all going to be marvellous when it isnât.â Richard shrugged philosophically. âHave you finished with those books? Iâll take them back to the library.â
Tommy looked at the pile of books in his hands. âOh, yes. Here you are,â he said, handing them over. He picked up his own scriptures, but his mind was still on Brother Tregaron. He was a problem with a capital P.
Tommy was going with Brother Carson to home teach Brother Tregaron this afternoon, but it was always the same whenever they went. All he did was knock back everything they said to him. If they greeted him with, âNice day, isnât it?â He would reply, âI donât think it will lastâprobably have a storm later, Iâd say.â
If they complimented him on his garden, he would only talk about the weeds, or the slugs and snails. If they asked him about his family, he would remark that he never heard from them, and why should he when they didnât care about him anyway. He really was hard to talk to. Tommy always felt depressed when he came away from Brother Tregaronâs, depressed and useless. There didnât seem to be anything anyone could do with him.
But Brother Wolff had said, âNever give up!â And when he heard him, Tommy felt as if Brother Wolff was begging and pleading on his own behalf again, reliving the alienation he had gone through for so many years, and pleading for someone to care enough, as his home teacher had done, to ânever give up.â
Tommy shrugged. Maybe Richard was right. Maybe it was a waste of time. What could he, a mere teacher, do when grown men, even the elders quorum president himself, had failed? There didnât seem to be much point. He would just go there this afternoon, go through the motions, and leave as usual. Only this time, he wouldnât feel depressed about it, for now he understood that Brother Tregaron didnât really want to come back. Yes, thatâs what he would do.
And thatâs what he would have done, if only Brother Wolff hadnât come back into the room just then. He smiled at Tommy and gripped his hand. Maybe Tommy just imagined it, but a funny sort of feeling was in his stomach and a prickly sort of feeling around his eyes as he looked into Brother Wolffâs face. No words had been said, yet there seemed to be an understanding, as if Brother Wolff knew exactly what had passed through Tommyâs mind those few short minutes ago.
Later that afternoon, he found himself outside Brother Tregaronâs place. Brother Carson was taking the keys out of the ignition, and Tommy heard him say, âWell, come on, letâs get this one over with first.â Suddenly Tommy felt an overwhelming feeling come over him.
âBrother Carson,â he heard himself say, âcould we have a word of prayer before we go in, please?â
âEh?â Brother Carson seemed puzzled, and Tommy knew it was because he had never been asked that before. Usually they had the prayer inside with the family they were teachingâall except Brother Tregaron, of course. But Tommy felt an urgent need for a prayer and repeated his request, âA word of prayer, please.â
âOh, yeah, sure.â Brother Carson leaned back in his seat and nodded at Tommy. âPerhaps youâd like to offer it?â
Tommy felt strangely nervous, and his palms were sweaty, but he started the prayer, not knowing quite what to say or why he had even asked for it. Afterwards, he couldnât quite remember what he actually said, but he did remember the look on Brother Carsonâs face when he had finished. It reminded him of Brother Wolff.
Albert Tregaron opened the door to them with his habitual scowl and invited them in with his usual terseness. They followed him down the passageway into the small living room, and Tommy saw that nothing had changed much since the last time they had been there. It was a large, untidy room with a forlorn air about it. Tommy could almost feel the usual depression settle about his shoulders like a heavy cloak, and it took a great effort on his part to shrug it off. Never give up, he reminded himself.
Brother Tregaron was saying, âYouâd better sit down, I suppose.â Brother Carson chose a big, faded armchair and perched gingerly on the edge of it, saying, with a hearty smile, âAnd how are you this month, Albert?â
âOkay, I guess,â came the reply. Brother Carson shifted uncomfortably and caught Tommyâs eye. Tommy could sense the hint of despair in his attitude, but it didnât prepare him for Brother Carsonâs next words.
âBy the way, Albert, Tommy has something heâd like to say to you, wouldnât you, Tommy?â Tommy felt his jaw drop as he met Brother Carsonâs strained, jovial smile.
Hey, come on, Brother Carson, donât leave it all up to me, thought Tommy desperately. His gaze swung from Brother Carson to Brother Tregaronâs face, which now had a speculative look on it.
âWell?â Brother Tregaron asked, mildly curious.
âWell, er âŠâ Tommy fought desperately for the right words to say. Help me, Heavenly Father, he pleaded within himself. What shall I say? Then he heard himself saying, âWell, thereâs an elders quorum activity this Saturday. Itâs a picnic, and thereâs going to be some rafting and games and so on, and we, that is my family and I, thought you might like to come with us?â I must remember to tell Mom and Dad, he thought to himself.
âAh, no, thatâs not my idea of spending a Saturday âŠâ started Brother Tregaron, but Tommy was already brushing aside his refusal.
âOh, please, Brother Tregaron. See, Dad and I wanted to be in the tug-of-war against the Williamses, but we havenât got quite enough for our team. Wouldnât you make up the numbers for us?â
Again the shake of the head came, but still Tommy persisted.â And the deacons reckon you were really good with the rafting competitions at one time.â Brother Tregaronâs head slowed its shaking and tilted to one side, his eyes narrowing as he looked at Tommy.
âWhy are you doing this, boy, eh? Why do you want me?â
Tommy stopped in mid-sentence, dumbstruck. Why was he doing it? What answer could he give? What should he say? Then he said something he immediately felt was the stupidest thing of all to say, âBecause youâre my brother.â
He flushed crimson. What a stupid thing to say! He began to think of all the things he could have said, should have said, but his mind had gone blank. He was about to apologize when he noticed that Brother Tregaronâs face had softened and there was a hint of a tear in his eye. The silence stretched into infinity as they looked into each otherâs eyes.
At last, Brother Tregaron broke the silence with a mumbled, âWell, I guess I could see if Iâm free.â It was more a question than a statement. Tommy felt his heart swell.
âSure, Brother Tregaron! What time shall we pick you up?â
âHang on, young man. Not so fast. I only said Iâd see if I was free.â But there was a smile in his eyes that hadnât been there before, and the stern lines of his face were relaxed. Tommy grinned and looked across to where Brother Carson was sitting, but in his mind, he saw only Brother Wolff looking at him. He heard him say again, âNever, ever, give up on anyone.â And as he turned back to Brother Tregaron, he knew that despite the heartaches that might lie ahead, he never, ever, would.
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Charity
Conversion
Faith
Holy Ghost
Kindness
Love
Ministering
Missionary Work
Patience
Prayer
Service
Young Men
The Gift of Love
Summary: A man flying home to Salt Lake City, thinking of his son soon leaving on a mission, made a list of qualities that the 'best church' should have. After sharing the list with a businessman seated next to him, the man heard a different criterion: members who truly love their neighbors. He realized he had focused on programs rather than their purposeâto help members love God and others. He later shared this lesson as a reminder of the centrality of love.
Recently a friend of mine was returning to his home in Salt Lake City on a plane from Dallas, Texas. His mind was focused upon an important event that was soon to occur in his family. His only son would be leaving home in just a few days to serve as a missionary in a far-distant land. His great love for his son caused him to reflect, âIf my son is going so far away to teach about our Church, this had better be the best church!â Then he took out a notepad and pen and began to list the characteristics or qualities one would look for in the best church.
âThere should be a program to build and strengthen youth,â he wrote, âan athletic program, a wholesome activity program, a program for teaching and training children, a program for developing the skills and talents of women, a program to provide for the needy, for the ill, for the lonely, for the victims of catastrophes and disasters, a program to provide opportunities for work and service, a program to assist families and individuals in spiritual development and progress.â
His list became long and impressive, and he satisfied himself that his church, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, offered a program to meet the need of every individual. Truly, he determined, it is the best church his son could represent!
My friend felt so good about his list of attractive qualities of the best church that he decided to show it to the gentleman seated next to him on the plane. The man, an executive from a financial firm, responded with interest and respect. Together they reviewed the list, and as they concluded their conversation the businessman asked my friend, âWould you like to know what I would look for in a church? There is just one criterion: the members of that church would best exemplify the teaching of the SaviorââLove thy neighbor as thyself.ââ
My friend said he learned an important lesson from that experience. He had taught this fine man about the programs of the Church without acknowledging that the purpose of these programs is to help members learn how to love God and their fellowmen. He has shared that experience with me and permitted me to share it with you today that we might all be reminded of this.
âThere should be a program to build and strengthen youth,â he wrote, âan athletic program, a wholesome activity program, a program for teaching and training children, a program for developing the skills and talents of women, a program to provide for the needy, for the ill, for the lonely, for the victims of catastrophes and disasters, a program to provide opportunities for work and service, a program to assist families and individuals in spiritual development and progress.â
His list became long and impressive, and he satisfied himself that his church, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, offered a program to meet the need of every individual. Truly, he determined, it is the best church his son could represent!
My friend felt so good about his list of attractive qualities of the best church that he decided to show it to the gentleman seated next to him on the plane. The man, an executive from a financial firm, responded with interest and respect. Together they reviewed the list, and as they concluded their conversation the businessman asked my friend, âWould you like to know what I would look for in a church? There is just one criterion: the members of that church would best exemplify the teaching of the SaviorââLove thy neighbor as thyself.ââ
My friend said he learned an important lesson from that experience. He had taught this fine man about the programs of the Church without acknowledging that the purpose of these programs is to help members learn how to love God and their fellowmen. He has shared that experience with me and permitted me to share it with you today that we might all be reminded of this.
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The Turnaround
Summary: The narrator describes a gradual decline into depression, isolation, and near-total disinterest in the Church during childhood and high school. Support from family, a bishop, a foreign exchange student, seminary, and renewed prayer and scripture study helped her turn back. She ends by testifying that the gospel saved her life and expressing gratitude for Heavenly Father, Jesus Christ, and the restored gospel.
My falling away from the Church was gradual. It began in the fifth grade, when I met some new friends. We used bad language and got into all the wrong things. Once junior high came around, we entered into all the wrong groups, and by high school, things started to get really bad.
I became really depressed. I was wearing more and more black and kept insisting on thickly layering dark eye makeup. To me, life became something just to get through and not to enjoy. My thoughts were often suicidal, and I had no confidence. I almost completely shelled up. I never really talked to anyone, never told people what was going on. I knew I was loved, but I just didnât care.
I almost completely fell away from the Church. I say almost because I was never allowed to skip church, and my parents always expected me to take seminary during high school. But I wanted nothing more to do with the gospel or the LDS Church.
My family and loved ones saw this downward spiral, and they tried to help. I often spent time on Sundays in the bishopâs office, and just as many days trying to avoid the bishop. He showed a lot of support and interest in me, looking into the things I believed in so that he could better understand me. My parents kept trying to help, but they didnât know what to do. There were times when my dad and I were near tears trying to talk about our differences.
During my sophomore year, I hit a turning point when a foreign exchange student from Japan came to live with us. She was a softball player, and she convinced me to play that year. That experience alone did a great deal of good for me. The coach helped me raise my self-esteem, and the experience of belonging to and working on a team gave me the blessed feeling of belonging somewhere.
That summer I went to Japan to stay with the family of our foreign exchange student for five weeks. During my stay, I went four weeks without going to church. Finally, in the very last week, we stopped by the Tokyo Japan Temple to take pictures. In a strange country where the language and customs were so foreign to me, it was the most comforting feeling to finally be in a familiar place. The Spirit there was so strong.
That Sunday we found a ward building, and I attended church. It was amazing to experience sacrament meeting and Sunday School in Japanese, but what hit me most was when I went to Young Women. Seeing those few Japanese girls rise and say the theme, I realized that the gospel was just as strong halfway across the world as it was at home. I knew that many of these members didnât have the support from friends and family that I did, but they still believed. Again, I felt at home.
Shortly after I returned to Utah, my brother Richard came home from his mission. Rich noticed my struggles and made it apparent that we would be having a lot of talks. He got me to pray with him.
But what really hit home was seminary. My dad found out I wasnât enrolled for my junior year and was surprised. It wasnât long before I was called to meet with the seminary principal. It was very nonconfrontational; he just talked to me, conveyed friendship, and expressed concern that I wasnât enrolled. Finally I agreed to take seminary. I met my teacher, went to class, and that was it. I never skipped and rarely begrudged going.
Iâm not sure when the transition took place, but I started to feel comfort. I began to pray regularly again. It was really hard at first, but I stuck with it. I read my scriptures and knew that they spoke truth. Life began to look up. I had more energy, confidence, and ambition. I felt better about the new friends I began associating with. I tried out for plays, immersed myself in my artwork, and started singing again. I tried out for my schoolâs select choir group and made it. I was no longer the shy, introverted girl I had been for so long.
I was also called to serve on the seminary council, and that was when I knew that I would be okay. If someone had told me a year ago that I would be where I am now, I never would have believed it could happen. Iâm a completely different person. And Iâm grateful to my friends, family, and teachers, who gave me their love and patience. Their faith in me was the constant in my life that I could always fall back on in my darkest hours. And now Iâm so grateful for the gospel. I feel it really has saved my life. If I hadnât made the turnaround when I did, who knows how far off the path I would have gone. Iâm grateful Iâve never had to find out.
The Church is true; I know that with all of my heart and mind. Heavenly Father loves His children, and Jesus Christ is our Savior. Having the restored gospel on earth is one of our greatest blessings, and I pray that someday all of Godâs children will come to know the truth and feel the same gratitude and love for Him that I have in my heart.
I became really depressed. I was wearing more and more black and kept insisting on thickly layering dark eye makeup. To me, life became something just to get through and not to enjoy. My thoughts were often suicidal, and I had no confidence. I almost completely shelled up. I never really talked to anyone, never told people what was going on. I knew I was loved, but I just didnât care.
I almost completely fell away from the Church. I say almost because I was never allowed to skip church, and my parents always expected me to take seminary during high school. But I wanted nothing more to do with the gospel or the LDS Church.
My family and loved ones saw this downward spiral, and they tried to help. I often spent time on Sundays in the bishopâs office, and just as many days trying to avoid the bishop. He showed a lot of support and interest in me, looking into the things I believed in so that he could better understand me. My parents kept trying to help, but they didnât know what to do. There were times when my dad and I were near tears trying to talk about our differences.
During my sophomore year, I hit a turning point when a foreign exchange student from Japan came to live with us. She was a softball player, and she convinced me to play that year. That experience alone did a great deal of good for me. The coach helped me raise my self-esteem, and the experience of belonging to and working on a team gave me the blessed feeling of belonging somewhere.
That summer I went to Japan to stay with the family of our foreign exchange student for five weeks. During my stay, I went four weeks without going to church. Finally, in the very last week, we stopped by the Tokyo Japan Temple to take pictures. In a strange country where the language and customs were so foreign to me, it was the most comforting feeling to finally be in a familiar place. The Spirit there was so strong.
That Sunday we found a ward building, and I attended church. It was amazing to experience sacrament meeting and Sunday School in Japanese, but what hit me most was when I went to Young Women. Seeing those few Japanese girls rise and say the theme, I realized that the gospel was just as strong halfway across the world as it was at home. I knew that many of these members didnât have the support from friends and family that I did, but they still believed. Again, I felt at home.
Shortly after I returned to Utah, my brother Richard came home from his mission. Rich noticed my struggles and made it apparent that we would be having a lot of talks. He got me to pray with him.
But what really hit home was seminary. My dad found out I wasnât enrolled for my junior year and was surprised. It wasnât long before I was called to meet with the seminary principal. It was very nonconfrontational; he just talked to me, conveyed friendship, and expressed concern that I wasnât enrolled. Finally I agreed to take seminary. I met my teacher, went to class, and that was it. I never skipped and rarely begrudged going.
Iâm not sure when the transition took place, but I started to feel comfort. I began to pray regularly again. It was really hard at first, but I stuck with it. I read my scriptures and knew that they spoke truth. Life began to look up. I had more energy, confidence, and ambition. I felt better about the new friends I began associating with. I tried out for plays, immersed myself in my artwork, and started singing again. I tried out for my schoolâs select choir group and made it. I was no longer the shy, introverted girl I had been for so long.
I was also called to serve on the seminary council, and that was when I knew that I would be okay. If someone had told me a year ago that I would be where I am now, I never would have believed it could happen. Iâm a completely different person. And Iâm grateful to my friends, family, and teachers, who gave me their love and patience. Their faith in me was the constant in my life that I could always fall back on in my darkest hours. And now Iâm so grateful for the gospel. I feel it really has saved my life. If I hadnât made the turnaround when I did, who knows how far off the path I would have gone. Iâm grateful Iâve never had to find out.
The Church is true; I know that with all of my heart and mind. Heavenly Father loves His children, and Jesus Christ is our Savior. Having the restored gospel on earth is one of our greatest blessings, and I pray that someday all of Godâs children will come to know the truth and feel the same gratitude and love for Him that I have in my heart.
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So You Think You Can Drive
Summary: Two missionaries teaching in a home saw their car roll into the street. A young boy had backed it into heavy traffic as a prank; the car was demolished and the boy was hospitalized. Responsibility was placed on the missionaries for leaving the car unlocked with the keys in the ignition.
8. Keep your car locked when not in use. Not only does this discourage theft, but it can also prevent freak accidents. Recently two missionaries were in a home presenting a discussion when they noticed through the front window of the house that their car was rolling down the driveway into the street. A young boy of the household, attempting to play a trick on the elders, had backed the car out into heavy traffic. It was demolished and the boy ended up in the hospital. Whose fault? The missionariesââfor leaving the car unlocked and the keys in the ignition.
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Teenage Pioneer
Summary: At night the company heard a terrifying roar and thought a buffalo herd was stampeding, but it was their own cattle breaking from the corral and scattering. The men spent days recovering the animals, with some lost or killed. A gold seeker traveling with them was badly injured trying to stop the cattle and later visited them in winter, still unable to sit.
âAfter traveling along several hundred kilometers the monotony was broken by our cattle stampeding. It seemed the longer we went and the harder the cattle worked, the easier they got frightened. The one that terrified me the most was at night. We had had one or two stampedes before so the cattle were prepared for one at any moment. I think it was because of the Indians, or it might have been the large herds of buffalo that we saw daily, that our company was counseled to corral their animals every night. At night the cattle were turned out to feed, they were watched and herded, then brought into the corral. It was made with wagons formed in a large circle with the wheels touching each other with one opening to drive them in, then logs were put across the opening, so they were perfectly secure.
âWe were in buffalo country. We had heard what a terrible thing their stampedes were, and that not long before a large herd had started on their mad run and that when those in front came to a high bluff of the Platte River, they dashed in and made a bridge for the last ones who trampled to death and drowned their companions.
âOne night about two oâclock the whole camp was peacefully sleeping when all at once there came an awful sound of tramping and bellowing, the ground shook, our wagon trembled and rocked. It flashed through my mind in a moment that a herd of buffalo was stampeding and that we would all be trampled to death. So I covered my head and prepared to die. Mother soon called out to Phebe and myself since there was no sound from our little bedroom (the front end of the wagon). I gave a smothered answer from under the bed clothes that I was alive.
âAll at once there was a change. It was our own cattle that had broken out of the corral. Something had frightened them and then they started on their wild, mad run. They had run around and around inside and then broken through the logs blocking the opening. Nothing could hold them back. They scattered over the country for many kilometers. It took our men days and days to gather them back again, and they looked terrible, those that were left, for some died from exhaustion and others were killed. One pair of the captainâs cows ran up a very steep hill, fell backwards and broke their necksâone pair less to pull his wagon and one pair less to milk (oh the delicious milkâwhat a luxury on the plains).
âIn that stampede there were two or three men hurt, one quite badly. He was a gold digger going to California who had overtaken us and was traveling with our company a while. The California emigrants traveled much faster than the Mormon emigrants. In trying to stop the cattle he was knocked down and trampled on. His groans were hideous. I did not see him again until one day the next winter, when he visited us. During all the time he was there he was down on his knees. He could stand up but could not sit down. I never heard from him again after he left for the gold mines. Old cattlemen say that tame, domestic horned cattle are the most crazy and wildest of all animals in a stampede. It is remarkable, but they seem to start all at once, just as if lightning had struck every one at the same instant.â
âWe were in buffalo country. We had heard what a terrible thing their stampedes were, and that not long before a large herd had started on their mad run and that when those in front came to a high bluff of the Platte River, they dashed in and made a bridge for the last ones who trampled to death and drowned their companions.
âOne night about two oâclock the whole camp was peacefully sleeping when all at once there came an awful sound of tramping and bellowing, the ground shook, our wagon trembled and rocked. It flashed through my mind in a moment that a herd of buffalo was stampeding and that we would all be trampled to death. So I covered my head and prepared to die. Mother soon called out to Phebe and myself since there was no sound from our little bedroom (the front end of the wagon). I gave a smothered answer from under the bed clothes that I was alive.
âAll at once there was a change. It was our own cattle that had broken out of the corral. Something had frightened them and then they started on their wild, mad run. They had run around and around inside and then broken through the logs blocking the opening. Nothing could hold them back. They scattered over the country for many kilometers. It took our men days and days to gather them back again, and they looked terrible, those that were left, for some died from exhaustion and others were killed. One pair of the captainâs cows ran up a very steep hill, fell backwards and broke their necksâone pair less to pull his wagon and one pair less to milk (oh the delicious milkâwhat a luxury on the plains).
âIn that stampede there were two or three men hurt, one quite badly. He was a gold digger going to California who had overtaken us and was traveling with our company a while. The California emigrants traveled much faster than the Mormon emigrants. In trying to stop the cattle he was knocked down and trampled on. His groans were hideous. I did not see him again until one day the next winter, when he visited us. During all the time he was there he was down on his knees. He could stand up but could not sit down. I never heard from him again after he left for the gold mines. Old cattlemen say that tame, domestic horned cattle are the most crazy and wildest of all animals in a stampede. It is remarkable, but they seem to start all at once, just as if lightning had struck every one at the same instant.â
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Service for Suzie
Summary: After hearing President Nelson invite members to serve, Ophélie looks for a way to help her neighbor Suzie, who is having eye surgery. She prays for guidance, then decides to make dinner and muffins and bring flowers with her father. They visit Suzie, check on her recovery, and share a warm moment together. Ophélie feels happy for following the prophet and serving her friend.
Ophélie and her family walked out of the church building together.
âWhat an amazing general conference,â Papa said. âWhat was your favorite part, OphĂ©lie?â
âI like how President Nelson asked us to do acts of service,â OphĂ©lie said. âI like helping people.â
âI do too,â Maman said. âLetâs follow the prophet and look for ways we can help others.â
A few days later, Ophélie and Papa visited their neighbor Suzie. Ophélie really liked Suzie. She had white hair and a big smile. She was like a bonus grandma!
Suzie told them she was going to have eye surgery the next day. Ophélie was a little worried.
âWill Suzie be OK?â she asked Papa while they walked home.
âYes,â Papa said. âSheâs been having trouble seeing, and the surgery will help her see better. But sheâll need a few days for her eyes to heal.â
OphĂ©lie told Maman about Suzieâs surgery while they set the table for dinner.
âMaybe we could do something to help her,â OphĂ©lie said. âLike President Nelson said.â
âGood idea. What could we do?â Maman asked.
OphĂ©lie thought about it. OphĂ©lieâs family raked leaves in Suzieâs yard each fall. They shoveled her snow during the long Canadian winters. But now it was springtime. There wasnât any snow. Or leaves. How could they help?
During the prayer before dinner, Ophélie asked Heavenly Father to bless them to know how to help Suzie. Then Papa helped her scoop pùté chinois onto her plate.
The delicious smell of the potatoes, vegetables, and ground beef made OphĂ©lieâs mouth water. She took a bite. It was one of her favorite dinners. Especially because Maman always let her mash the potatoes! She loved helping Maman cook.
Then OphĂ©lie had an idea. âMaman, can we make dinner for Suzie tomorrow?â
âSure,â Maman said. âHow about a tourtiĂšre?â
âGreat,â OphĂ©lie said. âAnd we could make muffins too!â
The next day, OphĂ©lie and Papa carried a plate of meat pies and muffins outside. OphĂ©lie spotted the beautiful purple flowers blooming in their garden. She picked some and held them together in a little bouquet. Then she and Papa walked to Suzieâs house.
OphĂ©lie knocked on Suzieâs door. Soon Suzie answered. She was wearing dark sunglasses.
âBonjour,â OphĂ©lie said. âWe brought you dinner. And muffins.â
âItâs so kind of you to think of me,â Suzie said.
âThese are for you too,â OphĂ©lie said. She handed Suzie the bouquet.
âTrĂšs jolie!â Suzie said. âTheyâre beautiful. Please, come in.â
OphĂ©lie and Papa followed Suzie into the house. âHow are your eyes?â Papa asked.
âTheyâre a little sore right now. Thatâs why I have these,â Suzie said, tapping her sunglasses.
âCan you see better now?â OphĂ©lie asked.
âItâs still a little blurry. But I should be able to see better in a few days.â
OphĂ©lie gave Suzie a big hug. âIâm glad youâre OK. Can we come see you again when your eyes are better?â
âOf course. And when you see me next time, Iâll be able to see you too!â Suzie said. They all laughed.
Ophélie was glad she could serve, like Heavenly Father wanted her to and like the prophet asked. She liked helping her friend Suzie.
âWhat an amazing general conference,â Papa said. âWhat was your favorite part, OphĂ©lie?â
âI like how President Nelson asked us to do acts of service,â OphĂ©lie said. âI like helping people.â
âI do too,â Maman said. âLetâs follow the prophet and look for ways we can help others.â
A few days later, Ophélie and Papa visited their neighbor Suzie. Ophélie really liked Suzie. She had white hair and a big smile. She was like a bonus grandma!
Suzie told them she was going to have eye surgery the next day. Ophélie was a little worried.
âWill Suzie be OK?â she asked Papa while they walked home.
âYes,â Papa said. âSheâs been having trouble seeing, and the surgery will help her see better. But sheâll need a few days for her eyes to heal.â
OphĂ©lie told Maman about Suzieâs surgery while they set the table for dinner.
âMaybe we could do something to help her,â OphĂ©lie said. âLike President Nelson said.â
âGood idea. What could we do?â Maman asked.
OphĂ©lie thought about it. OphĂ©lieâs family raked leaves in Suzieâs yard each fall. They shoveled her snow during the long Canadian winters. But now it was springtime. There wasnât any snow. Or leaves. How could they help?
During the prayer before dinner, Ophélie asked Heavenly Father to bless them to know how to help Suzie. Then Papa helped her scoop pùté chinois onto her plate.
The delicious smell of the potatoes, vegetables, and ground beef made OphĂ©lieâs mouth water. She took a bite. It was one of her favorite dinners. Especially because Maman always let her mash the potatoes! She loved helping Maman cook.
Then OphĂ©lie had an idea. âMaman, can we make dinner for Suzie tomorrow?â
âSure,â Maman said. âHow about a tourtiĂšre?â
âGreat,â OphĂ©lie said. âAnd we could make muffins too!â
The next day, OphĂ©lie and Papa carried a plate of meat pies and muffins outside. OphĂ©lie spotted the beautiful purple flowers blooming in their garden. She picked some and held them together in a little bouquet. Then she and Papa walked to Suzieâs house.
OphĂ©lie knocked on Suzieâs door. Soon Suzie answered. She was wearing dark sunglasses.
âBonjour,â OphĂ©lie said. âWe brought you dinner. And muffins.â
âItâs so kind of you to think of me,â Suzie said.
âThese are for you too,â OphĂ©lie said. She handed Suzie the bouquet.
âTrĂšs jolie!â Suzie said. âTheyâre beautiful. Please, come in.â
OphĂ©lie and Papa followed Suzie into the house. âHow are your eyes?â Papa asked.
âTheyâre a little sore right now. Thatâs why I have these,â Suzie said, tapping her sunglasses.
âCan you see better now?â OphĂ©lie asked.
âItâs still a little blurry. But I should be able to see better in a few days.â
OphĂ©lie gave Suzie a big hug. âIâm glad youâre OK. Can we come see you again when your eyes are better?â
âOf course. And when you see me next time, Iâll be able to see you too!â Suzie said. They all laughed.
Ophélie was glad she could serve, like Heavenly Father wanted her to and like the prophet asked. She liked helping her friend Suzie.
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